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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Exmilitant(m): 8:21pm On May 12, 2020
The time a man wakes up is his morning...

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by otunbalamba: 8:21pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please
i no know wetin you wan use marriage do undecided no be by force to marry na
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 8:21pm On May 12, 2020
We4all:


What does having a child guarantee in life? I'd rather be without a child than raise the type of children we have these days.



YOU HAVE JUST CONDEMNED YOURSELF AND WHAT MAY BE YOUR UNBORN GENERATION WITHOUT YOU KNOWING IT.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Acidosis(m): 8:22pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

You're wasting your life if you're waiting for the best life can offer.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by bukatyne(f): 8:22pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

What is your mind telling you?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by nextstep(m): 8:22pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

Don't forget that a healthy, active, (young) father is also one of the best things you can give your children.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Xscape1993(m): 8:22pm On May 12, 2020
Donald3d:
Its never too late to succeed at anything. What matters is getting it right.
God bless you dear.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Liposure: 8:22pm On May 12, 2020
Eulalia:
At 41, if things have not gel yet, what will you do? You can only wait until you get your bearing as a man rather than make a family you will not be able to cater for. That alone can cut a mans life short or mar the the childrens' future.

Get married when all is almost set. Don't let anyone mount undue pressure on you cos they won't help cater for your family. Also be prayerful so God can settle you in due time.

Shalom.
hmmmm
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by kingbee90: 8:23pm On May 12, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


He's an evening newspaper. Simple.

Go and hit your head on the wall cool

You Bish!
Can you swear that you have never forked a 40 or a 50 year old man in your life time? Hypocrite Oshi

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by chideodiba(m): 8:24pm On May 12, 2020
Nonsense
SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by dukeprince50: 8:24pm On May 12, 2020
2buffagain:
Nothing do you.
Last last, life is about passing on your seed.

However long they grow before you are done with life is not important, as you have already passed your seed forward.
did u read and understand this ur post?
@op pls ignore this post, "pass ur seed pass ur seed, how they grow is not ur problem" nai make Amajiri full Nigeria

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by BrutusOj(m): 8:24pm On May 12, 2020
It's late bro. Life expectancy in this part of the world is going down everyday. You wan use gratuity abi pension train your children?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by wristbangle: 8:24pm On May 12, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


He's an evening newspaper. Simple.

Go and hit your head on the wall cool

If he is wealthy, you won't say he is an evening newspaper. Would you? undecided

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Joystark(f): 8:24pm On May 12, 2020
MrSensor:
it's not late but you should have at least one child even out of marriage. You are not alone my fellow man. Things will be OK soon and pls target the younger girl for a wife (age between 22 and 30)

Why target someone that young.

Why not go for his age mate?

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by TheRedpillguy: 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


41 and unmarried? Yeee! Bia, is this not a typical example of midnight newspaper that is popular on this forum? Op, you're too old already and should have been married at least five years earlier. What were you doing all this time? Sampling? Hustling? Being an introvert? Chai! This one is Shiloh things ooh.

Sha, you're fortunate you're a male so I expect men to compare your case with a woman's as being better, and tell you to marry when you're ready and all that crap that really helps no one in the long run. I also expect they might be tempted to bash me for giving you a title. In my defense, you wanted an advice, so suck it up, buttercup.



We move cheesy cool

Lol not to suck up, men age like wine and women like milk. If he acquired resources then he is not even at his peak yet. He will get married to a fertile woman if he wants. For me thou. Am agaist marrige and I hoped its baned one day. Cus its a scam.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by veave(f): 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
No. Just try to marry right. Okay?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Centcanada: 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
Nop but thank your stars
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Aforxzy(f): 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
No its not too late to get married but rather old. Being married and staying married are two different things. Get it right so you can stay married happily.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by hyperflex(m): 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

As much as a lot of guys and ladies will tell you to event take your time at that age or say God's time is the best or marry when you're really ready I have to tell u that waiting till all is ready can put u at a disadvantage. We don't know what the future holds but it's good that you do right by your kids so u can be there for them while they grow. Waiting till all is ready is living selfishly. Get the basic things. Home, biz or job and a good woman by ur side.

People aren't even going to registry to stay together these days. Unless village pple sha. Bottomline is Dont mind pple that will tell u to still relax at 41. This generation can make one self destruct and when u do it will be u alone. They r getting married but u shld take ur time.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by wizod(m): 8:26pm On May 12, 2020
Marry earlier so dat you won't train your children with your pension. The earlier the better
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Chicastle: 8:27pm On May 12, 2020
austine4real:
God's time is the best



Are u male or female .



If u are male starts eating foods that will boost ur sperms till u finds the right woman




If female starts eating foods that will boost ur eggs cos u nearing menopause and reduce stress .


God will guide u

All those menopause dey work self?
Just give her beller she would conceive by the HOLOY GHOST
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 8:27pm On May 12, 2020
farady:
The most important things are getting married to the right person, being happy and having a happy home.

100% on point.

To the op: the words in boldfaced are all that matters, not your age.

cc: manuelreports
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by austine4real(m): 8:29pm On May 12, 2020
Enwhen:



Are u saying youth of today are less active ??.




Big lie, speak for yourself ....even today 50yrs self, their wife is not enough, they still ball outside ...this lockdown exposed many ...Bro , at 41 , that's when the youthfulness starts ...the balling becomes very strong up till 55 , when fading starting coming in....abeg delete that your post....it is only for female at 41, I know that may have issue not male , at all.


U won't understand sir


U don't know his health status .

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by bergs2: 8:29pm On May 12, 2020
You spent your years probably arguing on Niraland only to wake up at 41.
Jeeeeezzzzzzzz!

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by OlujobaSamuel: 8:29pm On May 12, 2020
If at 41, you still want us to tell you what to do with your life, then you need to find out what you are living for.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by austine4real(m): 8:29pm On May 12, 2020
kuuljay:
happiness comes first in marriage,making children is secondary,
In Africa children are very important
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by fergie001: 8:30pm On May 12, 2020
Manuelreports....It is how well not how far.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Rexymania(m): 8:30pm On May 12, 2020
The issue is not marrying late or not, the issue is are you ready to take up that responsibility? Pray to God to show you a supportive wife to marry.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by jaxxy(m): 8:30pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

Everybody’s clock is different, make sure u achieve ur goals be it financial stability, marriage or what have you. It’s not late for marriage and for a man it’s still very ok if u are doing the right things to put ur life on the right course to success bt most importantly find the right person for u.

People marry early and are not even happy so what’s the big deal

My neighbor got married in his 40’s and he was a regional manager for a top bank getting to his 50’s, has all his kids In primary skol/Sec skol, built 2 houses already. Is that not successful family?

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by RealGOAT: 8:30pm On May 12, 2020
Not too late but get ready
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 8:31pm On May 12, 2020
We4all:


What does having a child guarantee in life? I'd rather be without a child than raise the type of children we have these days.

Louder!
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Uckroot: 8:31pm On May 12, 2020
austine4real:
God's time is the best



Are u male or female .



If u are male starts eating foods that will boost ur sperms till u finds the right woman




If female starts eating foods that will boost ur eggs cos u nearing menopause and reduce stress .


God will guide u

Trash.

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