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Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by igbowoman: 8:35pm On May 14, 2020 |
One month relationship and you are already a maid being commanded up and down.Na wa o. Isn't this the time when the man should still be all over you wining and dining you? You are already pounding yam and cooking like say na mama put job dem put u with proposal of future cooking assignment for his mother. My dear this one na bad market 3rd grade okirika na im u buy Run away fast.This will get worse and 100X worse in marriage 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by drmikeadams(m): 9:45pm On May 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: U ve said it all,,make she dey blow englais there |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by drmikeadams(m): 9:46pm On May 14, 2020 |
dominique: Tell am 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by danilmo: 10:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
Hathor5: @vikky1425 here is a reasonable wife advising u. I laughed while reading ur post but ehn buy this quoted idea. E get Y. see we men can b funny at times. To me u should av completed what u started with Joy, in that scenerio of embarrassing u in front of his friend, next time look at his face eyeball to eyeball then go and do the walk. save him from disgracing himself while with his Friend. His Ego is needed. But please let him know u aren't cool with him embarrassing u in front of visitors and beg him not to do that again. He will tell u nothing much but tell him 'babe I'm sorry but don't just do that to me again'. he ll reason with u and b careful to try that next time. Beside, hope u av paying job and also the brainy (not rude) type??, he need to see reason why he should respect ur person. shallom 2 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by danilmo: 10:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
TheArchangel: Naso she see am o, so what's ur advice?? |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by emmyN(m): 10:32pm On May 14, 2020 |
Vikky1425: I'm convinced this story is fake and written just to instigate gender war. But to give you the benefit of the doubt, I wonder why you chose to come here to rant rather than discussing with mister boyfriend. You said he craved the benefit of a wife without acting like a husband. In what way has he not acted like one? Does he not provide? If he does alright, then take your role as the 'weaker vessel' and sit your sorry ass in the kitchen . He is your lord. |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 10:33pm On May 14, 2020 |
danilmo:I have told him I wasnt cool with it and then he said very soon he would bring his many friends to the house so i can cook for them all. I am not an unreasonable person. I really love my space because i am an introvert, going out of my way to do that means a lot to me. This is my second visit and I cooked the first time too. I agree I should have served them water, but would it be much of a big deal if he does only that one. He isn't trying to get to know me at all. It has been food and sex talk since day one. Do I have to base my respect for him on his kind of job too? |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by danilmo: 10:46pm On May 14, 2020 |
Vikky1425: Hmm. omoh, e b like say the guy no one gentle o. The best part of me is saying u should tell him u can't continue like this, tell him u are afraid of ur fate if ur early courtship days is like this. Something like an Irresponsible Man meet a responsible woman. So he doesn't know how to responsibly treat her. at least he should b doing everything possible to kpatakpata pretend to b a good nigga.. ur status is still reading someone's daughter and not someone's wife. hence likely to get worse wen una marry.. Aunty , I don't wish bad for a nigga cox I b Man too but I ll advise u run if u are young and not desperate for marriage. 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 14, 2020 |
igbowoman:[/quote] Thank you He smokes and drinks, he promised to stop. wants to bring his friends over so I can cook, because he likes people around him and he cannot buy food outside neither can he cook. I am just fed up. I'll call it quit. We are clearly not compatible. Toxicity is of different shades 3 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by femi4: 11:58pm On May 14, 2020 |
Vikky1425:set awon kitchen material |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 12:37am On May 15, 2020 |
My question is how did you end up with this guy? Seeing how you are just pointing out all his bad traits. What attracted you to this guy? I hope it's not money, because if it is, then I'll say carry your cross. This is someone you call your boyfriend yet you can't mention any good character. Maybe what you'll say is 'he takes care of my bills that's why I love him'. Back to your concern, many guys see food as something they can benefit from a lady in a relationship. It's something they look out for - a girl who can cook for them. So if cooking and giving him water is a problem, you'll have to find someone that is fine with sharing cooking duties. Is age no longer on your side cos you sound a bit desperate? Better wise up and know what you want and stick to it. |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by davillian(m): 1:04am On May 15, 2020 |
How you go give person food no water And washing hand.... Very soon You go serve rice without spoon..... What's my own I cook my food Wash my cloths Clean my house regardless if gf is present or not... I dont to hear you still dump me after I cooked, washed and clean for u.... 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by sholay2011(m): 1:13am On May 15, 2020 |
@OP... How do I say this....or let me present it in form of a question, ARE YOU STUPID? 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by foreveryoung1515(f): 1:45am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425:He's a big red flag, I pray you're able to go through with your threat. he's a bullet, Dodge it! |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by bellong: 2:11am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: There is no need for any talk. He has shown you in clear picture the content of his character. Your talk will not change his belief, disposition and views about the position of a woman in marriage. The options you have is either take a walk now or learn to live like a maid if and/or when you marry. You don't marry someone with the intention that he or she will change. That will be an injustice you do to yourself and unborn children. 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by DaddyRochie1642: 2:36am On May 15, 2020 |
I know you're probably in your 30's or mid 30's that's why you're trying bto force yourself to Endure and pretend that you're Wife Material, ... I Can Swear with my Balls if you were in your Early 20's or mid 20's, you would have dumped that Guy since you said the Relationship is barely one month according to you, So Why the Pretence??... If you cant be Feminine in the Presence Of Masculinity,..better go and Find another Weak Man out there, am sure alot of them are Sliding in your Dm Daily |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by igbowoman: 3:00am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: It even gets worse. He smokes and drinks.Dont mind him he wont stop.If his mother couldn't make him stop na you you go do am?. Will drink and beat the hell out of you,vomit and pee everywhere and want to have sex.Liver cirrhosis and lung cancer about to happen.You don't want to be a widow this young do you?. Please run away.The second hand smoking you are inhaling is bad enough.Give him back his keys inmediately if he gave you his keys I say run far far away.Run Vikky run |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 3:08am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: You are serving him your body and food just after one month? What respect do you seek seeing that you gave it away yourself? Gosh! What is wrong with you?! What's the incentive here? Don't you have men (Fathers, Brothers, Uncles) in your life that can advise you? My Sister, you can take my words to the bank; this guy will use and dump you. His friends already know the drill that's why there's no reason for him to lift you up nor cover your errors before them. You will come and go like the rest! If for some strange reason you end up with such a tactless and proud man, it will be a lifetime of misery. Pfft! 7 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by igbowoman: 3:12am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: That man only needs a cook.Isnt this obvious to you yet?.I hope you havent been dickmatized yet.You dont need a face to face break up with this one before he wounds you .If you have your bathroom slippers or clothing there just go and collect it discreetly,go back to your place and send him a short text ,no long grammar. " Hello Ofiafuluagu, this will not work out between us.It's been nice knowing you these 4 weeks.Take care and God bless". Sincerely, Vikky |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by HiFreda(f): 5:27am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: More cooking assignments. Apart from food, you will clean the house, go to the market, stock the fridge, do laundry and go lay on the bed to fulfil his sexual urges. He gets a maid and a sex partner almost for free. What does he bring to the table? 2 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 6:05am On May 15, 2020 |
sholay2011:I am not stupid. I am happy what happened yesterday happened, it's an eye opener. 2 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by LadySarah: 7:10am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425: Get ready to cook your whole life. So both guys can't cook to save their lives. My friend. Is that how much value you place on yourself? |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by greenmonk: 8:22am On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425:I don't know where we are getting all this rights mentality from. All over the world if you're playing host you do it properly. I don't know why we support incompetence in Nigeria. If you are serving anyone you provide him/her everything thing need. We are in Nigeria and the culture is that if you have a visitor to your house you serve him/her especially within the first two days no matter the relationship, even your daughter or son, unless the person volunteers to do the chores. I don't see what is a big deal in someone who cooked a meal in serving it properly. |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 8:36am On May 15, 2020 |
foreveryoung1515: Not all bullet you can dodge |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by sparog(m): 8:55am On May 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: You're the only person that has sense, all the other posters before you were just spitting shit Kudos to you 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Hathor5(f): 9:04am On May 15, 2020 |
sparog: Thank you. Some other people after me expressed similar views to mine though. 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by prettysassygirl(f): 10:01am On May 15, 2020 |
You better leave that your boyfriend because this is just the beginning. |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by sani90(m): 11:01am On May 15, 2020 |
Fake Account, Fake Story, Fake Post..... |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Jullima(f): 11:33am On May 15, 2020 |
greenmonk:lol but she was also a visitor. It wasn’t her house and she came from her own house to cook. Remember, this was also just a month old relationship and her second visit to the boyfriend’s house. There is nothing wrong in serving water with the food, in fact that is more appropriate but to berate her in front of people like a child is a big NO. One month relationship?? Anyways, people treat you the way you allow them to. 1 Like |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Raeheemwayne: 12:01pm On May 15, 2020 |
Vikky1425:... I think the issue here is - Understanding - You two don't understand each other lifestyle. He might have said that infront of his friends to showoff - yes - very common with guys; it's not pride, it's self-esteem. My cousin do same to his babe almost every time but she have never for once complained rather she'll smile and apologize. I can swear this two love eachother unconditional. Nevertheless, I think you should have a pillow chat with him about the issue if you don't like it, then watch how he'll react to it. NB: If you really value ya relationship with him. don't let this be an issue. Thanks. |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Jullima(f): 12:14pm On May 15, 2020 |
Raeheemwayne:It’s very shitty to gain your self-esteem at the expense of someone else’s humiliation. Your cousin’s babe is likely pretending to have no issues with it, what will she do? Talk back and create a scene? No human being will like to be berated in the presence of people. 3 Likes |
Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by Nobody: 12:33pm On May 15, 2020 |
As a correct guy. Lemme open up 2u. U ARE A SIDE CHICK |
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