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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 12:50am On May 11, 2020
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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 12:53am On May 11, 2020
yuswrld20:
those girls wey u mention are gone extinct.
they big momma wey i dae date don kill me with liability my aim just to chop and she pack n go

Guy u mean ooo
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Rayendowed007(m): 7:43am On May 11, 2020
exactly the girl am dating at the moment,she is into cosmetics and other beauty products, while i work a salary job...i do take her out a lot and always give her a good time,and out of 10 times i will say i have paid like 7 times,,,but i have never given her money once for the 4months we have been dating now,and she has never asked. she loves so much dat she can give me her last Kobo ,,,but i want to be more financially buoyant than her so i can really take good care of her . cuz ladies like her are very hard to fynd.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Samfloxin(m): 8:14am On May 11, 2020
Bahamas95:
I have one am rolling with presently, she is miss independent. Onething I like about her is that she is humble and caring. I feel comfortable whenever we are together and she doesn't make me look inferior even with the age difference. I see her as a big sist, sist with benefits sha.
Try and marry her and you will see the other side of her she kept inside fridge for you

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by kayspark27(m): 8:23am On May 11, 2020
My ex was a big girl, dated her for 4years but it turned her mother wasn’t in support of the relationship because I’m friends with her cousin and they have a family rift where they don’t talk to each other. The 4years was fun and because of that we still maintained our friendship and the mother doesn’t care anymore after finding out I and her cousin are no longer close friends like before but the damage has already been done. She was everything a man could ever wish for,loyal,friendly, lively and honest. Though then I wasn’t working a good job but i tried my best and she over tried for me sef. She spends more when we go out, buys gifts for me. Romantic. Damn and she couldn’t date any guy till date. Sometimes mother’s spoil the joy of their kids because of their selfish attitudes and interests.
Then i dated another big girl for like 4months. She doesn’t demand and does her things herself and she’s loyal and friendly but acts like a big sister sometimes lol. She always try to push me to do better too. She’s older with a year but she doesn’t see that as an issue, i had to break up with her because I didn’t really love her and instead of playing with her feelings. I had to let her go.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 8:28am On May 11, 2020
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm lipsrsealed sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!
lol. You're obviously poor. Feel less of a man because my woman is able to buy her own card to call me or because she's able to buy her own clothes?

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Bahamas95(m): 10:20am On May 11, 2020
Samfloxin:

Try and marry her and you will see the other side of her she kept inside fridge for you
Lol, why would I marry a lady older than me? God forbid!.....We are just doing it for fun, she knows I have a serious girlfriend and ain't got any problem with that. Whenever am around and she needs "it" I give it to her that's all.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by goldbim(f): 10:38am On May 11, 2020
Nuel4:
lol. You're obviously poor. Feel less of a man because my woman is able to buy her own card to call me or because she's able to buy her own clothes?
really?? thank you,sir!! lipsrsealed

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Wiifesnatcher(m): 10:47am On May 11, 2020
yea

my first Blackberry Bold 5 a lady working in Skye bank then bought it for me when I was in 200 level. her family were rich, someone that travel to Miami and Texas for summer whenever she's on leave. I asked why she's working instead of business, she said she needed to gained some experience as her dad is going into banking industry. I lose her then because I dey form lover boy then, she want me to go into marriage but I wasn't mentally ready plus I was in a serious date then even though I lost the relationship


some people have the money you need to restructure your life, if you don't feel inferior, y'all dine with them


I have dated big ladies very well and it get to a stage that I won't even look your side if you're not financially OK. I don suffer In my life, I can't dine with poor people like myself again abeg

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Olarewaju89: 10:47am On May 11, 2020
No
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by eleko1: 10:47am On May 11, 2020
sad
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Wiifesnatcher(m): 10:48am On May 11, 2020
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm lipsrsealed sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!


I don't agree with your submission beside your little experience is not enough to justify the stand of all guys/men


I don't feel inferior for any lady even if your Buhari's daughter. ladies love men with guts, men that feel inferior for well to do lady cannot maintained her affection because big lady will loose up for any man that feel inferior for them


if a lady is in love with you and she discovered you don't have guts, she will bank with other guys. poor/rich, a man must have gut

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by jaksmillioniar: 10:49am On May 11, 2020
fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.
did u asked her how she got her money most act like to train pple but got thier money after sleeping with politician

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by liverpool72(m): 10:50am On May 11, 2020
big gal as in?? before na minor u de date??bro there is nothing like big gal OK na inferiority complex de worry u.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by waynejesus: 10:50am On May 11, 2020
Big girl with dirty pussy

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by paulolee(m): 10:50am On May 11, 2020
yes n it was bad n wasnt funi...bk den in p.h..was a commissioner daughter..met her in an eatery n she cleared our bills and was happy that i caught a big fish when i visited and saw her family settings and building...generally it wasnt dt nice because she was a junkie and a sex freak...talk abt mixing our food and drinks with trams n viagras so we last longer...it was after one night dt we did marathon and i was still strong which isnt possible and unlike me dt i asked her and she confessed dt it was drugs n she gat it recorded...was mad with her and left her place, deleted her number and blocked all her contacts...have to leave eleme bcoz of her visit and was tired of hiding...gat run for my life before bea go turn me to IndecentStar and i begin see my sex videos for pornhub or naijaleaks

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by janedonez(m): 10:50am On May 11, 2020
That feeling is a real fantasy. But any guy who wants to hold his head high in the society should learn to take responsibilities in any relationship

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:50am On May 11, 2020
where



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Nairaland



Big girls?

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by madridsta007(m): 10:50am On May 11, 2020
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm lipsrsealed sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!

If she is humble, na, the guy doesnt feel inferior.
Once she is arrogant and loud-mouthed, the guy disappears.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankyboy1(m): 10:51am On May 11, 2020
Hmmm
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 10:52am On May 11, 2020
Selling you ego for pot of soup. They are never submissive and competitive with u

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by YungJo207(m): 10:52am On May 11, 2020
goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm lipsrsealed sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!

Depends on how you spend on him and if you talk about it to him or not.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 10:52am On May 11, 2020
I don't like big girls
But I like church girls grin
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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by NOC1(m): 10:52am On May 11, 2020
Is choky my friend, I am working but she love spending on me.
I stopped her and started spending a bit, once you over power them you love them.
When she choked me I was not In love with her till I broke out and make her reason well, we are now cool

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by OkoroPeugeot(m): 10:52am On May 11, 2020
Have you ever been a gigolo?

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by emusmithyy(m): 10:53am On May 11, 2020
That means I've not dated one.

Most Nigerian ladies would never use their airtime to call a guy, even if they love him. They perceive it as being cheap.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Finnese001: 10:53am On May 11, 2020
cheesy
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Eberex(m): 10:53am On May 11, 2020
I didn't date this category of big girl. But for me it is subject to the girl and her upbringing. Some it is in their nature, while some they have a mission to be your wife and be accepted by the family

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