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BigJoe19:
If you don't need my fvck why reply me, you are a Titanic fool.

You just described yourself and I am not surprised nor be only Titanic you na diamond princess own too.


You are not important don't get ahead of yourself.The thread is for sane people and you are not needed here

Ladyhippolyta88:
You just described yourself and I am not surprised nor be only Titanic you na diamond princess own too.


You are not important don't get ahead of yourself.The thread is for sane people and you are not needed here

I'm not important and you are still replying me, you are a big idiot.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You just described yourself and I am not surprised nor be only Titanic you na diamond princess own too.


You are not important don't get ahead of yourself.The thread is for sane people and you are not needed here

Please don't respond to that maggot any further.

This topic is too important to be derailed by such an insignificant thing.

Ladyhippolyta88:
So what exactly is your point dear?
She talked about Nigerian men and the fact that girls are being raped by men.I am sure the OP's talk is related to Nigeria and horrible news about rape which women are victims of.

The OP did not intend to bring in gender war she only brought her topic to the Nigerian setting where women are being raped?So what is your anger with the topic?

My anger? Well perhaps I'm annoyed at the constant uproar that follows rape without effect, I'm annoyed by EMPTY emotional bickerings that happens here when the outside world is as silent as graveyard, I'm annoyed by the "Captain save women's rights" most ladies do on Nl while they shiver and hide under their beds offline. I'm angered by constant fights that happens here , the chest beating, the mouth making by resident Feminists here while most go offline taking safety precautions, I'm annoyed by the pathetic "Me against the Men" ideologies displayed here often by some ladies while in the real world it's something else. I'm displeased at how most Nl feminist mislead young people, when they are suppose to teach safety and empower themselves you see them barking. Perhaps if op has instructed ladies to always walk with a teaser or papper spray, I would have seen the sense but no. The command is to the Men. Visual Men!

You know I find it amusing that some lady will come to dish instructions like this to Virtual Men, Men in a society who are hardly trained Responsibility and Respect. Men who are mostly informed to be Lord and that they can have whatever they want.
I find it amusing that no one is talking about Male Child Molestation or Male rape when that and other factors are responsible for what we are experiencing here.
I find it amusing that no one is advising women to pay equal attention to all children especially when it comes to sexuality. But no, isn't the attention on the female child because she has a womb and bride price on her.
I find it both annoying and amusing that instead on us to focus on preaching and teaching kindness and goodness across genders we are busying issuing command cheques to some individuals
And no one is talking about freedom, relaxing problematic societal rules and norms for all genders.

Babe I'm angry! Very angry!

Ariza:
My anger? Well perhaps I'm annoyed at the constant uproar that follows rape without effect, I'm annoyed by EMPTY emotional bickerings that happens here when the outside world is as silent as graveyard, I'm annoyed by the "Captain save women's rights" most ladies do on Nl while they shiver and hide under their beds offline. I'm angered by constant fights that happens here , the chest beating, the mouth making by resident Feminists here while most go offline taking safety precautions, I'm annoyed by the pathetic "Me against the Men" ideologies displayed here often by some ladies while in the real world it's something else. I'm displeased at how most Nl feminist mislead young people, when they are suppose to teach safety and empower themselves you see them barking. Perhaps if op has instructed ladies to always walk with a teaser or papper spray, I would have seen the sense but no. The command is to the Men. Visual Men!

You know I find it amusing that some lady will come to dish instructions like this to Virtual Men, Men in a society who are hardly trained Responsibility and Respect. Men who are mostly informed to be Lord and that they can have whatever they want.
I find it amusing that no one is talking about Male Child Molestation or Male rape when that and other factors are responsible for what we are experiencing here.
I find it amusing that no one is advising women to pay equal attention to all children especially when it comes to sexuality. But no, isn't the attention on the female child because she has a womb and bride price on her.
[b]I find it both annoying and amusing that instead on us to focus on preaching and teaching kindness and goodness across genders we are busying issuing command cheques to some individuals
And no one is talking about freedom, relaxing problematic societal rules and norms for all genders.

Babe I'm angry! Very angry!

Thank you for saying the truth, I can now leave this nonsense thread.

Ariza:
My anger? Well perhaps I'm annoyed at the constant uproar that follows rape without effect, I'm annoyed by EMPTY emotional bickerings that happens here when the outside world is as silent as graveyard, I'm annoyed by the "Captain save women's rights" most ladies do on Nl while they shiver and hide under their beds offline. I'm angered by constant fights that happens here , the chest beating, the mouth making by resident Feminists here while most go offline taking safety precautions, I'm annoyed by the pathetic "Me against the Men" ideologies displayed here often by some ladies while in the real world it's something else. I'm displeased at how most Nl feminist mislead young people, when they are suppose to teach safety and empower themselves you see them barking. Perhaps if op has instructed ladies to always walk with a teaser or papper spray, I would have seen the sense but no. The command is to the Men. Visual Men!

You know I find it amusing that some lady will come to dish instructions like this to Virtual Men, Men in a society who are hardly trained Responsibility and Respect. Men who are mostly informed to be Lord and that they can have whatever they want.
I find it amusing that no one is talking about Male Child Molestation or Male rape when that and other factors are responsible for what we are experiencing here.
I find it amusing that no one is advising women to pay equal attention to all children especially when it comes to sexuality. But no, isn't the attention on the female child because she has a womb and bride price on her.
I find it both annoying and amusing that instead on us to focus on preaching and teaching kindness and goodness across genders we are busying issuing command cheques to some individuals
And no one is talking about freedom, relaxing problematic societal rules and norms for all genders.

Babe I'm angry! Very angry!

You should learn to read, before commenting on a thread. Reading is fundamental.

BigJoe19:
Thank you for saying the truth, I can now leave this nonsense thread.

Lol.... Perhaps one day we all will grow over our emotions and see reasons.


Will soon do this same.

safarigirl:
Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER

Nigerian men including your father,right?

I don’t know why you and your ilks always resort to stupid generalizations instead of using “some or most men”.

BigJoe19:
Thank you for saying the truth, I can now leave this nonsense thread.

Please, on your way out, you and Ariza can start a thread about Male molestation.

Ariza, except you are a NOBODY, you have as much right as I do, to start a thread on the male child being molested. Make yourself useful, don't just wait for someone else to bring up a similar topic, and bring up your own complaints. It's a trash thing to do and it makes you a trash human being.

Don't derail my thread. Be a leader, not a follower. Start your own thread, and we will discuss your molestation issues as a male child. I will even be kind enough to read your thread, because you clearly did not read mine.

Safarigirl why did you include this "what is wrong with all of you"
Are you implying that all men including your father are rapists?

Plead:
Nigerian men including your father.

I don’t know why you and your ilks always resort to stupid generalizations instead of using “some or most men”.

same question I just asked.
I'm surprised

Ok all men are rapist abi?
Kill all the men then, pained motherf*ckers

Ebenezer2O2O:
Safarigirl why did you include this "what is wrong with all of you"
Are you implying that all men including your father are rapists?

Have you seen any man, on this thread, so far, that has not supported or defended rape?

For all I know, your own father could also be here, defending rapists. So, until we know who is who, "ALL MEN".

Ebenezer2O2O:
Safarigirl why did you include this "what is wrong with all of you"
Are you implying that all men including your father are rapists?

Her father is a rapist na so she thinks all men are like her useless father.

safarigirl:
You should learn to read, before commenting on a thread. Reading is fundamental.

Madam, I read your thread , I went through it over again but how many of such submissions have I read here about topics like this? I've lost counts and has that stopped anything? Lol your guess is as good as mine.

It is obvious we both are relating on different levels, while you are trying or begging Men to see reasons and how you feel, I on the other is on about how to curb the whole situation. Lol.. you have your point so don't I but for how long will you continue to beg or bark instructions? That's left for you to answer.

Either ways have fun on your thread

Ebenezer2O2O:
Cc
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun
Justwise

Please take this down its insensitive calling a nairalander's father a rapist.
This is an insult and violation of rule 2.
Please ensure she doesn't get away with this.

You Are Derailing My Thread and Reporting My Account

Ebenezer2O2O:
Safarigirl why did you include this "what is wrong with all of you"
Are you implying that all men including your father are rapists?

Have you forgotten this silly question you asked me? Whose father were you talking about here?

Report yourself first. I only responded to you in your own coin. Don't act like you're all innocent now

safarigirl:
You did not read my thread once again, or you would notice you are part of the idiots I gave a shout out to.

You lack wisdom.

safarigirl:
You Are Derailing My Thread and Reporting My Account



Have you forgotten this silly question you asked me? Whose father were you talking about here?

Report yourself first. I only responded to you in your own coin. Don't act like you're all innocent now

don't make me follow you cos honestly if I do you'll regret your sorry life.
Don't let your insane zeal for feminism drag you to stupidity.
Ask xendra mira4u rosy247 fountainofyouth floxysmart mizwisdom and the rest of your feminist colleagues how I've humbled them
You've been warned

Plead:
You lack wisdom.

Thank You. Leave and never come back

Ariza:
I know of a case and heard of another where a Guy was gang raped till he FAINTED! Two cases. They could have died. But then you know what my reaction was then? I laughed! Yea.... I laughed and asked what led the man there. And I was told one was a bike man who went to ask for his pay when the lady he took delayed in returning. This thing happen but because the society like I did will laugh at such occurrence most are covered.

Now if you understand what rape victim pass through, you will understand why we have lots of rapist around. The only difference is, Most female rape victims do not have the exact strength to inflict on their counterparts what they went through, a luxury the Males enjoy. See I'm not downplaying Female rape, it's gruesome and not a nice experience.But I just believe we ought to do away with these emotional outbursts we see everywhere when such case happen and seek real solutions. That's my point.

Was this man gang raped by homosexuals?

Ebenezer2O2O:
don't make me follow you cos honestly if I do you'll regret your sorry life.
Don't let your insane zeal for feminism drag you to stupidity.
You've been warned

You have broken Rule 2 and 3

I will report your account now for threatening me.

safarigirl:
Thank You. Leave and never come back

Lmao

safarigirl:
Please, on your way out, you and Ari za can start a thread about Male molestation.

Ar iza, except you are a NOBODY, you have as much right as I do, to start a thread on the male child being molested. Make yourself useful, don't just wait for someone else to bring up a similar topic, and bring up your own complaints. It's a trash thing to do and it makes you a trash human being.

Don't derail my thread. Be a leader, not a follower. Start your own thread, and we will discuss your molestation issues as a male child. I will even be kind enough to read your thread, because you clearly did not read mine.

Madam Organise a protest and stop this Nl stunt! Or better still advise your women against dating men that rape them, or having rape fetish, or using rape as a weapon. False rape allegations nko?

The truth is, you women self have hands in this rape issues but you will only cry wolf when it turns out to be more you bargained for. That is the sad reality! And it makes it very hard to fight!

Ishilove:
Was this man gang raped by homosexuals?

Women! Or should I say LADIES!

Ariza:
Women! Or should I say LADIES!

Ariza seriously?? He can only be gang raped by a posse of horny_, women if he was force fed burantashi because the physiological make up of men will not allow otherwise.