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Venzal:
Honestly, it's catchy. But it also screams "taken" like there's a Duke somewhere waiting to impair anyone -- with his sword -- who dares to speak with "his" duchess

Lol.didn't think that way when I was choosing the moniker

maxlev1:
Wow wow wow! Am so soooo impressed by ur comment. Are u really a lady. Pls I did love to meet u. I rarely see highly reasonable comments on similar topics from most ladies here in Nairaland.

Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already

newdawn2017:
lol. Drop me ur ig handle please.

Can we be friends?

Hisduchess:
Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already

Can we be friends?

VickyRotex:

make we faya prayer for house egbon. tell me when to start prayer, make I start.

Read John 4 vs 21 to 24

“Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

hey! open your ministry asap.look

Good morning.. I hope you're cool

Omoluabi16:
hey! open your ministry asap.look

Good morning.. I hope you're cool

no wahala.

Morning. I'm fine thanks. Hope you're too! Regards to mum and the triplets.

VickyRotex:
no wahala.

Morning. I'm fine thanks. Hope you're too! Regards to mum and the triplets.

VickyRotex Shower me with love na I dey wait ooo

VickyRotex:
no wahala.

Morning. I'm fine thanks. Hope you're too! Regards to mum and the triplets.

VickyRotex Shower me with love na I dey wait ooo

Hisduchess:
Lol.didn't think that way when I was choosing the moniker

Ikr. Very few people put much thought into what moniker they choose here. Anyways, it's nice to have made the acquaintance of a duchess on here.

If I stumble on you again on another thread, I'll be sure to say hi. Hopefully, you will remember my own boring moniker.

Venzal:
Ikr. Very few people put much thought into what moniker they choose here. Anyways, it's nice to have made the acquaintance of a duchess on here.

If I stumble on you again on another thread, I'll be sure to say hi. Hopefully, you will remember my own boring moniker.

Sure I will.your moniker reminds me of the popular venza suv

Hisduchess:
Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already

U deserve it friend. Can I send u a pm?

maxlev1:
U deserve it friend. Can I send u a pm?

You can.

fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.

Never seen such in my 20+ years on earth. I hope I mean one sha.

lukui:
One of my uncles dated one like that. I was still in pry sch then but could still remember. She was very classy, rich and egoistic. Nevertheless we all still loved her. My uncle broke her heart and didn't later marry her. And we abused and rebuked him for doing that. But she too was later happily married. Up till now we are still good friends with her.

Many women don't even date for sex, d!ck or fxxking sake, they just want the guys attention. My uncle is the type, all sorts of women flock around him. Up till now in my street, if I am passing ma y of them, though they have now married with kids, they will still be asking "how is brother so so so" I will reply them and be wondering, so you still miss this man?

Your uncle I pray I never lose a woman like that. Cause most are selfish...

Hisduchess:
Sure I will.your moniker reminds me of the popular venza suv

Lol. So people have said. I used to like Venza that year before it became a flagship car for all dem Yahoo boiz.

Dreyton36:
I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls
And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them

It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo
I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi
But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way
We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers
Men go garage up with full swag to go serve rice
But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me
I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female)
Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess
She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area

One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland life tire me
The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother
And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too dear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends
As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces
I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each
Mehn my prick sef stand
I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me
Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load
Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup
After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete
I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da)
Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock
To cut it short I went home
And I made my biggest mistake
Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest partt

How did you Bleep up and how much was the cash when you covert it?

kayspark27:
My ex was a big girl, dated her for 4years but it turned her mother wasn’t in support of the relationship because I’m friends with her cousin and they have a family rift where they don’t talk to each other. The 4years was fun and because of that we still maintained our friendship and the mother doesn’t care anymore after finding out I and her cousin are no longer close friends like before but the damage has already been done. She was everything a man could ever wish for,loyal,friendly, lively and honest. Though then I wasn’t working a good job but i tried my best and she over tried for me sef. She spends more when we go out, buys gifts for me. Romantic. Damn and she couldn’t date any guy till date. Sometimes mother’s spoil the joy of their kids because of their selfish attitudes and interests.
Then i dated another big girl for like 4months. She doesn’t demand and does her things herself and she’s loyal and friendly but acts like a big sister sometimes lol. She always try to push me to do better too. She’s older with a year but she doesn’t see that as an issue, i had to break up with her because I didn’t really love her and instead of playing with her feelings. I had to let her go.

How do you catch them?

Wiifesnatcher:
yea

my first Blackberry Bold 5 a lady working in Skye bank then bought it for me when I was in 200 level. her family were rich, someone that travel to Miami and Texas for summer whenever she's on leave. I asked why she's working instead of business, she said she needed to gained some experience as her dad is going into banking industry. I lose her then because I dey form lover boy then, she want me to go into marriage but I wasn't mentally ready plus I was in a serious date then even though I lost the relationship


some people have the money you need to restructure your life, if you don't feel inferior, y'all dine with them


I have dated big ladies very well and it get to a stage that I won't even look your side if you're not financially OK. I don suffer In my life, I can't dine with poor people like myself again abeg

We gather don suffer. How you take dey catch dem?

You bleeped because you not street wise in that level. Na men for street go reorientate you.


Bro Jami si

paulolee:
yes n it was bad n wasnt funi...bk den in p.h..was a commissioner daughter..met her in an eatery n she cleared our bills and was happy that i caught a big fish when i visited and saw her family settings and building...generally it wasnt dt nice because she was a junkie and a sex freak...talk abt mixing our food and drinks with trams n viagras so we last longer...it was after one night dt we did marathon and i was still strong which isnt possible and unlike me dt i asked her and she confessed dt it was drugs n she gat it recorded...was mad with her and left her place, deleted her number and blocked all her contacts...have to leave eleme bcoz of her visit and was tired of hiding...gat run for my life before bea go turn me to IndecentStar and i begin see my sex videos for pornhub or naijaleaks

Yeye na wetin make you run... Coward

Lovelyn451:
Heheheeey...but I thought that's what you Efulefus like..shebi u want a woman to pay the bills like oyibo pipo? What are u complaining for again? Just donate ur sperm to her, stay at home and do the chores while she make the money, but don't u ever open ur efulefu mouth to ask her for respect or talk abt submission when responsible men are talking...tchew

Lol why you dey vex? . Your mentality is premative jawe... So because she spend for me and does some things women like you wouldn't do. That means she wouldn't be submission. And according, to your low IQ it automatically makes the guy lazy and less ambitious... Abeg continue following your mugus.

jericco1:
I have but she wanted us to get married, I was in 200level and she was in 400level then.. but I couldn't babe wanted to wait for me I told her no, she was 6 or 7 years older than me. But I am happy she got married last March


PS: babe was so disciplined, you cannot misbehave in her front because she's not ready for any nonsense.. I did learn a lot from her though.

Because of your ego you lost a well behaved woman whose ready to wait... Smh..

Cocao:
There is a misconception sha. The fact that a girl can hold her own and not need your help does not mean that she won't appreciate it when you offer it. Make that offer often enough because you care for her not because she needs it. You will be more appreciated then.

Lemme see your real face. I want to check something

ArcSEMPECJ:
If you have such a luck on a lady, all you need to do as a man is to look for a good investment, ask her to borrow you some money that is if you are not buoyant enough.......

Get the money and invest it, have something doing to be the man around her, don't just get more lazy because she provides everything...

If she fails to borrow you money, no problems, advice her properly where she can channel her money also, you have to be consistence with her, don't just be liability,... Let her see your worth

Correct bro. You sabi

Sunisonflex39:
I have not dated any big girl.. the one I met one time like that, she does not have shingbia she just set for nothing
oh lord, when will i jam the correct big girl...
or when will a big girl jam me like that guy that said a big girl gave him 1500 dollars in 15 piece of 100$ notes
that is the kind of big girl I want.
even if she does not have big yansh and breez..At least she should be a BIG girl in monies

Those big yeye ones.. Dem too dey brag

lifenajeje:
He was given dollars

He works in ikoyi area..

There are lots of bars around ..

They would accept dollars from him..

They accept $$ as cash payment at ikoyi? This one weak me o... Provrty na bad tin

safarigirl:
Thanks for this

The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.

Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.

Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have.

That guy is a f**l na her money she dey spend na.. A wise man wouldn't scold her, later he will teach her how to invest.


We'll some guys are lucky to meet woman like that. At the end ego, envy and stupidly will make them lose them.

Frankicent:
Those big yeye ones.. Dem too dey brag

u dey mind them.. big girls for social media only. but for real life them dey behind for 1k.. I know Wat I am saying

Frankicent:
Because of your ego you lost a well behaved woman whose ready to wait... Smh..

Not really.. I knew she wouldn't be able to wait eventually, I thought it was better she meet someone else

Briller:
80% of the time, from one Godfather who is her paymaster, while you are the Mugu.

You the type of guy that kills a man vibes.. What is your own if she has godfather? Someone met you and grew feelings for you. At the long run she transformed your life for good. Na bad tin?


Your wanck bro. If she like she should be dangote gf. E no concern me, I need elevation and something different. All these wanck girls don tire me... Keep criticising and don't pray for favour ...

laiza:
Excellent point but it's only insecure boys and kids that have such issues. In as much as there is mutual respect and communication then big gals are the best to date. I particularly stay away from students and ladies aged 23 years and below. They don't know what they want.

See bro.. Guys who feel insecure, aren't street wise. Them have this faded ego. They believe as a man you must do all.. Na dem dey last last die of pressure When they marry there match ..

jericco1:
Not really.. I knew she wouldn't be able to wait eventually, I thought it was better she meet someone else

You shouldn't have ask her to go. You should have played alone. Because, you have 50% chance.. If she stay fine, If she go fine.. You shoot your self bro.

Frankicent:
You shouldn't have ask her to go. You should have played alone. Because, you have 50% chance.. If she stay fine, If she go fine.. You shoot your self bro.

You won't understand man.. it's more difficult than I am willing to let out

Sunisonflex39:
u dey mind them.. big girls for social media only. but for real life them dey behind for 1k.. I know Wat I am saying

I swear I don tire for them. There mentality wanck especially, if you hear them talk... Pride and ego dey back dem up..


Only fee street girls dey smart and humble.