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What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 6:36am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sorry to bore everyone out this early, just I have run out of thoughts and ideas and i decided to push to my elders on this forum, Ignore my grammatical errors please, na only 5% of student remain im inside me... So here's my story I've got this friend James (not real name though) So James happened to have a friend they met up online and got chatting, Ada (not her real name too) had been chatting with James for quite a while and they've grown fond of each other, though Ada had to let James know that shes got a boyfriend and she cant cheat on him, and James also told her hes got a girl too (which wasnt totally true) and would just be friends with her, so James did tell me bout her and only told me he wanted her for Friends with Benefits, since that was what was available as he wasnt looking to love currently, so fast forward to some months later, after persuasion Ada traveled to meet up with James, so they were together and James invited Me over to come meet with her for introductions, and I did, said Hi and left, flashforward to some weeks later I got to find out James had fallen completely in love with which was against his earlier promise of just having her as Friends with Benefits, Here's the twist though Some days back Ada just suddenly told James she doesnt love him anymore but she wants Me, Yeah I was surprised too when he told me, but Ada told James blatantly that she doesnt love him despite all his tales of love he's been telling her, but that she loves Me, and wants to be with me, she even went ahead to start a conversation with me and actually told me that she loves me and wants to be with me, much to the dismay of james, he keeps proffessing love to her, but she keeps saying she doesnt love him and it's me she loves, so when she did tell me and James confirmed it too, I then told James we should play along to find out what shes playing at cause it's all but confusing why she would just see me and say shes fallen in love with me and wants to be with me even knowing James is a friend, she keeps telling me she cant sleep at night without thoughts of me, she says she just wants to feel my body on hers and all that I would've loved to keep up with her (like continue going with the flow) but James is finding it hard to keep up with anything and it's really getting to him cause he wasnt expecting to fall deeply in love with her like this and wants her only.... Question now is What do I do?? Do I back out from trying to find out what shes driving at cause it's quite confusing Even if I do, she claims not to love James and would never have anything to do with him James is crazily in love with her now and doesnt even think straight anymore... I'll be in the comments section to see what my elders have to say |
Re: What Do I Do? by MrSensor(m): 6:43am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Over to you my children. Say something. 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? by JOACHINpedro: 6:43am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Secondary school love that year EarthFireH2o:Then how can a grownup believe in love at first sight? |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 6:45am On Jun 10, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro: But this ain't secondary school anymore sire |
Re: What Do I Do? by Ladylite: 6:57am On Jun 10, 2020 |
EarthFireH2o: Is love so cheap that it can be thrown around like a ball to whomever one chooses? See better go for prayers, that girl is an evil agent. Something is morally and spiritually wrong. You have something glorious about u more than your friend and she wants it then moves on to the next victim. Run for your life. |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 7:02am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Ladylite: Oh wow Thanks I had actually thought bout this too, but I had been tryna waive it aside And that's more reason I also want to get to the bottom of her point To know what it is she's really after |
Re: What Do I Do? by bloomstar: 7:09am On Jun 10, 2020 |
She don get James, na you she want now.... Maybe she saw something in you that you can not even see.. Remember its online someone. You don't even know much truth about here. See what you will do, for a moment, pause..tell her to stop the joke, that you don't wish to continue. Threatened her with blocking her off, she is causing issues with you and your friend. Be serious about it. She will stop all those whining, she can't sleep without the thought of u and you believe it? In conclusion, my brother run for your life. Even the Bible said jaakpaaa. |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 7:16am On Jun 10, 2020 |
bloomstar: Seriously me too I'm tired jae And I been wondering what's it with me that's so special bout me, but she keeps saying theres nothing, Guess ima have to go with threatening her to scare her off Lol, she does actually call me by midnight saying she cant sleep, shes just been thinking bout me and all that And I'm always like ��♂️��♂️��♂️ But I just always go with the flow since that's what I told my friend to do |
Re: What Do I Do? by luminouz(m): 7:32am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Oh Lord!!! Another mudafvcking lie again this morning!!! Is Romanceland cursed Why dafuq are grown ass men wailing like this online? This is the 3rd mudafvcking thread I will read so early this morning... Dafuq is wrong with y'all? IS THE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM NOT OBVIOUS FROM YOUR OWN POST? |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 7:35am On Jun 10, 2020 |
luminouz: If the solution is obvious in my post Then be so kind and humane to point it out to me I might've missed it somewhere Instead of wailing and calling everything you come across lies... Thank you |
Re: What Do I Do? by luminouz(m): 7:39am On Jun 10, 2020 |
EarthFireH2o: This is a lie.... No grown ass man would be asking questions like a toddler because one girl wants you...what dafuq is so special in that for you to create a new thread to ask questions. Ain't you ballsy enough to fix this yourself?. |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 8:12am On Jun 10, 2020 |
luminouz: I dont think you've pointed out any solution here though And besides they said one who asks for the way never misses road So I was only tryna ask Someone might've had a similar situation and to know how they settled it and as well for anyone who might end up in similar situations to know how well to go about it sir |
Re: What Do I Do? by EarthFireH2o(m): 1:20pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro: Lol If you quoted me right I didnt say I believed she's loved me at first sight All I said was I wanted to play along to see where she's going with her tricks Cause that's what I believe it is Besides Sheybi na person wey fine and rich girls dey fall in love at first sight with |
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