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kingbee90:
You Bish!
Can you swear that you have never forked a 40 or a 50 year old man in your life time? Hypocrite Oshi

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wristbangle:
If he is wealthy, you won't say he is an evening newspaper. Would you?

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TheRedpillguy:
Lol not to suck up, men age like wine and women like milk. If he acquired resources then he is not even at his peak yet. He will get married to a fertile woman if he wants. For me thou. Am agaist marrige and I hoped its baned one day. Cus its a scam.

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realokopi:
How many times will they tell you that giving advice is not for you?? You're a mumu woman.

If it pains you, knack your head on a wall.

Donald3d:
So should he marry the wrong person, just because he wants to get married ?
I urge you to understand my post very well, I never told him to wait.
I only encouraged him, that at his current age, its not too late, but its more important to marry the right person.

If he waits too long, too late, it will get worse and he won't find the right person to marry. Imagine a broke man of 45 to 50 looking for a single woman to marry! What type of single woman would be interested in marrying him? May be single mummies of 35 and above.

The guy is already 41 and not yet rich enough, still you failed to see problem in front of him!
The only way a man can marry the woman of his choice is either he marries at a young age with or without enough money or he marries late but have enough money to entice single woman of his choice.

But a man who doesn't have age on his side and doesn't have more than enough money in his pocket will have problem settling down with his choice of woman or the right woman as you put it.

Nothing stop a serious man from getting marry latest at 35, whether he has enough at the time or not. All he needs is how to plan and manage his family according to his means. Just one kid for a start until things start getting better for him

maasoap:
If he waits too long, too late, it will get worse and he won't find the right person to marry. Imagine a broke man of 45 to 50 looking for a single woman to marry! What type of single woman would be interested in marrying him? May be single mummies of 35 and above.

The guy is already 41 and not yet rich enough, still you failed to see problem in front of him!
The only way a man can marry the woman of his choice is either he marries at a young age with or without enough money or he marries late but have enough money to entice single woman of his choice.

But a man who doesn't have age on his side and doesn't have more than enough money in his pocket will have problem settling down with his choice of woman or the right woman as you put it.

Nothing stop a serious man from getting marry latest at 35, whether he has enough at the time or not. All he needs is how to plan and manage his family according to his means. Just one kid for a start until things start getting better for him

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Ishilove:
The race is not to the swift, or the battle to the strong. It isn't early, but it isn't too late. Why bother what people think?

He's not bothered about what people think, he's bothered about what he himself thinks. Marrying can be too early and can be too late my friend. One should just need to try to avoid being in the two extreme ends.
If someone is 41 and not yet settled down, when will the right time be exactly?
I have one close to me, he's 42 now. I did my best to let him see the disadvantages of late marriage but he's still out there wasting his time. The guy is even AS, he doesn't know yet, what it means for him. He will realise that the moment he decides to get marry and AA partner doesn't show on the radar.

Unrated900:
Alaye stop this stories here and make money
I repeat don’t get married when you have no dime
Cos your wife might someone’s side chick.
I repeat Make money before getting married.

Make money! Make money!! Make money!!! You're 41 already and still chasing money around, what is the guarantee that you will finally have that kind of money you have mind? Some things are not meant to be put on hold forever.
Even at that, money alone doesn't guarantee everlasting marriage

SweetCunt97:
I tire o. He would have married since and gotten one kid while he improves his financial status.

Can you persevere with a guy with a very shaky financial status. The picture on your profile is mean and wicked

Beolly:
Can you persevere with a guy with a very shaky financial status. The picture on your profile is mean and wicked

I've endured with a man with low financial status.

Of course not! It can't be too late to settle down and get married. As everyone says, your time will come, too. Does it matter if it's 40 or 50? The main thing is that you want it and it only brings you happiness. Don't think about it too much and everything will turn out naturally.

maasoap:
If he waits too long, too late, it will get worse and he won't find the right person to marry. Imagine a broke man of 45 to 50 looking for a single woman to marry! What type of single woman would be interested in marrying him? May be single mummies of 35 and above.

The guy is already 41 and not yet rich enough, still you failed to see problem in front of him!
The only way a man can marry the woman of his choice is either he marries at a young age with or without enough money or he marries late but have enough money to entice single woman of his choice.

But a man who doesn't have age on his side and doesn't have more than enough money in his pocket will have problem settling down with his choice of woman or the right woman as you put it.

Nothing stop a serious man from getting marry latest at 35, whether he has enough at the time or not. All he needs is how to plan and manage his family according to his means. Just one kid for a start until things start getting better for him

But not everyone have it lucky to find even a girlfriend at 35, sir. It's by grace oh.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

NO! The British A-list actor Idris Elba was 46 when he married his current wife who was then a 28-year-old model... There's one more: International business/real estate mogul now Ooni of Ife (Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi) was 44 when he married his current Olori or Queen who was then 25 as of 2018! He had his first male child just last week at 46. "Things get done when they should be done." All the best!

Calapar:
I only say this: it's not late to marry at 40 as a man but make sure you've become rich and don't bring your wife into poverty.

wife or children, if he had a girl who is contributing n not sucking him dry he would have settle down by now

jydmak:
No o! U are still in ur prime. While u are @ 70 ur first born will be preparing for junior waec.

and?

Is late o, when will you have the time to train your children till University level, if you don't marry early, you will use your pension money to train your children.

consultancy:
I would say 41 unmarried is already late, for a female. For a man, still late, but not as bad as that of female. U should get married ASAP and start a family (if you are financially capable). Its best to train kids with the vigorous strength and agility of a youth. No be say u dey 55 years now ur children will still be in nursery or primary school crying daddy daddy buy me biscuit each morning

That's the truth, you made a good point, most men who married late are regretting it.