crismark:

The bolded statement is a fallacy!

Women are the real desperados. Come and see the way my immediate elder brother's girlfriend is pestering him for marriage.

That girl can clean the whole of our B close where our family house is situated here in festac jst to prove to my family she is a good girl.

She doesn't know her worth. She is pushing your bro away with such behavior.

Men chase us we don't chase them.

We have retired from the game

crismark:

Nope...Truth is in my family no one cares abt that. She cooks poor (not that poor sha) but my mum has never ever complained abt dis( my dad sef own worse cos ntn dey concern am except he detects a bad attitude problem). So u see my family is one of best u can marry from but dis girl keeps stressing herself.

My brother was even the person who told me she is pestering him for marriage

He considers it pestering because he is not READY or doesn’t want to marry her. In future your brother will be ready and would ask one girl when he can come see her people. That is how men are, when they are ready- they are ready. Before then, it is pestering.

As for cleaning, some people LOVE cleaning. I can even use my tongue to mop floor, e no mean say I want make you marry me o. Naso I dey clean for my house.

OneChanceTaxi:


Lol

This hanty never ceases to amaze me.
You've been pontificating all over the thread even against the flow of people's experiences, telling us how men are the desperate ones after the turn '33'.

Wordworld presents you with a similar thread where women, even you, have the most experiences and willing to bare it all and suddenly you of all people that can argue for pages nonstop do not have the time ehn? �

Saucecode and Wordworld you guys did a good job but using logic on an emotional being usually doesn't work out fine

Dat girl matter dey very plenty I swear, I never see who like attention pass am. The only other person dat compare is cococandy

pocohantas:


He considers it pestering because he is not READY or doesn’t want to marry her. In future your brother will be ready and would ask one girl when he can come see her people. That is how men are, when they are ready- they are ready. Before then, it is pestering.

As for cleaning, some people LOVE cleaning. I can even use my tongue to mop floor, e no mean say I want make you marry me o. Naso I dey clean for my house.

Baba is ready jst studying her character.

Our eldest brother made a great mistake so everyone is trying to be careful.

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

You're wrong in many ways.

crismark:

Baba is ready jst studying her character.

Our eldest brother made a great mistake so everyone is trying to be careful.

That is how you people will keep studying till you lose good people. I wonder who is studying his own...

Ulunne777:


She doesn't know her worth. She is pushing your bro away with such behavior.

Men chase us we don't chase them.

We have retired from the game

Yimu!!

Wait make menopause kee you

pocohantas:


It is not their fault that they are in their 20s, but they should stop calling every lady who desires marriage DESPERATE.

When these guys are ready, any girl who isn’t ready is not DESPERATE, she is an olosho that wants to fck around in her youth.

Any girl that is READY, is the chosen one after so many witches he dated.

Men want women to be ready when they (MEN) are ready. Women should learn to be honest schemers.

....You are so right on this, although I'm against the ladies being schemers like you said.

Ladies should learn to date a man who is ready to down and that way,they won't be seen as being desperate.

apokan200:
� No be lie bro but wetin man go do nah �

Thank God say u even chop small. Nd believe me that girl will be pained more than you.

JONNYSPUTE:
....You are so right on this, although I'm against the ladies being schemers like you said.

Ladies should learn to date a man who is ready to down and that way,they won't be seen as being desperate.

Johnny why won’t they scheme? Of course I know I am right, even though alfa males won’t agree. I have a brother who called his ex “desperate”, she left and married a man that is READY. My bro still curse her for leaving o.
You leave them, they vex. You say okay, let’s marry, they still vex. Now my bro is almost 30 and READY. He is dating one smallie that said she must graduate/serve first and I support her. He has added her graduation to his age, added the fact that it may fail and he is “troubled”. Always asking for my “female perspective”.

Smallie is not READY, my bro is ready. If my bro meets another babe tomorrow and she ticks all his list. Accepts his proposal in 6mths, do you think my bro will call her DESPERATE?

By the way, hope that teacher has left lil-man’s malt? Lol

pocohantas:


Johnny why won’t they scheme? Of course I know I am right, even though alfa males won’t agree. I have a brother who called his ex “desperate”, she left and married a man that is READY. My bro still curse her for leaving o.
You leave them, they vex. You say okay, let’s marry, they still vex. Now my bro is almost 30 and he can see babes plenty, but wife scarce. He is dating one smallie that said she must graduate first and I support her. He has added her graduation to his age, added the fact that it may fail and he is “troubled”. Always asking for my “female perspective”.

By the way, hope that teacher has left lil-man’s malt? Lol

... Lol @ lil-man's malt.
Honestly I had to agree with you cause when I wanted to get married,I looked out for a lady who is also ready to settle.

The mistakes most of our ladies are making in relationship is to befriend a guy who is still in his early or middle twenties and expect him to be ready for marriage.

It doesn't happen that way even though some do get lucky atimes.

I ve a sister whom I adviced to leave his boyfriend then that the guy is not yet ready for marriage,she ignored my advice and finally he called off the relationship siting desperation on her path.She was like men are wicked and I told her,you refuse to be in the right relationship.

Like you said and I agree,most men when they are ready,they don't even date upto 6months with a lady that is ready and available then.

I dated my wife only for 4 months before we got married.

Ladies should please use their brains and lookout for the guys that are ready before jumping into a serious relationship.

I don't like the scheming part because it can still backfire.

My lil man is there with his own wahala. Just yesterday,I was talking with his mummy on phone. I over heard him asking my wife who is that.

My wife said is your Daddy. He called me by my name and I asked my wife to give him the phone.

I asked him why he called me by my name,you wouldn't believe what this kid asked me. He said"Is that not your name? and I said yes and the next statement he made was"I know you are my daddy but is that not your name" I weak.

Kids of these days.

JONNYSPUTE:
... Lol @ lil-man's malt.
Honestly I had to agree with you cause when I wanted to get married,I looked out for a lady who is also ready to settle.

The mistakes most of our ladies are making in relationship is to befriend a guy who is still in his early or middle twenties and expect him to be ready for marriage.

It doesn't happen that way even though some do get lucky atimes.

I ve a sister whom I adviced to leave his boyfriend then that the guy is not yet ready for marriage,she ignored my advice and finally he called off the relationship siting desperation on her path.She was like men are wicked and I told her,you refuse to be in the right relationship.

Like you said and I agree,most men when they are ready,they don't even date upto 6months with a lady that is ready and available then.

I dated my wife only for 4 months before we got married.

Ladies should please use their brains and lookout for the guys that are ready before jumping into a serious relationship.

I don't like the scheming part because it can still backfire.

My lol man is there with his own wahala. Just yesterday,I was talking with his mummy on phone. I over heard him asking my wife who is that.

My wife said is your Daddy. He called me by my name and I asked my wife to give him the phone.

I asked him why he called me by my name,you wouldn't believe what this kid asked me. He said"Is that not your name? and I said yes and the next statement he made was"I know you are my daddy but is that not your name" I weak.

Kids if these days.

You see. Same thing I told my brother, find a lady that is READY. He won’t hear o. I just dey watch am. Your sister made the mistake lots of ladies make, but sometimes I don’t blame them- it is not easy starting all over. I will na start all the “What is your favourite food/colour?”. Kai!

Lmao. I don’t know if it is the food they eat. Kids these days are so smart and eloquent. Let’s not even talk of their diction. Who does he look like? His mum or dad?

pocohantas:


You see. Same thing I told my brother, find a lady that is READY. He won’t hear o. I just dey watch am. Your sister made the mistake lots of ladies make, but sometimes I don’t blame them- it is not easy starting all over. I will na start all the “What is your favourite food/colour?”. Kai!

Lmao. I don’t know if it is the food they eat. Kids these days are so smart and eloquent. Let’s not even talk of their diction. Who does he look like? His mum or dad?

.... He got my fair skin and his mums face.

This one weak me

crismark:

The bolded statement is a fallacy!

Women are the real desperados. Come and see the way my immediate elder brother's girlfriend is pestering him for marriage.

That girl can clean the whole of our B close where our family house is situated here in festac jst to prove to my family she is a good girl.

pocohantas:
Men are just as desperate.

The only difference is, they have mastered the act of indifference. So, ladies due to biological clock are the ones carrying it on their head.

Try dating a mature man and never talk about marriage. Come back and tell me what happens.

pocohantas:
And for ladies reading this, if you really desire marriage- BY ALL MEANS GO FOR IT.

I have seen men who said they are not interested in dating, they want courtship and marriage. 6mth-1yr. No one called it DESPERATION.

MEN cannot be DESPERATE,
They only know what they want.

When it is a woman, it becomes DESPERATION.

If you want to marry in record time, leave guys in their 20s. Go straight to 33 and above. Trust me, their “DESPERATION“ would match yours.

I have friends, guys in their 30s with good jobs and one thing is common- THEY ALL WANT TO GET MARRIED.

[s]One would even tell me “I am desperate. If I see a perfect one, I am marrying”. I will tell him I can’t see the desperation, he will tell me to shun. [/s] Lie with moderation.

Some girls are “lucky“ to meet men at this point, so they don’t have to be DESPERATE. You will see that same guy who dated his EX for 6yrs, get married to another lady in 3months.

Once again, if you desire marriage in record time, follow your heart and go for it.

These same guys will call you evening newspaper when you are 30.

There is nothing wrong with being VERY-pro marriage. Let no one blackmail you into running his model all because he is NOT ready. You don’t even want to meet a man who is VERY ready, when you are not ready as a woman. Their fire is more than women’s own.

Go for what you want!

Why unnecessarily make this a men vs women issue, and satiate readers with unnecessary sermons? You are not the first female to do this (a cunning move for obvious reasons). The topic simply says "Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married?" As simple as that; if you don't have a story to tell, keep quiet.

Did this topic inadvertently trigger something in you? C'mon, you can talk to me?

Martinez39s:
Why unnecessarily make this a men vs women issue, and satiate readers with unnecessary sermons? You are not the first female to do this (a cunning move for obvious reasons). The topic simply says "Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married?" As simple as that; if you don't have a story to tell, keep quiet.

Did this topic inadvertently trigger something in you? C'mon, you can talk to me?

...Where ve you been?

JONNYSPUTE:
...Where ve you been?

I have been enjoying the lockdown at home.

Martinez39s:
I have been enjoying the lockdown at home.

....With one geh abi two?. Down here,the lockdown is not too serious.I dey hangout now with some friends

JONNYSPUTE:
....With one geh abi two?. Down here,the lockdown is not too serious.I dey hangout now with some friends

No girl o. Just playstation, films and books. Lockdown isn't much felt in my area; the supermarket and other business centres are fully operating. The only difference is that I have to maintain social distancing at my pharmacist's shop; the woman just carry the coronavirus matter for head like kilode.

Martinez39s:
No girl o. Just playstation, films and books. Lockdown isn't much felt in my area; the supermarket and other business centres are fully operating. The only difference is that I have to maintain social distancing at my pharmacist's shop; the woman just carry the coronavirus matter for head like kilode.

... Hahahaha.Ok bro. Stay safe

greatbrian:


Funny thing is she never asked me for anything not even sub. Infact there was a time I had issues with my 2nd account and I needed flying to Lagos from kaduna. Charming still sent the money and even when I tried paying her back 2 days later or so, she refused it. I really dnt know why she was so into marriage. Personally, hv promised God no sex before marriage and apart I feel marriage is a life thing since in my Bible the only reasons for divorce or remarrying is adultery or death of partner. So I feel one really need to take his time and pray hard not even with the sad news that grace the front page of Nairaland about domestic violence in marriage and level of divorce in that magistrate court in Ibadan.

This your signature. Wish we can meet one on one so I can teach you a bitter lesson. Mind if I drop my address and number? and you must promise to show up with your full squad.

I'm not blaming u bro, u made ur choice but i felt u could have started her up in a small way [if you could] and u would be surprised how industrious and business minded she is, and she could have really loved u and had u in her plans, life goes on

Decimus:
was she materialistic?

It wasn't her fault to be born into that kind of family bro. If she was good to you, you shouldn't have left her like that, you've left her a permanent scar

pocohantas:


Johnny why won’t they scheme? Of course I know I am right, even though alfa males won’t agree. I have a brother who called his ex “desperate”, she left and married a man that is READY. My bro still curse her for leaving o.
You leave them, they vex. You say okay, let’s marry, they still vex. Now my bro is almost 30 and READY. He is dating one smallie that said she must graduate/serve first and I support her. He has added her graduation to his age, added the fact that it may fail and he is “troubled”. Always asking for my “female perspective”.

Smallie is not READY, my bro is ready. If my bro meets another babe tomorrow and she ticks all his list. Accepts his proposal in 6mths, do you think my bro will call her DESPERATE?

By the way, hope that teacher has left lil-man’s malt? Lol

Imaginary brother to suit your narrative

KingAzubuike:

This your signature. Wish we can meet one on one so I can teach you a bitter lesson. Mind if I drop my address and number? and you must promise to show up with your full squad.

This dumb guy again... Stay off my mention mofo. I dnt have time for E-rats

greatbrian:


This dumb guy again... Stay off my mention mofo. I dnt have time for E-rats

Be like say you wan die abi .. your second wey find me reach house which him squad the other day ask am weytin do am. I don't take anonymous threats likely.

KingAzubuike:

Be like say you wan die abi .. your second wey find me reach house which him squad the other day ask am weytin do am. I don't take anonymous threats likely.

Okay. Find your level we've seen you. Move on

greatbrian:


Okay. Find your level we've seen you. Move on

You dey fear? I go roast you. Carry enough gun and ammunition come.

KingAzubuike:

You dey fear? I go roast you. Carry enough gun and ammunition come.

I DMT have time for eccentric yaba left squad and E-rat like you. If you dey find trouble enter the nearest barracks around you and slap any one you see since your balls are made of iron and your blood acid

greatbrian:


I DMT have time for eccentric yaba left squad and E-rat like you. If you dey find trouble enter the nearest barracks around you and slap any one you see since your balls are made of iron and your blood acid

You know who you dey follow misyarn sha.

KingAzubuike:

You know who you dey follow misyarn sha.

Bleep off lowlife. You are even confused about your gender. Now eat some dick

greatbrian:


Bleep off lowlife. You are even confused about your gender. Now eat some dick

I just pity you.

piagbara:
I'm not blaming u bro, u made ur choice but i felt u could have started her up in a small way [if you could] and u would be surprised how industrious and business minded she is, and she could have really loved u and had u in her plans, life goes on

Nawa for una oh...

This socalled benevolence is not done for your own family members and yet you dey advise others to open business for a woman he is not married to,after sponsoring her for 3 years...

Na this mentality dey make women call una mumu. Go ahead and set her up yourself na