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For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2020
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020
You can if you really want to, having a small wedding ceremony is the trend now, it'll help cut down cost and save you a lot of money....focus more the building the marriage and the biz you wanna set up for her...it's feasible

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by ShenTeh(m): 12:13pm On Jul 21, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5m in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

Don't go and be spending laulau.

Draw a very tight budget amongst you two and run with it.

N500,000 can't finance a wedding, N5m CAN'T finance one instead. It is your budget/plan that finances your event.

Good luck sir.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:18pm On Jul 21, 2020
Wow! But please can 500k do trad in south east(Enugu state) With the covid and high cost of things?

I’m not planning big stuff ; the problem be say I sabi ppl and my guys from abroad go come. But I just wan use my head make I no go broke after trad !

Thank you boss


ShenTeh:


Don't go and be spending laulau.

Draw a very tight budget amongst you two and run with it.

N500,000 can't finance a wedding, N5m CAN'T finance one instead. It is your budget/plan that finances your budget.

Good luck sir.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by mutter(f): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020
It's very important that the girl agrees to a low profile wedding otherwise she might have regrets later in life and feel she is missing out on something.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

Over possible bro...with 2.5million you can do your marriage, set up shop, rent house and properties in onitsha. Don't go and do pass yourself

mutter:
It's very important that the girl agrees to a low profile wedding otherwise she might have regrets later in life and feel she is missing out on something.

Happened to me...I was planning to have a low budget marriage but the lady was telling me that I should consider she is the first child/daughter and need to set example for her younger ones, despite the fact I lost my job that period and the lady wasn't doing anything tangible. That was how we cancelled the marriage...

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Goldp5988(f): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020
ShenTeh:


Don't go and be spending laulau.

Draw a very tight budget amongst you two and run with it.

N500,000 can't finance a wedding, N5m CAN'T finance one instead. It is your budget/plan that finances your budget.

Good luck sir.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:22pm On Jul 21, 2020
Low cost ? I’m trying to see if I can bring the guests to 150-200 max

And it’s a trad , so what should my budget be like? My babe is suggesting for family kinda trad but I wan make my guys come , see of them cos I know they are sure people and at same time , I’m checking how to make the cost to be low . But not too low.


Please are you married? Can you help me cost normal average trad . No vex

vikkimimi:
You can if you really want to, having a small wedding ceremony is the trend now, it'll help cut down cost and save you a lot of money....focus more the building the marriage and the biz you wanna set up for her...it's feasible
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:24pm On Jul 21, 2020
Abeg help your man.

So i no go beg for flight ticket or BTA if I wan go back January grin

Na why I need someone that did trad of recent so he/she can just help me run it down .
Merci patron!
Skyfornia:


Over possible bro
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Abeg help your man.

So i no go beg for flight ticket or BTA if I wan go back January grin

Na why I need someone that did trad of recent so he/she can just help me run it down .
Merci patron!

Contact a reliable event planner..tell him/her your budget...and he/she will give you his/her quotation according to your budget.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Amopeekun(f): 12:40pm On Jul 21, 2020
Your woman wants a family kinda traditional wedding and you want your guys to show!!
All the best!

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Munzy14(m): 1:03pm On Jul 21, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Low cost ? I’m trying to see if I can bring the guests to 150-200 max

And it’s a trad , so what should my budget be like? My babe is suggesting for family kinda trad but I wan make my guys come , see of them cos I know they are sure people and at same time , I’m checking how to make the cost to be low . But not too low.


Please are you married? Can you help me cost normal average trad . No vex

Are u really sure you want to enter this lifetime project...The picture painted is an economising lady and shoulder high up guy.

Those guys of yours will only come for ceremony, and marriage starts after the ceremony.

Go and reason with your woman....And plan life according to una clothe being cut to una coat.

If u guys accumulate huge funds, years to come you can still do whatever occasion you want to and invite the whole world.

For now a medium cost of everything is key, make u get better balance for acct after every every....

Moreover, your woman is not even earning from your story, so dude u are literally going to spend alone for the time till the business u intend to set up for her gets a strong foundation financially to make returns.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 4:11pm On Jul 21, 2020
lol. this bros sef.

thank you for the update ,
Munzy14:

Are u really sure you want to enter this lifetime project...The picture painted is an economising lady and shoulder high up guy.

Those guys of yours will only come for ceremony, and marriage starts after the ceremony.

Go and reason with your woman....And plan life according to una clothe being cut to una coat.

If u guys accumulate huge funds, years to come you can still do whatever occasion you want to and invite the whole world.

For now a medium cost of everything is key, make u get better balance for acct after every every....

Moreover, your woman is not even earning from your story, so dude u are literally going to spend alone for the time till the business u intend to set up for her gets a strong foundation financially to make returns.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

Should I help you call Lalasticlala so you can get massive opinions about this?
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by thorpido(m): 4:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
Is your wife from the East,Op?Her family's traditional requirements will determine how much you will spend?
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 4:36pm On Jul 22, 2020
mutter:
It's very important that the girl agrees to a low profile wedding otherwise she might have regrets later in life and feel she is missing out on something.

Is this you?

Happy new years.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by angelfallz(m): 4:37pm On Jul 22, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

Why not discuss this with your family and your future wife?
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 4:37pm On Jul 22, 2020
Skyfornia:


Contact a reliable event planner..tell him/her your budget...and he/she will give you his/her quotation according to your budget.

Event Planner?

Minus 1 if you want a small wedding.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 4:40pm On Jul 22, 2020
bukatyne:


Event Planner?

Minus 1 if you want a small wedding.

Not true...I have a professional reliable event planner in Asaba Delta state who is always ready to work with people's budget. I can boast for him...cause I have used him severally.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 22, 2020
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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by obisite: 4:56pm On Jul 22, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.


You can achieve it, discus with your wife to be.. There is life after wedding.. Its called marriage..

Those who will commend you for having heaven on earth wedding are same people who will mock and condemn you spending all you have for wedding during Marriage..


Plan and spend wisely, you can achieve those plan with what you stated above..

Do necessary traditional rites, cut every form of crowd partying.. Carry your wife go and start life


You're a man, do things to please your conscience and finance.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 5:55pm On Jul 22, 2020
Skyfornia:


Not true...I have a professional reliable event planner in Asaba Delta state who is always ready to work with people's budget. I can boast for him...cause I have used him severally.

That is good to hear.

He is different from the pack.

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 10:01pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ok boss . It will be very nice .

Thank you so much
UyaiIncomparabl:


Should I help you call Lalasticlala so you can get massive opinions about this?
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by frozen70(f): 12:11am On Jul 23, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well?
Please I need brotherly advice on this .


I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah

What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ?


I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it )

Do trad and all,



Please no harsh words.

Honestly, you made no sense here or are you telling us how much you have in your account?

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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Katier00(f): 12:32am On Jul 23, 2020
Skyfornia:


Over possible bro...with 2.5million you can do your marriage, set up shop, rent house and properties in onitsha. Don't go and do pass yourself



Happened to me...I was planning to have a low budget marriage but the lady was telling me that I should consider she is the first child/daughter and need to set example for her younger ones, despite the fact I lost my job that period and the lady wasn't doing anything tangible. That was how we cancelled the marriage...
were there other issues or you cancelled because of this
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 6:53am On Jul 23, 2020
Katier00:
were there other issues or you cancelled because of this

That's the major issue...what do you expect? I should use my whole savings to do the marriage and hope for a job after marriage? The best decision I did was to invest the money in a business...and I thank God I did.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:41am On Jul 23, 2020
the post is not for you or your type .

just pass bye and check another post . thank you
frozen70:


Honestly, you made no sense here or are you telling us how much you have in your account?
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:44am On Jul 23, 2020
lol . you d mean oh !!
Skyfornia:


That's the major issue...what do you expect? I should use my whole savings to do the marriage and hope for a job after marriage? The best decision I did was to invest the money in a business...and I thank God I did.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:45am On Jul 23, 2020
E shock you abi ? lol


Katier00:
were there other issues or you cancelled because of this
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 10:03am On Jul 23, 2020
Uae01Dirham:
lol . you d mean oh !!

Seriously...I don't know what anyone would have expected me to do.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Newbreed2018: 10:34am On Jul 23, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Should I help you call Lalasticlala so you can get massive opinions about this?
U don hear money u don use style quote am. Small time na u go send pm.
Thats how u did it to GreatResearcher/GreatResearcher1 and married him fraudulently.
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 10:44am On Jul 23, 2020
lol.

i resemble mugu for your eye ? if he is one of them , then i be pure bad market for him.
Newbreed2018:
U don hear money u don use style quote am. Small time na u go send pm.
Thats how u did it to GreatResearcher/GreatResearcher1 and married him fraudulently.

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