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The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help / I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend / I Am In Trouble With This Girl I Met. (2) (3) (4)
Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 2:25pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
broflovski:Everything is not all about love bruh. You'll get so close to someone to an extent, their problems is also your problem. She's someone I really care for. |
Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 2:30pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
cooooooks:Thanks man. I would've ended this a long time ago. but, she just keeps coming back. |
Re: . by Saintmary(f): 2:32pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Angelacruz:Chai!!!
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Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 2:32pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Frankicent:Thanks for the advice. I would've bounced a long time ago. but, this girl keeps coming back, even up-to-date. |
Re: . by Frankicent(m): 2:36pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Raeheemwayne: Ask her what does she want. Don't agree on dating if not friends with benefits. Move. Because if you date her. Ex bf still has control. Na time waster |
Re: . by drnoel: 2:55pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Raeheemwayne: Lol, to all the advisers above me. U guys are funny. U need to have been in something similar to understand it. She is using u as a rebound for where her heart is. She is confused about if she should move on or not. U seem to be a nice guy here but that won't get u far with this type of lady. U need to make ur mark and stop loving up. Loving up makes her comfortable with u, the problem there is that since it's a rebound. U haven't actively made ur mark yet, regardless of all u have tried. U really haven't. If u don't like her cut it off and move away. She will find u once her head clears. Then u chop to compensate for all ur heartaches and move on. If u like her then give her a wonderful time she will never forget then u make sure u sleep with her. Many Nigerian ladies tend to have their brain reset after sex. It's like when u reboot ur Computer for them. Once u have had her, u start avoiding her. Her brain will definitely reset and she will start looking for u. Thank me later. Pls Note: U have to remember that it u do all these and finally win the egg, that doesn't mean u can keep it. It just means she now has two men she has dated and she will still have to choose from them both. So be prudent how much of ur heart u invest even after u guys start dating. Ur question was advice on the girl u liked not how u will keep her. So thank me later. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 2:59pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
drnoel:Thanks Man. I really really really do appreciate this advice. Thanks. |
Re: . by drnoel: 4:44pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Raeheemwayne: U are welcome. Remember to return to tell us how it went. I am curious to know how u heeded given advice. |
Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 10:17am On Jul 02, 2020 |
I thank you all for the advises. well, I heeded to @Frankicent advice; because I know it's the best for this situationship. So, I invited her to my place, and we really spoke at length ( some personal stuffs that I can't share here, and I really understood and felt her pain ). well, after all "said and rechecked", we agreed on a fwb ( fwends with benefits ) relationship with a no string attached — which I'm very okay with — considering some things we discussed. Thanks all, I really appreciate the encouragements. |
Re: . by Frankicent(m): 10:58am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Raeheemwayne: Fwb. That's you two can destroy bed? |
Re: . by Raeheemwayne: 11:01am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Frankicent:Na you talk am oh. Lol. |
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