Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Hisduchess(f): 6:52am On May 13, 2020 |
Venzal: Honestly, it's catchy. But it also screams "taken" like there's a Duke somewhere waiting to impair anyone -- with his sword -- who dares to speak with "his" duchess Lol.didn't think that way when I was choosing the moniker |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Hisduchess(f): 6:54am On May 13, 2020 |
maxlev1:
Wow wow wow! Am so soooo impressed by ur comment. Are u really a lady. Pls I did love to meet u. I rarely see highly reasonable comments on similar topics from most ladies here in Nairaland. Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 8:09am On May 13, 2020 |
newdawn2017: lol. Drop me ur ig handle please. Can we be friends? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 8:11am On May 13, 2020 |
Hisduchess:
Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already
Can we be friends? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Omoluabi16(m): 10:03am On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 12:23pm On May 13, 2020 |
Omoluabi16: hey! open your ministry asap.look
Good morning.. I hope you're cool no wahala. Morning. I'm fine thanks. Hope you're too! Regards to mum and the triplets. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 12:38pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Venzal: 1:01pm On May 13, 2020 |
Hisduchess:
Lol.didn't think that way when I was choosing the moniker Ikr. Very few people put much thought into what moniker they choose here. Anyways, it's nice to have made the acquaintance of a duchess on here. If I stumble on you again on another thread, I'll be sure to say hi. Hopefully, you will remember my own boring moniker. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Hisduchess(f): 1:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
Venzal: Ikr. Very few people put much thought into what moniker they choose here. Anyways, it's nice to have made the acquaintance of a duchess on here.
If I stumble on you again on another thread, I'll be sure to say hi. Hopefully, you will remember my own boring moniker. Sure I will.your moniker reminds me of the popular venza suv |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by maxlev1: 1:24pm On May 13, 2020 |
Hisduchess:
Thank you very much for the compliment,I'm blushing already
U deserve it friend. Can I send u a pm? |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Hisduchess(f): 1:40pm On May 13, 2020 |
maxlev1:
U deserve it friend. Can I send u a pm? You can. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 2:22pm On May 13, 2020 |
fineboynl: If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.
Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.
She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.
I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.
They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills. She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.
They never collect transport or any money from you. Never seen such in my 20+ years on earth. I hope I mean one sha. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 2:28pm On May 13, 2020 |
lukui: One of my uncles dated one like that. I was still in pry sch then but could still remember. She was very classy, rich and egoistic. Nevertheless we all still loved her. My uncle broke her heart and didn't later marry her. And we abused and rebuked him for doing that. But she too was later happily married. Up till now we are still good friends with her.
Many women don't even date for sex, d!ck or fxxking sake, they just want the guys attention. My uncle is the type, all sorts of women flock around him. Up till now in my street, if I am passing ma y of them, though they have now married with kids, they will still be asking "how is brother so so so" I will reply them and be wondering, so you still miss this man? Your uncle I pray I never lose a woman like that. Cause most are selfish... |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Venzal: 3:04pm On May 13, 2020 |
Hisduchess:
Sure I will.your moniker reminds me of the popular venza suv Lol. So people have said. I used to like Venza that year before it became a flagship car for all dem Yahoo boiz. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 3:49pm On May 13, 2020 |
Dreyton36: I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them
It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers Men go garage up with full swag to go serve rice But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female) Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area
One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland life tire me The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too dear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each Mehn my prick sef stand I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da) Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock To cut it short I went home And I made my biggest mistake Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest partt How did you Bleep up and how much was the cash when you covert it? |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:04pm On May 13, 2020 |
kayspark27: My ex was a big girl, dated her for 4years but it turned her mother wasn’t in support of the relationship because I’m friends with her cousin and they have a family rift where they don’t talk to each other. The 4years was fun and because of that we still maintained our friendship and the mother doesn’t care anymore after finding out I and her cousin are no longer close friends like before but the damage has already been done. She was everything a man could ever wish for,loyal,friendly, lively and honest. Though then I wasn’t working a good job but i tried my best and she over tried for me sef. She spends more when we go out, buys gifts for me. Romantic. Damn and she couldn’t date any guy till date. Sometimes mother’s spoil the joy of their kids because of their selfish attitudes and interests. Then i dated another big girl for like 4months. She doesn’t demand and does her things herself and she’s loyal and friendly but acts like a big sister sometimes lol. She always try to push me to do better too. She’s older with a year but she doesn’t see that as an issue, i had to break up with her because I didn’t really love her and instead of playing with her feelings. I had to let her go. How do you catch them? |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:09pm On May 13, 2020 |
Wiifesnatcher: yea
my first Blackberry Bold 5 a lady working in Skye bank then bought it for me when I was in 200 level. her family were rich, someone that travel to Miami and Texas for summer whenever she's on leave. I asked why she's working instead of business, she said she needed to gained some experience as her dad is going into banking industry. I lose her then because I dey form lover boy then, she want me to go into marriage but I wasn't mentally ready plus I was in a serious date then even though I lost the relationship
some people have the money you need to restructure your life, if you don't feel inferior, y'all dine with them
I have dated big ladies very well and it get to a stage that I won't even look your side if you're not financially OK. I don suffer In my life, I can't dine with poor people like myself again abeg We gather don suffer. How you take dey catch dem? You bleeped because you not street wise in that level. Na men for street go reorientate you. Bro Jami si |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
paulolee: yes n it was bad n wasnt funi...bk den in p.h..was a commissioner daughter..met her in an eatery n she cleared our bills and was happy that i caught a big fish when i visited and saw her family settings and building...generally it wasnt dt nice because she was a junkie and a sex freak...talk abt mixing our food and drinks with trams n viagras so we last longer...it was after one night dt we did marathon and i was still strong which isnt possible and unlike me dt i asked her and she confessed dt it was drugs n she gat it recorded...was mad with her and left her place, deleted her number and blocked all her contacts...have to leave eleme bcoz of her visit and was tired of hiding...gat run for my life before bea go turn me to IndecentStar and i begin see my sex videos for pornhub or naijaleaks Yeye na wetin make you run... Coward |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:19pm On May 13, 2020 |
Lovelyn451: Heheheeey...but I thought that's what you Efulefus like..shebi u want a woman to pay the bills like oyibo pipo? What are u complaining for again? Just donate ur sperm to her, stay at home and do the chores while she make the money, but don't u ever open ur efulefu mouth to ask her for respect or talk abt submission when responsible men are talking...tchew
Lol why you dey vex? . Your mentality is premative jawe... So because she spend for me and does some things women like you wouldn't do. That means she wouldn't be submission. And according, to your low IQ it automatically makes the guy lazy and less ambitious... Abeg continue following your mugus. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:26pm On May 13, 2020 |
jericco1: I have but she wanted us to get married, I was in 200level and she was in 400level then.. but I couldn't babe wanted to wait for me I told her no, she was 6 or 7 years older than me. But I am happy she got married last March
PS: babe was so disciplined, you cannot misbehave in her front because she's not ready for any nonsense.. I did learn a lot from her though. Because of your ego you lost a well behaved woman whose ready to wait... Smh.. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:27pm On May 13, 2020 |
Cocao: There is a misconception sha. The fact that a girl can hold her own and not need your help does not mean that she won't appreciate it when you offer it. Make that offer often enough because you care for her not because she needs it. You will be more appreciated then. Lemme see your real face. I want to check something |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:30pm On May 13, 2020 |
ArcSEMPECJ: If you have such a luck on a lady, all you need to do as a man is to look for a good investment, ask her to borrow you some money that is if you are not buoyant enough.......
Get the money and invest it, have something doing to be the man around her, don't just get more lazy because she provides everything...
If she fails to borrow you money, no problems, advice her properly where she can channel her money also, you have to be consistence with her, don't just be liability,... Let her see your worth Correct bro. You sabi |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:34pm On May 13, 2020 |
Sunisonflex39: I have not dated any big girl.. the one I met one time like that, she does not have shingbia she just set for nothing oh lord, when will i jam the correct big girl... or when will a big girl jam me like that guy that said a big girl gave him 1500 dollars in 15 piece of 100$ notes that is the kind of big girl I want. even if she does not have big yansh and breez..At least she should be a BIG girl in monies Those big yeye ones.. Dem too dey brag |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:37pm On May 13, 2020 |
lifenajeje:
He was given dollars
He works in ikoyi area..
There are lots of bars around ..
They would accept dollars from him.. They accept $$ as cash payment at ikoyi? This one weak me o... Provrty na bad tin |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:43pm On May 13, 2020 |
safarigirl:
Thanks for this
The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.
Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.
Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have. That guy is a f**l na her money she dey spend na.. A wise man wouldn't scold her, later he will teach her how to invest. We'll some guys are lucky to meet woman like that. At the end ego, envy and stupidly will make them lose them. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Sunisonflex39(m): 4:43pm On May 13, 2020 |
Frankicent:
Those big yeye ones.. Dem too dey brag u dey mind them.. big girls for social media only. but for real life them dey behind for 1k.. I know Wat I am saying |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by jericco1(m): 4:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
Frankicent:
Because of your ego you lost a well behaved woman whose ready to wait... Smh.. Not really.. I knew she wouldn't be able to wait eventually, I thought it was better she meet someone else |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:51pm On May 13, 2020 |
Briller:
80% of the time, from one Godfather who is her paymaster, while you are the Mugu. You the type of guy that kills a man vibes.. What is your own if she has godfather? Someone met you and grew feelings for you. At the long run she transformed your life for good. Na bad tin? Your wanck bro. If she like she should be dangote gf. E no concern me, I need elevation and something different. All these wanck girls don tire me... Keep criticising and don't pray for favour ... |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
laiza: Excellent point but it's only insecure boys and kids that have such issues. In as much as there is mutual respect and communication then big gals are the best to date. I particularly stay away from students and ladies aged 23 years and below. They don't know what they want. See bro.. Guys who feel insecure, aren't street wise. Them have this faded ego. They believe as a man you must do all.. Na dem dey last last die of pressure When they marry there match .. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:54pm On May 13, 2020 |
jericco1:
Not really.. I knew she wouldn't be able to wait eventually, I thought it was better she meet someone else You shouldn't have ask her to go. You should have played alone. Because, you have 50% chance.. If she stay fine, If she go fine.. You shoot your self bro. |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by jericco1(m): 4:56pm On May 13, 2020 |
Frankicent:
You shouldn't have ask her to go. You should have played alone. Because, you have 50% chance.. If she stay fine, If she go fine.. You shoot your self bro. You won't understand man.. it's more difficult than I am willing to let out |
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Frankicent(m): 4:56pm On May 13, 2020 |
Sunisonflex39: u dey mind them.. big girls for social media only. but for real life them dey behind for 1k.. I know Wat I am saying I swear I don tire for them. There mentality wanck especially, if you hear them talk... Pride and ego dey back dem up.. Only fee street girls dey smart and humble. |