afube:


filthy ass wipe from the gutter

You surname

Igbo amaka Ndi Ayoyo

Nothing new here, every husband and wife fight once in their lifetime , at times openly or behind the scene what matters most is spirit of reconciliation... My dad is an old soilders and he has taste good side of abroad as well, let's say he's well exposed in life, he always want everything to go his way even till date , despite me his last child is in his late 30s married with kids ,when ever I'm around on a visit, he still see us a kids which at times doesn't go down with me, my mom use to tell us many fight they faught as couples which we never knw, she use to tell us that married is not that ever greeny, sweetier or happy ever after, once in a while couples put up a fight, as a child I saw them at times having serious querrelling but they do settle their difference between themselves without involving anyone, it didn't influenced me in my married, way of life is a choice... Lol at times I intentionally love to provoke madam so we can argue small but we settle our quarrel in the other room

What a disgusting sight to behold!

crackkhaus:

Deliberately pissing her off by putting the camera on her and recording it, I could see that much.

Stop pretending you are dumb, recording an event isn’t the same thing as luring someone to anger. Where do you guys come up with all these illogical lines of thought?

This probably happened on Sunday and the man was prepared for church service but the woman blocked him and said he must give her the 300 dollars. Out frustration the man started making the video to at least record as evidence should anything comes out of the confrontation.

The woman accused the husband of neglecting the family and the man called her a liar asking in the process if they've been eating sand or the kids not wearing clothes. The woman persistently stood in the way of the man and he continues pleading with her to give way probably to go to church. The wife out of annoyance hit him and he start raining abuse on her and at this point the woman became physical but the man lost it, pull his belt to wipe her but his chukwuma son was on hand to collect the belt. The women dash at chukwuma for a fight but the husband swears down that should anything happen to his son, heaven will fall.

At this point, the woman has realized her folly and went emotional asking the man, " what did I do to you repeatedly " prompting the man to hit her at least to draw levels ( this is where the man suppose hold her and plant a kiss or something) but uncle already has pent up anger.


Wife was wrong in her approach and went overboard, realizing her mistakes in the middle of the confrontation, she became emotional using the kids to blackmail the man. She simply ask for money the husband wasn't yielding to.

eyinjuege:


Doesn't this also happen in Nigeria?
Are your marriages in Nigeria anything to write home about?
Divorce is also on the increase , cheating from both men and women on the increase too, couples fighting over money also occurs in nigeria.
Only few are happily married, and we see this almost everyday on NL. At least you will also agree that marriage is a scam in Naija, abi I lie?

u no lie at all

The kind of threads that entices nairalanders!
Chai!

freshvine:
This probably happened on Sunday and the man was prepared for church service but the woman blocked him and said he must give her the 300 dollars. Out frustration the man started making the video to at least record as evidence should anything comes out of the confrontation.

The woman accused the husband of neglecting the family and the man called her a liar asking in the process if they've been eating sand or the kids not wearing clothes. The woman persistently stood in the way of the man and he continues pleading with her to give way probably to go to church. The wife out of annoyance hit him and he start raining abuse on her and at this point the woman became physical but the man lost it, pull his belt to wipe her but his chukwuma son was on hand to collect the belt. The women dash at chukwuma for a fight but the husband swears down that should anything happen to his son, heaven will fall.

At this point, the woman has realized her folly and went emotional asking the man, " what did I do to you repeatedly " prompting the man to hit her at least to draw levels ( this is where the man suppose hold her and plant a kiss or something) but uncle already has pent up anger.


Wife was wrong in her approach and went overboard, realizing her mistakes in the middle of the confrontation, she became emotional using the kids to blackmail the man. She simply ask for money the husband wasn't yielding to.

fighting over 300 dollars

freshvine:


At this point, the woman has realized her folly and went emotional asking the man, " what did I do to you repeatedly " prompting the man to hit her at least to draw levels ( this is where the man suppose hold her and plant a kiss or something)

SMH

sassysure:

It may be that big boy. Mixed blood.
Marriage don scatter.

The man speaks like imo while the woman remind me of afikpo in ebonyi state.

Both speaks Abiriba dialect, which is by fragments related to Afrikpo

sassysure:



Anambra but I am what u call wazobia lady and all round igbo
Places I've not been in Nigeria is very few .

I still dey waka.

lmao...that's good..is same with me, I know almost everywhere in igboland too and beyond...

I'm suspecting you be idemili gal,

Adonispco:
That money isnt that minute.
Thats N117000 if converted to naira.

It is small money in the context of someone living in the US.

lefulefu:
fighting over 300 dollars

Sometimes it's not about the money but about the demon in operation at that time.

A police officer on checkpoint may kill a driver for 50 naira roger but someone is owing him 100k and daring him to do his worst.

Who filmed the home video?

murphyibiam15:

lmao...that's good..is same with me, I know almost everywhere in igboland too and beyond...

I'm suspecting you be idemili gal,

U have asked too much without revealing anything
Cunny man from abiriba

I am a married lady though.

crackkhaus:

First of all, that doesn't look like it happened in Abia State. The home in the video looks like a building design for houses either in the US/UK/Canada.

The man himself is the one holding the phone to record what is going on, perhaps to use as evidence showing that he did not raise a hand on his wife should cops/courts get involved.

He is deliberately trying to piss her off, there is even a grown-up fat boy (probably their son) laughing at the whole drama.
The only person who seems really angry and agitated there, is the woman.

Sassysure, abeg come interpret wetin dem dey yan so people can get a better picture.

Lolz, I am from Ohafia close to Abiriba. All what they said I heard it but how can interpret it now ����

Emaprince:
SMH

Yea, when she realized herself, she went for the camera recording and I think that was when the man got his belt out

Is easier for you say Ebonyi speak Latin but you can't decode ebiriba dialect what will you do if z Bende (item , igbere , alayi) dialect.
Lesson:Every Igbo state have their local dialect which is unique just that Anambra is more publicised

sassysure:

U will never call me for something good.
Couldn't pick the lady's igbo. I got afikpo vibes a lot.
She is saying something like she gave birth through CS and the man did something bad to her during that time.
Man is restricting himself from fighting with her though both of them have acoustic mouth.
Wife desperately want the man to beat her.

Their matter started a long long time ago. And I can say that it has something to do with that big guy.
Yep, it's not in Nigeria.

I feel for the kids.
Look at them.
Even the small one is crying.

He is not deliberately trying to piss her off. It's the other way round.
The lady is fed up with something and I swear it's about that boy. He isn't her child and it's obvious the man love that boy more than that woman and her kids. He went kolo when the lady held the boy.
And the boy don't care at all. He is ev3n laughing at her.

I have to watch again to understand all they are saying.
That guy is evil. He posted this.

sassysure:

It may be that big boy. Mixed blood.
Marriage don scatter.

The man speaks like imo while the woman remind me of afikpo in ebonyi state.

that's not IMO or ebonyi but Abiriba in Abia state.

Ojimba1:
Is easier for you say Ebonyi speak Latin but you can't decode ebiriba dialect what will you do if z Bende (item , igbere , alayi) dialect.
Lesson:Every Igbo state have their local dialect which is unique just that Anambra is more publicised

I try na.
How many non abians will recognise this.
I use edda and edda afikpo abiriba dialects are related.
That dialect is deep o.
Just give me one bottle of origin

BaddieKay:
that's not IMO or ebonyi but Abiriba in Abia state.

Ok, thank u

sassysure:

U will never call me for something good.
Couldn't pick the lady's igbo. I got afikpo vibes a lot.
She is saying something like she gave birth through CS and the man did something bad to her during that time.
Man is restricting himself from fighting with her though both of them have acoustic mouth.
Wife desperately want the man to beat her.

Their matter started a long long time ago. And I can say that it has something to do with that big guy.
Yep, it's not in Nigeria.

I feel for the kids.
Look at them.
Even the small one is crying.

He is not deliberately trying to piss her off. It's the other way round.
The lady is fed up with something and I swear it's about that boy. He isn't her child and it's obvious the man love that boy more than that woman and her kids. He went kolo when the lady held the boy.
And the boy don't care at all. He is ev3n laughing at her.

I have to watch again to understand all they are saying.
That guy is evil. He posted this.

what you just wrote here is far from what is happening there..the lady simply wants a share of some money and the guy has refused so she's now going on about a lot of shit and saying the guy doesn't buy her kids clothes but buys for the other kid who is obviously a child from a white lady. The lady didn't attack the boy and the man only threatened her if she hurts d boy while dragging the belt he'll deal with her. He kept his promise of uploading it online

sassysure:

Ok, thank u

lols

BaddieKay:
what you just wrote here is far from what is happening there..the lady simply wants a share of some money and the guy has refused so she's now going on about a lot of shit and saying the guy doesn't buy her kids clothes but buys for the other kid who is obviously a child from a white lady. The lady didn't attack the boy and the man only threatened her if she hurts d boy while dragging the belt he'll deal with her. He kept his promise of uploading it online

Ok.

sassysure:

U have asked too much without revealing anything
Cunny man from abiriba

I am a married lady though.

Hahahahahaha... I'm not from Abiriba ooo.. I'm from Edda, now u know

But u didn't get at yours? Hehehe

Happy married life dear, oga will sure be having fun daily with u

Made4naijalove:
There's no single love and respect between these two and I wonder why they're still together. What sort of marriage is this for heaven's sake?

Tufiakwa! I pity those children they'll turn out like their parents. Sad!

how can u conclude there is no love , because they have conflict?

ogbonti:


my brother - all these you mention are valid scenarios - but let me share a personal secret with you. I have dated and dumped women before and women or girls have also dumped me - but do you know the ones that made me cry? even when I know deep down within me the absence of such a girl wont really mean anything to me? It is those who left me without a word, without having an argument. Initially I felt like, aww good riddance but weeks later - it makes you feel like, "Am I this unimportant or insignificant that I hurt someone's feeling enough to make her leave but never bothered to make a big deal out of it? I don't know if you feel me. Try it once, just walk away from a relationship that you are truly tired off, without saying a word and truly stick to the break up - even if that girl or lady later marries the love of her - she will keep texting you and wanting to talk to you years into her marriage, OR she will keep asking about you from proxies. Not all impacts you desire are created and sustained by violence no matter how hurt you are. SELF CONTROL is the key - leave to a quiet place and process the hurt and decide if you really want to move on, and if you do - make it as quiet and drama free as possible - never give away your power over your ex to your ex by being argumentative or violent, just walk away, 3 months later come here and and tell us your experience

That is onew ay to do it but if history has taught us one thing, it is that humans are highly volatile. We all have various levels of control over our emotions. Even if you are perfectly in control of yours, can you truly say without a shadow of doubt that you can predict how your partner will react in any given scenario? This fear of the unknown is exactly why there's a famous saying, "AM ONLY HUMAN"!