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Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

Eberechi24:
Don't change your mind because of what you read here... you may be only Savior he needs.

luminouz:
You believe that halfdone bullshiit she is selling?

Eberechi24:
Nothing is impossible. You never can tell.

luminouz:
If na you,maybe but that geh? Never!!!

NevetsIbot:
She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.
RE-BRANDING WHAT?
HOW CAN YOU TALK ABOUT RE-BRANDING A STREET RAT WHEN YOU'VE NOT EVEN FIXED YOURSELF? DON'T BE SILLY. IF YOU TRY TO DO THIS A MILLION TIMES, YOU WILL FAIL A MILLION TIMES. NEVER WORKS IN YOUR FAVOUR.

Working class ladies all the way from now

NevetsIbot:
Actually na Virgin o... After I got there and found out.. I paused and decided against breaking it. She was begging for it but nah. Won't be the guy to go through the clinginess after...

I've had enough personal experience

RickTisci:
OP shey na ondo the girl based too, I had a similar experience with an ondo lady, na why I dey ask be that

CAPSLOCKED:
UNFORTUNATELY THERE ARE WORSE WORKING CLASS LADIES. I'M SURE EXPERIENCE HAS A BAG FULL OF LIFE LESSONS FOR YOU.

Eberechi24:
Never say never.

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

NevetsIbot:
I won't say I am perfect but as a guy, I have developed myself to a large extent enough to impact anyone I date positively. What's the point of being in a relationship without helping the person build and grow?

I was doing just that until she proved otherwise

NevetsIbot:
If you let the post of someone online stop you from helping someone because of his gender ion think you really wanted to help him.

My post is not about her being broke alone... But being broke and inconsiderate... I ran into a debt and all she could care a was her subscription.... That's the crux of the matter.

scottyoloye:
Oga didn't you read the part where he mentioned the fact that he was about sending the money and she replied with a text that turned him off As for the bolded, so, you're saying it's a boyfriend's duty to buy sanitary pads right.. weldone o awon eyan sanitary section.... Instead of that your friend to reinvest with the 70k, he's doing big boy upandan... I wonder what's wrong with our generation... Full of youths with misplaced priorities......

bharkarh:
I just had to unsee what he wrote. These guys would even find it difficult to give their mothers 5k as stipends

bigpicture001:
OP sh has done nothing wrong in asking your for airtime.. It goes with her age. If you want to take less responsibilities.. Date older ladies... Dont try to eat your cake and still have it...

Your ranting "why can't a 22years old be able to subscribe her fone.. Is everyone in ur house I mean everyone at age 22 self sustainable..? Because your able to find your way around thing in a country plagued with under employment your now indirectly trying to make us feel your focus, smart and hardworking..........

Grow up kid. Sh was wrong for not caring about your own predicament I must confess,but who will blame the kid. Get a gf.!

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

NevetsIbot:
Total rubbish. Believe me, you have not commanded the respect I have commanded from women and ion suppose you can fathom how it feels.

I have been in relationships with real sensible women and they are a direct opposite of this.

Again. You are here thinking its all about the money and that's a sign that you're just plain dumb and slow in thinking. You're just a slow poke.

Create your effing thread and watch me bounce on it. Do me well to mention me so I can drop in on time.

When I'm done effing you up on this thread, I'll mess you up in yours. Your friend had 200k... Lol.

200k.... Tcheeeew.. 200k... All the epistle was cos of a friend who had 200k.


Tell me what you have spent on a lady first..... You should get a beak on your lips and feathers glued to your azz... Bird brain

NevetsIbot:
If you let the post of someone online stop you from helping someone because of his gender ion think you really wanted to help him.

My post is not about her being broke alone... But being broke and inconsiderate... I ran into a debt and all she could care a was her subscription.... That's the crux of the matter.

Sixfeetbelle:
Tbh, the topic is misleading. Change the heading and people will focus on the area you want.

Although I'd say you mischievously went with that heading to generate traffic

DenreleDave:
She won.. U still lost 1k

NevetsIbot:
This is a heads up for any feminist or gender bias person thinking I'm here taking a swing at the female folks... You're grossly mistaken.

I met this girl... 22yrs of age.. Should could converse well although most of the undertones of her sentences were always that of "manipulation".

She's damn good swimmer who spends a lot of her time at hotels that have pools. That was where we met cos I'm pretty big on swimming too. After constant contacts... She loved up and one thing led to another. She dances actually and I did my part to show her to offer her skills as a service to anyone who wants her and her crew to dance for their music videos.

Two months down the line - She was demanding almost 24hrs of my time - I was not going to give any woman the luxury of my whole day - when there was money to be made. She had to adjust.

So then - I ran at a loss at one of my trades yesterday which will mean I'll have to refund a friend of a huge sum. I got online, saw she Had dropped a text for me... She was asking for money for subscription (Can you be so broke at 22yrs that you can't manage to subscribe for yourself?) I ignored it and proceeded to tell her the mess that just happened.. I was about to take up my small phone to load her line .... Next thing she said was "SHA DO MY SUB"

Anger mixed with disappointments and rage but I chose to ignore her messages. Then she came with the barrage of slight insults saying I was ignoring her cos of 1k. And she went on ranting.

Told her how inconsiderate she was and how dissaponted I was at her. The money was not even the issue, it was her inability to not see my own loss just for her gains.

Bottom line - she said stuffs like "You know I have never asked you for anything, when have you ever told me to send my account number as a compensation for me not asking you for money?" - LIKE I WAS OBLIGATED TO REWARD HER FOR NOT ASKING ME FOR SHIT!

I asked her this " If I were Hot and I came to you for sex and you told me you just developed a stomach ache and I shrug if off and say "Sha lie down and let me do my thing"...... Would you not find it offensive that I totally ignored what was wrong with you? "

NOTE : We ain't had sex yet cos I just didn't want to.

She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.

Egbami... Ordinary 1k....how many mins does it even take a 15yr old to spend 1 thousand naira. And here was a 22yr old ignoring that her boyfriend made a very bad trade and lost a lot of money for it... ONE THOUSAND NAIRA..... O WRONG NAU. O WRONG!

I reloaded the airtime she needed on her line as her severance package... If 1k is more important than your boyfriends wellbeing , take it and go.


who's at fault?.. I obviously am for letting myself down and going for a girl way below my worth..... I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.

Working class ladies all the way from now

drnoel:
Did u not hear he said her severance package?

SweetCunt97:
Are u his mom? Lemme guess, na Abuja guy?

excessmon:
Who feels entitled more? Abuja or Lagos guys?

armylord:
lol so because of a random post on nairaland condemning Broke Girls, u changed your mind! U don't wanna help the guy anymore!?, we know u don't have the 150k!!