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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by FEGNO: 6:03pm On Jul 22, 2020
Just like someone pointed out in a video i onced watched last year, there are also women of other Nationalities who are also Registered Nurses in the US. Why is it only our own women who suddenly lose their heads when money begins to come?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by naptu2: 6:04pm On Jul 22, 2020
saajus:
You should understand what I am saying. The caption "Nigerian man in Dallas who killed his wife called 911 to confess"and the 4 videos attached are not necessary. The rest of the story is true. The video is a skit but the way the story present it as if the skit was actually the real 911 call. Yes, the videos can be used for awareness but not to be presented like real.

The word reenactment is written above the videos. Do you know what it means? Both the first and second posts contain words that show that these are illsutrations for the topic under discussion!

It's as simple as ABC.

The people that commented on the first page easily understood this

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Agugbadin: 6:05pm On Jul 22, 2020
Well a man is the head of the house and should remain the head regardless of how much the woman earns, a wise woman keeps his marriage.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by AristocraticMe: 6:05pm On Jul 22, 2020
planetx:
A Nigerian or African girl already living in the US will do same if not worse. It's all about the individual, people should date for sometime before rushing into marriage. Most of this men were probably hooked up with a wife in Nigeria because they felt they were getting old and need to settle down and married the first girl their aunty or sister recommend for them.
its about the individual you are correct, there are still good Nigerian girls in America....... You are correct, everyone should date before marrying to avoid stories that touch.

It is not a general conclusion, i know Nigerian families who are doing great...... so it has alot to do with the individual..... and lastly some men are problematic by nature, they feel because they brought a girl to America then she should LORD them for the rest her life.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jul 22, 2020
I can't believe some comments I read here, justifying murder because the men sponsored their wives? Really? These men have really lost it!

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by hammer8: 6:06pm On Jul 22, 2020
planetx:
A Nigerian or African girl already living in the US will do same if not worse. It's all about the individual, people should date for sometime before rushing into marriage. Most of this men were probably hooked up with a wife in Nigeria because they felt they were getting old and need to settle down and married the first girl their aunty or sister recommend for them.

GBAM!

U KNOW ONE THING ABOUT WOMEN?

THEY ARE MASTERS AT HIDING THEIR CHARACTERS.

THEN ONE DAY AND OUT OF THE BLUE, LIKE A FLICK OF LIGHT SWITCH, THEY DISPLAY.

U SEE A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON AND LIKE A CAT OUT OF THE BOX, THAT PERSON HAVE COME TO STAY.

MAYBE TRIGGERED BY PERIOD, MIGHT NOT NECESSARILY BE OVER SOMETHING U DID.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 6:07pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ishilove:

True. To be very candid and unbiased, J, some of our sisters take this their women's lib ish too far. Seizing control of a man's life's work because the law favours you is selfish, wicked and malicious. If push comes to shove you can ask the courts to compel the man to provide a decent accomodation for you and the children, and pay alimony and child support as well, but to take half or most of what the man has worked for? That shit_ can mentally unbalance a person.

These are the kind of women I refer to yet AZeD1,woman wrapper, would say I support spousal abuse
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Dalby(m): 6:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
Perewenkle1:
I live in Los Angeles, many of our wives are medical doctors, nurses or work in health care places. Some make much more than their husband, so what. When there is love and no greed, couples work as a team.
Why would you kill your wife because she makes more money, share the responsibilities, give some to her and keep some, never worry about her bank account, so long as she does what she is supposed to do. On many occasions, she my wife has withdrawn her money and given to me for projects we are doing. My wife is a nurse, I make three times or more what she makes, I carry the bulk of the bills, the mortgages, cars, insurances and few household bills plus my credit card payments, she takes care of the food, cell phones, (she pays for our children cell phones) and other house utilities and her own bills. Note that no marriage is perfect, it’s worst when influenced by outsiders.

I do not believe it happens because they make more money. The husband's were well aware of the income of the registered nurse, which was why they opted for it for them.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Parisian: 6:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
These comments show that most Nigerian men are useless, evil and idiotic.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
His grievances were:
Secretly building a personal house in the village
Rejecting idea of mom-in-law living with them
Requesting him to vacate and move out from house he allegedly bought
Phoning and calling police on him.
No more ready to share pay check with him

No, there was no third party sexually involved. This is a crime of diminished responsibility. This is obvious from how deranged and gibberish the man was behaving in the background with the operator on



It doesn’t have to involve a third party/cheating scenario for it to be a crime of passion....

As long as it’s a violent attack between spouse out of provocation. Provocation can be based on virtually anything ....as long as it’s not premeditated murder.
because it’s believed We all have an impaired judgment/ reaction when it comes to our spouse or whoever we are romantically involved with....


Btw...It can even involve a third party/ cheating and still not be a crime of passion.... i
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Betterman99: 6:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
There was no marriage in the first place, what was in place was an unwritten contract which required both parties to play some roles for the marriage to stand which was nothing more than a camouflage.

When one partner in such agreement seized playing their roles the other start feeling compromised and come up with statement like such "I gave everything to make her these" , the other feels like I did those sleepless night, the reading and such.

These then leads to a feeling of resentment towards each other, the woman approaches the court and a divorce is granted in which the man has to forfeit his property and in addition some child support.

The man a party in the contract "feels" cheated and does his worst.

Mind you there was never a marriage

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by lekki1444: 6:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
if you can stay single be single. marriage is divine punishment for 99.9999 percent of people.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by sonso: 6:09pm On Jul 22, 2020
if you get sense dont take anywoman except your sirer abroad.
9 in 10 cases you get burnt.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Ayemileto(m): 6:09pm On Jul 22, 2020
The writer of this article is somehow biased.

While she successfully blamed "Nigerian Men" for all that happened and paint us as a "Control Freak", she refused to blame the women, the law or the courts.

Meanwhile, in the real sense, majority of what she described about Nigerian Men are either exaggerated or completely false.

All this situation described above also do happen in Nigeria. And in most cases, it's not because the "man" wants to control the woman or her finances, but the complete change, disregard and insult most of them have to endure once their wife start earning more than them. Because in many cases, the woman will keep rubbing it on their faces, she will want to take and control everything that happens in the family since she brings the bigger percentage of income.

This will initially lead to resentment, then hatred.

I'm 100 percent sure if Divorce was so easy as it is in Nigeria, majority of those men would have preferred to divorce and go their different way, leaving many (if not all) of these incidents with a different ending. But unfortunately, the US family laws favour mostly women.

Just look at the case of those two men that lost almost everything they have worked for and owned for over 20/30 years to their wife during divorce? Don't you think that will lead to anger, resentments and a strong drive to revenge?

While it's good to execute your freedom, it's also selfish, malicious and wicked to demand for almost all the man's property - leaving him with virtually nothing during divorce. And it becomes more worse when the courts approve such outrageous demands.

But this selfish demands during divorce, and the resulting murder is usually caused by hatred that have build up over a long period of time, and the "need" to hurt the other person as much as possible. And this "hatred", In many cases start when either of the "spouse" change.

If you look at those Registered nurses with solid families, you will realise many of them behave completely different from those getting divorced or killed by their husbands.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by freeborn02: 6:10pm On Jul 22, 2020
womenareapes:
this is what happens when you bring a Naija woman to abroad. undecided

those useless piece of trash called Naija women, when bring to abroad will start claiming feminist because the law favour them. undecided

Guys stop bringing your useless wife to abroad!

this is why I always say foreign women are the best instead of our local piece of shiit full with self entitlement mental disorder undecided


I always see this set of black species irritating! I wonder how you guys are copping with them? undecided

Some white women do it too. Remember Eboe and Ogbona, Kanu's brother?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by RTSC: 6:10pm On Jul 22, 2020
These imported wives are too forward.
They can test your patience to breaking point.

These murderous men should be tried to the full extent of the law.
You shouldn't be so angry to the point of murder.

But I am still admonishing these imported wives to take it easy.

Registered Nurse Nkechi and Nurse Practitioner Titi, please take it easy with the woke mentality.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Juliearth(f): 6:11pm On Jul 22, 2020
J111333:
Chai I listened to the 911 call sometime ago and I was deeply moved.
Killing the woman was extreme and I can only judge the man about the killing but not about what went wrong in their marriage.
Abroad marriage is a topic to discuss on another day.



It sure is a topic to discuss. These videos just ruined my mood.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 22, 2020
joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.

That is not freedom abeg

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by saajus: 6:12pm On Jul 22, 2020
you are right
naptu2:


The word reenactment is written above the videos. Do you know what it means? Both the first and second posts contain words that show that these are illsutrations for the topic under discussion!

It's as simple as ABC.

The people that commented on the first page easily understood this
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by ensamy(m): 6:13pm On Jul 22, 2020
The video with ambulance is FAKE . That was something that happened in Maryland that a Cameroonian killed his wife and later killed himself , leaving behind three of Thier children sad angry angry angry angry angry sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad angry angry angry angry sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad. I have the video myself.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Juliearth(f): 6:13pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ishilove:

Can we say this is a crime of passion?



I wouldn't say that, really. Azubuike married Amaka and moved her to the abroad so she can become a nurse and money-milling venture. Amaka became that and woke too, thus the fracas that ended their lives.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by chaloskyx: 6:14pm On Jul 22, 2020
how do you generalise the action of one man to all Nigerian men in US watch what you say but when Americans use the action of a singlr Nigerian to generalise the entirety of the Nigerian population you would be the first to complain and claim them being racist

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by gowonmaharajah(m): 6:15pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ladies if you know you can't be submissive to your husband's-to be,better don't marry.if not ehn you go hear am.
Men are egoistic and don't joke with their authority.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Juliearth(f): 6:15pm On Jul 22, 2020
joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.



It boils down to ubderstanding. A couple that is united won't find themselves in this mess, since the funds earned would be expended in footing/financing mutual expenses/projects. I feel couples can run joint accounts where boths parties can deposit certain amounts from their incomes ( calculated in percentages).
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ishilove:

True. To be very candid and unbiased, J, some of our sisters take this their women's lib ish too far. Seizing control of a man's life's work because the law favours you is selfish, wicked and malicious. If push comes to shove you can ask the courts to compel the man to provide a decent accomodation for you and the children, and pay alimony and child support as well, but to take half or most of what the man has worked for? That shit_ can mentally unbalance a person.

it goes both ways though. If the woman is rich as a nurse, both couples will share everything they have 50% 50%
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by DarkJeddi(m): 6:17pm On Jul 22, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
His grievances were:
Secretly building a personal house in the village
Rejecting idea of mom-in-law living with them
Requesting him to vacate and move out from house he allegedly bought
Phoning and calling police on him.
No more ready to share pay check with him

No, there was no third party sexually involved. This is a crime of diminished responsibility. This is obvious from how deranged and gibberish the man was behaving in the background with the operator on
It's a crime of passion..

Passion is not solely defined by sexual activities..
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Lordswazz(m): 6:17pm On Jul 22, 2020
AristocraticMe:
its about the individual you are correct, there are still good Nigerian girls in America....... You are correct, everyone should date before marrying to avoid stories that touch.

It is not a general conclusion, i know Nigerian families who are doing great...... so it has alot to do with the individual..... and lastly some men are problematic by nature, they feel because they brought a girl to America then she should LORD them for the rest her life.
...and some women can't handle lopsided privilege. If your wife cheats, you divorce her only; but If you cheat, you lose your house and half your net worth (and maybe custody of your children too). When they learn how lopsided such law is, many either use it to threaten the man every damn time, or they just activate it to be "free". Throw in the "what have you done for me that no man has done for his wife" entitlement mentality, and you have a keg of gunpowder holding a matchbox to emasculate you at any given time.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by RTSC: 6:19pm On Jul 22, 2020
What would make a Nigerian woman married in a traditional way travel abroad and start misbehaving.

A foreign land that both couples should put their heads down and utilize it to the maximum for their children and children-children.

Instead the wife goes abroad and starts calling 911 because her husband shouted at her, or she starts behaving like akata.

Where is the common sense?

Why will you forget where you are coming from?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by cocolacec(m): 6:19pm On Jul 22, 2020
womenareapes:
this is what happens when you bring a Naija woman to abroad. undecided

those useless piece of trash called Naija women, when bring to abroad will start claiming feminist because the law favour them. undecided

Guys stop bringing your useless wife to abroad!

this is why I always say foreign women are the best instead of our local piece of shiit full with self entitlement mental disorder undecided


I always see this set of black species irritating! I wonder how you guys are copping with them? undecided

womenareapes never knew an ape gave birth to you.Son of ape

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jul 22, 2020
FEGNO:
Just like someone pointed out in a video i onced watched last year, there are also women of other Nationalities who are also Registered Nurses in the US. Why is it only our own women who suddenly lose their heads when money begins to come?
That's because Men of other nationalities do not control their women, they do not have penchant to subjugate their women and sponsor them for selfish reasons. Why you all aren't seeing that fact amaze me. It is always the woman's fault but not the man. Little wonder why Nigeria is far behind... It citizen (Men) who should improve it are busy looking for short cuts even if it involves using their wives. With all their MASCULINITY and acclaimed superiority they end up dragging meat inside pot with their wives! Imagine murdering a woman because she refused to tender her pay check to you, feeling threatened because a woman earns more! Tueh! Despicable lots!



Spit!

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jul 22, 2020
solite3:
you got this right, even some of the white male are not happy with the western system

Most of white male precisely. The occult system is given to women because "the woman listened to the devil in the beginning." America system is programmed to alter God's marriage and family order, and enthrone women as the head AS EVE TOOK OVER ADAM'S HEADSHIP AFTER LISTENING TO THE DEVIL. Fear America system o! A sick system indeed!

Satan is all-eye and torch light bearer of the America. America's secrets can't be hidden (jer 23:23-24), so never believe any quack manipulated and brainwashing stories how their forefathers who planned and built America were Christians bla bla bla. A stolen land for that matter lol? Most shocking thing is that Rome through Roman Catholic and Vatican Jesuits) is behind it all (rev 17).

Some of us know and have their secrets in our palms... Almighty God is watching them all.

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