₦airaland Forum

Ningen:
Introverts like myself snub ladies for no reason.

Brother! they won't understand

I really do hope I notice. I am not a very friendly person myself. I also need help.

I have neva snubbed a girl b4. Maybe its just me

Na God save you, you said opinion.


I for finish u

[color=#] 1170192[/color]

Lamanii22:
Not a valid reason...

FATimah spotted.

sometimes imagin weda na small children seun take dey do moderator. they push unnecessary things up front

That #6 is totally off. Do you even know the meaning of a psycho?

praiseneo:
I wan do give away
Advise me
Shey make u do card give away
Or money give away

20k

Boss abeg help me with 5k make i use buy clipper take start work,so that i can raise funds for myself.Thank u

pocohantas:
I really do hope I notice. I am not a very friendly person myself. I also need help.

i see u as a no nonsense type of person

[color=#] 1652336[/color]

Officialhow:
Last night, I was chatting with a lady on whatsapp, she was telling me about how she called her boyfriend and how she was snubbed by him. So in a bid to give her possible reasons why he could have snubbed her – I surprisingly came up with 10 reasons. So I decide to share it here on Nairaland.

Okay. Reasons why a guy could possibly snub a girl (supposed girlfriend☺️). Make sure you don’t miss no 5, 8 and 9.

1. You are not the only one on his radar
He has somebody else he really likes. He probably has somebody he is hitting on. In cases like this, he will always try as much as possible to keep you in case. All of a sudden, He may eventually come back being responsible, trust me, you are the 2nd choice and if 1st choice is available again, he mayn’t hesitate. I once saw a movie, a guy was really in love with Lady X, but lady X didn’t like him. He tried all he could, He bought gifts, tried hard – it didn’t work. He eventually dated another girl, Lady Y and still didn’t give up on Lady X because he genuinely liked her– Men-as-cum.

2. He is too busy
He is busy with something, probably his work (if he has one). This doesn't affirmatively mean he has another girl but some guys don't know how to handle work pressure with talking, calling and chatting a girl regularly. This happens to me at times, but I don't snub, I'll only make my feelings known and the concerned party understands. My work requires critical thinking and has a lot of deadlines. So most time I am always thinking about beating deadlines and coming up with accurate discussions for scientific papers for my clients and once I am done working – the lovie-dovie continues.

3. He needs your help
He's going through something at the moment but nevertheless, if a guy really likes a girl, he will never hesitate to speak to his girl on the issue. I believe relationship has to do with openness. If a partner does not feel secure around you – there is a fire on the mountain – He is probably not completely soluble in your love. Some hide under the “I don’t want to bother you” umbrella, if you can successfully get him to speak, you are good to go.

4. You have offended him.
You should probably retrace your steps back to when last you were both cool and apologize for any wrongs. But if this has always been like that, this leads to no 5.

5. He doesn't like you
Maybe you were the one that asked him out, if No, he doesn't like you again. Also, there are some cases where a guy will toast a girl for fun, like just to play around, it happens mostly on WhatsApp, some girls do say yes. In this case, the guy won't eject the girl easily – but the love is not there – some guys would want to just take advantage and then clean mouth. Something similar happened to me on this year's April fool's day, I asked a friend out, I really pressed her, I told her about how I had been keeping the feeling it to myself – she said, I was late that I should have told her earlier – she tried to pacify me cos she felt broken – maybe. I had to tell her later that night that it was April fool’s day, she pretended like it was cool - bottom line, she has blocked me ever since and we were very good friends� (If she had agreed and we continued, she might end up being snubbed by me from time-to-time because there is no genuine love)

6. He is a Psycho
He is probably a psycho - psychos are always confused and they don't know what they really want. One time, they just want to talk to you, chat with you or play with you, another time, he just flips.

7. Low self-esteem
He probably has low self-esteem. Some guys feel like they are no match to their girl. Some guys feel bad because they have not been a real man for their girl, probably financially.

8. He is incapable of love.
For some guys, Love is an unattainable height – some guys are WAR – some are FIGHT – some are INDABOSKY.

9. Maybe you stalk him too much.
You probably stalk him too much. Some girls actually stalk their guys too much. Some always want to call their guys almost every hour, chat with their guy every time possible. Some guys prefer to just chat with their girl at least just once per day and they are cool. This doesn’t mean the love they have for their girl is not real. A guy can actually be in premium contact with you regularly and still cheat on you exclusively perfectly.

10. He is not mentally fit
Some girls are drama queens – some guys don’t have what it takes to contain their outburst. Some girls are virulent in nature, so most guys can’t handle the virulence – with time, some develop resistance and do not get affected by the drama again while some just chicken out by breaking up or by not giving the attention that you deserve.

NB: These are just my opinions, if you have any contradicting opinion, you can post it in the comment section below. Also, which one do you agree with the most, let us know in the comment section below.

She demand money above yur income

Alexaonfleek:
If any guy snobs me,e no even dey pain me
More like,okay.

Next!!!!!

As e dey pain you, guys dey vex say na only pain e dey pain you.

oluwatosin070:
In my case, number 9 reason defines why I snub ladies..

I once dated a lady that wants to just call every seconds..
I had to quit when I got really uncomfortable.
Afterall, a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage

i thought dat shit is common with guys

jawalis:
11. IF SHE’S FAT OR DARK SKINNED

Does Skin Color Really Matter?

Remaboy:
Chai, this wan enter. No mind them bro, they sabi form mouth for online but they would be sweating in their puccy when a boy looks at them.
Aba feminist.

dis guy urh

Cregiank:
It is synonymous

I guess the word is "weird" then.

But weirdo is milder and more acceptable word compared to psycho.

Dominicane:
There is this kind of joy, I attain when I snob ladies for no reason. Bitter truth is that some days, I wakeup and decide to "SWITCH-ON", my snob button. A lot of ladies have complained about it, but me don't care.

A gal snobbed me online, I snob her in real life.
She's been underrating me on chats, but the day she saw me in person, mehn... She was dumbfounded and really tripping. Cos she never knew I was that cool.

But for my guys, its a no-no, cos we re all bros.
Never snob a fellow man, is the Guys code.

Its cool to do that for a lady once in a while

IbrahimSkiba:
Wtf? Sick motherfucker

How is he sick? His snubbing black girls is his own opinion. But fat? Why would I want to talk to a fat hippo.

Liposure:
i see u as a no nonsense type of person

Not really, but life is just too short for nonsense. If you have issues, don’t stress other people with it.

Lyydia:
Wow just 10.


Meanwhile, a lady could snub a guy for even breathing.

I'm not among o.

I actually snub anyone without knowing I'm actually doing that...

So much creativity and business going on in my head most times, that I actually forget I have fellow human beings around... This basically has nothing to do with all the Op is listing.

Still, some people (both genders) snub for the very reasons stated above, it's left for the "snubbed" to take a bloody hint... It's not by force to get attention na.

Officialhow:
Last night, I was chatting with a lady on whatsapp, she was telling me about how she called her boyfriend and how she was snubbed by him. So in a bid to give her possible reasons why he could have snubbed her – I surprisingly came up with 10 reasons. So I decide to share it here on Nairaland.

Okay. Reasons why a guy could possibly snub a girl (supposed girlfriend☺️). Make sure you don’t miss no 5, 8 and 9.

1. You are not the only one on his radar
He has somebody else he really likes. He probably has somebody he is hitting on. In cases like this, he will always try as much as possible to keep you in case. All of a sudden, He may eventually come back being responsible, trust me, you are the 2nd choice and if 1st choice is available again, he mayn’t hesitate. I once saw a movie, a guy was really in love with Lady X, but lady X didn’t like him. He tried all he could, He bought gifts, tried hard – it didn’t work. He eventually dated another girl, Lady Y and still didn’t give up on Lady X because he genuinely liked her– Men-as-cum.

2. He is too busy
He is busy with something, probably his work (if he has one). This doesn't affirmatively mean he has another girl but some guys don't know how to handle work pressure with talking, calling and chatting a girl regularly. This happens to me at times, but I don't snub, I'll only make my feelings known and the concerned party understands. My work requires critical thinking and has a lot of deadlines. So most time I am always thinking about beating deadlines and coming up with accurate discussions for scientific papers for my clients and once I am done working – the lovie-dovie continues.

3. He needs your help
He's going through something at the moment but nevertheless, if a guy really likes a girl, he will never hesitate to speak to his girl on the issue. I believe relationship has to do with openness. If a partner does not feel secure around you – there is a fire on the mountain – He is probably not completely soluble in your love. Some hide under the “I don’t want to bother you” umbrella, if you can successfully get him to speak, you are good to go.

4. You have offended him.
You should probably retrace your steps back to when last you were both cool and apologize for any wrongs. But if this has always been like that, this leads to no 5.

5. He doesn't like you
Maybe you were the one that asked him out, if No, he doesn't like you again. Also, there are some cases where a guy will toast a girl for fun, like just to play around, it happens mostly on WhatsApp, some girls do say yes. In this case, the guy won't eject the girl easily – but the love is not there – some guys would want to just take advantage and then clean mouth. Something similar happened to me on this year's April fool's day, I asked a friend out, I really pressed her, I told her about how I had been keeping the feeling it to myself – she said, I was late that I should have told her earlier – she tried to pacify me cos she felt broken – maybe. I had to tell her later that night that it was April fool’s day, she pretended like it was cool - bottom line, she has blocked me ever since and we were very good friends� (If she had agreed and we continued, she might end up being snubbed by me from time-to-time because there is no genuine love)

6. He is a Psycho
He is probably a psycho - psychos are always confused and they don't know what they really want. One time, they just want to talk to you, chat with you or play with you, another time, he just flips.

7. Low self-esteem
He probably has low self-esteem. Some guys feel like they are no match to their girl. Some guys feel bad because they have not been a real man for their girl, probably financially.

8. He is incapable of love.
For some guys, Love is an unattainable height – some guys are WAR – some are FIGHT – some are INDABOSKY.

9. Maybe you stalk him too much.
You probably stalk him too much. Some girls actually stalk their guys too much. Some always want to call their guys almost every hour, chat with their guy every time possible. Some guys prefer to just chat with their girl at least just once per day and they are cool. This doesn’t mean the love they have for their girl is not real. A guy can actually be in premium contact with you regularly and still cheat on you exclusively perfectly.

10. He is not mentally fit
Some girls are drama queens – some guys don’t have what it takes to contain their outburst. Some girls are virulent in nature, so most guys can’t handle the virulence – with time, some develop resistance and do not get affected by the drama again while some just chicken out by breaking up or by not giving the attention that you deserve.

NB: These are just my opinions, if you have any contradicting opinion, you can post it in the comment section below. Also, which one do you agree with the most, let us know in the comment section below.

You are right. But you can add , inability for the lady to initiate intellectually stimulating discussions.

I've ignored some really physically beautiful ladies when I discovered, I was stressing myself initiating good intelligent discussions. It's either she's tagging along slowly, or she's lost. No intelligent conversation initiated, no creativity, no insight, she hasn't thought of anything new to share in weeks, no ambition I can support, no positive Passion, no word of God in her mouth no nothing!!!!

Since I can't be discussing Davido, wizkid, olamide, tacha etc..

I had to cut the crap immediately and move on before someone reduced me to the level I've passed.

Farki:
I heard fat girls give the best head, please someone with experience should confirm.

You mean chubby girls, most if not all fat girls are lazy in bed.

If i am a girl, i would end up snubbing myself. To me, it is normal.

Shyness is the sole reason i ignore ladies but they wrongly assume that i'm arrogant.

I will later sit back and regret my un-intended actions.

9 always gets me snubbing you fast. I love my space a lot. And some girls fail to see this. Even if you tell them, they'll still not stop. What I do is just to keep ignoring you.

Hmmn, guys Sha.. you snub ladies for no just reason and you act like its cool, you don't imagine putting yourselves in their shoes, will you like to be snubbed as a human being, that shit pains tho.

Post for 16 olds written by a 16 year old.