FlordFlorez:
guy u wont understand. She's very peaceful. She's the new defination of peace to me, and her real name is Joy. She's my Joy!

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

Boredasf:
Bro, 50% of marriages end in bitter divorce.
Now imagine this, if I told you that you had a 50% chance of being hit by a truck tommorow... would you still go outside?... probably not!

I'm not cursing you..I just wanna let you know what you're signing up for.
Marriage is a huge scam!

Martinez39s:
As you can see, this man's account isn't unusually. Clearly, if his account is true, he has been emotional abused and tortured by his woman regularly. The brown statement is testament to the man's peace seeking and kind nature even though he is stupid for not sending his wife packing for her toxicity.

A lot of people might vigorously condemn the man for slapping his wife, but I understand him even though I think he should have just sent her packing instead of slapping her. For those condemning him, put yourself in his shoes and ask how much can a man take and be pushed to wall? Can you take what this man took from a wife you have work hard to take care of and sacrificed for? We live in a society that doesn't take the emotional and mental abuse of men by women seriously, but freaks out when a man cannot take it anymore and lashes out at the woman. Why is no one calling the woman for her abuse? In most marital conflicts in which a man hits a woman, the woman is usually the deliberate instigator who would go on to cry victim in public (most especially there are physical signs of the man's retaliation).

If a man had insulted his wife all the way from work for coming early to visit him at work, and the wife slapped him, people would say she was defending herself from an abusive husband. If he proceeds to pour hot water on his wife for slapping him, it would be all hell for the man as he would be the apex abuser in the "abuser community."


Cc. Omar09, emmaodet

FlordFlorez:
so...u are saying marriage is a scam and i shouldn't marry, right?

IkpuNnegiEwu44:
Maureen and the rest of mad women that abuse men should be called out now.

Men are victims of abuse too

Kpokakpoka:
He shouldn't have slapped her....doesn't justify her actions too though.

drinoayo:


https://tribuneonlineng.com/angry-wife-bath-husband-with-hot-water-over-domestic-conflict-in-yenagoa/

Daguccizgreat:
So in your mind you think Yoruba women are well-behaved more than the Igbo women ? I laugh at your submission

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

emmaodet:


Bro you read my mind and this is the major reason why a lot if women have bad and very irritating characters. The society at large doesn't shape women to be a better version of themselves. It is mostly the man - he must endure abuses, suck it up, man up, be a man, don't be a sissy or a whining like a baby coupled with the fact that most even don't want to take any correction with statements like - mind your business, her life her body, she doesn't owe anybody explanation, she as her life to live.
They are always looking for statement to keep people shut so as to continue with their bad behaviors or lifestyles.
Good habit or behavior takes much efforts and pain to have which most are not ready to go through.
Just like being poor is very very easy by just not doing anything, having a bad and irritating character and behavior is very very easy to breed by just not doing anything positive to improve yourself.

alizma:

How old are you? Simple logic is that a woman with the heart capable of pouring hot water on a sleeping person (her husband for that matter) is capable of pushing the most quiet and matured minded person into slapping her.

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

Boredasf:
just enjoy her for the time being until you are tired.
Then breakup and find a new chick.
You will have more freedom.
Marriage will make you loose alot of benefits you now enjoy as a bachelor.

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

143WaZoBia:
Who knows how long he’s been abusing her?
Don’t say anything about the woman just yet until you hear her side of the story.

tyup:


oga what year was that

FlordFlorez:
lool! U call me a fool? U are a frustrated product of failed relationship, bro.

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.