Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to re-elect like 4 weeks.


Next time separate money from early days of relationships

I failed to separated... it's haunting me

stormborn28:
you are small boy. Things like this get me angry. First of all bank didn't ruined your relationship rather it is the lady Jezebel that wants to play a fast one on you. After all, bank statement proved it. See if you be my brother na slap you go just dey collect for seven days... That lady studied you like the way a program computer will analyze individuals entry a company. And she dealt with you

How is she a Jezebel for money she didn't receive or didn't you read the part where OP said his money was reversed?? Na wa o

queenitee:

No, you actually lack comprehension. I'm not generalizing and I never said all women have bad attitude and I never said the lady in the op's write up was wrong.
But then, I'm tired of you and your myopic understanding. So, enjoy the rest of your day.

The OP post has nothing to do with "women" but you found a way to drag that into the picture.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

This thing happens all the time. I experienced the same thing last week. A client sent me money and sent me a screenshot of the alert. After 2 days, the payment was reversed into his account

stormborn28:
but he confirmed that she received the money by the bank statement..





Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

Her name will be on the details of the transaction because that what was the man used in paying in. Until it reflects in the lady's account before transaction can be said to be successful....

OgogoroFreak:
The OP post has nothing to do with "women" but you found a way to drag that into the picture.

Because the lady is male? And besides, if I dragged "women" into the picture. It was never to bash women(I'm one). It was simply to say women can be right too. 'Cause when you commented, you made it seem like the lady went to request for a reversal after the op sent her the bank statement. And I'm simply saying it isn't the case and doesn't have to be the case because it is very possible the lady truly didn't receive the money.
But no, you are trying to prove a point I didn't make that "women are evil," I never said that.

I truly hope we end this now. As long as we both believe not all women have bad attitude and women can be right also, there's no need dragging this.

Agbagbaregoo:

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd

U see! that girl is wise, she just dodged a bullet, with this statement of urs u would have turned out to be a big problem in her life.

stormborn28:
you are small boy. Things like this get me angry. First of all bank didn't ruined your relationship rather it is the lady Jezebel that wants to play a fast one on you. After all, bank statement proved it. See if you be my brother na slap you go just dey collect for seven days... That lady studied you like the way a program computer will analyze individuals entry a company. And she dealt with you

U send SMS, ur phone tell u sent, network charge u 4naira but after 3days the message bounce back delivery failed. You come dey blame d recipient for wetim Im Neva see. U head get nyash?

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

nah access bank

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If you move on at the slightest misunderstanding, na you go move tire.[/quote]
I just learned something from this.

Ugochukwu okwa-ifugo nanwanyi bu ajor-ife iyoko iyoko. E Chimle uwatile ifenuwa makama

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Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

My guy our banking system in this country is gab. I had a similar experience sometime in 2018, i went to my brother's in Abuja to spend my short leave. While i was there bros wife tax me and i oblige her. I transferred the money on Friday morning and was debited immediately, i showed her the debit alert and went my way, went clubbing with guys while there she kept saying she has not seen the money, i told her to calm that she will get it. By 8am on Monday morning i got a reversal.

jmichael259:

U send SMS, ur phone tell u sent, network charge u 4naira but after 3days the message bounce back delivery failed. You come dey blame d recipient for wetim Im Neva see. U head get nyash?

did you not read where OP said the bank statement shows the lady received the money. You get blocus the nack mouth?

MrBrownJay1:


stop trying to impress good for nothing ungrateful women with money... count your blessing you got your money back., and just send her what you owe her, nothing more then forget/block the animal.

You are the human in animal! Do you want her to just accept him back just like that? After he claimed to love her yet he wasn't able to confirmed has she really gotten the money, You think you can get all ladies with money?

afribabe:
How is she a Jezebel for money she didn't receive or didn't you read the part where OP said his money was reversed?? Na wa o

did you read where OP said the bank statement shows that the lady received the money?

I know it access bank..... They want to ruin my business too. But God pass dem

The police harassment got her piss,it's ur fault forget those nigga telling u trash...But i'll not blame u is just that trust issue is a big setback in our society and i understand ur reaction.

Give her enof space like a month,by then she will be calm and explain ur reason for ghosting her and apologise about the police interrogation.I believe she will reason u.

No forget Update us..it is well.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

well, maybe the relationship ain't ruined yet.

it'll be good if you work on your "hasty decision making", especially when it's without certain justification.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

The bank must be one bank that I know, I won't mention name...if the issue is not eventually resolved, know it that your coming together will be characterised by lots off downs.

stormborn28:
did you not read where OP said the bank statement shows the lady received the money. You get blocus the nack mouth?

U r so illiterate! So how did it get reversed? If money enter account it can only be frozen not reversed. Everything u do with ur account will immediately show on ur statement. it only confirms that you have sent it. It is the recipient bank statement that can confirm if it arrived. INTERSWITCH DEY HANG AND BOUNCE TRANSFER ANYHOW!

GET SENSE!!!

jmichael259:

If she received the money how did the bank reverse it?
A bank transfer reverse is like bounced check it did not pay the recipient.

If bank statement shows that money has been sent to a receiver, then the deal is sealed.... Reason why I blamed the lady for denying

OP is a pvssy dude 1. He said statement shows she received the money and towards the tail end of his statement that the money was reversed
2. With the buhaha on ground, OP is still try to still force a relation

stormborn28:
did you read where OP said the bank statement shows that the lady received the money?

U have no idea what a bank statement is nor how it works

Tillatalk:
maybe that's how they treat your sisters

stieyven:

He who calls another a fool shall be in danger of hell. Matthew 5 :22
Remember that she was created in God's image and likeness. Genesis 1 :27

folu4real:
You are calling a human being you can't create Animal. I notice majority of nairaland commentators are very abusive.

Ladycewhy:
who hurt you? Oga carry your furstration commot for this thread jor,see as you dey spit for everywhere like a rabid dog .

maasoap:
Op is wrong. If you have problems with women in your life, this is not perfect thread to vent your anger

all you DONKEYS!!!! when i call men animals, i dont see you deluded people coming to complain, do you?! you better be quiet you %&$·¿*.

here below is some of the many times that i am calling men ANIMAL, and you fools had no problems with it... you bloody hypocrites!!!

MrBrownJay1:
thats because you A) aint desperate for marriage and B) you have respect for your own damn self enough to not want to be with a deceitful/untrustworthy/unfaithful/disrespectful animal... sadly, many women out there aint got that luxury, and to them marriage is a do or die issue, and they would stay married to that animal, even if they catch him sleeping with their own father in some homo nonsense.

MrBrownJay1:
THOU SHALL NOT DATE/MARRY DEMONS... and if you foolishly do, dont tempt that evil animal.
sadly, these are the signs that wifey's life may be in danger, but helas, that woman would stay married to this demon, until she finally ends up as a broken miserable submissive slave OR dead.

MrBrownJay1:
NONSENSE!!!!!
if the husband has a problem with the way his wife looks, then he can divorce her and go be with whoever he desires, instead of cheating.

sadly, the deluded wife went to attack the mistress while the main problem here is the deluded/disrespectful/deceitful/unfaithful animal she calls her husband

MrBrownJay1:
the only way to be happy is to get rid of NEGATIVE/POISONOUS people from your life, as only a dumb fool would have NO expectation from the man she married. if women should have NO expectations from their husbands then why should they marry that donkey then? whether the next one will be better or worst is completely IRRELEVANT. that man is useless and this lady should gt rid of that animal... and should try her best to find a man who will treat her with RESPECT.... a TRUSTWORTHY/FAITHFUL man. only a very insecure low self esteem person would stay with such useless man.

Sue the Bank and make some cool money from them by the time you are through with the bank they will go on their own volition to beg the girl to continue the relationship with you.

jmichael259:

U r so illiterate! So how did it get reversed? If money enter account it can only be frozen not reversed. Everything u do with ur account will immediately show on ur statement. it only confirms that you have sent it. It is the recipient bank statement that can confirm if it arrived. INTERSWITCH DEY HANG AND BOUNCE TRANSFER ANYHOW!

GET SENSE!!!

you a caveman devoid after letters.. Did you not read where OP said the bank statement shows the lady received the money?
It is what OP brought forward I'm looking at.. You need education





Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

ledaman:
You are the human in animal! Do you want her to just accept him back just like that? After he claimed to love her yet he wasn't able to confirmed has she really gotten the money, You think you can get all ladies with money?

accept him back?! that babe is a waste of time, the brotha is the one who should forget this ungrateful woman and move on.

MPESA:


Abeg stop for now not necessary say you go give advice...... She was accused wrongly because from every indication she never received any money..... So why blaming the Innocent girl for goodness sake just to form hard man ......

Mstick:
How was she trying to play tricks on him when the BANK REVERSED THE MONEY?
Don't you know the meaning of that?! When a bank reverses the money back to the sender that means the person it was sent to didn't receive it due to transaction failure.

So in this case how's she ungrateful?was she supposed to cheer him on when he involved a police man or she's supposed to kiss his feet when she was telling the truth all along.

money that was reversed after the police came for a visit, you call that bank reversal?! ok CUNT E NEW!!!!

jmichael259:


U have no idea what a bank statement is nor how it works

teach me because I don't make use of banks.. This problem OP had is not new to me. Nonsense everywhere

sisisioge:


Oga biko modify your post. This isn't right.

Done sweet.

Agbagbaregoo:

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd

I think Aunty made the right choice to avoiding a drama king like you, you sent someone money she said she didn't see it, instead of you to exercise little patience, you stylishly involved the police to question her, it definitely means she has a criminal motive in mind, and here you are saying "she dey mad" while na you de mad self.... Don't think everyone will chest this scenario even though it's beneficial to them... It's called "Personality"

Mistakes do happen, if she can't accept your apology, then let her be.

grossintel:
This is a very simple issue over blowen by you. Haba! It's the bank we are talking about here. When my relationship was in the baby stage we had something similar, the money hanged for almost a week and got reversed the following week. I just kept telling her not to worry, *you even gave her number to a police officer for questioning? That babe should run for her life*.

Wallahi!

You too was very immature in your reaction, send her message explain why you reacted that way with apology