| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 01, 2020 |
joyandfaith:
very correct. if bola charges funmi to court, he will be in serious mess. He should pray to whichever God he believes in. Guy is in deep shit if she decides to sue. UK is not Nigeria. After elderly, children, women, pets and then men. 8 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by FlordFlorez(m): 10:36am On Jul 01, 2020 |
I fear who no fear woman. 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Just AVOID WOMEN if you can.
APOSTLE PAUL said it.
He wasn't drunk when he said it.
My View:
IF you must need them, Please settle for prostitutes and make sure you pay them. Don't keep them for too long. Just use and discard.
The Longer they stay in your apartment, the closer the MAYHEM.
Tape record your dealings with them.
As MEN, we fight not against snakes nor scorpions, rather we wrestle against our own flesh.
He also advised MEN to channel their energy somewhere else.
As a MEDICAL DOCTOR, you ought to be smarter than what you put out there.
How could you display ignorance to that level, by writing that both of you were drunk...
Someone on the Influence of ALCOHOL can't give viable judgements/decisions and I guess you know that. 5 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Chirowman(m): 10:36am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Wahala oo |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by alizma: 10:36am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure. They both slept with each other. Besides she admitted when she wasnt drunk that she didn't mean he rapped her. 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by VEXT: 10:37am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Honestly most women are ingrate... In my own house,you still accuse me of rape!! Did he force her for sex? "No"
Check out the pic below and imagine a man carry this same act with his daughter and post it on social media... All the stupid feminists and simp will have call him names and want him to be jail.... 4 Likes 
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| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by content208: 10:37am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Dobson43:
My dear, learn to comprehend. I mentioned that a smart lawyer can turn the case on its head since it's debatable how drunk both parties were especially the guy. Guys can get a lady drunk and pretend they too were under intoxication too. That way, he could have his way. But his case can be blown to pieces by a competent criminal lawyer who knows his onions.
My guy, we both know a lady cannot travel from Lagos to Abuja to see a guy without sex already been on the table talk less of travelling from Nigeria to UK. And we also know she didn't come visiting to play Ludo with the guy nor did she spend 4months alone with a man who is neither her father nor her brother just for the sake of visiting. We also know that under usual cases of rape......the assaulted party runs and seeks redress immediately.
I am just pointing to the fact that the excuse that they both got drunk that the doctor gave is not a enough.
A woman can also intentionally get drunk or make the guy drunk to have sex with him so that she will look like the victim and pretend as if she wasn't expecting the sex. A smart lawyer can also point that out. 3 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by 12inchess: 10:37am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Why is it that men often get blamed for drunk and unplanned sex especially when the women are not satisfied with the outcome after. The guy can as well say he was drunk and she raped him. At her age, one expects her to have more common sense that you don't go staying in guys house that you're not having anything sexual with for 4 months. He is not your brother or cousin. I know some people here would term me rape apologist but it is what it is.
Many a case sound like when the women don't get what they want they say it's rape. Whereas if they were dating today she will never mention rape. I'm still thinking how you had sex with this guy twice and you're calling it rape. Just say you're not happy how things turned out. Even if the first time was rape, was the second time also rape? Did they tie you to his house? You were probably benefitting from free accommodation. 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by MoneyMindset(m): 10:37am On Jul 01, 2020 |
ANNOUNCEMENT!!! I DON MAKE FRONT PAGE |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by africandollar: 10:38am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Adasun:
All dis pape matter self,na God hand e dey. How in the world would you type 'pape' instead of 'rape'?! 'R' and 'P' are at the extremities of the keyboard! 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ovoP(m): 10:38am On Jul 01, 2020 |
sassysure:
He should pray to whichever God he believes in. Guy is in deep shit if she decides to sue.
UK is not Nigeria.
After elderly, children, women, pets and then men.  |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Rozz I hope you are seeing it now. So right now it's his word against hers. Should we still discard his word just because she has accused him? |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:39am On Jul 01, 2020 |
ok |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by atakamus: 10:39am On Jul 01, 2020 |
MoneyMindset:
Nigeria to UK
UK-based Nigerian medical doctor, Dr Funmilayo Harvey was accused of rape by another doctor Dr Bola Aseyan, has responded to the allegation.
In a post he just made on Twitter, the doctor stated that they met on Twitter in 2019 and despite never setting eyes on each other, the relationship was never stable.
Dr Funmilayo responds to rape allegation – We had sex twice
He further revealed that Bola, who is a practicing doctor in Nigeria, and not the UK, insisted on coming to the UK to visit, for reasons best known to her, as her Visa was initially not granted.
According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had.
He then mentioned that he specifically asked her if she was insinuating he sexually abused her and she replied saying NO.
In his rebuttal, Harvey wrote on how he accommodated Bola for 4 months in his apartment despite the duo not being in talking terms, and his only crime was him not allowing her into his heart.
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Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278065186935648257
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278220859921047553
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278222879197466624 All these long story na for just two round of se.x If it pass two, una go write 100 pages of book. Nonsense. 3 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Skmoda360(m): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Dobson43:
That they both had sex when they were both drunk can actually land him in hot water. A smart lawyer can turn the matter on its head.
As it stands, the lady has scores she wants to settle with the man and she is willing to go any length to tarnish his image.
I have advised my fellow men to draft an agreement before engaging in fuckery.
...*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*
Due to the current and numerous allegations made by women, which include rape and many other sexual misconduct towards women, there is now an agreement to be signed before any poking "*action*".
Please print a Copy which can be used in the Court of Law .
*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*......
I, __________________________, the undersigned Female Partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with________________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:-
1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.
2. THAT I am not under the influence of any narcotic. N(s).
3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.
4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.
5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.
6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.
7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.
8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love SEX and want it as much as he does.
9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.
10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.
*SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED ON THIS* ___ *DAY OF* _____ (MONTH) ________ (YEAR) AT ______ (AM/PM)
________________________________
Signature of Screwee :=-...
PS: Not taking anything for granted...erryting is now strictly bizniz...
You get the paper for house like this Baba ..... |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by abasscity(m): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2020 |
See the girl chilling in his living room. Very happy. Women sha 2 Likes 
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| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Anextin(f): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure. No it won't, cos both were intoxicated |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2020 |
maynia:
He can also claim that she raped him while he was drunk, it goes both ways. No, it doesn't. The law may ask if he intentionally left a bottle of wine hanging around just so he could get her drunk and vulnerable. |
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| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 01, 2020 |
BluntTheApostle:
No, it doesn't.
The law may ask if he intentionally left a bottle of wine hanging around just so he could get her drunk and vulnerable.
What are you saying? Didn't you read the thread? She herself brought the drink to the room, it was her that first initiated that they should drink . Be reasonable bro. If anybody was raped it was the guy. Go and read the thread and stop basking in ignorance. It's irritating 6 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 01, 2020 |
ovoP:
Yes na  If it's in Nigeria, the case is dead on arrival. Read the link I posted and see that that guy just dug his own grave. The law is very specific and well detailed on that. Guy man should carry his people, go and beg. 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Fearlez: 10:42am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333:
That's his word against the law, sir. you don't know what you're saying |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:42am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Anextin:
No it won't, cos both were intoxicated It can. The wine was hanging around in his house. If I were a prosecutor, my first case against him would be that he left that wine hanging around on purpose to get my client drunk and vulnerable. And that is after drilling my client to insist that that particular wine was hanging prominently around. 1 Like |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by money121(m): 10:43am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Ok |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by UNUKHASO: 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
I OVER 100%.RESPECT WOMEN FROM THE NORTH EAST THEY DO THEIRS WITH THE FEAR OF GOD.YOU CAN NEVER SEE THEM MINGLED WITH MEN PUBLICLY THEY DO EVERYTHING SECRETLY.NO THIRD PARTY,NO ALLEGATION |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by TheKingIsHere: 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
MedicH:
Before I have sex with anybody I make sure there's a camera in the room. I just position my laptop which I carry around everywhere anyways for my cryptotrading and put on the webcam while the browser is on so that it will stealthily record, then I save in a gigantic hard drive. Never trust a daughter of eve evil. |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by zaralady: 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure. Hard fact!!! |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
BluntTheApostle:
No, it doesn't.
The law may ask if he intentionally left a bottle of wine hanging around just so he could get her drunk and vulnerable.
. So if a girl is coming to my place I should break all my bottles of wine? Be reasonable na. Did he forced her to drink? 6 Likes |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by HeadNigga: 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure. going by your statement she should also be sued for rape. How could she have sex with a drunk man? The man didn't give consent too then |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:44am On Jul 01, 2020 |
maynia:
What are you saying?
Didn't you read the thread?
She herself brought the drink to the room, it was her that first initiated that they should drink .
Be reasonable bro.
If anybody was raped it was the guy.
Go and read the thread and stop basking in ignorance.
It's irritating
The thread is one person's testimony. It can't be taken as the whole truth. If I were a prosecutor, that would be the easiest to trash of whatever defense the defendant has. |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by joyandfaith: 10:45am On Jul 01, 2020 |
12inchess:
Why is it that men often get blamed for drunk and unplanned sex especially when the women are not satisfied with the outcome after. The guy can as well say he was drunk and she raped him. At her age, one expects her to have more common sense that you don't go staying in guys house that you're not having anything sexual with for 4 months. He is not your brother or cousin. I know some people here would term me rape apologist but it is what it is.
Many a case sound like when the women don't get what they want they say it's rape. Whereas if they were dating today she will never mention rape. what defines rape is consent or not ? can a drunk woman give consent ? if the man claims he was drunk too, to what extent? |
| Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by geokay777(m): 10:45am On Jul 01, 2020 |
MoneyMindset:
Nigeria to UK
UK-based Nigerian medical doctor, Dr Funmilayo Harvey was accused of rape by another doctor Dr Bola Aseyan, has responded to the allegation.
In a post he just made on Twitter, the doctor stated that they met on Twitter in 2019 and despite never setting eyes on each other, the relationship was never stable.
Dr Funmilayo responds to rape allegation – We had sex twice
He further revealed that Bola, who is a practicing doctor in Nigeria, and not the UK, insisted on coming to the UK to visit, for reasons best known to her, as her Visa was initially not granted.
According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had.
He then mentioned that he specifically asked her if she was insinuating he sexually abused her and she replied saying NO.
In his rebuttal, Harvey wrote on how he accommodated Bola for 4 months in his apartment despite the duo not being in talking terms, and his only crime was him not allowing her into his heart.
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Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278065186935648257
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278220859921047553
https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278222879197466624 So na today wey day break  |
