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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ibkayee(f): 2:43pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:


E really need am. The energy... grin
I wanted to offer him milk, as per take am easy grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Enjoy your marriage, Sir. To the right person, it is bliss. Let alfa males keep whining.


I have already wished them well just as I wished you well too.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ravensckar(m): 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Enjoy your marriage, Sir. To the right person, it is bliss. Let alfa males keep whining.
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Will this battle ever end? Alpha Male Vs Feminists.

cheesy cheesy

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 15, 2020
ibkayee:

I wanted to offer him milk, as per take am easy grin

Unless it is your breast milk o!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Klass99(f): 2:47pm On Jun 15, 2020
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 2:47pm On Jun 15, 2020
ravensckar:
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Will this battle ever end? Alpha Male Vs Feminists.

cheesy cheesy

There is no battle. Some people just don’t like to see happily married men. They call them “simps”. grin grin grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 2:48pm On Jun 15, 2020
ibkayee:

I wanted to offer him milk, as per take am easy grin

Almost thought he would burst an artery. lipsrsealed
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ibkayee(f): 2:48pm On Jun 15, 2020
WORDWORLD:


Unless it is your breast milk o!
Predictable grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by saucecode(m): 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2020
WORDWORLD:

What is stopping you all. The Title of the thread is HAVE YOU DATED SOMEONE WHO DESPERATELY WANTED TO GET MARRIED?!!!

It isn't directed to guys alone. How come it is only guys that are they ones mostly telling us their stories.

We want to hear your stories too. Mind you remember the title says "DATE" don't come here and be telling us stories about how rich men are all over you seeking your hand in marriage without you dating them first. The title says DATED SOMEONE.

Sasysures story is out of point. Her's was about a line of suitors not people she dated and it is as well what goes on in her locality, a tribe is very fond of such. Suitors knock at your Gates to marry your daughter once the hear you are studying "medicine, and blablabla

They don't know the difference. Everyone knows dat guys who are already dating them and have unrestricted access to their punana will hardly ever act desperate to get married.

It's the suitors who have never seen their bra before and disturbing dem for marriage dey want to use to catch trips here grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ibkayee(f): 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Almost thought he would burst an artery. lipsrsealed
Lol and now is definitely not the time to be ill grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2020
ibkayee:

Predictable grin

Yep predictable grin What esle can you offer undecided undecided

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Enugupikin: 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2020
remsonik:
Most guys out there nowadays are time wasters. I have lost so many advances cos I couldn't give in to premarital sex. When you give in to sex in the relationship, they will promise you marriage in few months or a year and after that 6 months becomes 1 year, a year becomes 2 and it goes on like that. Then when you ask them you look like the desperate one. One naira I haven't taken from any guy I have dated. Also please make proper findings on any guy you're dating. Alot hide their dirty pasts from you that can even destroy your own life. Alot will come to you claiming single but they could be married, separated and so many differences like that. It is well
You're doing well by avoiding the sex part...if I was a lady I wouldn't indulge in sex till I marry, unless u want it anyway..I know why u I'm saying this...as a guy I don't even have random sex with any gal I see, infact I don't wanna have sex till I settle down..so help me God

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 15, 2020
saucecode:

They don't know the difference. Everyone knows dat guys who are dating dem and already have unrestricted access to their punana hardly ever act desperate to get married.

It's the suitors who have not seen their bra before and disturbing dem for marriage dey are using to catch trips grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Gentle0wavez: 2:52pm On Jun 15, 2020
zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, LOVE AND LOYALTY alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

I'm not judging your decision or even saying that you made a wrong move, it may have been the best for you. But when you have enough money, and can pay all your bills, then you will know how scarce LOVE AND LOYALTY is, hold on to it anywhere you see it bcus you may need it in the long run when you blow.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ibkayee(f): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2020
WORDWORLD:


Yep predictable grin What esle can you offer undecided undecided
Lol if it’s you, I don’t want to offer anything
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 2:56pm On Jun 15, 2020
AfroKnight:


That nurse is a psycho. What does she stand to gain by doing that?
Yes if you call her psycho, I agree.
Evil people dey naw

If you know how to search Nairaland please do, you will see the thread.

But whenever you want to do a DNA test, do it for your self and also do for your wife because your wife may be innocent.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by OriOko88(m): 2:58pm On Jun 15, 2020
Klass99:


Why do you find that so shocking? grin Yes, I don't want to bring forth children but I am happy to be an aunty, friend or mentor to young children in my life, world and space.

When I say mentor, I don't mean the sort of mentorship full of motivational talk. Mentorship where I candidly lead/teach by example, things like saying please, thank you, cooking, social etiquette, answering curious questions about God and the universe (as best as I can) etc.

More of friendship, than mentorship actually. Believe it or not, no be every woman pikin dey shack o! I am one of such women.
Interesting. Never seen an African woman that would say she's not interested in hsving babies of her own. I am wowed. Kuku go into lesbian or go for foreign men, cos no Nigeria man will marry you with this your phylosophy!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2020
zuby4real10:
I have already made my decisions a long time ago, so nairaland advice has nothing to change.

Yes, that na my point.
Nairaland romance section dey very vocal about not dating a girl not working or that asks you for money or that the parents are poor.
And I feel say na wetin push you to leave the girl against your better judgement.
Because you like the girl from wetin you write but for her background abi?

Na NL romance section boys handwork be that.
To me o.

See the last line of your first comment, "love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills."
This one na popular NL line naw.
You think say na you form am?

The thing enter you subconscious unknowinglygrin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by saucecode(m): 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2020
Enugupikin:

You're doing well by avoiding the sex part...if I was a lady I wouldn't indulge in sex till I marry, unless u want it anyway..I know why u I'm saying this... as a guy I don't even have random sex with any gal I see, infact I don't wanna have sex till I settle down..so help me God
This is the only way a woman can actually be sure that the guy she is dating really wants to be with her for life but since most have refused to have sense,men will continue getting the punana without putting a ring on the finger as quick as possible.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2020
remsonik:
Most guys out there nowadays are time wasters. I have lost so many advances cos I couldn't give in to premarital sex. When you give in to sex in the relationship, they will promise you marriage in few months or a year and after that 6 months becomes 1 year, a year becomes 2 and it goes on like that. Then when you ask them you look like the desperate one. One naira I haven't taken from any guy I have dated. Also please make proper findings on any guy you're dating. Alot hide their dirty pasts from you that can even destroy your own life. Alot will come to you claiming single but they could be married, separated and so many differences like that. It is well

Mind you, alot of ladies whose puccies have expired also use this tactics to settle down when the opportunity arises. The start to claim that the reason they are still single is because guys keep demanding for sex from them and she kept saying NO. To a novice, a simp he starts to feel so happy. A GIRL AS OLD AS THIS YET UNMARRIED BECAUSE SHE CHOOSE TO REMAIN CHASE?

The fool in love jumps to such lies only to be told stories that touches the heart on their wedding night with tears in her eyes begging him to forgive her because her puccies has already been thoroughly explored to the elastic limit.

SUCH MAKE FACE IS A GOOD WAY OF TRAPPING MEN IN THINKING HE HAS FOUND A GOOD GIRL.

Enugupikin:

You're doing well by avoiding the sex part...if I was a lady I wouldn't indulge in sex till I marry, unless u want it anyway..I know why u I'm saying this...as a guy I don't even have random sex with any gal I see, infact I don't wanna have sex till I settle down..so help me God

saucecode:

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2020
MiddleDimension:

yes they are. and that's because the world has deceived people into thinking they are no dangerous one bit.
Women are not dangerous.
Some women do and have done dangerous things.
But, no one is also perfect even though we can be perfect.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2020
luminouz:


kiss

Who you dey kiss??
Inyanmma!

Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by saucecode(m): 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2020
Klass99:


Lol, no I am not.

But I remember that moniker well and saw a kindred spirit in her, because I hold similar views/sentiments like her,

I used to be Dimples316, not Breaststroke.
Lol,let me just act like I believe u. The choice of never wanting kids which you have is what drew me to breaststroke then, although I was a thorn in her flesh until she deactivated grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Klass99(f): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2020
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Enugupikin: 3:11pm On Jun 15, 2020
WORDWORLD:


Mind you, alot of ladies whose puccies have expired also use this tactics to settle down when the opportunity arises. The start to claim that the reason they are still single is because guys keep demanding for sex from them and she kept saying NO. To a novice, a simp he starts to feel so happy. A GIRL AS OLD AS THIS YET UNMARRIED BECAUSE SHE CHOOSE TO REMAIN CHASE?

The fool in love jumps to such lies only to be told stories that touches the heart on their wedding night with tears in her eyes begging him to forgive her because her puccies has already been thoroughly explored to the elastic limit.

SUCH MAKE FACE IS A GOOD WAY OF TRAPPING MEN IN THINKING HE HAS FOUND A GOOD GIRL.

Lmao...that one dey sha..the stupid guy will be so disappointed, that's if he later understands what's going on anyway cheesy
I swear u analyzed it well

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by saucecode(m): 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2020
WORDWORLD:

Mind you, alot of ladies whose puccies have expired also use this tactics to settle down when the opportunity arises. The start to claim that the reason they are still single is because guys keep demanding for sex from them and she kept saying NO. To a novice, a simp he starts to feel so happy. A GIRL AS OLD AS THIS YET UNMARRIED BECAUSE SHE CHOOSE TO REMAIN CHASE?

The fool in love jumps to such lies only to be told stories that touches the heart on their wedding night with tears in her eyes begging him to forgive her because her puccies has already been thoroughly explored to the elastic limit.

SUCH MAKE FACE IS A GOOD WAY OF TRAPPING MEN IN THINKING HE HAS FOUND A GOOD GIRL.



saucecode:
You're right, but a real nigga can always spot the difference between a repented ho and a truly chaste woman.
I don't know how to explain it but there is something detectable in the overall persona of a lady who has been collecting dyck in the past before deciding to become a secondary virgin. maybe it's just me

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2020
Enugupikin:

Lmao...that one dey sha..the stupid guy will be so disappointed, that's if he later understands what's going on anyway cheesy
I swear u analyzed it well

Nah today women dey manipulate MUMU men?!!!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by gbami(m): 3:30pm On Jun 15, 2020
Juliearth:




It is not supposed to be difficult. Just put your head down and think with a clear head. the signs are always there, unless if you choose to ignore them.
Exactly...The signs are always there...But we are in love and that's the bi.ch about it all
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by luminouz(m): 3:46pm On Jun 15, 2020
boyjo:


Who you dey kiss??
Inyanmma!
Cmon baby,don't be shy!!! tongue tongue
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by GeorgeTheCoder: 3:52pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:


LIES!

And you know this how ?

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 4:03pm On Jun 15, 2020
GeorgeTheCoder:


You have a point, but marriage on the whole means more to women than men. If men could get away with it, they'd just have kids.

GeorgeTheCoder:


And you know this how ?

Mr Questionnaire, how did you know the part in red? undecided undecided

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by GeorgeTheCoder: 4:08pm On Jun 15, 2020
pocohantas:




Mr Questionnaire, how did you know the part in red? undecided undecided

No point arguing.
I wasted enough of my time on the assumption that you were intelligent.

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