Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Apination:

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

meobizy:
This is one boy’s opinion. We’re on Nairaland, anybody can fake an age here to spout anecdotes as fact. The least you should do is apologize to that individual you mocked back in the day.

deebrain:
Not really.

Most RESPONSIBLE women (note the capitalized) are looking for responsible men. A man driven with their respective goals. Practical goals. And are on it 24/7.

Most guys of today have ZERO goals. Save of course, their desire to be Marlians.

Evercurious:



Why are you guys just VISIONLESS? Are you expected to bring MONEY to the table or VISION? Come with vision and idea and money won't be an issue..

Risentouch:




I remember back in the days when I was 21years, I used to say I will be married latest at 28, but funny enough I will be 28 this December and not even a girlfriend to show for come talk of being financially stable to take care of one

Richardmary:


That one follow shaa.

But,

Lass lass many guys nogo marry.
Women pass men in number

Some people's future husbands don die for battle field while SARS don kill some.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

holatin:
you need to stop blaming the man, a lot of ladies this days ain't serious until it's too late, I ve a bro who lost his dream wife to a Yahoo guy, he changed after that. infact he become a fornicator after that, ladies of this days don't want to start from little, made men, big wedding and flashy livestyle is their motto. I had plans too but as women show me their colour even though I wasnt broke, she ran after something temporary from something permanent...now my own mind is void of love, feelings and marriage for now. ladies this days are scary...that stupid olamide song is an exact depiction of them. the only serious ladies this days are the after 30 cus them don roam the street don finally realised say nothing dey outside. but 20 to almost 28 or 29 still think life is rosy. the ladies should be the one to carry the blame most...a lot says no to prospective husband so shey make d guy cum use juju for am ni

lefulefu:
there"s always an old sugar daddy willing to make her a 10th wife if the young man isnt ready yet for marriage

MOnkeyBabe:
brother lefu. How many?

Kekereekun123:
some of them their parents married while squatting. What is wrong in marrying and building with a man

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

UndauntedYOCA:

Shouldn't ladies also make their own money?
Marriage is between two people who must work together to ensure things work out, they do so by working together in unity, reasoning together, helping each other, lifting each other, having each other's back. It's not the sole responsibility of a man to cater for his family, if a man is capable of contributing 60-70% then the wife should contributed the rest. Sometimes most men don't grow much because they're left with the burden of footing 90-100% of the bills in the home. Personally, I'd never support that men marry ladies who do not have ambitions, ladies who aren't working towards being financially independent and supportive, ladies who are selfish/stingy, call it whatever. If not for the fact that some men are blinded by ass and boobs, they wouldn't make the wrong choice of marrying alady who has the mentality that a man must foot all the bills, no be una fault, na una preek dey reason. Even if a man isn't financially bouyant, if he has a partner that believes in that two shall become one (that is, working to help the other etc) then he is good good to go, this doesn't suffice to say that women should shoulder all the responsibilities of the home, a woman is called to follow (not to be confused with objectified, while the man leads, the woman follows but not blindly, not like a slave), to help and to love. A faithful and supportive partner is pure bliss (not talking about the biscuit brand o, lol, forgive my very dry sense of humour). Scout and choose widely!

emmaodet:


Abi oooo, now all ladies are running away from struggling guys.
It is really a shame how we got here.
My parent married in one room face you i slap you.
Funny enough, the money they made on the wedding day is what they used to buy mattress to sleep that wedding night 1983.
But these present ladies??
Spit*

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Nooil:



Some men are not even willing to take any step. They are so comfortable eating mama thank you. Tufiakwa!

Richardmary:


That one follow shaa.

But,

Lass lass many guys nogo marry.
Women pass men in number

Some people's future husbands don die for battle field while SARS don kill some.

emmaodet:


Believe me, a lot of guys are trying their best. What else do you want them to do? Steal or push drugs?

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.