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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by erico2k2(m): 3:02pm On Jun 15, 2020
Rossycee:
She is absolutely right. Marital rape is referred as intimate partner violence, it is still in existence though most are ashamed to speak up.
This is true

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by adeniyi65(m): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2020
Gidah:
But if the man gets it out then he's cheating I don't support forceful sex but there are something that there's no personal rule that guide it everybody should have his own ways to fixing is shit, you been with your spouse you should have knew each other to the extent of that. Coming on social media to create attention all time is just tiring Jare fix ya shit no come dey chase clout with everything
I wish i could like this in 1000 times.there is no rule that really guide this.study your spouse and solve things out amicably.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by biggy26: 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2020
Kizzygentle:
Exactly what I said and some guys were attacking me. It's called domestic violence. When u forcefully have sex with your wife when not in d mood, U are domestically abusing her which I believe should be stated in d law. Guys stop Misinforming or encouraging husbands to forcefully have sex with their wives. It also damages marriage and causes infidelity. This acts makes d wife to automatically hate d husband and find solace in d hands of another man.
Like d 1st comment said. If you can't hold your konji, shalaye outside instead of raping. My 1 cent.
Before I speak, are you married?
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Holocene(m): 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2020
Women can’t even agree on wtf is this spousal rape of a thing. For America here, if madam talk say she no de in the mood, kindly pack your deek and go bathroom and take a cold shower before she carry you to court for abuse and chop money for your head

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by ABINTUK(m): 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2020
Johnsghana:
This lady spews a lot of anti-family and anti-marriage advise and comments on social media. If she failed at her own marriage, it doesnt mean others will. She should look inwards and heal from whatever hurt she is amplifying to the rest of the world. I send light and peace her way.

She is genuinely sex starved....

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by InvertedHammer: 3:17pm On Jun 15, 2020
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Every incentive for marriage is being crossed out. If sex is the bargaining chip, a man should withhold finances as bargaining chip. Here comes the strife--two people in marriage competing to outdo each other. Why bother go through the stress? Get girlfriends and live happily ever after since marriage is gradually turning into a battlefield instead of love relationship.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jun 15, 2020
shameless woman, if your husband refuses to give you money after sex, you call it rape.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2020
RAPE IS RAPE. MARRIED OR NOT. HER NO MEANS NO NO MATTER WHAT. WE NEED TO RESPECT THEIR BODIES AND STOP SEEING THEM AS INSTRUMENTS WE OWN. PERIOOOOOOOOOOD

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by placeofallure(f): 3:20pm On Jun 15, 2020
We're all humans and blood flows in our veins. Everything boils to understanding your partner, being friends and enjoying companionship.

If her boss, colleague or client bullies her at work OR in the instance of the loss of a beloved OR when down physically, a woman won't be in the mood. But, when your husband is the first person you tell when any of these happens, he won't even ask to get down with you. He'd know that's not a good time. He's not mad, he won't rape you.

When the excuses become incessant, that's when a man becomes a monster and your kinda 'rape' (which I strongly disapprove) can happen.

Under no guise must a man forcefully get down with a woman, whether married to her or not. It's emotionally demoralising. As enjoyable as sex is, when it is forced, it loses all the flavour.

For your woman to consistently refuse you, there's an underlying problem which the couple should work on and if it's not working, go your separate ways so you can have sex with another person in peace.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Mayng01(m): 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2020
you are wrong woman. In Nigeria, marital rape does not exist, since you have been experiencing it, why haven’t you reported your hubby? If it was to be an alien that mounted on you, would you not have taken a step? I repeat, it is the right of the man, which you have no right to deny him of, ( l mean legally married couple) & mind you, every woman is part of the asset of a man ( husband). Marital rape my foot. Go and report him na, & see who will suffer the consequences. The only thing that I know which the law of the country can punish one husband for is an assault on one’s wife. Please, let’s try to be reasonable on this.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Liposure: 3:22pm On Jun 15, 2020
Consent is not absolute. Whether she says i do or not
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by isaiah44: 3:23pm On Jun 15, 2020
marital rape is not an offence in nigeria, a husband cannot rape his wife. it is assumed dat that d wife gives implied general consent to sexual intercourse with her husband upon entering the marriage.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Omar09(m): 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2020
bukatyne:


@bold: cheesy

If you have defined marital/spousal rape as 'the act of sexual intercourse with ones spouse without the spouse's consent', how then can you say you don't know about a wife raping her husband?

The way women tweak things to respond well with their emotions marvels me.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by haladu27(f): 3:26pm On Jun 15, 2020
....and what did I married for at d first place?? And if I may ask........ what in the situation that am not in d mood and she intimated me to aroused, what will I then charge her for??


In short, marital rape, doesn't exist Nigeria, base on our tradition and custom!!!!!....Stop giving women certain priority.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by oruma19: 3:29pm On Jun 15, 2020
This Victoria is trying too hard to be noticed again. Wife wey person marry go say no to sex with her husband when she's ok and not sick? U women are trying too hard to fool ourselves and make marriage be like bf and gf. If u no wan marry, pls divorce and stay alone. U can't serve two masters.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jun 15, 2020
HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!
U Just Said my Mind.
Why would a wealthy man be denied of sex if a POOR MAN is getting it regularly...?

My Wife knows I have a List of them from all walks of. Life waiting.
Even in Old Age they will still cluster around.
Provided your are wealthy and the MONEY keeps coming.
They are like PREDATORS who can even date a corpse, provided the bank account is still evergreen.

They have made it easier by creating too many numerous ASHAWO GooGle Apps. So you can Book online with greater expectations.

It's only WOMEN that can smell MONEY from a far....

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jun 15, 2020
isaiah44:
marital rape is not an offence in nigeria, a husband cannot rape his wife. it is assumed dat that d wife gives implied general consent to sexual intercourse with her husband upon entering the marriage.
....na you dey waste time to solve ALGEBRA for this matter.
Other Ladies no dey again...?
Ashawo don finish...?
Corners don finish...?
What are they there for..?
All you need is just to transfer the receipt of ownership to other ladies and everything is settled.
By the time you do that, your WIFE would dare not call for a family meeting because she knows who started the whole game.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Kizzygentle: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2020
biggy26:

Before I speak, are you married?
Dosent matter if am married or not. State your point.
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by BizBayo: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2020
rangerover:
RAPE IS RAPE. MARRIED OR NOT. HER NO MEANS NO NO MATTER WHAT. WE NEED TO RESPECT THEIR BODIES AND STOP SEEING THEM AS INSTRUMENTS WE OWN. PERIOOOOOOOOOOD

If I may ask, are you married?
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Sniper101(m): 3:38pm On Jun 15, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



Don't be stupid with your yeye sarcasm, marital rape is real, do you know what rape is? Forcibly having sex with anyone or your wife, that means she won't be wet but dry, forcing it in will cause bruises in that area which can also result to bleading in some cases, if the woman then goes to the hospital or police to report him immediately after the evil act, it will be treated as assault which is also a crime, and the evil nonentity will be charged for it,

If you like cheat on your wife because she said no, that's your business.

Hanty, you're being sentimental here

Cast your emotions aside, read through his post slowly and you'll discover there's more /sense/ in his sarcasm than in your own post; which is probably spun out of hatred and bias for the male folk

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Beautyaddy: 3:43pm On Jun 15, 2020
Venerable612:
Ignorance, that’s all I see with these online tantrums.

Rape is a crime. It is not subject to the whims and caprices of the people. It also has nothing to do with anyone’s opinion.

Rape is as defined in legislations and interpreted by the Courts. Nigerian Law doesn’t recognise marital rape.

UK law, however, does recognises marital rape... and that only became recognised in 1990; see the case of R v R (1991).

Nigerian law might get there someday but presently, no such thing as Marital rape - it doesn’t matter what anybody’s opinion on the matter is.

And it is not just the UK that recognizes Marital Rape as a crime but also most Western Countries like the US, Canada, Germany and the likes.

Any man that rapes his wife and it can be proven will be charged and will be required to spend sometime in jail and the man's record will be tarnish as a rapist.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by VenumX: 3:43pm On Jun 15, 2020
Thank you madam. Don't mind that foolish woman and her boy toy. I am sure she rapes him. But he is too ashamed to come out openly after being slapped on the mouth with kobo kobo.
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by isaiah44: 3:49pm On Jun 15, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



Don't be stupid with your yeye sarcasm, marital rape is real, do you know what rape is? Forcibly having sex with anyone or your wife, that means she won't be wet but dry, forcing it in will cause bruises in that area which can also result to bleading in some cases, if the woman then goes to the hospital or police to report him immediately after the evil act, it will be treated as assault which is also a crime, and the evil nonentity will be charged for it,

If you like cheat on your wife because she said no, that's your business.
since u were born ave u seen a man dat was charge to court 4 rape is wife?

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by isaiah44: 3:54pm On Jun 15, 2020
EVILFOREST:

....na you dey waste time to solve ALGEBRA for this matter.
Other Ladies no dey again...?
Ashawo don finish...?
Corners don finish...?
What are they there for..?
All you need is just to transfer the receipt of ownership to other ladies and everything is settled.
By the time you do that, your WIFE would dare not call for a family meeting because she knows who started the whole game.
not every body dat goes dat way, den wat is d essent of marryin her.
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Beautyaddy: 3:55pm On Jun 15, 2020
isaiah44:
since u were born ave u seen a man dat was charge to court 4 rape is wife?

Yes...but I know it's not in Nigeria because most women are treated as dogs and disrespected.

But in most Western Countries yes, a man can be charged with raping their wife if it can be proven.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Beautyaddy: 3:57pm On Jun 15, 2020
EVILFOREST:

....na you dey waste time to solve ALGEBRA for this matter.
Other Ladies no dey again...?
Ashawo don finish...?
Corners don finish...?
What are they there for..?
All you need is just to transfer the receipt of ownership to other ladies and everything is settled.
By the time you do that, your WIFE would dare not call for a family meeting because she knows who started the whole game.

Yes, and the woman can do the same. cheesy
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Beautyaddy: 4:00pm On Jun 15, 2020
exposition:
Sometimes when my wife is asleep I go take style suck breast suck breast sotay she go still behave like she dey sleep and I go now take style shift pant! She go now behave like say she know no but she know!
Pls is that one rape?

lol!...If your wife wakes up during the event and says no and insist by saying no and you still continue to force her with intercourse then yes it is called Rape.
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by denvers: 4:12pm On Jun 15, 2020
I repeat, I will comfortably rape my wife, if she deny me sex
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 15, 2020
styless:
Yes...a husband can rape his wife. totally possible

#justiceforsalau


And a wife can rape and sexually molest the husband... totally possible too undecided

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by kendrick9(m): 4:17pm On Jun 15, 2020
denvers:
I repeat, I will comfortably rape my wife, if she deny me sex
Wow...
I pity the unfortunate girl
Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by denvers: 4:20pm On Jun 15, 2020
kendrick9:
Wow...
I pity the unfortunate girl
At least no marital rape or what is it called in Nigeria constitution.

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Re: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by denvers: 4:23pm On Jun 15, 2020
Woman want to use Feminist package finish man, very soon they'll be creating timetable for sex.

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