Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

Men of wisdom have been trying to understand women since the creation of time and all failed.

Your suspicion is valid. She will not value you once you’re nice and considerate.


If you give naija woman peace of mind, my brother that’s when she would decide to insult your intelligence. She would treat you like a fool, thinking you don’t notice her shenanigans.

But if you give naija babe reason to be anxious everyday, she will be interested in taming you. It’s like they prefer guys who make them panic. They want to be running to pastors and mountain top. That’s what they love.

the way guys are different that is the same way we ladies are different
different people with different love language
for someone like me, I don't like excessive calls. it really distract me especially during the day and at the same time I can't cope with boring guys .

what am saying is that,she wasnt there when u were doing ur lovydovy, but it seems she likes it . thank God she said it out . to avoid another story, try to do what she wants. but be intentional about it . this one might really work

Guys focus on women instead of themselves


Ask yourself what do I want


Whatever she wants doesn't matter

Torie8 tell me exactly what you want now. Let me know and julieeni should say what you preferenced.

Nigerian girls love guys who make their life complicated.always remember that.

Toluwashe778:
the way guys are different that is the same way we ladies are different
different people with different love language
for someone like me, I don't like excessive calls. it really distract me especially during the day and at the same time I can't cope with boring guys .

what am saying is that,she wasnt there when u were doing ur lovydovy, but it seems she likes it . thank God she said it out . to avoid another story, try to do what she wants. but be intentional about it . this one might really work

Sister you are a lady so I wunt take your advice because if you meet a guy who is lively tomm orow you will still dump him if what you said is true then you will be dating every lively guy that comes your way I am not afraid of another story ;Dif she goes I will replace her shaparly like the others. women do not understand themselves.

One gal wet i care for. I dey fuc k craise comot for her body. Insulted me one day and said my mates are driving benz. Infct i became non challant since then. Af nt seen her in 5months and i dont gif a fuc k
They are all lazy gold diggers

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

OP, this post is crying for punctuation marks. No offence.

Now, what I want in a r/ship is all that matters. What they want is their headache.

Even the almighty sagacious king solo didn't understand women. Who am I?

Just flow as the water flows!

jawalis:
Torie8 tell me exactly what you want now. Let me know and julieeni should say what you preferenced.

I really haven't experienced any yet.

Goodmarlian:
Sister you are a lady so I wunt take your advice because if you meet a guy who is lively tomm orow you will still dump him if what you said is true then you will be dating every lively guy that comes your way I am not afraid of another story ;Dif she goes I will replace her shaparly like the others women do not understand themselves.

Good thing you didn't listen to her advice. Never take dating/relationship/marriage advice from women; they will terribly mislead you. Never trust what comes out from a woman's mouth; they usually say one thing but mean another. Finally, stop being a nice guy.

Have you taken the red pill?

https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

You need to first of all discover the type of man you are. Please read the write up below for an explanation.
https://www.nairaland.com/5693224/what-men-must-ensure-successful

SageMK:
Men of wisdom have been trying to understand women since the creation of time and all failed.

...even King Solomon!

No go dey do mr nice guy for one stupid niaja babe O den no get joy

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

Same Shit happened to me Bro...I was a virgin until 21yrs...I was freaking nice and caring...Not getting laid...The worst was seeing shitty guys changing women like clothes...Until I became shitty...God ...I Bleep die... white girls( I schooled in Europe) , black girls...all types of heterosexual sex..
Then I concluded....Good guys finish last...They finish with soap...I nearly got carpel tunnel in my right hand in my teenage yrs because of masturbation...
Treat women like shit...they will stick to you like a fly...

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

bro don't do that shit...it's a trap...once you get into the habit of sending it at the rate she wants it...she will be tired of it herself...in fact...send it once in a loooong while my man...

Torie8:

I really haven't experienced any yet.

Are you kidding me? You haven’t experienced any relationship or what? Am lost

Toluwashe778:
the way guys are different that is the same way we ladies are different
different people with different love language
for someone like me, I don't like excessive calls. it really distract me especially during the day and at the same time I can't cope with boring guys

what am saying is that,she wasnt there when u were doing ur lovydovy, but it seems she likes it . thank God she said it out . to avoid another story, try to do what she wants. but be intentional about it . this one might really work

Awon omo shiloh re o

Women are naturally stupid.

Never change your lifestyle or try to impress a woman.

They are users.

play the game that favours you! Instead of sending romantic messages, just increase the level of nacking her, girls do not say what they want, and they do not want what they say, it means do the opposite of their wishes



45k got me interested in your story though

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

You are doing the right thing, don't change for now. However, i don't encourage smoking and drinking or drug abuse. But with most women, if you show them love and attention, after a while, they will take you for granted.

You have no business playing the Romeo role for now.

Toluwashe778:
the way guys are different that is the same way we ladies are different
different people with different love language
for someone like me, I don't like excessive calls. it really distract me especially during the day and at the same time I can't cope with boring guys .

what am saying is that,she wasnt there when u were doing ur lovydovy, but it seems she likes it . thank God she said it out . to avoid another story, try to do what she wants. but be intentional about it . this one might really work

what is your definition of boring guy?

Op that's a shit test. If you start doing what she wants u to do, u hv failed the test and its downhill from there.

Naughtysite:
Women are naturally stupid.

Never change your lifestyle or try to impress a woman.

They are users.

Women are naturally stupid? Like all women!!! OK!

It depends on what u can give

Goodmarlian:
Back in 2014 I was in my early 20s there is this lady I loved so much i mustered courage to approached her got her number and started chyking her she instantly said No she can't date me but you know as a newbie in the game I immediately became needy I started begging her ,sending her love text messages but she played hard to get it for so frustrating I gave up
I got rejected by lot of girls then I had to sit down and replan my wooing game.

i asked some ladies in my compound what I was doing wrong that's chasing girls away from me she told me to change my dress sense that I should be neater and groom myself more and be more nice than I am like literally kissing a girls ass just to get her fall for me I did all that men it was even worse I got embarrassed, insulted my self esteem received a huge blow I just concluded I was cursed with women.

A year later I got a job around Lagos island it was paid 45k per month plus allowances though it was just fair pay but It was manageable I was able to purchase wears ,I became more good-looking because I was living a bit comfortable than before this time around I had money to spend so I was ready to spend on women to avoid all the stress of wooing then I met this very pretty lady her named onyinda I liked her so much I started wooing her this time around It was a bit easier because I was a big boy already I spent on her though she is not the material type but I just like trying to impress her I was caring and supportive I encouraged her to be serious with her life then she was preparing for jamb that year she passed because of the encouragement I gave her .
Believe me this relationship did not last up to two months her attitude changed she started avoiding me started claiming we were never dating in the first place I was so depressed but I never let my emotions show this time I asked her what I did wrong she said nothing that she just wants to be alone from, that moment on I started hating women so much I was just going on my own though all those while I envied my friends who changed girls like clothes but I didn't care.
2016 was life totally changed with women I met some bad friends in campus they were smokers and womanizers literally bad boys there is even one that beat his girlfriend in my presence damn i changed it for him but thry are still together today what baffled me was why they never lacked women whenever they go out to night parties they always have babes to chill with while I was literally alone it hurts so much .
After 5monthd of chilling with them my life transformed I was a badboy already I started dealing with women with less emotions before Jack Robinson I had my first babe in campus
Before you know it I had my first sex
And girls kept coming and coming until I got tired i was dumping them over and over .

This is 2020 January I met a lady I really liked to be serious with we started dating just three days of meeting we had sex she wasn't cheap it was just my game maybe,but here is the problem she complains I am not the loveydovey type I don't send her romantic text messages,tell her how much I love her and all that but I don't want to do that because from experience I know she will start messing up.

Now the problem is when I was the lovey dovey nice guy I never get laid I was rejected most times now this lady wants me to go back to the old me which I wouldn't do again .

What do women really want ?

See op! Just be yourself!
Whether you are badass or all loveydovey! What is meant to be will be!
Focus on yourself! Focus on what you want, and try to be a version of you that you can be proud of!.

But then ladies differ! Because you were all loveydovey before, and it didn't work out, doesn't mean you change completely!
Be loveydovey today! Be badass tomorrow!
Just let her know you can't always do lover boy every time!