cococandy:
Well that’s a more traditional belief. It is accurate but at the same time, I think it’s subject to personal opinions. For some people they have more family in folks they have accepted in their hearts as their families than the actual family they have been born into.
That’s not to say that I consider both to be the same or equal. But it’s my belief and I won’t see another family is lesser because they aren’t of the same ancestry like mine.

Adopted family members are family too.

It’s the same way a man and woman (or other genders) who aren’t related can come together and decide to create a family via marriage while having no common ancestry (In fact we hope they don’t have a common ancestor), it’s the same way other people can come together and decide they want to be a family by whatever method they hold dear (may not be marriage). And we must respect that their family means to them what ours means to us.

choice17:



Exactly, there's a 1001 topics on NL/family section to read from. If they find hers offensive, why not leave quietly like I always do; rather na bashing and frustration upandan

eyinjuege:


People can share common ancestors without marriage involved
Because a child is born of unmarried parents doesn't change it's ancestry.
Ancestry is by BLOOD.
(An example of this is Tuface and his multiple baby mamas and wife. His children from his baby mamas will trace their ancestry to him. His children from his wife will also trace their ancestry to him. The half siblings are always connected by blood regardless of the circumstances of their birth. They cannot simply be wished away because their parents aren't married)

ibkayee:

'Family' is broader than just marriage.

Even if this was a sub-board dedicated to marriage alone, are you saying everyone who has any type of opinion on something conforms to the specific thing's ideology?

The investment example isn't clicking either. Too many assumptions and unconnected 'links'.

Acidosis:


You've been disappointing me lately, lol

Acidosis:


You've been disappointing me lately, lol

pocohantas:


Because she hasn’t been agreeing with you lately? I noticed that is the bane of every fancy tag on NL.

Biglittlelois:



Na they will not leave quietly, if anyone sees a thread as offensive and want to comment on it, they are free to do that. If the creator of the thread find the comment frustrating and filled with bashes, he/she can either report or comment on it, I believe the internet space is free for everyone to use or ignore as they see fit.

Biglittlelois:



I'm sure you can see that some comments were deleted,

And who do you refer to as "elements"? Humans?

Mynd44. Rule 2.

pocohantas:


Because she hasn’t been agreeing with you lately? I noticed that is the bane of every fancy tag on NL.

Acidosis:


You're funny

Acidosis:



I don't expect everyone to agree with me and to say the fact, we have more than one type of family structure, heck, a friend can even be a family. It all depends on personal opinions.

ibkayee:

Lol I don't think I agree with him on things often in the first place, particularly in the family section

ibkayee:

Lol I don't think I agree with him on things often in the first place, particularly in the family section

Acidosis:


You're funny

pocohantas:


You are being more obvious and direct in your views recently. Less of a wife material.

No NL horseband for you. None of their brothers will marry you too.

Biglittlelois:
Acidosis, so people who arent married shouldn't be here? So family section is solely for married people? Says who? You?

Some people's line of thinking sha

pocohantas:


Why will they leave the thread? They reserve the right to comment on ANY thread, as long as they abide by the rules. Which of Buka’s supporters practice what they preach? People that are always on every thread, talking like parrots.

Be civil in arguments, that is all!!

ibkayee:

Lool I've never been 'wife material', where are they getting these awful ideas from? Maybe I need to talk more then

Acidosis:


Those who aren't married should at least be a product of marriage. If you're not a product of marriage, you're not married, and not aiming at getting married someday, you honestly shouldn't be on family section.

Biglittlelois:



He thinks he's important

pocohantas:


Exactly!! You don’t talk much, so it was kinda tricky fitting you in a subset.

ibkayee:

Lol that sounds like a you problem

Biglittlelois:



Funny thing is, they think they can control the mind and phone of commentors, the energy they use up to preach it must be really exhausting.

pocohantas:


Because she hasn’t been agreeing with you lately? I noticed that is the bane of every fancy tag on NL.

Biglittlelois:



Na they will not leave quietly, if anyone sees a thread as offensive and want to comment on it, they are free to do that. If the creator of the thread find the comment frustrating and filled with bashes, he/she can either report or comment on it, I believe the internet space is free for everyone to use or ignore as they see fit.

Acidosis:


Lmao Fancy tag ke?

Mynd44:

But you have thrown insults twice.

If/when you get banned, I will be evil, wicked and bias.

choice17:




Fine, she shared her opinion which some people benefited from, and some don't (like you)

As I stated earlier, she is entailed to her opinion, she is not forcing it on anyone. You don't like the way she write, let her be for people who likes the way she write. Why do you lot want her to conform to your ways of seeing or doing things