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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jul 14, 2020

Jhh

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by oka4ugoo: 10:08pm On Jul 14, 2020

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Ucheosefoh(m): 10:09pm On Jul 14, 2020

How old are You? Let's start from your age first.

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by dominique(mod): 10:11pm On Jul 14, 2020

You're her back up plan in case her current relationship fails.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Prof0fficial: 10:12pm On Jul 14, 2020

don't block her, don't blacklist her but never call or message her again. let her continue to compain and find enough sweet excuses for her if she does.

wen she claims to be serious invite her to wash your clothes and cook for you. don't even touch her.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by GAZZUZZ(m): 10:14pm On Jul 14, 2020

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

snowflake

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by ajimotoke(m): 10:15pm On Jul 14, 2020

some girls out there would like a guy, they won't want the guy to marry and they can't marry him, just friend is what they wanted from the guy, if they see you with another woman they will be jealous and they don't have feelings for you, so stop wasting your time, move on with another person if possible.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by emyrald91(m): 10:15pm On Jul 14, 2020

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy

Just hear yourself. You knew she had a boyfriend, you proposed love. How do you propose love please?

Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla.

So you remained single after 3 years of proposing love to her and wanting to marry her? They swear for you?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

You deserve it

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jul 14, 2020

Are you employed, unemployed, or an entrepreneur?

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Penboy: 10:16pm On Jul 14, 2020

You don't need our advice.
You actually know what to do.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Queenserah26(f): 10:16pm On Jul 14, 2020

Let her go and move on with your life biko

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Nmezor(f): 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2020

Seems ur her plan B in case Plan A fails her...Block her sharp sharp now because she will mk you chase shadows

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by seangy4konji: 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2020

unfollow,block,blacklist and after report to local babalawo....she must no thin about you.

Monitoring spirit...failed to ,move on..

Ogbanje.

i warn you oh...block every form of contact.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by SweetKimoprah77: 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2020

Forgive Her Instead

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by adeskee(m): 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2020

how this kind yeye thread reach front page beat my imagination

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Beey(f): 10:18pm On Jul 14, 2020*

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

What you need is to tell her by word of mouth that you are not interested in being her friend & she’s no longer allowed to contact you. If she doesn’t pick calls, text her the reason you’ll no longer communicate with her. There are people anointed by the devil to cause delay & confusion. She doesn’t value or respect you. You are just a spare tyre to roll her through when she’s bored. She sees you as desperate and keeps checking to see if you are still interested in her and so she’s turned your emotions into her play toy. Stop trying to please someone who can’t see your worth. Fix that esteem issue & tell yourself that you deserve better. She’s just an agent of delay who keeps you from meeting someone that will appreciate you. She’s just a toxic person that will constantly poison your soul. Warn her to quit contacting you whether by phone , email or social media.From there ignore her calls & texts.The nicer you treat these people, the more disrespectful they get. I knew such a person and am glad I drew the line. Put a stop to the BS!

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by praiseneo(m): 10:18pm On Jul 14, 2020

McBrooklyn:
Guy first of all, how old are you??

And to spare yourself the fücking back and forth, why don't you just block and ghost her once and for all?? You dey allow that kind girl live rent-free for your mind for 3 good years.. Smh püssy ass nigga like you, better man the fück up and do what you should have done all these while!

baba just state ur point and excuse oyinbo abeg

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by onpoint69(m): 10:21pm On Jul 14, 2020

she's a time waster, I had a girl like that once, I had to pray her out of my life. she's keeping you as her fallback option while she considers other guys.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by GuestLog: 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2020

flyingpig:
My guys don advice you

As pikin wey you be, woman go still control you again

very true. Many will not understand what you mean but I do.

Na dem type women dey use practice wickedness.

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by 2016easy2017: 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2020

That's women 4u. She wants to be in ur heart for the rest of ur life but won't marry u. She would even block ur chances with any other. Best way to deal with this is:dont just block her, don't ever have access to ur line again. Change sim if possible. She'll come desperately to search for u. I'm this case, U'll be in her heart till she dies

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by chukwuibuipob: 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2020

Don't open your eyes wide and marry trouble.It is pipu like her dat usually runz to their)her papa house expect u to come and beg her.She'll go and come like famous NEPA light.Free her and move on.If u block her and she use anoda number to connect u, simply giv d phone to a lady to communicate with her/tell her she's the wife of d house

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Jayslyder: 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2020

In this game.. Who's Tom and who's Jerry?

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by 2016easy2017: 10:25pm On Jul 14, 2020

Please fellow nairalanders.has anybody noticed these days that all u buy from shoprite are fake:
Toothpaste
Body cream
Lipton label tea
Tooth brush
Perfume
Torchlight
Rechargeables
These are all I've bought from them and fiundbto be fake

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by samwash(m): 10:27pm On Jul 14, 2020

I wonder why some energetic youths will just be wasting their time all in the name of relationship.
Unfriutful relationship is kwn from the start.
For 3 years !!!it all boils down to the Op age & maturity .

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:27pm On Jul 14, 2020

You are. her potential spare tyre. Just bone her and move on with a more serious minded chic

Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by Roozzaay(m): 10:27pm On Jul 14, 2020

One day, just like me, you're going to finally realized that you've being the most stupid creature all these while.... Enjoy your foolishness while it last

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Re: Should I Block And Blacklist Her? by ZooOga: 10:28pm On Jul 14, 2020

there's absolutely no excuse being stuck on one girl with all the fine, single intelligent babes in Naija.
Op are u ugly gang like me? grin

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