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They call us ''broke dudes'' because they hang out with married men that can buy them the latest samsung or iphones.

They call us "Dull boys'' because the married men don't last long in bed, still buy them lands and take them on vacations.

They call us ''Small boys'' because they hang out with people's husbands who have forgotten their duty to the women, which they swore on the alter to love and die for.

In the end of it all, they come back to us the broke ass, Bleep boys, small boys, and bug us for marriage....kolewerk!!!

E be like say una no sabi say we sef we be sugar daddy to some girls growing up, while you were busy looking for iphone, there is a little girl looking for just Tecno.

While you were looking for brazillian hair, there is a small girl looking for just #2,500 just to make her hair, so when you call us broke ass, someone out there is proud calling us daddy.

So, please don't be mad when you see your supposed hubby, getting married to a girl two times younger than you.

In all of these, remember there are 3 stages in a man's life:

Learning period
Earning period
Give back to the society
Can you be just patient when he's learning and earning a little till he has enough to give back to the society. A good man remembers a woman who has been through thick and thin with him.

Though and truthfully, life is not a bed of roses, so why run after what you don't need forgetting what is so essential to your life. Something that will diminish in no time.

So, think and look before you leap.

bro, if you cant cater for your own LIFE NECESSITIES (feeding/housing/clothing etc) then you are indeed a broke boy, regardless of what oloshos are doing.

I will never endorse breaking another person's home

However, girls should not feel bad for not wanting a broke man.

Be 'patient' with an 'upcoming' Nigerian man at your own peril, 8.5/10 times he won't extend you the same privileges if he had the upper hand. Whilst he is with you at his lowest he is preparing himself for who he really wants, and you will find that the new girl sha has even higher standards than you.

I'm not totally against all cases of staying with a broke man because there will always be exceptions, but do at your own risk and most definitely don't feel bad about it or obligated.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, if you cant cater for your own LIFE NECESSITIES (feeding/housing/clothing etc) then you are indeed a broke boy, regardless of what oloshos are doing.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, if you cant cater for your own LIFE NECESSITIES (feeding/housing/clothing etc) then you are indeed a broke boy, regardless of what oloshos are doing.

Good one

ibkayee:
I will never endorse breaking another person's home

However, girls should not feel bad for not wanting a broke man.

Be 'patient' with an 'upcoming' Nigerian man at your own peril, 8.5/10 times he won't extend you the same privileges if he had the upper hand. Whilst he is with you at his lowest he is preparing himself for who he really wants, and you will find that the new girl sha has even higher standards than you.

I'm not totally against all cases of staying with a broke man because there will always be exceptions, but do at your own risk and most definitely don't feel bad about it or obligated.

When the sun shines it gives some people light while others receive opposite. Life is opportunity but I don't agree to this.