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Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 6:46am On Jun 27, 2020 |
My people I fell in love with a 34 year old lady & her love for me is times 2 of mine, even though I didn't know her age after 2 months of our relationship, cos she said it could ruin our chances as she can't watch me go. We are both both working, even though our jobs doesn't have security, she's great everywhere and her body is still 30 by face value. She wants MARRIAGE, I had asked her to slow down because it seems my time is ticking slowly and hers is faster because of her age, girl is inlove no doubt but sometimes i sense a degree of desperation around her. Also my job is just 14 months and i just started life so i feel i need more time to think it through and she needs us to start planning the alley way ( marriage) now. Beautiful Smart Hardworking Very active in communication Infact i left my ex cos of her but i don't know why one side of my heart isn't cool with the age thing. Elders Come to my rescue ooooo! 2 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by zoer(m): 6:50am On Jun 27, 2020 |
U no know say she old pass u b4 u toast her?...Guy free us the elders cos we get important meeting for yard now........ Free us 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Kriss216: 6:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Evening newspapers are mostly caring, loyal, loving, smart, hardworking until you commit. Don't fall for all these gimmicks.. Take your time to ascertain if she's the right one for you. Don't be fascinated by her loyalty. 22 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 6:53am On Jun 27, 2020 |
zoer: ! I won't leave you 2 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by sweettease(f): 6:53am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Seems like you already made your decision before you even came here. You'll see that once you stop lying to yourself. 7 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 6:54am On Jun 27, 2020 |
sweettease: How ? Can't you see its not bent on one side. |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 6:55am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Kriss216: God bless you with Budweiser and fish this weekend, better elder 5 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Kriss216: 6:56am On Jun 27, 2020 |
sweettease:He said one side of his heart isn't cool with the age thing... Or you didn't see that part? |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by ObaOfUyo: 6:56am On Jun 27, 2020 |
sweettease:And nothing we say will make him change his mind. Dude has fallen in love with an evening newspaper who won't let him leave. If you love her, don't let the age thn be a factor. But careful tho Peace 6 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Hezzyluv: 6:56am On Jun 27, 2020 |
KindlyAssist: U no get problem, from looks of things, u love her, she loves u twice, pls go ahead her. At bold, u know y b sincere to urself. And is because of what people will say right? Listen to what people will say and jeopardise ur happiness. 2 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by lilmax(m): 6:57am On Jun 27, 2020 |
KindlyAssist:I assure you, you're not in your right MIND at the moment You might think you're in love but give it time As for me I can't be with a 34year old woman, not advisable It's just my opinion to you though, if you think you're good to go then go on 6 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 6:57am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Kriss216: To come hear and write your worry is guts, and some people need to respect that. |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Kriss216: 6:58am On Jun 27, 2020 |
KindlyAssist:Amen. I pray same God should also bless you with a tender girl with succulent breasts and fresh thighs accompanied with rounded nyash. 3 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Hezzyluv: 7:08am On Jun 27, 2020 |
lilmax:kindly tell me y sir. or is it because she'll die bfor u?? |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Nobody: 7:12am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Well there is bound to be some desperation. She's not getting any younger so its expected. Don't listen to anyone saying you should or should not marry her. Instead judge based on now and what the future might bring by answering some of these... Won't she change after marriage if finances are not there? Will she still see you as the head of the house after marriage cos true colours can come out after a person gets his or her utmost desire? She's 6 years older. Have you factored in the fact that a woman's beauty depreciates with age especially if there is no money for maintenance? Only a few girls have that natural ageless beauty. That's why you see the ones that cant do without makeup looking older than their ages when you see their natural faces. When that beauty starts to fade will you remain faithful cos one of the greatest problem of older ladies nowadays is that younger prettier girls with firm natural bodies are springing up and men cheat a lot with them once the beauty starts to fade? Are you mentally mature enough to handle a lady cos ladies get exposed to more mature older men faster especially when they are young and it affects how they see their age mates not to talk of one who is older than you? My point is don't be clouded or fooled by her show of love. It might be genuine but it could still change due to circumstances. Instead think of the worst case scenario as per your relationship and marriage with her and if you can bear whatever the future might bring no matter how bad then go ahead. But if you cant stand the things I've asked up there(and trust me there are may more I did not even ask) then don't set yourself up for an early grave. Set aside feelings and think realistically. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by ShenTeh(m): 7:18am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Be patient. As there are no perfect men, there are no perfect girls. If one is looking for an excuse, one will always find. If she is submissive, every other thing will fall in place. Age is a treasure, don't let let 'what will people say?" mentality ruin your true happiness. Keep the age issue to yourselves and enjoy your life. If age is the only issue, my brother, good girls scarce o. Marriage na long journey you no fit manage bad vehicle o because say the car never old. Good luck. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Firstorderwizard(m): 7:21am On Jun 27, 2020 |
I be elder but let me listen to the elderly elders first 1 Like |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Freelane33(m): 7:24am On Jun 27, 2020 |
You’re not the first to marry someone that is older than you’re , one prophet did and he didn’t die so ride on man if the woman Dey give you joy and peace of mind 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by ElasmoBranchii(m): 7:24am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Nobody: 7:25am On Jun 27, 2020 |
do you love her? if yes go for her.sit down and access your feelings.marriage is for life.age is just a number 3 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by sweettease(f): 7:30am On Jun 27, 2020 |
KindlyAssist:Story!! 1 Like |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by sweettease(f): 7:33am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Kriss216:One side kor! Even in describing the good parts of being with her, he was listing shortcomings. He will bail the first chance he gets. 2 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by OKOATA(m): 7:35am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Guy use your head, I dated a girl for a few months and she was older than me but deep down I knew something wasn’t right, I jejeli broke up with her by ghosting her. If your mind is telling you otherwise it’s better you look for a younger lady around your age. 4 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Kriss216: 7:36am On Jun 27, 2020 |
sweettease:Isn't that the noble thing to do? |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 7:38am On Jun 27, 2020 |
DominusPrime: Thanks Sir.. True Elder... Noted |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 7:39am On Jun 27, 2020 |
OKOATA: Point... Thank you |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 7:40am On Jun 27, 2020 |
ShenTeh: On point.... Noted o |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by pahars(m): 7:50am On Jun 27, 2020 |
I dont tink age matters that much these days in marriages...but from what i read you are are just starting your life in terms of finances and all, why not just take your time before you rush into marriage.You are still young, dont marry if you are not financially ready 3 Likes |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by KindlyAssist: 8:06am On Jun 27, 2020 |
pahars: God bless you, for your candid advice |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by lowkeybahdguy(m): 9:03am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Kriss216: Elder when sabi.. e be things.. 1 Like |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Freelane33(m): 9:06am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Damn sweettease: |
Re: Am 28 And She's 34.... Could It Be A Marriage Mistake? by Olochee: 9:09am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Why do I think this post was created with the intention of trolling? |
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