Bilabong:
If we can't marry them, there should marry us na...

Groom prize is allowed.

emmaodet:


Definitely No. I believe in "All hands on deck" policy.
Rub my back, i rub your back type of relationship.
I don't encourage laziness or idleness from any gender.

eni4real:
You are mixing it up..

Girls will always marry earlier than guys.
Just because you are not ready does not mean someone else is not ready!!

Girls usually don't have to be financially capable for marriage before they get wedded.

It is one of the gift of nature to them!!

You will continue to hustle until you feel ready for marriage responsibilities!!! But girls will get someone who is ready to take up as many financial responsibility to make a stable family!!

(Woe unto that woman that disrespect such a husband tho )

Money is deciding factor here ... If, as a guy, you are rich at 22, you may settle down sef

25tolife:
Why did people alway troll you, u must be popular here and alway looking for trouble. Lol

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

UndauntedYOCA:

Lol, no one bro. I just believe in fairness. While this cannot be imposed on anyone, this is my own perspective on how relationship/marriage should be like. I also have brothers and I know what it feels like to be drained by people who are solely dependent on you. If I be man, I no go wan marry woman wey no fit help me at all. I no go like liability at all biko.

Nooil:


But you see, the problem is the men are drawing things back. Although most women have taken the bulls by the horn and paid their own bride price. Tonto Dike did it.

Audiodonation:
I am married at the age of 29 as a Banker.

Nothing in my account.
Debt everywhere
No rented house
Was squatting with my friend
Yet my wife said she would marry me, as her name Grace will speak for me. (Na only once my woman don straf in her entire life).

One week into our agreement and commitment of been together forever....... I got a deal of 178,000 been my commission for a purchase of a car.... Na so I rent and moved into my own rented apartment. (I didn't mention that d guy who accommodated me gave me 3 days to leave with my wife), and my miracle happened with a space of a day and d second day I moved out.......

I am happily married, own 3 cars now, a 4bedroom bungalow in Lagos(Dopemu), a father of one and now an SBO in an old generation bank. .
(Started)Nov 2016 - April 2019(Achieved all).








All these stories are not to show off, but to let you know you can start from scratch; from somewhere......... Once you marry/see your own woman (Wife) you will know.......... No pastor, prophet or prayer needed.......



Just start from somewhere....

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

AlhajaChinyere:


Idiot, don't mess up the thread with your half baked political and economic knowledge. Aniofia!

Petyprincess:

Popular that i dnt know bt i know I'm kinda controversial

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

MOnkeyBabe:
then make the move to get married ontime so you don't have to shoulder the responsibilities of GiRlfriends. I won't say don't do nothing for her. But let it be ReaSOnaBle within limits. Ask how long they speculate getting to know you. Anyone that talks about spending over 3 years especially when you meet them on a freQuent BaSis,. FoRGet it. She's not there for marriage but something else like the bag I.e. money.
Same way if I meet a man and if he's talking about getting to know me for years, that serves as a REd flag that he isn't ready for maRRiaGe but just wants SeX.
For me, if I see someone for a few hours almost everyday for at least 6 months and I really like them, I won't hesitate in getting married. Once they are comfortable, smaRt and with future prospects , it's fine. I don't need a DanGOte.
I think Guys are to Blame too. They don't wife up on time. They'll be waiting for GiRls to BeG TO PUt a RinG on it. When the GiRl isn't even CRaZy about finances. Their esteem or ego won't let them.

TSBO:



Mehn.... Too much sense in one post..

Well done.

emmaodet:


You are right sis.
That is what i do tell most ladies on NL that the load on men is too much but they always try to shy away from responsibilities.
They want a workhorse, a donkey that needs to work to please a woman until he drops dead and they move to the next workhorse.
There was a thread created few days ago about a federal worker earning above 100k and his jobless wife complaining about living a struggling life and need to scale up.
Most ladies on that thread accused the man and told him to double his hustle. Haba, you wan kill man
Most ladies nowadays are Wicked and Unremorseful cheats on top sef

Nooil:


But you see, the problem is the men are drawing things back. Although most women have taken the bulls by the horn and paid their own bride price. Tonto Dike did it.

UndauntedYOCA:

Well, I didn't see the thread but do know that we all are different hence, we reason differently. Some ladies might see my comment and still tag it as eye service, lol. While a lot of ladies have this annoying entitlement mentality, there are many out there who earn their own money and are supportive, however, some of those ladies aren't even as valued as they ought to. They are not respected.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

madridsta007:


Only idiots know who idiots are.
I’m sure you agree with this basic truth.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

nkwuocha1:
True words!

I think and forsee many men getting married this year.This pendamic will push a lot of marriageable adults to quickly get married and begin to have children,evil if it's just one child.Too many death among youth this days especially 29-42 years.

Na Bleep up for guyman or guywoman to just die like that,no marry no pikin.So Wetin you come world come do?

Marry and leave something behind,no one knows tomorrow.

Liposure:
tonto neva paid her bride price. Stop spreading fake news

AlhajaChinyere:


This is why there is so much poverty and too many under nourished suffering children in the land.

A woman who doesn't have any skill or income is neither ready nor suitable for marriage. And if they marry, over time they get abused or ultimately divorced! You can see it abound in society.