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Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by loveyou123: 12:45pm On Jun 23, 2020
Mine is my father wrongly accusing me of stealing his money not once not twice and there is nothing you can do convince him that you are not the one because in his mind he is always right , as a emotional person it hurts a lot.

I can't wait to graduate and run from his place before he destroy my self esteem, I just pray we shouldn't have any big issues before I leave him, I still want to be in good terms with him.

Just because I am not a very religious person anything bad happened in the house he will be pointing fingers at me, well God know the best.

Must you be praying everyday or going to church always to be a good person?

Please share yours, if you have any hurtful experience with any of your parents

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 23, 2020
There was this shoe my mom refused to buy for me when I followed her shopping years ago as a kid ,it still hurt me whenever I think of it,my dad would have bought it for me.lol. Sorry about the accusations,you will soon have your freedom.Be patient

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by McBrooklyn(m): 12:50pm On Jun 23, 2020
No matter what they've done to me, I always find it in my heart to forgive and forget everytime.. Nothing transcends family cool

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Oluromantic: 12:51pm On Jun 23, 2020
Ive lost count.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by EzzyCarter: 12:51pm On Jun 23, 2020
Giving birth to me in Nigeria while all my older siblings were born in the states. Like what's my offense ? grin grin

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by longetivity(m): 12:53pm On Jun 23, 2020
my mom refused to take me to one sure OWANBE party

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Stevyne: 12:53pm On Jun 23, 2020
Maybe when my Dad refuse me going to Bayero university Kano, 2013.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by EzzyCarter: 12:54pm On Jun 23, 2020
Rozz:
There was this shoe my mom refused to buy for me when I followed her shopping years ago as a kid ,it still hurt me whenever I think of it,my dad would have bought it for me.lol. Sorry about the accusations,you will soon have your freedom.Be patient

Awwww...Lemme take you shopping so you can buy this shoe.. even if it can't size your feet anymore at least you'd still keep it grin

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by NettyNelly(m): 12:56pm On Jun 23, 2020
I can't really think of any now. Though it seems I have a perfect family but if there's anything I didn't like about my parents (my Dad especially) it is being over protective. He always choose the kind of people we associate with and no kid my area then was up to par. It affected my social interactions, I never had friends no gals around till I entered uni. I joined different groups like ENACTUS etc. I started deciding how I want things to be on my own. Though I found such parental care helpful cause it made me different from other kids (not awkward). It was vital to my ordered lifestyle.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by vanida6: 1:00pm On Jun 23, 2020
cool
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jun 23, 2020
EzzyCarter:


Awwww...Lemme take you shopping so you can buy this shoe.. even if it can't size your feet anymore at least you'd still keep it grin
lol thanks,i was obsessed with the shoe and she should have simply bought it for me.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by loveyou123: 1:19pm On Jun 23, 2020
EzzyCarter:
Giving birth to me in Nigeria while all my older siblings were born in the states. Like what's my offense ? grin grin
Lol its your destiny bro

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by callmeRichie(m): 1:23pm On Jun 23, 2020
Rozz:
There was this shoe my mom refused to buy for me when I followed her shopping years ago as a kid ,it still hurt me whenever I think of it,my dad would have bought it for me.lol. Sorry about the accusations,you will soon have your freedom.Be patient

Awnnn, you reminded me of kitto thatyear,grin it still pains me till now I don't get to wear that shoegrin

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by loveyou123: 6:49pm On Jun 24, 2020
Oluromantic:
Ive lost count.
there maybe one particular one that is more painful
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Nobody: 12:07am On Jun 25, 2020
loveyou123:
Mine is my father wrongly accusing me of stealing his money not once not twice and there is nothing you can do convince him that you are not the one because in his mind he is always right , as a emotional person it hurts a lot.

I can't wait to graduate and run from his place before he destroy my self esteem, I just pray we shouldn't have any big issues before I leave him, I still want to be in good terms with him.

Just because I am not a very religious person anything bad happened in the house he will be pointing fingers at me, well God know the best.

Must you be praying everyday or going to church always to be a good person?

Please share yours, if you have any hurtful experience with any of your parents



Sorry bro.....


Ignore them....

Try to get a side hustle

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by starbuck(f): 12:36am On Jun 25, 2020
Thank God for my parents, even with their imperfections, I saw perfections...



Can't even remember any shit now upon i was the one who gave them headache

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by saintvc(m): 2:51am On Jun 25, 2020
prevented me from reading law so I will.not challenge him,cause I argue to much

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by loveyou123: 8:42pm On Jun 25, 2020
Lalasticlala
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jun 25, 2020
Absolutely nurhin cool

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Cutefergieee: 8:51pm On Jun 25, 2020
Ok
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by IbrahimSkiba(f): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
sad


Sometimes I feel so alone.
Sometimes I really get sad and ask so many questions.
Sometimes I am meant to believe that love doesn't actually really exist.
Sometimes I really get scared of being a failure, even after graduating and also serving, but no job.

Now Op is asking what's the thing your parents has done that you now that you won't ever forget.

Now here mine. My dad

I'll always be grateful to God for giving him the grace to see me through school.
I'll forever be indebted to him.


Now here's why I can never forgive my dad
Prior to this day, I've always endured harsh treatment from my dad but I never thought he would go to this extent to show his level of hatred for me and my siblings
So two months ago, my dad and his wife had me and my siblings locked up for a crime we didn't commit, she told my dad that we took her pant, I know it sounds absurd,, I actually thought he was joking, when he said, we would confess. before I knew it, four Red beret officers arrived and told us that we were under arrest, shuoo

Na so dem bundle us go lock us up. At the end the truth came out. I left home. I promised never go to back home.

Now to my mom.
We agreed on selling a piece of land, and from the proceed, I intended on starting a small business from my own share of the money, which was supposed to be 500k, but can you believe that, my mom sold the land for 2.5m and she didn't tell us. .and now ever since then, he line has been switched off cry
She doesn't pick up calls anymore.

I heard she used the money to get herself a ride. Without considering her children.

I vow to make it big in this life.

I don't care the means.. I must make it.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by FeliciaOja(f): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Re

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Goldenheart(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Everyone use to beat the crap out of me grin

My mum use to beat me becoz i didn't know mathematics...

I hated Quantitative Reasoning...
I loved Verbal Reasoning...

2+2 was easy

It got complicated when 2ab + 3xy = 5 find z angry

How was I suppose to know at 6-7yrs.


My Dad beat the crap out of me when he was looking for his money. ..but i didn't cry

Turns out my mum took it...
Then the tears started coming when he was apologizing. cry

grin
wink

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Ugh, I try not to make them mad at me. But, my mom had hit me publicly. awwf
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by paulolee(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
1.my mom always making me reject monetry gifts and food from my relatives which made me thought thier hands aint clean and they are all winches and wizards
2..my dad always comparing me to sule our next door neighbor without knowing wat the gee really do for a living, till sars come bundle am for ous say him de among one robbery gang like dt and that was the last i heard abt him..
3..dad always telling me to go to skul instead of football that i intended playing and now my ex team mate austin wey i de bench for street club dt year don they switzerland 2nd division dey earn foreign currencies and i still dey on naija school scam
4.lastly, was nearly depressed and cried all night when ronke the popular street runs girl, came to our compound one Saturday morning crying along with her mum that am responsible for her pregnancy, can't deny i do gist with her, but i have never even seen the colour of her pant before, and she was seriously accusing me wrongly with tears in her eyes that i got her pregnant and my parents just believed her and ignored my innocence, weeks after she came with the man that owned the child to beg for forgiveness and i jus did but never forgived my parents..

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by eastermonday66: 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
starbuck:
Thank God for my parents, even with their imperfections, I saw perfections...



Can't even remember any shit now upon i was the one who gave them headache
Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by LoydJ(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Loosing my Dad to the cold Hands of death at a very young and tender age



Not Growing up with the Care's of A Dad eats me Nd bites me so much.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by SouthNigerian: 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
The most painful my parent did me?

My Mum who seperated with my Dad when I was only 3 accused me of being a thief less than a year after reunion of 7yrs seperation.

Crazy enough, I became a hardened thief due to that one false allegation by my Mom. I broke the thieving habit in the long run though, thanks to JAH.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by visijo(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2020
Being a man is cool, you deny your relatives money they blame your wife �

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Elzakzaky: 8:53pm On Jun 25, 2020
My dad visited Nigeria but left without informing me. My offence: I was to spend an extra year in the university.

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Re: Most Painful Thing Done To You By Your Parents by Slawormir: 8:53pm On Jun 25, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Dragg my weed while i read comments

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