sassysure:
Who said that the traditional role of a wife is to stay at home?
Who told you guys this?
Hian

My mum was a trader, so also her mum and great grandmum.

In the olden days when a man are rated with the number of barns and livestock he has, his wives and children go to farm with him. After farm work, the wives retire to cook while the man will climb palm tree to tap palm wine they will use to wash the food down.
Gosh!
All the women in various markets, offices are ghosts.
All these frustrated souls everywhere. I will bite somebody.

The traditional role of a wife is not to contribute financially to the upkeep of the house. Say this in a place like uk and people will wonder which jungle they came out of.

Dem don come again.

yettymuse:
Mama Ybaby!!! I'm sending you a bag load of sprinkles!!! You dey burst my brain.. I always look out for your comments.

My sister, o to ojo meta

Sprinkle sprinkle..... wishing lots of positive abundance

YourCoffin:


Na lie. We are changing. Especially the educated ones.

Maybe that is u nah

YourCoffin:


Na lie. We are changing. Especially the educated ones.

Which state are u from?

Fountainofyouth:



But men are dependent on women to feed and clean the house for them so what's the big deal, ordinary financial provision you guys keep hyperventilating, y'all were cursed to toil the earth from the time of Adam so get used to it.

The bold is not ordinary abeg!
Do u know how difficult it is to make money?

Ybaby:


I will speak for ONLY myself on this matter.

I will NEVER say NO to my PROVIdER husband.

He needs to step down from all that stress in the man's world he goes to everyday.

He is too good to me and my eggs for me to refuse him

Also I find my man very sexy and I enjoy initiating bed with him.... he is a sound man, dependable, funny, helpful and a great lover too.

I cannot resist the man

- same way no matter how tired I am when my kids were babies I will get up at night to check that they are ok and breastfeed them. Now I go for visiting days with homecookednfood no matter how tired I am. I do this because i love them and him.

Jehovah. see better woman.

Why your man no go dey motivated to provide.

efosky1246:


Jehovah. see better woman.

Why your man no go dey motivated to provide.

My bro.... longest time

Genset:


Which state are u from?

Either Imo or Abia or Bayelsa or Crossriver ...... #picksrace

Na joke o...... or maybe NOT

Unnerve:

If you already knew this, what then is the purpose of your topic?
You don't like it when married women are providers, you prefer it when she does not contribute to the financial upkeep of the family.

I wrote in the same post that my purpose of bringing this topic up is because I want women to be appreciated for doing their primary duties of being home keepers. If you follow either Islam or Christianity then yes, husband or wife have primary roles assigned to them by God
And one of husbands primary roles is to provide.

If you are neither a Muslim or Christian then this thread isn't for you.

Ybaby:


Either Imo or Abia or Bayelsa or Crossriver ...... #picksrace

Na joke o...... or maybe NOT

Especially IMO... Picks race too���

nahzyla:


I wrote in the same post that my purpose of bringing this topic up is because I want women to be appreciated for doing their primary duties of being home keepers. If you follow either Islam or Christianity then yes, husband or wife have primary roles assigned to them by God
And one of husbands primary roles is to provide.

If you are neither a Muslim or Christian then this thread isn't for you.

When was the last time you read a Bible?

Genset:




Especially IMO... Picks race too���

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mrsteel:

The bold is not ordinary abeg!
Do u know how difficult it is to make money?

To be honest, it is not ordinary - to pay school fees, shelter, food, clothes, vacation then invest in inheritance.... biko it is NOT ordinary.

See the amount of men that want to escape from this huge responsibility to provide.... it is dog eat dog in man's world and no one pities them.

Honestly provider men are mini gods - not easy and yet they find a way to make it happen. They are machines! They take care of everyone before themselves and age fast ..... to toil is not easy and I really want to appreciate men who provide.

Women and kids are thankful!

All roofs in this world was hammered by men, the roads was constructed by men, the gates are watched by men - we appreciate your muscles, your sweat, your putting your family before your needs, the challenges you face at work because of us..... left to men a shirt and a trouser is enough but you keep going to work and labouring because of women and children.

God bless all provider men in the world, kings will seek your counsel, your path will be made easier and the heads of those you provide for will protect you. We donot take what you bring for granted. Thank you

P.S notice I said provider men o NOT ..... the other type of men should come and sit with us women - we are all one

Klass99:


Lol you and Ybaby are not serious at all.

A former boss is from Imo State, I admire that guy's sense of responsibility, hardworking and hustling spirit too.

He is a provider and a decent, solid man (I know this from seeing how much he takes care of his family). My colleagues and I, were always happy to do something nice for him on his birthdays.

Igbo guys rock abeg, whether from Anambra, Enugu, Imo or Abia States, they rock!!! And to think I am not Igbo but I gbadun their men die

Let me rephrase that to read as, the ones I know personally.

Igbo men rock to be honest.......... it is just that if you ever see a lazy igbo man na Imo or Abia.... rare to see lazy igbo man though

Unnerve:

The traditional role of a wife is not to contribute financially to the upkeep of the house. Say this in a place like uk and people will wonder which jungle they came out of.

Have you been to the UK?

YourCoffin:


What happens if the woman is incapable of birthing kids?

or the man incapable of having kids?

Ybaby:


Have you been to the UK?

I'm resident here, but born and bred naija

bukatyne:


You are a clown.

I swear. She’s taking clownism to a whole new level.

Unnerve:

I'm resident here, but born and bred naija

Me born and bred in the UK but resident in Naija.

Most middle class and above house hold the man pays the Bills in the UK.

Lower class they share Bills and it is why they are lower class the male figure in the home can be found wanting.... meaning he is not ENOUGH to pay the Bills.... he is not COMPLETE OR UP TO THE TASK..... some people also say not MAN ENOUGH so his family is on the low income bracket but for middle class and above even though she works - he pays the Bills because he earns ENOUGH and so MAN ENOUGH meaning he is a COMPLETE MAN and does not need the help of his woman to pay the bills.

When are you leaving Peckham?

Plead:


I swear. She’s taking clownism to a whole new level.

She meant it in a good way.... you slow poke!

You cannot pay Bills but you can laugh

Unnerve:

The traditional role of a wife is not to contribute financially to the upkeep of the house. Say this in a place like uk and people will wonder which jungle they came out of.

Nigeria isn’t UK or USA bruv.

Ybaby:


Me born and bred in the UK but resident in Naija.

Most middle class and above house hold the man pays the Bills in the UK.

Lower class they share Bills and it is why they are lower class the male figure in the home can be found wanting.... meaning he is not ENOUGH to pay the Bills.... he is not COMPLETE OR UP TO THE TASK..... some people also say not MAN ENOUGH so his family is on the low income bracket but for middle class and above even though she works - he pays the Bills because he earns ENOUGH and so MAN ENOUGH meaning he is a COMPLETE MAN and does not need the help of his woman to pay the bills.

All lies.
You type like a typical African woman with not a single drop of British in you.

Ybaby:


She meant it in a good way.... you slow poke!

You cannot pay Bills but you can laugh

Huh?
You know this cuz we’re living together?

You’re a very small-minded individual. Smh.

Unnerve:

All lies.
You type like a typical African woman with not a single drop of British in you.

Welcome to social media where people claim what they’re not.

Unnerve:

All lies.
You type like a typical African woman with not a single drop of British in you.

Ani ko leave Peckham

@plead you are a sule

Plead:


Nigeria isn’t UK or USA bruv.

True, at least you're not claiming household finance operates the same way in the UK as it does in Nigeria like the other woman above is trying to do.

Unnerve:

True, at least you're not claiming household finance operates the same way in the UK as it does in Nigeria like the other woman above is trying to do.

Be quiet my friend. You enter UK last month and will not let us hear word. I am telling you what obtains.... leave the hood.

Plead:


Huh?
You know this cuz we’re living together?

You’re a very small-minded individual. Smh.

If you are paying all the Bill's in your household please accept my apology.

Are you paying all the Bill's?

Ybaby:




Ani ko leave Peckham

@plead you are a sule

Direct your further mentions to small-minded people like you. Bumpkin.

Plead:


Direct your further mentions to small-minded people like you. Bumpkin.

Please I am a Pumpkin not Bumpkin