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| Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by askings(op): 7:25pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Dear mature minds, I am being frustrated on taking my fiancée to see almost all my family before introduction. My father said they ALL need to know her before introduction. Please ma/sir, what is the importance of introduction, if I should take her round the family before any introduction. I think Introduction is meant for families to know each other. I think he is just frustrating me. Please I need a mature advice. Thanks in advanced. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bluntguy: 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Listen to your father. He will not mislead you. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by donbachi(m): 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
To whom it may concern. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by callmeRichie(m): 7:31pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
this is Nigeria bro , buh as long as your parents and siblings have met her, I think that is a goal already sha. Buh some parents go sha wan show pride . it's a good thing sha, I think u should just play along and save yourself the insults and grudges... Buh mind who u take her to still yet though |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
askings:Your immediate family first. Your parents and siblings. Then perhaps one or two uncles/aunts that you are convinced that they mean well for you. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by askings(op): 7:53pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Gracealone:I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by profilemessages: 7:59pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Time for wind to blow feather for fowl yansh. But if you and her don't have skeletons in your cupboard, then no need to be afraid. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Freestainworld(m): 8:03pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
didn't take my wife to see anybody apart from my parents and siblings, I just visited few extended family members alone to inform them, but you have use wisdom, I just told them she's not around because of one or two things she's taking care of. Good luck. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Ningen(m): 8:13pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
askings:You've completed the BASICS of introduction. Any other thing is unnecessary. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by paulolee(m): 8:28pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
they nid to see her first to gv u go ahead b4 the introduction proper...if dey see her and she's nt dier type, they would let u kno so that u dnt border with the introduction...u cant just fix date for introduction and the said date is the first time they are seeing her na.. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bola146(f): 8:58pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Your parents are the first person to know her |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by dingbang(m): 9:05pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Your hod . what a stupid question. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by ettaetta(m): 9:32pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
parents and siblings |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by CAPSLOCKED: 10:59pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Bluntguy:PARENTS/ELDERS ARE NOT ALL-WISE AND ALL-PERFECT. THESE PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES TOO, JUST LIKE THE REST OF US. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Obey your parents first.. Simple instruction requires obedience, so your parents demands it before sacrifice. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bestboy11513(m): 11:27pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Ask your Dad what exactly his deal is, you might as well show to the whole world pfft |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by gamapoy539: 11:37pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Your Ex girlfriends bro... |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Ohizman73(m): 1:12am On Jun 11, 2020 |
askings:simple you ask him to list them and try to visit at least 80% of them depending on the seniority and importance in the family. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bluntguy: 3:21am On Jun 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:His father is wise. I don't know about yours. |
| Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:17am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Bluntguy:I DON'T KNOW EITHER. DOESN'T MEAN PARENTS CANNOT GIVE WRONG ADVICE THAT MAY LEAD TO COSTLY MISTAKES. |
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, buh as long as your parents and siblings have met her, I think that is a goal already sha. Buh some parents go sha wan show pride