Raeheemwayne:

If the sexual urge is too strong and you're not married; if you have a fiancée, you can call he/she on phone and discuss your predicament. If you're single, then codedruns, exoticnigeria, michat, inmessage and the rest are your friends. but, if you're single and broke (lol), just apply aboniki balm on your dick and you'll have no sexual urge for 2months because as a broke guy you don't even have right to masturbate.
Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm here to learn.

You will not make heaven! Such savagery

skimena:
I can't support masturbation or rape. Never. When u're Hot and you are not married. Just Read your Bible. Pray, sing praise and worship to God.

You won't even last 3 minutes before the urge will disappear.

If you do that today, what about tomorrow? or you think it won't come back. Devil wey test Jesus after 40 days 40 night sef no gree go once.

RAGGA40:
i'm doing that thigh quaking squats to walk is a problem.

Start small then gradually increase the reps. Do some lunges first, when your thighs are sufficiently warmed up. Then squat. I assume you're not using weights. 5 reps 4sets(20reps total), 1min rest between sets. Do that 3 days in a week, sufficient days of rest in between. Then try to do 30reps straight at the end of the week, no quitting Midway. That's how you progress. Same procedure if you're holding dumbbells. Try to smile when they ask you if you're walking on coals

Having a sexual urge is not a sin.
It's not something to be ashamed or disturbed about, it's human biology programmed into our genes by God or nature. Infact its purpose is for recreation and recreation is one of the most important affairs of humans. These people and their dented view of sex are attempting to make is sound like having an urge is an act you should not normally have. When the otherwise is the case it's normal it's good it's usual it's right. A person who doesn't have it it the one to be worried and the one meant to be doing praise worship in other to cure himself or herself.
So when next you have a sexual urge find a sexual release.
But be careful sexual release is the reason why sexual sadists and serial killers are many cause they couldn't reach a state of release from just consensual sexual encounter. This does not in any way mean sexual release is bad, it however means self control is better.
Too much of everything and anything is very bad. Please don't let them cage your sexual urge find a consensual outlet, don't let your urge make you a murderer or rapist. It's like letting hunger lead you to cannibalism.
Don't let them lock you in the religious dogma box.
But above all prioritize self control above all urges.
Self control is sweeter it makes you confident it clears you head it helps you build stamina.
As you're looking for an outlet for sexual release find one for self control.
Thank you.

dodelight:
what if she's not, but just lose interest in sex. she had it alot before meeting her husband who happened to be a virgin. getting married, she lost interest.

It means the husband is not doing the needful. She is not satisfied but cannot tell the husband. His methods may probably be irritating due to his inexperience.

CALCULUS16:
Of the 3 greatest positive emotions is SEX. sex is biological, you might be saved as a christian or islamist, see our sensual organs, cells, hormones etc are not saved, they are doing their own jejely, no amount of prayer of fasting can kill it cos its a natural instinct for life continuation. As for me, any time my mr mike rises, i feel joy in my mind that this is working, mind you , mr mike works with thought, its the only member in the body that works with conscious thought, to overcome incessant urge, my dear GUARD YOUR HEART for out of it comes the issues of life. Engage yourself in growing your spiritual self through reading of Gods words, do not think the urge is devilish, dont start saying every spirit of satan controlling lust in you die by fire, see; the ball is in your court, pray for and practise SELF-CONTROL. The difference between someone who conquers sexual temptations through urges and the one that it conquers is this SELF-CONTROL. GUARD YOUR HEART

Kei144:
Best solution is to wash your heart with the blood of Jesus.

In the mighty name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I sprinkle all my inward and outward parts with the blood of Jesus through the Holy Spirit of God. I wash away from my heart, my soul, every unrighteousness, every evil desire and every evil inclination, by the blood of Jesus, through the Holy Spirit. In the name of Jesus Christ!

As you say the prayer, use your imagination to visualize the blood of Jesus cleansing you.

Try the above kind of prayer and see what will happen. It is not only about sex, the prayer will transform your life.

megareal:

It means the husband is not doing the needful. She is not satisfied but cannot tell the husband. His methods may probably be irritating due to his inexperience.

There was a case in which a man and a woman were newly married and started doing the thing. The new wife busted out: "You don't do it as well as my ex." The man immediately decided that he didn't want the marriage again.

dodelight:
what if you're married but your wife is denying you sex? she's just not interested except for baby making.

Could this actually be real? If it's, it simply means the man has been put in bondage.

dodelight:
what if you're married but your wife is denying you sex? she's just not interested except for baby making.

Women are very delicate species that men need to learn to know about in every aspect. Also sometimes, the denying might be due to her having or going through some medical underpinning problems, side psychological and other things

BABANGBALI:
that kind wife dey enjoy herself with another person be that

Speculation

dodelight:
what if she's not, but just lose interest in sex. she had it alot before meeting her husband who happened to be a virgin. getting married, she lost interest.

Plausible, but still why "punishing" her other better half

megareal:
It means the husband is not doing the needful. She is not satisfied but cannot tell the husband. His methods may probably be irritating due to his inexperience.

There could be some truth in this

Kei144:
There was a case in which a man and a woman were newly married and started doing the thing. The new wife busted out: "You don't do it as well as my ex." The man immediately decided that he didn't want the marriage again.

The man nah mumu man. If it was me, I would humble, and straight up ask how the ex was doing it, as I be fast learner, mtcheew. Make hin go find woman wey no sabi good thing like that nah.

At least the woman was honest, she no suffer in silence, knowing that before she marry this man, she before has regularly had her spot hit, but this her slow husband no sabi how to hit her spot as well as she know hin suppose to hit am. Instead to learn, the man dey throw shoulder. The woman no say she no love him, she no cheat on am, the love still dey 1000%, but just because she tok truth, yawa come scatter because of hubby's fragile ego.

madridsta007:


“Five minutes and we are done...”

"Koinonia pray"

JUBILEE2000:

"Koinonia pray"

"Listen!"

Remember ur bank account balance, conji will fly through the window

I do not blaspheme the Holy Bible, but no verse can continually extinguish a sexual need, if God created this need, it is so that it is satisfied.

dodelight:
what if you're married but your wife is denying you sex? she's just not interested except for baby making.

This lady don't love you, she just married for have children.

OgaVoltron:


Wrong as in telling them that working out when Hot is a temporary fix? That it will just jack up their testosterone and they are back to square 1 in 2/3days. Then they repeat the cycle until that pent up energy has to leave somehow either through wet dreams or sex? See how it defeats the purpose, To control the urge? Your statement even supports mine . By the way, I was both. And please don't tell me you stopped bodybuilding. It's a way of life

I wish I could continue, seriously I miss those days. Now I literally look like a sack of potatoes, I'm too busy these days. The last time I was in a gym was like 5yesrs ago, it's all about the Benjamins now bro, but I'm planning to go back to the gym fully by this years end.

Now back to the topic, true your testosterone builds up within 2-3days. That's why you should gym atleast 3times a week so your progress and results will be quick, but wasting your testosterone through sex or masturbation will definitely slow your progress.
But in all focusing on God helps you control your urge.

bustykasa:
sincerely I masturbate...

Most of my female friends masturbate. They even tell me is better de use cucumber than for den to offer it to a guy dat doesn't spend on dem

madridsta007:


"Listen!"

"Pls help those under the anointing "

JUBILEE2000:


"Pls help those under the anointing "

“Life is spiritual...”

VickyRotex:


No be about wetin people wear, na your mind need reprogramming

Aha! That's another good song to sing. Oya start to dey sing am.

but na una day wan put us for temptation ,sing the song doesn't stop early morning erection o

Raeheemwayne:

You're right to an extent though.
I have a perfect clapback for you. but, I'll keep to myself.

Lol feel free to share it though

BTW; I danced with a Bonner ( an erection ) this morning.
The feelings was Awesome.

What? I give up

Keep at it though, you'll get used to it

spiralwedge:


If the urge is strong, but you are married and your wife refuses you day in day out.... What should you do?

ok

Nooil:


Can a man who gets married to more than ten wives still have benign prostatic hyperplasia or prostate cancer? Prostate issues has more to do with your lifestyle than the number of times you masturbate or have sex.

The more sex a man engages in.
At least twice in a week, that's the minimum for a guy who is sexually active.
The leaser his chances of being susceptible to Prostate Cancer or BPH if he engages in sex frequently.

spiralwedge:


Let's assume you are cripple or physically handicapped, and you have the urge, what do you do?

Use ur tongue to count your teeth

You answer the question because you are a man like me.

What kinda question do dis people of Nairaland ask sometimes.

Abcruz:


Medically it is rather unjustifiable and largely unproven that few or no sexual intercourse predisposes a man in developing clinical anomalies of any kind Pls be guided.

Have you ever heard that a Catholic priest or a monk died because of complications resulting from his celibate lifestyle?

I ll engage in this discussion with you if you are a doctor because I need to ejucate you more in the field of surgery called Urology.

If you are not a Doctor or Surgeon..

Oga Abeg don't waste my time

yassinattah:


The more sex a man engages in.
At least twice in a week, that's the minimum for a guy who is sexually active.
The leaser his chances of being susceptible to Prostate Cancer or BPH if he engages in sex frequently.

There are more causes of prostate cancer aside from lack of sex. Most important is dehydration.

yassinattah:


I ll engage in this discussion with you if you are a doctor because I need to ejucate you more in the field of surgery called Urology.

If you are not a Doctor or Surgeon..

Oga Abeg don't waste my time

Have you answered my question?

yassinattah:


The more sex a man engages in.
At least twice in a week, that's the minimum for a guy who is sexually active.
The leaser his chances of being susceptible to Prostate Cancer or BPH if he engages in sex frequently.

BPH is considered a normal condition of male aging, and many men older than 80 years have BPH symptoms. Although the exact cause is unknown, changes in male sex hormones that come with aging may be a factor. (Healthline.com)

On a basic level, prostate cancer is caused by changes in the DNA of a normal prostate ...(cancer.org)

Pls be guided!

Abcruz:


Have you answered my question?

Sorry..

I neither have time or the inclination to negotiate with u or argue grammar..

If you want to discuss medicine,then I ll engage in this conversation with you only if u a collegue.

If not...let's not expose our Ignorance and close our asiri.

Abcruz:



BPH is considered a normal condition of male aging, and many men older than 80 years have BPH symptoms. Although the exact cause is unknown, changes in male sex hormones that come with aging may be a factor. (Healthline.com)

On a basic level, prostate cancer is caused by changes in the DNA of a normal prostate ...(cancer.org)

Pls be guided!

I'm sorry u are not talking like an enlightened collegue in the field of medicine..

Read About Prostate Specific Antigen and come back and re-arrange your statement above and filter what is suppose to be filtered.

since u want to give me the job of enlightening you of which this things are in the literature..

Reference
Badoe- Principles of Surgery
Bailey and Love- Text book of Surgery

don't argue blindly with me.

I beg you.

Thanks.

yassinattah:


Use ur tongue to count your teeth

You answer the question because you are a man like me.

What kinda question do dis people of Nairaland ask sometimes.

So are you saying crippled people can't have the urge?

If they can what should they do?

spiralwedge:


So are you saying crippled people can't have the urge?

If they can what should they do?

First of all.

Are you a cripple.

Answer the question. Yes or No

Then if you are..

I ll now tell you how to go about it, when konji becomes a bastard but if you are not..

Use your head to think about what you are suppose to do in such situation you find yourself earlier..

yassinattah:


I'm sorry u are not talking like an enlightened collegue in the field of medicine..

Read About Prostate Specific Antigen and come back and re-arrange your statement above and filter what is suppose to be filtered.

since u want to give me the job of enlightening you of which this things are in the literature..

Reference
Badoe- Principles of Surgery
Bailey and Love- Text book of Surgery

don't argue blindly with me.

I beg you.

Thanks.

Well if you observed well you would have clearly seen that I gave references to the info I presented so were is the blind argument

However, "Prostate-specific antigen (PSA), also known as gamma-seminoprotein or kallikrein-3 (KLK3), is a glycoprotein enzyme encoded in humans by the KLK3 gene. PSA is a member of the kallikrein-related peptidase family and is secreted by the epithelial cells of the prostate gland."
Ref:https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate-specific_antigen

Research has proven that mutation of this gene is capable of causing prostate cancer and not sexual inactivity.

Kallikreins are a subgroup of serine proteases having diverse physiological functions. Growing evidence suggests that many kallikreins are implicated in carcinogenesis and some have potential as novel cancer(e.g prostate cancer) and other disease biomarkers.
Ref:http://www.cancerindex.org/geneweb/KLK3.htm