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Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by ibkayee(f): 10:25pm On May 13, 2020
bukatyne:
At bold, I differentiated between work and purpose.

So how can I say marriage is a better purpose than work?

Purpose is the reason a thing is created; how can someone be created for marriage?

Read to understand, not to respond.

Took me a while to learn however, I can read an Islamic Cleric's post on Polygamy and learn something about marriage (good or bad).

The above applies to the marital rape thread.

I am not willing to go into that tonight.
You literally said 'discover your purpose...but not work because it doesn't give you satisfaction (and by saying this, even though I did not explicitly say it can't be your purpose, I am implying that work cannot be your purpose because it doesn't give you satisfaction) especially compared to having a family'

Lol make your topics clearer and I will do my part to understand yeah
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(op): 10:26pm On May 13, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
The one inside your azz

Shove your head up your azz you will see it there
You have started manifesting your real self.

Keep emerging undecided

An poster respond to you now, you will run to the mods.
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:27pm On May 13, 2020
OchoL:
Anyone with a brain can see that.. you dunce kiss
He's not.
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Acidosis(m): 10:27pm On May 13, 2020
Omoluabi16:
If this isn't bullying..
I just wonder why we don't respect people's opinion. You either agree or disagree. No need for the diatribes. Whatever happened to counter threads? If e too pain you, then waka pass.
Bukatyne Don't let anyone run you off Nairaland or cow you into silent mode.
They can't... I will do anything to keep this woman on this section.
grin grin

Family is the basic unit of society. We can't allow personalities like Elder101, an Abuja-based sugar boy, and other young and old hags with battered and rotten identities take over family affairs.
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 13, 2020
OchoL:
Not when you resemble an earless seal! grin

CHoccolaTE, post your pics lets see how "beautiful" you are kiss
.

Where's yours though?
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(op): 10:28pm On May 13, 2020
ibkayee:
You literally said 'discover your purpose...but not work because it doesn't give you satisfaction (and by saying this, even though I did not explicitly say it can't be your purpose, I am implying that work cannot be your purpose because it doesn't give you satisfaction) especially compared to having a family'

Lol make your topics clearer and I will do my part to understand yeah
You think a God created a human being just to work till death?

Sad.

Humans are made for more.

And the more is not even marriage.
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by ibkayee(f): 10:30pm On May 13, 2020
bukatyne:
You think a God created a human being just to work till death?

Sad.

Humans are made for more.

And the more is not even marriage.
Putting words in my mouth...strawman fallacy cheesy
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(op): 10:30pm On May 13, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Please shut up

I was feeling sorry for you before but not anymore, you came to mock me after I tried to see things from your point of view. You are just a pretender, pretending to be gentle. I hope the women on this thread rip you to bits and keep ganging up against you.
Feel sorry for your self first.

Which kain victim mentality is this?

I came to mock you? At where?

Your house?
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Nobody: 10:31pm On May 13, 2020
fuzzywuzzy:
The person you are wasting pity on is an incorrigible panderer for Male attention
Take your pity elsewhere
I know she is, but let's be honest this is getting out of hand.

Besides, I've already kept my pity to myself. She said she doesn't need it
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:31pm On May 13, 2020
OchoL:
Yes she is grin
No, he's not.
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(op): 10:36pm On May 13, 2020
ibkayee:
Putting words in my mouth...strawman fallacy cheesy
Ok.

So what were you saying?
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackkhaus: 10:36pm On May 13, 2020
Now we're cruising at 35,000ft. grin

After so many pages of trying to bring her down UNSUCCESSFULLY, some are now trying to patronize, others are trying to understand, the rest are acting like they care about her...

This sudden U-turn is a sign that Marvel's Defenders have done a really good job. cool

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/high.gif
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Nobody: 10:38pm On May 13, 2020
bukatyne:
Hahahahahaha

Ni iwo yi laro grin
You will be alright, believe me you will.
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