Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

on point. completely useless.

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

If he goes ahead to marry this old cargo, cut him off for life. Don’t attend the wedding, and move on with your life. He’s a very stupid human being no offense. 43 year old woman? He’s mad!

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

You be case oh.
You want me to urinate on my body habi?

May God take my life the day I decide to marry a woman 13 years older than me. I don’t even care how wealthy she is, God just end me that day.

Mind your business...

Sigh. It's obvious from the replies that most people don't even know what the word endorsement means.

For those who have vocabulary challenges...

An endorsement is simply giving "public support".

She has the right to give it or withhold it.

Is it your life?


Are you Pepsi or Coca-Cola?

Who needs your endorsement.

Leave the dude to live his life please.

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

Damn! This talk med o

It’s not your business anyway, he is your brother not your child

TheChameleon:
Your bro has been pussynotized.

For him to want to buy a 7th hand Molue as his first car.




Apologies to the handicapped... is he a cripple?

Thunder fire all those lying hypocrites pretending it is okay to go for a pre-menopausal woman.

My ribs oooo....

The brother tire me

TheChameleon:
Your bro has been pussynotized.

For him to want to buy a 7th hand Molue as his first car.




Apologies to the handicapped... is he a cripple?

Thunder fire all those lying hypocrites pretending it is okay to go for a pre-menopausal woman.

with a moniker like that, I will not take you serious, cause you can change your mind when you see what brother is seeing from his own point of view.

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

LMAO. Guy u harsh o.

You can confirm your bros sanity first, if he's okay then he made his choice, he has his reasons, and it's his marriage,

quiteboy:
with a moniker like that, I will not take you serious, cause you can change your mind when you see what brother is seeing from his own point of view.

What stupid point of view? A woman who will be 50 in 7 years while he’ll be 37? The young man is mad! No responsible, hardworking 30 years old man will marry a 43years old woman. Thunder fire love.

When akata man jam akata woman lmao

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

Or the ueue in Queue.

Omoslim26:



what foolish feeling

oh Africa my Africa gone are the days when women knew their place imagine a girl endorsing a man's marriage

are you saying nothing concerns you with your simblies life?

See them hypocrites giving advise cos he is not related to them and am sure most of them are Ladies. They won't approve of it had it been their brother of a family member that they truly love o
Nigerians make una dey fear God abeg.

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

You got what you wanted

Fake

merahki:



Dear “god”,
At least you do not want to be too judgemental stingy and so you are giving her “at most” five years of happiness, right?
Thanks for being kind with your five years and one kid. In your great wisdom you know just how stupid and desperate the guy is, and how fat or unfat the old woman’s account is. You know all this and are willing to allowing the marriage but for nothing more than 5 years. Because once it is 5 years the lady’s hormones will empty and her vagina dries up and she will become like a zombie. This horrible lady who deserves nothing good is very lucky to have you endorse these 5 years for her.
For all the above we thank you, you, you horrid, horrid, little, little mangod.
You make my skin crawl!

It is okay to have your reservation about this age difference (I do, many people too I guess) but the way you feel and expressed yours is unholy! Jeez!

hoes mad. Lol.

Norman4real:
Wow, Age is a very serious factor when considering marriage. If it was just a casual relationship then I'd have no issue with this but I think your brother is either stupid or too desperate to be going for her.
It's probably coz he's never had any success with women and sees this as his only chance at getting one.
It's also possible that the woman is wealthy and he's somewhat attracted to her financial stability.
This is a marriage that clearly won't even last for 5yrs coz in her late 40s this woman will start looking like his mother.
If he's lucky she will only get him like one kid and that will be the end of it coz she's effectively at the very end of her biological fertility clock.

Your analysis is quite shallow because menopause no longer have defined age bracket as several people are giving birth outside the bracket age. For a guy to make up his mind to settle that way, am sure he should have weighed all the odds. Don't play God...

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

Na love nah

True talk. He even highlighted how many relationships the lady has been in before his brother. Let's go and find out how many puna his brother has smashed before meeting her. Biased nonsense, rubbish post.

Kobojunkie:


How many relationships has your brother been in ? Just wondering if you are biased because of her gender here.

Look, I think you should leave your brother to do what he believes is best for his life. He is not a child... definitely not yours.

olamy7:
are you saying nothing concerns you with your simblies life?

ofcus they can give their opinion fams and friends can say what they feel but dat should not be the ultimate in making decisions regarding whom to choose as a wife

a real man should understand that the mistakes are his to make and ofcus he should also be ready to face the consequences of his actions

so are you telling me that a man now needs a go ahead from his sister to marry someone of his choice?

intruder15:


Your analysis is quite shallow because menopause no longer have defined age bracket as several people are giving birth outside the bracket age. For a guy to make up his mind to settle that way, am sure he should have weighed all the odds. Don't play God...

I'm not playing God, and it's not that I'm wishing him any bad in his relationship, but I'm purely looking at facts. Women's looks fade drastically once they reach their late 30's. So a woman in her 40s is just surviving on purely cosmetic appearance. And also at that age it becomes astronomically harder for a woman to get pregnant.
Also, women at that age have a very low sex drive and very soon she won't even be able to meet his sexual demands.
If you look at this from a purely logical perspective and take out any emotional or sentimental views you will agree that this just ain't right. But all in all I wish him the best, though that obviously won't make any difference in the eventual outcome.

Abeg make he follow him mind. my GF is 36 and am 32. and we are planning to settle down.

Endorsement who your endorsement help abi na you won marry the ladies. Endorsement my foot.

Dis girl no wise oo

Wetin him need ur fuçkin endorsement for...
Give ur self sense and appreciate greatness...!!

nelogee7:




Anytime you hear this world real man .. what ever follows has to do with pleasing a woman .. please guys watch out for the phrase real man .. it's been reported as shaming language in the manosphere and becareful when you want to answer Real Man.. only real men should say what real men should do and not women

Oga see before these white monkeys brought their unhampered dubious ways targeted towards shutting down our beliefs norms and culture a woman would never come out to say she is endorsing or not endorsing the marriage of a man

wat the Bleep we are Africans for crying out loud women are cherished, loved ,adored and priceless

but a sister trying to make decisions based on girly wimps for a brother on who to settle down with!!!

now dats way off the hook

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=48DlhiGdwwU