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Naija246:
the concept of love is a Hollywood phenomenon; it doesn't exists.
Any girl prophesying such to you is a scammer.
She is only after your resources.

Women are incapable of loving a man the way men desire to be loved;they can only love their children, not husbands.

A man loves idealisticly while women love opportunisticly

Naija246:
the concept of love is a Hollywood phenomenon; it doesn't exist.
Any girl prophesying such to you is a scammer.
She is only after your resources.

Women are incapable of loving a man the way men desire to be loved;they can only love their children, not husbands.

A man loves idealisticly while women love opportunisticly

ZINIBANKS:
Bro even nowadays if a woman tells you she loves you Kindly run for your life lol,, Cause they themselves know that love don't exist again

ZINIBANKS:
Bro even nowadays if a woman tells you she loves you
Kindly run for your life lol,,
Cause they themselves know that love don't exist again

iphanyi10:
yes it does exist but like one in one million.

and with the way things are going, every soon it would become extinct!

pansophist:
Yes true love exist. And I've experienced it over and over again. There are lots of things that inhibit the expressions of true love, and in the case of Nigeria (where the op opinion is formed), true love will be hard to find because majority of the population are poor and stuck in the survival hierarchy and humans by nature will premium "safety and security" over "love and belonging".

If you also observed closely, you will notice that people fall deeply in love in their younger state, a state of innocent naivety, inexperience and within the financial coverage of their parents/guardians. Meanwhile as people grow older and the responsibility of adulthood slowly becomes a challenge, they approach the world (including relationship) from a practical perspective, and finance is a huge part of it.

Check out the hierarchy of needs below by psychologist abraham maslow, he detailed this well. People at the very top are philanthropic (eg dangote, Bill Gates,) but people at the very bottom still struggling are more likely to be gold diggers than lovers

Johntemmy:
gbam.

Walefunds:
Don’t even doubt at all cause it does, but poverty won’t let the both party enjoy themselves in peace and happiness which could breach the love its sad See below sha

helinues:
Yes but hard to find

Cindy222:
It exists but its quite hard to find.

Johntemmy:
hummmm... so is love enough to sustain marriage or relationship.

Masonkaycares:
Are you gonna love me?

Naija246:
the concept of love is a Hollywood phenomenon; it doesn't exist.
Any girl prophesying such to you is a scammer;
She is only after your resources.

Women are incapable of loving a man the way men desire to be loved;they can only love their children, not husbands.

A man loves idealistically while women love opportunistically

Cindy222:
Ah nooo someone like you who follows ubunja,hell no. Even if i get to like you sef,i will soon stop hehehee.....

Johntemmy:
As divorce and seperations keep increasing in marriages this days...do you still believe real love exist either in relationship or marriage.mercie.

Masonkaycares:
what's it with ubunja? I only read I don't practice, I live my Life based on my principles which is I DON'T CARE.

Cindy222:
That's what you will say now o. Hmmm

Cindy222:
It exists but its quite hard to find.