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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Funaki: 9:57am On Jul 19, 2020
Fine girls dey there
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Hamzaay(m): 9:57am On Jul 19, 2020
I don see so many cases. Las Las na Belle dry reveal the truth.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by sportFX: 9:57am On Jul 19, 2020
They spend too much time together
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by paulolee(m): 9:57am On Jul 19, 2020
bad
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by xynerise: 9:57am On Jul 19, 2020
You easily fall in love in a place you find happiness

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Oyikoha(m): 9:58am On Jul 19, 2020
semyman:
The are the worst of hypocrites
Tell me more
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Hintona(f): 9:58am On Jul 19, 2020
Openbusiness4:
u date deacons or pastors? sad

Nope I'm a Catholic.
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Openbusiness4: 9:59am On Jul 19, 2020
Me oh, i kent date any girl in choir. Once I hear "QuoiyaH", ah don jaappaaa grin
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Johntemmy(m): 9:59am On Jul 19, 2020
very common...and most churches choir rules is against it but people go under G to do that... meanwhile some pastors do lash choirs ooo no big deal.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Firstorderwizard(m): 10:00am On Jul 19, 2020
I'm still waiting for answer
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by martinsaba: 10:00am On Jul 19, 2020
It is because all their life and focus is around choir activities. The spend more time there than any other place and the also need partners for themselves
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by zubydsniper: 10:00am On Jul 19, 2020
The devil himself is the chief chorister
Was the chief chorister in heaven then
So to him it is wise to continue is trade here on earth

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Ijaya123: 10:01am On Jul 19, 2020
Simply because they are mostly full of youths with raging hormones.

They don’t just date but engage in willing and excessive sexual relationships.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Renegadefrank(m): 10:04am On Jul 19, 2020
Why do you need a pastor's permission to date a person? Unless the rules of joining the choir clearly states otherwise, date who you want.

The question of whether dating is Godly if the pastor doesn't know or approve is just plain bullshit. You have control over your life and who you date. Pastors are religious leaders whose influence only go so far. You have the final say even if they offer disapproving opinions.

It's just sad to see how bad loads of people depend on the words of religious leaders today, some of whom have terribly abused their authority
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:08am On Jul 19, 2020
. . . THANK YOU, JESUS.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by lomprico(m): 10:08am On Jul 19, 2020
Hintona:
I'm a chorister but I don't date my fellow choristers.



Infact choristers don't date themselves in my church.


I'm a Catholic.

fucking liar!

they date and some even marry each other.

I am also a catholic.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Ayennah: 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
You don't need pastor's approval to date anyone in church be it choir or not
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by segebase(m): 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
Cos they are fine gals for there
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Naijaarchive(m): 10:09am On Jul 19, 2020
It's normal to grow affection for someone you spend time with....

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by dalass(f): 10:10am On Jul 19, 2020
IrepChrist:
And many times it is concealed and done in secrecy.... Is it Godly without the Pastor's approval.... I need sincere responses...

I guess its because the choristers tend to bond more and be more free/ comfortable with the opposite sex as they spend lots of hours together on and off stage... It brings a closeness that mostly turns to almost intimacy sometimes leading to dating..

It is rampant and at a time a bishop banned his choristers from dating....

Brothers just seize opportunity that they're close as choristers to pick fine girls that can sing as wives. Can we blame them? Though it's not cool
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by dingbang(m): 10:13am On Jul 19, 2020
Hintona:
I'm a chorister but I don't date my fellow choristers.



Infact choristers don't date themselves in my church.


I'm a Catholic.
speak for yourself only.
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by pacino26(m): 10:14am On Jul 19, 2020
In my sarcastic opinion, I think it has to do with the voice during/when they start to be come and go. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Mgbeke screaming and choir aunty own no be the same.

This life no balance at all, even the balance sef refused to correspond. cool cool cool cool

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by HandsomeBlack: 10:16am On Jul 19, 2020
It starts from: I like bro Femi's voice.
Sis. Chioma is very good in dancing.
From practising how to harmonize notes during choir practice to building harmony in your feelings for each other. cheesy
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Hintona(f): 10:16am On Jul 19, 2020
lomprico:


fucking liar!

they date and some even marry each other.

I am also a catholic.

Speak for your church
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Sleekmilan01(m): 10:17am On Jul 19, 2020
E dey cause fight oooo
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by skyhighweb(m): 10:18am On Jul 19, 2020
eco system fucking
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Daroldigits: 10:20am On Jul 19, 2020
If devil wants to enter church, that is the best group he use ooo
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by sapientia(m): 10:21am On Jul 19, 2020
Its very simple

For the same reason married colleagues have a fling in the office

Proximity

There is a reason girls were advised never to visit a guy alone back then we were still younger and the church was not yet a Business.

No other group stays together more often in the church more than the choir members.

2 people who love music singing same time and seeing each other frequently, there got to be a chemistry

Choirmasters are seen as an icon by choir members and well, women and covet for attention can lead them to so many things

A guy around females with different voices is not all that safe too

Because it will make it easier for him to notice that particular sound of voice that triggers him (Yes, even me have a voice that press my mumu button)

By the way, you guys are aware because choir members are always known and seen by everyone so their life is like a teevee show

Other church members OUT DO them in everything but those ones are never known.

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Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jul 19, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr


Na where you for dey work you supposed chop na

That is why them call am work chop...

Hahahhahh
They are working for the lord

Hahahahhah..... probably also chopping each other for the lord
Bro, where 'isoright' go today? lol
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by popweezy(m): 10:22am On Jul 19, 2020
ah ah ;Dah ah
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by lomprico(m): 10:23am On Jul 19, 2020
Hintona:


Speak for your church

I just did
Re: Why Is Dating Common Among Church Choristers? by AFONAMARO: 10:24am On Jul 19, 2020
IrepChrist:
And many times it is concealed and done in secrecy.... Is it Godly without the Pastor's approval.... I need sincere responses...

Are you saying pastors have to approve who people should have in their lives?

As for your topic, most don't date, they just have sex and move on to the next after they are tired and the circle continues.

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