I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

Are you Igbo?

The guy is too innocent and he means well for you,"am sorry"is all you need to get back on track.


Na my "choir master" for church na wetin make Grace carry bele for John so therefore, be careful.

Na your husband..if you miss him this third time you won't get him again....

I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.



Qualities of an imo girl
Fall in love with them at your house rent's peril

Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

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Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

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Ofemmanu1:
Are you Igbo?

Just read this your response again and tell me why you should be regarded as a fully-functional human being capable of independent and coherent thoughts and judgment.

Pray first....

Hmmmmm

OP from the way you're describing this guy there's every probability of him being a masochist.

I won't say more than that.

nawa

s

Dicktion:
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.



Qualities of an imo girl
Fall in love with them at your house rent's peril

which one is imo. Didn’t you see her Monica or you just choose to be blind ni?

Tribalistic bigot.

It will end in premium tears.

Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

Just be going

Leave him alone

Its obvious you dont like him.

DanseMacabre:




Just read this your response again and tell me why you should be regarded as a fully-functional human being capable of independent and coherent thoughts and judgment.

Talk, talk, talk: the utter and heartbreaking stupidity of words.
Any fool can make a a sentence and any fool will mind it.

Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

That's how u girls miss out on good guys, someone who stood by u , u dated two guys ,he was still there and u still wasting time! Abi ?? Continue. You are feeling guilty. Did he complain

Ehinjuola:


All this below 25 ladies enh.

All these time wasters sef

Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

Carnally, I'd advise you flee for your life.

Spiritually, I'd advise you to pray about it. Tell your pastor uncle to pray for you as well before dismissing this guy finally.

Good luck

Ofemmanu1:

Talk, talk, talk: the utter and heartbreaking stupidity of words.
Any fool can make a a sentence and any fool will mind it.

Tell me something: are you by any means a Yoruba Moslem

DanseMacabre:

Tell me something: are you by any means a Yoruba Moslem

No I'm not.

The guy try ooo..lady if you like miss this opportunity na you sabi

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At 23, your relationship histories don full ground like this? who knows the actual numbers sef?? chai I give up o!

please give up the guy abeg! he doesn't deserve you, no offence oo! conscience won't let you personally rest.

Unless you're ready to come out in and out o, as in tell him everything including your sexual life, so if he's comfortable you're good to go! Buh if u fail to tell him this, you're even jilting and cheating him d more and remember karma oo...

[quote author=Tomilola421 post=89977433]


At 23, your relationship histories don full ground like this? who knows the actual numbers sef?? chai I give up o!

please give up the guy abeg! u don't deserve d guy, no offence oo! conscience won't let you personally rest.

Unless you're ready to come out in and out o, as in tell him everything including your sexual life, so if he's comfortable you're good to go! Buh if u fail to tell him this, you're even jilting and cheating him d more and remember karma oo...

guys always remember, being too nice to women is bad..... Women prefare bad boys to love

Have you ever thought about your new life being a result of his prayers for you? If he really did pray for you, then that prayer was from the depth of his heart. That guy really loves you, Tomilola421. I can't tell you to date him, as it's entirely your decision to make, but you need to really take this serious. You need to really think and pray about it from the depth of your heart, like he prayed for your salvation.

ahnie:
It will end in premium tears.

babe pulease

Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

If you don't love him then don't lead him. I wont say more than this.

I didn't read, but all I can say is: I pity nice guys.

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Imagine your tasteless description of him: "my so called friend." It tells a lot the kind of person you are. If I were you, l will let the young man go, because he has been keeping tabs of your sexual activities and don't expect him to ever forget it because he isn't a super man.

If you ask me personally, l will say you don't deserve him. So, go look for your type and let your purported repentance be genuine.

If you don't like him for relationship it's fine. Never date out of sentiments. Life is too short to be married and unhappy.

Sometimes, people love us but we don't love them back and it's ok. We can't love everyone.