Send it to your mother, if it is must that a woman must benefit from the money.

stormborn28:
it is like you cannot read and digest a statement... Again this is what OP brought forward .I expected the lady to counter OP with her bank statement.. This is not new to me... Someone once sent money and claimed that she had sent it... Yes the money came in but was immediately
withdrawn again. I have to visit ATM to confirm yet, it was my former balance... For days, the sender and I kept arguing.. So I took it upon myself and visited my bank and got the printed statement of my account. I was about sending it to this very person before she agreed that the money was reversed.. And blamed her bank.. My point is, the lady should have acted



Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

Relax, why you so hyper bruh? The money could "hang" somewhere and not touch the receiver's account before being reversed. Also, like the person you're replying stated, the statement does not say whether the receiver got the money or not. What the statement tells you is whether it was sent successfully. The mature thing to do, was to get the girls statement, which would show whether the money dropped into her account. It's simple logic. If the lady was given the opportunity to "act", she would have... Probably, she had even confirmed from her own bank or even printed her own statement and was calling to give feedback. But did your guy pick her calls?
Learn not to be hasty in decision making. Also, learn emotional intelligence.

if you got money sue the bank for the damages, this is a good case

Brother, my candid advice for you is that , let everything go if the bank reverse the money back to you. I find myself in similar situations. I girl I gave money to around 2014 to pickup a business never give me feedback till today.

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She is not stupid anything. She is hurt and perhaps seen it that this guy seemed to care more about money than her. For one, we dont know if the said 'policeman' at the bank contacted her, harassed and embarrassed her. That part is missing. Secondly, did you read where Op himself said he was not picking her calls because he felt she was up to something? He IGNORED her then and here she is, pained and you feel that is stupidity? It's not pls. Like you advised, he should give her time and reach her through proxies. You never can tell, she may soften. Next time, we should lean to give people benefit of doubt.

JoseRaji:


Relax, why you so hyper bruh? The money could "hang" somewhere and not touch the receiver's account before being reversed. Also, like the person you're replying stated, the statement does not say whether the receiver got the money or not. What the statement tells you is whether it was sent successfully. The mature thing to do, was to get the girls statement, which would show whether the money dropped into her account. It's simple logic. If the lady was given the opportunity to "act", she would have... Probably, she had even confirmed from her own bank or even printed her own statement and was calling to give feedback. But did your guy pick her calls?
Learn not to be hasty in decision making. Also, learn emotional intelligence.

Look at what you wrote and look at my statement you quoted. Especially the tail end. What is the difference?




it is like you cannot read and digest a statement... Again this is what OP brought forward .I expected the lady to counter OP with her bank statement.. This is not new to me... Someone once sent money and claimed that she had sent it... Yes the money came in but was immediately
withdrawn again. I have to visit ATM to confirm yet, it was my former balance... For days, the sender and I kept arguing.. So I took it upon myself and visited my bank and got the printed statement of my account. I was about sending it to this very person before she agreed that the money was reversed.. And blamed her bank.. My point is, the lady should have acted

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

First of all, give the lady the money.
It still belongs to her.
That's all you need to do.
You can explain to her later.
But give her the money first

Alexaonfleek:
my dear,you didn't read the first two parts of this thread.
Someone I quoted was still calling the girl an animal.

No be nairaland guys again
Even the op sef join dem dey bash the poor girl

I followed you, follow me back

CAN'T TELL WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE RECENT BANKING SYSTEM.
HAD SIMILAR ISSUE TWO WEEKS AGO, THEY REVERSED THE MONEY LAST WEEK BUT I GOT AN INCOMPLETE ACCOUNT BALANCE. I HAVE WRITTEN TO THEM WHEN EVIDENCE AND THEY ARE YET TO SAY ANYTHING. BY TOMORROW, WE GO ENTER ANOTHER LOCKDOWN FOR PH AND I'LL HAVE TO WAIT TILL AFTER THAT TO GO AND MAKE PHYSICAL COMPLAINTS.
I TIRE FOR OUR NAIJA BANKS.

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

ITS HELL TO END UP WITH NEGATIVE AND SUSPICIOUS MEN LIKE YOU

WHY WONT YOU JUST TRUST HER, COS U GAVE HER CHICKEN CHANGE

WOMEN ARE REALLY SUFFERING

IF U CAN HANDLE THIS SMALL TEST OF TRUST LIKE THIS,

HOW WILL U HANDLE WHEN SOMEONE COOK UP A CHEATING CONVERSATION AGAINST HER


PLSSS ALLOW HER LIVE HER LIFE IN PEACE..

LOOK FOR NON TRUSTWORTHY LADIES , SO THAT WHEN U ACCUSE THEM, THEY WONT FEEL BAD!!!!

Agbagbaregoo:

You are right sha

No, he Is not right, this is how men with ego die lonely.

it is not the bank or money that ruined the relationship, it is your attitude. I've seen the type of post you agree with and I know why.

you have been listening to all these lonely ass NL boys

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xendra:
No, he Is not right, this is how men with ego die lonely.

it is not the bank or money that ruined the relationship, it is your attitude. I've seen the type of post you agree with and I know why.

you have been listening to all these lonely ass NL boys

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Cityguy:

She is not stupid anything. She is hurt and perhaps seen it that this guy seemed to care more about money than her. For one, we dont know if the said 'policeman' at the bank contacted her, harassed and embarrassed her. That part is missing. Secondly, did you read where Op himself said he was not picking her calls because he felt she was up to something? He IGNORED her then and here she is, pained and you feel that is stupidity? It's not pls. Like you advised, he should give her time and reach her through proxies. You never can tell, she may soften. Next time, we should lean to give people benefit of doubt.

True

lereinter:


Too harsh

Its a simple question....

In pidgin "na who born you"

MrBrownJay1:


get your head out of your nyansh... the woman in this story is an ungrateful animal who was trying to play tricks on the dude... there are millions of great women out there but if you have a problem with me calling a spade A SPADE then maybe you are one of these ungrateful women.

The guy did business with her and paid her and she didn't get the money and kept on telling the guy who got his statement and ignored her thinking she was trying to cheat him and later the money came back to him....

How did she trick him and how was she ungrateful...

Please enlighten me.... I want to learn...

Chommybaby:


Its a simple question....

In pidgin "na who born you"

Someone will ask you such too

Hope you will answer

Chommybaby:
The guy did business with her and paid her and she didn't get the money and kept on telling the guy who got his statement and ignored her thinking she was trying to cheat him and later the money came back to him....

i have already replied countless of times to the above... here it is again below:

MrBrownJay1:
money that was reversed after the police came for a visit, you call that bank reversal?! ok CUNT E NEW!!!!

How did she trick him and how was she ungrateful... Please enlighten me.... I want to learn...

by all means, let me enlighten you: a man is patronizing your biz and is even trying to dash you a lil bit more money (for god knows why), so even if the money lasts 15yrs before it enters your account (since the dude already sent her his bank statement), that babe should thank this dude for even patronizing her and spending his cash on her biz.
now, police is involved and she dey do shakara...if she really didnt receive the money, then when police was involved to trace the "supposedly" missing funds, then she shouldnt have any problem to show the police that she didnt receive the money, and the case would be easily fixed.... but instead, she now is upset and ALLELUJAH, money now finally reappears....from that ungrateful ANIMAL!

lereinter:


Someone will ask you such too

Hope you will answer

A man and woman obviously had sex for me to come into existence...
So a [b][/b]woman gave birth to me

MrBrownJay1:


i have already replied countless of times to the above... here it is again below:





by all means, let me enlighten you: a man is patronizing your biz and is even trying to dash you a lil bit more money (for god knows why), so even if the money lasts 15yrs before it enters your account (since the dude already sent her his bank statement), that babe should thank this dude for even patronizing her and spending his cash on her biz.
now, police is involved and she dey do shakara...if she really didnt receive the money, then when police was involved to trace the "supposedly" missing funds, then she shouldnt have any problem to show the police that she didnt receive the money, and the case would be easily fixed.... but instead, she now is upset and ALLELUJAH, money now finally reappears....from that ungrateful ANIMAL!

Sweetheart can you go back and read the story again...

Cos I'm pretty sure that there were no police involved or is there

Chommybaby:
Sweetheart can you go back and read the story again...

Cos I'm pretty sure that there were no police involved or is there

Chommybaby:
I don't want to call you out here... Cos I believe that you are bigger than that .
So please re read the story cos I went through twice and can't see police anywhere...
I can copy and paste for you to be sure

..and here i am wasting time replying to you while you didnt even read the bloody story and have absolutely NO CLUE what you are talking about...

here, from the horse's mouth:

Agbagbaregoo:
A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her.

Agbagbaregoo:
No at all. I saw their chats. He asked politely

MrBrownJay1:


and here i am wasting time replying to you while you didnt even read the bloody story...

I don't want to call you out here... Cos I believe that you are bigger than that .

So please re read the story cos I went through twice and can't see police anywhere...

I can copy and paste for you to be sure

MrBrownJay1:


..and here i am wasting time replying to you while you didnt even read the bloody story and have absolutely NO CLUE what you are talking about...

here, from the horse's mouth:

And the he also told the police man not to bother as he can settle the issue... So they were never involved...

You just assumed the worst in people... Just as you calling me ungrateful and a hypocrite even when I did nothing to you or even insult you....

SMH....

Chommybaby:


And the he also told the police man not to bother as he can settle the issue... So they were never involved...

You just assumed the worst in people... Just as you calling me ungrateful and a hypocrite even when I did nothing to you or even insult you....

SMH....

are you blind or just want to write any rubbish to try to make a point?! the dude clearly wrote that he saw the chat between police and the babe and that the police asked politely. duh!

i never called you ungrateful (unless you are the woman of this thread BWAAAAAAAAH.... but i did call you a bloody hypocrite YES! you are quick to attack me for calling a woman an ungrateful animal but when i call men ungrateful and/or animal, i never see you complain.

MrBrownJay1:


are you blind or just want to write any rubbish to try to make a point?! the dude clearly wrote that he saw the chat between police and the babe and that the police asked politely. duh!

i never called you ungrateful (unless you are the woman of this thread BWAAAAAAAAH.... but i did call you a bloody hypocrite YES! you are quick to attack me for calling a woman an ungrateful animal but when i call men ungrateful and/or animal, i never see you complain.

Loool, comprehension is a big issue for some nairalanders.

stormborn28:


Look at what you wrote and look at my statement you quoted. Especially the tail end. What is the difference?

it is like you cannot read and digest a statement... Again this is what OP brought forward .I expected the lady to counter OP with her bank statement.. This is not new to me... Someone once sent money and claimed that she had sent it... Yes the money came in but was immediately
withdrawn again. I have to visit ATM to confirm yet, it was my former balance... For days, the sender and I kept arguing.. So I took it upon myself and visited my bank and got the printed statement of my account. I was about sending it to this very person before she agreed that the money was reversed.. And blamed her bank.. My point is, the lady should have acted

Read to understand, not just to reply and sound savage... The point every other reasonable person is making, is that the OP didn't give the girl a chance to to communicate. And the differe ce between your statement and mine is that I explained why it was impossible for the OP's bank to know if the girl had gotten the money.

I'm done with you. Ciao.

JoseRaji:

Read to understand, not just to reply and sound savage... The point every other reasonable person is making, is that the OP didn't give the girl a chance to to communicate. And the differe ce between your statement and mine is that I explained why it was impossible for the OP's bank to know if the girl had gotten the money.

I'm done with you. Ciao.

you are naive and lack understanding... So how did OP know that the lady has not received the money if he didn't reach out to her which prompted him to visit his bank. Just take a look at your statement "OP didn't give her chance to communicate " how did OP know she has not received the money I ask again. If that lady had countered OP with her bank statement, OP would remain mute.. You lack understanding

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Wow. I think this is the new thing they do. I had a similar experience. However, the money was for logistics. Then she started ignoring my replies. My client was waiting with nothing to show.
She then uploaded how she was dancing on her status. A lady I literally have nothing personal with. For everything, they'll ask for tfare, this and that. Usually, I pay once things are delivered. I decided to be gentle once in a long time and I learned.

She wouldn't pick, reply, etc. I then went and followed all her family members online.
I sent her a message asking her if she thinks she as successfully scammed me. Then she replied with "as in."

It has even become difficult to transact common business with typical Nigerian girls anymore. Even when you have nothing personal going on with them.

But op, if you have personal interest in someone, I don't think you should buy their interest with money. I'm glad you got your money sha. That's discipline. Their kind would come and start calling you broke because you retrieved your money.

Please tell me the process... And how long it took.

Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to reflect like 4 weeks.


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