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Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Uniquekriss(m): 5:28pm On May 26, 2020 |
Dear Nairalanders, i want to get your views on this issue, I'm into a relationship with this babe which started about 13months ago, we actually met on FB though we are from same place. It has been a no sex affair cos she said she's a virgin. I love her so much cos of certain qualities and d most important is that she's humble, calm and doesn't nag, i love the fact that she hardly gets angry cos I'm a bit tempramental and shes always ready to say sorry, she's not arrogant cos thats what ended my previous relationship buh the issue here is that this girl according to her hasn't been in a committed relationship before and cos of that i feel that she doesnt care enough, I've made my intentions of marrying her known to her and have also introduced her to my mom and younger siblings, she takes almost everything lightly, she's boring during a conversation and makes u feel like u are disturbing her when u call. She claims to love me alot and can't let me slip of her finger buh her attitude doesnt show it, she has certain characteristics i don't fancy such as always updating her male friends pictures on certain ocassions(though she's stopped that cos i complained) she used to have a male bestie(though she claims she has reduced d level of communication since i wasnt comfortable with d idea), d annoying part was when i saw a guy's number saved as "mine" with some emojis, when i comfronted her, she claimed d number has been like that even before we met and that d guy is a very close friend to her family, that caused some issues and she edited it, just recently i noticed that she also saved a guy's number as "gumdrop" this is a guy who is her neighbour in the compound where she lives with her sister, when i asked, she said it has been that way b4 we met and that d previous guy she dated never saw anything in that probably thats y she felt i won't mind even after the first issue we had o. Recently, she visited me and decided to cut her hair, i took her to a very good saloon, that same evening i noticed she sent pictures of her new look to this same gumdrop of a guy. Could it be she's into another affair, could it be she's not showing so much sign of committment cos we've not had sex or its just her kind of person. I'm dis kinda guy that loves attention and she's d type that is so reserved. Just few days ago i told her i wanna quit and she cried, asking me to give her time to work on herself and that she always thanked God that she met me, when i told her I'm not feeling romance that i feel like she's into d relationship to use me to learn relationship matters or to fulfil all righteousness she felt bad, i told her i wanna go into another affair and she said if that would make me happy i should go ahead so we get some space to work on ourselves buh that she doesnt wanna lose me. Please i need your candid opinion on this. She's 25 I'll be 31 next month |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Davash222(m): 5:28pm On May 26, 2020 |
Sorry to ask bro, this no sex affair you people have been doing for 13 months now, is she a virgin If she's not, discard her immediately. How can your non virgin girlfriend deprive you of kpekus for over a year and still claim she loves you?? She's wicked, self centered, and inconsiderate! 5 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by DamnnNiggarr: 5:31pm On May 26, 2020 |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Ginaz(f): 5:31pm On May 26, 2020 |
Just quit let’s all have peace of mind . 3 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Uniquekriss(m): 5:36pm On May 26, 2020 |
Ginaz:is that what u think as best, i hate to jump from one affair to another so quickly. Sorry to bother u |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by makydebbie(f): 5:36pm On May 26, 2020 |
Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Daroldigits: 5:37pm On May 26, 2020 |
Bro, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Daroldigits: 5:37pm On May 26, 2020 |
So you can't do without "SEX" ? makydebbie: 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 26, 2020 |
You'll drink sniper very soon because of a lady that doesn't know where she belongs to. You are lucky you are not here. I go land you two better slap, las las I go beat the nonsense love comot your body. Nonsense and Buhari 9 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by TUANKU(m): 5:39pm On May 26, 2020 |
She's no virgin and that bestie is her fvck buddy. You're being manipulated simple. A woman would deny, cry, faint and still be lying. Not all women though but majority are so. 7 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Uniquekriss(m): 5:41pm On May 26, 2020 |
Carchoice:lol, no too vex bro |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by MJBOLT: 5:41pm On May 26, 2020 |
you are dating yourself
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Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Ishilove: 5:44pm On May 26, 2020 |
Should we tell him? 7 Likes
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Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by MJBOLT: 5:44pm On May 26, 2020 |
Carchoice: 2 Likes
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Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Twoclans(f): 5:45pm On May 26, 2020 |
My worry is not the NO sex relationship , I have something else to draw your attention to.That your concept that she does not nag.hmmmmmm. By the time you people get sexually involved and the sex is not worth it or below expectation my brother she will nag.So please keep that she does not nag aside first. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Twoclans(f): 5:46pm On May 26, 2020 |
Ishilove: Nooooooooooooooooooooo 4 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by illicit(m): 5:48pm On May 26, 2020 |
pls what is gumdrop? |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Nobody: 5:50pm On May 26, 2020 |
Uniquekriss:https://www.nairaland.com/5880449/see-reason-why-several-heart#89929714 |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by ibkayee(f): 5:50pm On May 26, 2020 |
makydebbie:Virgin huntsmen are coming for you o 1 Like
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Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Foodqueen(f): 5:51pm On May 26, 2020 |
Am sorry that I av to tell u this "you're in a game" 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by andrewtosin(m): 5:51pm On May 26, 2020 |
It's the best makydebbie: 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by themaestro08(m): 5:52pm On May 26, 2020 |
The hand written is boldly written on the wall. Use your head else it will end in "high quality made in Germany tears" 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by clevybrown(m): 5:53pm On May 26, 2020 |
Are u really sure she is a virgin? Answer this question and get my advice. |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Ishilove: 5:56pm On May 26, 2020 |
Twoclans:Hokay |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Aladdin1(m): 5:56pm On May 26, 2020 |
Am sure you give her money.shes may be using you for the money.dats how some of these under 25 girls are.i dont think shes a virgin and i believe strongly dat those her guys are her sex mates.but if you love her i think you should marry her and get her pregnant.that should bring some sense into her head and make her mellow down.i think she would make a good wife.but you should love her and be strict with her too otherwise not only you go dey enjoy her body.those naive girls are sometimes like that.they love penis like its sugarcane. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by SweetCunt97(f): 6:00pm On May 26, 2020 |
It's her personality, some people are like that doesn't mean she's playing games. |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by andrewtosin(m): 6:00pm On May 26, 2020 |
That's the best. Discipline Davash222: 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Naija246: 6:01pm On May 26, 2020 |
First of all, I wanna let you know that girl is NOT a Virgin. She is treating you this way because she feels her sexual market place value is higher than yours. Also, I Sense she is not really a good person because if she was, she won't post other guys pictures to torment you. Girls like that are best used as cum rags. My advice to you is this, ignore her for now and focus on your life. She is obviously drenched in the attention you are giving her so it's of no value to her. I'd also advise you to learn "game" it will prevent you from making alot of mistakes we men make by default when wooing women. Search for Coach red pill on YouTube and start from there, that man opened my eyes to alot of thing's about women; he is like the father I never had. Another good resource is Rollo Tomasi's book "the rational male" it's available on the internet for free....download and read it. |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by Lastmankc(m): 6:02pm On May 26, 2020 |
Some guys are fool. Me that can't date a woman for a week without fu*cking her pussy. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by ajailer(m): 6:03pm On May 26, 2020 |
bro u better man up and let her go. there are lots of fishes in the ocean, even bigger and better ones. |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by makydebbie(f): 6:18pm On May 26, 2020 |
ibkayee:They're already in my mentions. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In A Relationship Or A Game? Confused! by chatinent: 7:30pm On May 26, 2020 |
Chuckles. So you personally asked her if she was using you to learn relationship stuffs? Quite hilarious. Actually sir, when I saw 'bestie,' my advisory brain hibernated. |
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