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sassysure:

It may be that big boy. Mixed blood.
Marriage don scatter.

The man speaks like imo while the woman remind me of afikpo in ebonyi state.

Both are from Abia state Abiriba to precise

Who is the foolish person that posted this family issue of this couple online? The person should be charged with bridge of privacy.

"Let all things be done decently and in order (1 Corinthians 14:40)."

obowunmi:
Growing up, my parents fought a lot.

37 years together and they still hate each other.

Hmmmmmmm how did you survive

pDudd:


Typical Nigerian relationships in Amelika.

Shebi you were all abusing me on that my former thread about Nigerian relationships in the US. This is video evidence right here. God has vindicated me

All for the love of money. Like I said on my former thread, the breakdown of every Nigerian marriage in US is mainly because of money or the lack thereof.


See how she's trying to provoke him to hit her so that she can call police on him. These women are evil.
The boy holding the belt is the man's child from a previous relationship the man had with a white woman that enabled him to get resident status in the US. See how the woman attacked the boy because he is not her child. The other little kids are from their present relationship.

Nobody should abuse me o, I'm not well today.

Lefulefu come and see them o

I can see that a family's dysfunction gives you so much joy. To what end? ehn tell me, to what end?

Bluffly:

It says they are from Abia state. Nothing contentions about its clarity

You mean contentious.

Well, good journalism will state where they reside (location)... then where they're originally from, would be secondary information after the fact.

Made4naijalove:
There's no single love and respect between these two and I wonder why they're still together. What sort of marriage is this for heaven's sake?

Tufiakwa! I pity those children they'll turn out like their parents. Sad!

Honestly, once it goes this far to the extent of violence that's it.

pDudd:


Hahahahaha. They were abusing me on that thread. Look look at it for yourself na.

God has vindicated me.

the op from his post heading is saying the incident happened in abia but goiing through the video and the way the house is designed u will know straightaway na yankee dem dey .most nigerian marriages in america na rubbish.no love at all between spouses.all na how to grab money and divorce spouse and be making financial benefit from it.the guys who were saying u were sterotyping should come and see this thread .

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They value money more than each other. This are couple who came together as a result of sweet sex they had. They decided to get married so that they can continue the pleasure of sex unknowingly to them, marriage is different from sex. Money don come sweet sex turn sour

gypsey:
All these abroad nigerian families, family based on economic convienience, They meet at a nigerian church and has arranged marriages end up very uhappy with ugly rude children who join gangs when they become teenagers.

Nah. Most naija kids here don't do gangs. They still go on to achieve above average despite the issues

sassysure:

U were not wrong.
The poster put that headline to sensaionalise it.

That woman is in obvious pain and I wouldn't want to watch that video again.
U will get to agree that she is right about her claims towards the end of the video.

The man loves that boy more than her and her children. It's very obvious even if u don't understand what she is saying.

Hmm.

My heart breaks for the kids.

As for that mullato, one day, he will meet his doom.

why would a man all of a sudden love a boy that came after he met a woman. There is something going on you know nothing about and don’t conclude until you hear from the man, the woman and the boy. See there is no small child oo. Whatever you do in front of your children registers in their head for life. This did not start today and that boy must have seen loads.

ogbonti:

Ogbeni, there is no marriage without its ups and downs. It how you handle the situation.

Just as a woman cannot stand a man with it come to fist fighting, a man can never win word battle with a woman.

When will you men get it?

Then when I had a sister, we quarrelled every night, I mean night, it will be like one spirit will just enter our bodies and start to fight. She never won any fistfight, I was even arrested, I never won any argument.

Now she is married with a kid and I miss her so much- I never tell her that sha

The reason for this story;

A. They saw themselves
B. They loved themselves.
C. They are not cut from the same cloth, so everything will not fall into pleasant places.
C. They will mend themselves with a hot passionate.....
D. They will have a story to tell

Love your wifes, men. Women respect your husbands.

crackkhaus:

It was definitely the man recording it at one point because of the way she was looking straight into the camera, speaking into it and throwing her hands at it.

Perhaps they changed hands during the whole altercation.

And I don't know what you mean by it's a plan between the boy and his dad.

I'm seeing a hysterical woman who wants her husband to beat her so she can call the cops on him, and you're seeing the innocent boy laughing at her as the problem. How?

Do u u understand what they were saying?

A boy who is smiling when two adults are fighting is no good. So don't call him innocent.
The anger is on the boy.
Man want to buy food for the boy again despite the fact he has already eaten while her children stays hungry.
Look at that boy and look at her kids.
Look at the man.
And she just put to bed through CS.

Don't laugh about this cos it isn't funny.

Yes at first, i will say the wife is looking for trouble but when u start listening to them, oh. U got to pity her and her kids.

If that video is taken to their igbo meeting, that man is 100% guilty and will be heavily fined.
He is out of job too.

sassysure:

U will never call me for something good.
Couldn't pick the lady's igbo. I got afikpo vibes a lot.
She is saying something like she gave birth through CS and the man did something bad to her during that time.
Man is restricting himself from fighting with her though both of them have acoustic mouth.
Wife desperately want the man to beat her.

Their matter started a long long time ago. And I can say that it has something to do with that big guy.
Yep, it's not in Nigeria.

I feel for the kids.
Look at them.
Even the small one is crying.

He is not deliberately trying to piss her off. It's the other way round.
The lady is fed up with something and I swear it's about that boy. He isn't her child and it's obvious the man love that boy more than that woman and her kids. He went kolo when the lady held the boy.
And the boy don't care at all. He is ev3n laughing at her.

I have to watch again to understand all they are saying.
That guy is evil. He posted this.

It looks like maybe the boy was the ticket for the man to get his PR in the country is residing

sassysure:

I'm thinking it's that boy who videotaped this not the man.
Maybe that's why the lady rushed the boy when she discovered what was happening and the boy was smiling away.

It may be a plan between him and the dad too.

If I'm that lady, I will pack my bags, kids and go.
This is not marriage.
See insults flying up and down.

I think the fat boy is the man's son from another woman, a white woman and he is laughing because the woman is not his mother, the other 2 are probarbly his children and the woman. it's really sad that they are violent to each other in the presence of the children. she went to grab a belt so the fat kid held on the belt so she couldn't get hold of the belt to hit the man, his father. and the man appears to be warning her not to hurt his fat son as she tried to grab the belt from the fat boy.

They are really a messed up family, they should go their separate ways, before they end up killing themselves..I feel sorry for their innocent children

Yankee101:


Nah. Most naija kids here don't do gangs. They still go on to achieve above average despite the issues

are u sure? uk gangs na nigerians full am pass

Gregorian2020:
They value money more than each other. This are couple who came together as a result of sweet sex they had. They decided to get married so that they can continue the pleasure of sex unknowingly to them, marriage is different from sex. Money don come sweet sex turn sour

Na when money no dey you go no say relationship is beyond big dick and apple buttocks. Great post

kingthreat:
Poor dude. The money in spent in bringing the overfed hippo to America would have been used to find love with a white woman and build dreams together. Not this mistake.

Or he would of not re-married at all. Rather spend the money on himself and his son. I don't get what people even value in marraige.

Vyolet:
Who videos and posts all these family feuds? I mean it happened in their home, who filmed them in their home?

if you do not understand the language then why comment ? The man clearly says hes gonna post it to abiriba forum on facebook

ishowdotgmail:
IPOB men derives joy beating their wives... No gentleness in their soul and genes l

watch the vidoe..he didnt lay a hand on her.na the woman just dey provoke upandan

lefulefu:
the op from his post heading is saying the incident happened in abia but goiing through the video and the way the house is designed u will know straightaway na yankee dem dey .most nigerian marriages in america na rubbish.no love at all between spouses.all na how to grab money and divorce spouse and be making financial benefit from it.the guys who were saying u were sterotyping should come and see this thread .

That na typical Yankee house.

sassysure:

U will never call me for something good.
Couldn't pick the lady's igbo. I got afikpo vibes a lot.
She is saying something like she gave birth through CS and the man did something bad to her during that time.
Man is restricting himself from fighting with her though both of them have acoustic mouth.
Wife desperately want the man to beat her.

Their matter started a long long time ago. And I can say that it has something to do with that big guy.
Yep, it's not in Nigeria.

I feel for the kids.
Look at them.
Even the small one is crying.

He is not deliberately trying to piss her off. It's the other way round.
The lady is fed up with something and I swear it's about that boy. He isn't her child and it's obvious the man love that boy more than that woman and her kids. He went kolo when the lady held the boy.
And the boy don't care at all. He is ev3n laughing at her.

I have to watch again to understand all they are saying.
That guy is evil. He posted this.

No matter the level of analytic intelligence you employ to make or decode a situation, never be too sure. You were just concluding as if you have enough evidence to back up the ground cause of their problem. Hi are you so sure it's about the boy?

Thank you all for all your comments and analysis, it was a rich experience to see this through many eyes. My advice, before one marries, take time to understand the person. Are they what you are looking for, and are they compatible with you.
Personally, i like calm intelligent women, who have the attitude of moderation and wisdom, so there will be peace at home, peace is important, not just for the adults, but even more important to any child that may come into that home.

For me i have higher goals in life, and i don't have time for petty ways of life, so i don't even date any girl that feels she is entitled, or who is looking for a rich man neither do i go for women with expectation that i cannot fulfill.

As a child, i always remember when things went bad at home similar to this video, so i don't want to do that to any child i may bring into the world.

VickyRotex:


I can see that a family's dysfunction gives you so much joy. To what end? ehn tell me, to what end?

Una don come again o. Not today please. I'm not well

sassysure:

Do u u understand what they were saying?

A boy who is smiling when two adults are fighting is no good. So don't call him innocent.
The anger is on the boy.
Man want to buy food for the boy again despite the fact he has already eaten while her children stays hungry.
Look at that boy and look at her kids.
Look at the man.
And she just put to bed through CS.

Don't laugh about this cos it isn't funny.

Yes at first, i will say the wife is looking for trouble but when u start listening to them, oh. U got to pity her and her kids.

If that video is taken to their igbo meeting, that man is 100% guilty and will be heavily fined.
He is out of job too.

Outside the CS and whatever issues husband and wife may have, I truly don't see how the boy is a problem here just because he's smiling.

If you want to blame someone, blame the grown-up man...not a child

Yankee101:


Nah. Most naija kids here don't do gangs. They still go on to achieve above average despite the issues

I know few youths in gangs that their parents are nigerians. trust, I know.