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This is a sincere question coming from my heart, being (or calling yourself) a rape victim, is it now a thing of pride?


I have seen the trends; since 2018, a guy has raped 72 girls (in the same vicinity), another 24 (the same vicinity), but why haven't they been reported since?
To answer this question, they come out and say it is not easy reporting rape, citing the trauma they go through, how it is hard to do so then because of the stigma and shame.
So I ask, from 2018 till now, have stigma and shame just evaporated since then?
Or, is it that now, being a rape victim is now a thing of pride?

One case that still gives me the chills whenever I think about it is the case of the father accused to rape two of his daughters by the wife, in which case we later got to know that the wife leveled such allegations because she had issues with the spouse?
I was and is till triggered by this case, because I know that if I were there at the point of allegation, I won't waste any time listening to any explanation by the man.
Why, go to such extent?
Is being a rape victim now a thing to be so proud of that we can now hang it around the small shoulders of little kids?

The trend kept getting weirder and weirder still, it has jumped to celebs, from oluwadolarz to perruzzi, to D'banj.
Why now?
Why wait for a trend?
Don't you see how so much we have forgotten the case of Uwa, and this accusations have led us to another series of gender war. It makes us forget about the cases that demand urgent attention and then focus on these ones because Celebs are involved.
I ask again, why now?
Is being, raped now a thing of pride?

I wonder why the people that are actually false accusers are not made example of?
Ronaldo, Neymar all settled, but we didn't get to know of the penalties these women faced.

When wrongfully accused, it's always a fight to clear your name and not to punish someone whom have put your reputation to question and in extreme cases, might have put you in jail or got you killed in this country that jungle justice abounds.

I am confused as fvck when ever reading through these accusations and tantrums, God forbid that I label someone a Criminal just because of some whatsapp texts or tweets. It is now really hard for me to take these accusations seriously, and God forbid that it will lead me to a point where I wouldn't help an actual rape victim because of the stupidity of other girls, who now make me to take every allegation with a pinch of salt.

I have now come to the conclusion that being a rape victim, or falsely calling yourself a rape victim is now the new woke, and it's now something to be proud of.

Peace!

Every OLO is rape

I've asked this same question but you no what? It became clear to me that men don't care about what happens to false rape accusers.

Men haven't come to fully realize the magnitude and implications of false rape accusation.

Here's a similar thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/4985841/should-women-go-jail-false

GraGra247:
I've asked this same question but you no what? It became clear to me that men don't care about what happens to false rape accusers.

Men haven't come to fully realize the magnitude and implications of false rape accusation.

Here's a similar thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/4985841/should-women-go-jail-false

Any sane man would always have these questions.

Sadly this light punishment for false accusations will continue because if the penalty were increased, it might have a negative effect and make people to stop reporting rape.-This is what a lady told me. I kinda see the truth in it.

GraGra247:
I've asked this same question but you no what? It became clear to me that men don't care about what happens to false rape accusers.

Men haven't come to fully realize the magnitude and implications of false rape accusation.

Here's a similar thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/4985841/should-women-go-jail-false

You have hit the nail on the head.

It is well

Rape has been on the lips of almost everyone for the past 48hours and counting. But I abeg thr loud screeching girls that fly it everywhere on social media both some anyhow" girls wey I get for my status go dey fret at men on their status like say na only male be the malefactor of rape.

I just laugh how they go berserk and loud in almost everything(girls I tire). Some boys are also molested by girls in their subtle way. Is not only boys , but girls have some evil elements in their folds
Oya if this is not molestation what then is it


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SX5_vX6jYHs