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It's already 2 years and the husband can't go to work not to talk of bringing money. He can't perform on bed and she has been the one doing the cleaning of all his mess.

The most annoying thing is that the family members of the husband despite being okay financially failed to help the family. Now she planning to either stay with the man and have a cuncubine outside or leave the man outrightly.

Which do you advise?

NB: They just gave to a child and she's still young. On the way, if she leaves the man, he may not see someone that will take care of him like she used to do.

It's the man I pity most

illicit:
No need to get a cucumbine outside....

All she need to get is cucumber, very good fruit

It can serve as food and pleasure simultaneously.


She can enjoy the fruit of her long and hard labour

Cucumber does not have muscles and milk. Don't forget that the "milk" is responsible for the fertilization of the egg.

Thought we marry our partners "for better, for worse". She should stick in and if she can't hold it no more, she should dissolve the marriage by divorce.

miniziter:
Cucumber does not have muscles and milk. Don't forget that the milk is responsible for the fertilization of the egg.

milk, she can milk her husband

She never truly loved him, and this is a major problem with our generation - people are ultimately looking out for what they'll gain from their partners but masking all that selfish desire with claims of being in love.

Gosh so many of us would fail this test if we were to find ourselves in the same situation, so while I'm critical of her, I'm also critical of myself because I don't know if I'll be any better.

GboyegaD:
Thought we marry our partners "for better, for worse". She should stick in and if she can't hold it no more, she should dissolve the marriage by divorce.

If the table were turned, would he have stayed?
Would you?

Penis no de pain her husband na.... Na back de pain am..... So she can use another sex style to get what she want........

Abeg, who get the Woman phone number here??

Saintmary:
If the table were turned, would he have stayed?
Would you?

It is for individuals to act their best way and not for you to sit as the judge.

Juliusmomoh:
Penis no de pain her husband na.... Na back de pain am..... So she can use another sex style to get what she want........

There's no way the Penis will rise without the help of the spinal cord. If I am wrong, let the experts correct me.

GOFRONT:
Abeg, who get the Woman phone number here??

I have a number. But I don't trust you enough. You may knack thirsty vg her to coma. To be serious, I am talking of a true life story.

Saintmary:
If the table were turned, would he have stayed?
Would you?

God bless you on this.

miniziter:
There's no way the Penis will rise without the help of the spinal cord. If I am wrong, let the experts correct me.

What does penis has to do with spinal cord ....

She should discuss with her husband and have a concubine outside. God forgive me

I don't know what to advise o

Short of advice right now, as in the matter is somehow complicated to me

GboyegaD:
It is for individuals to act their best way and not for you to sit as the judge.

Very simple question, you can't answer.
I wasn't judging, I was only pointing out that no one is Superman.

miniziter:
God bless you on this.

Abi o. Amen.

Saintmary:
Very simple question, you can't answer.
I wasn't judging, I was only pointing out that no one is Superman.

And I choose not to answer because the intonation of your question suggests bias and it would not add value discussing our personal lives on someone else's thread. Like i said which I will reiterate, if she can't continue, she should dissolve the marriage through divorce.

GboyegaD:
And I choose not to answer because the intonation of your question suggests bias and it would not add value discussing our personal lives on someone else's thread. Like i said which I will reiterate, if she can't continue, she should dissolve the marriage through divorce.

Oh yes, I am biased. Why?
I am biased because people remember for better or worse when women are in situations like this, but if it were the other way around, they will pat the man in the back.

https://www.nairaland.com/3959073/divorce-journal

Sad story.

God works in miraculous ways. I don’t know what to advise but that man can get back on his feet one day and start doing great things, then this woman will come crying for forgiveness.

Women with all the shakara. It is when your penls stop functioning you’ll find out they always want sex and if they don’t get it, they might die

Saintmary:
Oh yes, I am biased. Why?
I am biased because people remember for better or worse when women are in situations like this, but if it were the other way around, they will pat the man in the back.

https://www.nairaland.com/3959073/divorce-journal

Like I said, I don't have time for such argument where from the beginning it is laced with bias. It will save the both of us our previous time.

Juliusmomoh:
What does penis has to do with spinal cord ....

Innervation from the nerves from the spinal cord is what gives erection.If the spinal cord is damaged,there will be no erection.

Juliusmomoh:
What does penis has to do with spinal cord ....

Don't pray to experience it o. Can you compare the rigidity of a living earthworm to that of cooked plantain?

miniziter:
Its already 2 years and the husband can't go to work not to talk of bringing money. He can't perform on bed and she has been the one doing the cleaning of all his mess. The most annoying thing is that the family members of the husband despite being okay financially failed to help the family. Now she planning to either stay with the man and have a cumcubine outside or leave the man outrightly. Which do you advise?
NB: They just gave to a child and she's still young. On the way, if she leaves the man, he may not see someone that will take care of him like she used to do.

She swear an oath to be with the man in health and wealth,in sickness and pain. So what happened?
If the man had become a governor instead of the accident that rendered him disable, would she be thinking of leaving?
Don't get me wrong,I am not asking her to stay or leave. Just stating the fact. It's her life,her choice.

Her choice

Why cant she climb the husband and insert his penis on her wet pussy then ride it.
Just my opinion

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GboyegaD:
Thought we marry our partners "for better, for worse". She should stick in and if she can't hold it no more, she should dissolve the marriage by divorce.

She is thinking of cheating already. Na wa o

Hire a nurse.

Leaving because he's bedridden?Anything can happen to anyone at anytime.I'm not trying to judge you cos you've shown you are strong woman for 2 yrs already.
99% of Nigerian men will not remain. Even their wives that had CS feels useless to them ofoziekwa bedridden wife. It is then they will bundle you back to your ppl. https://www.nairaland.com/3256716/olachi-manndarin-emmanuel-dies-after

For a sexually active woman ,the lack of sex can be disturbing.

What I think you should do.
1.choose to be happy.
2.If his penis still works do the riding. If no. Have a talk with him if you can get a Love Machine or a man friend or he can explore you with his hands. Theres no shame in that. Righteous ppl should ignore my post.

3.pls don't stop believing in miracles.

Carchoice:
Sad story.

God works in miraculous ways. I don’t know what to advise but that man can get back on his feet one day and start doing great things, then this woman will come crying for forgiveness.

Women with all the shakara. It is when your penls stop functioning you’ll find out they always want sex and if they don’t get it, they might die

SPINAL CORD INJURY SIR. SPINAL CORD INJURY!!!
This is not a guy in coma that can wake up one day. Dude can't care for his basic needs talk more of humping and providing for his family.

She can leave if she want.....