etrange: Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.
You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.
If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.
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Words on Marble.
@OP:
People should know their worth and NOT settle for less. If you are a nice guy that stayed focus while younger, look for a wholesome woman that can appreciate the niceness to the table. Not the one broken or gone through the 'hoe' phrase aka explorers.
If as a young girl you stayed focus and kept your self sexually or had has minimal partners as possible, watch out for a nice guy that appreciate and deserve the wholesomeness you bring to the table.
Let the hoes and other garden tools enjoy themselves.
stanliwise: Same for you too, I know you are the author of the so-called red-pills on nairaland. As much as your opinion seem effective against some set of women. It is very dangerous when used against genuine people in ones life. I rest my case.
A wholesome lady with healthy self-esteem would not fall for the red pill gimmicks in the first place.
You should be suspect of any lady you get practicing Ubunj.a's theories. There is a defect somewhere.
Ensure you take the above serious when you're looking for a woman for a long term relationship. Don't compromise on it, E GET WHY.
Cc: stanliwise Mcslize
I dont need any fucking redpill to spot women who don't play games. A game player can sniff another player from a mile away. But when next you meet genuine people don't play the smart guy on them.
stanliwise: Not true, a hoe is a hoe, it doesn't matter how she treats me. By hoe I mean someone who play mind games. Try as a red-pill taker to know when a lady is not in for games and when she is for games. Playing games on genuine people could be a regret of a lifetime. I have been there before and I regretted it so much.
Mcslize: Of course, there is the hoe phase in every lady. That's why if you look very well, ladies between the age of 18 to 24yrs always live in fantasy.
They hardly have a realistic view of what they want in life. They want to get all the attentions so much that it makes them think irrationally.
They don't have clear cut of what life entails in general that's why they waste away their youthful age jumping from one dick to another.
Now, we hardly have virgins. If we should hold all of them accountable for how they hoed around during their youthful age, all men won't want to settle down.
But procreation must continue. At a time, you just have to fulfill nature call by settling down with the one that is not completely damaged.
As it is now, virgins are rare to find. You will hardly come across virgin girls these days.
And as a guy, you will not continue to toy around with all those girls so u must still in one day want to settle down except for those that just want to be baby Fathers.
And when that time comes to settle down, you won't actually put up your player's mode with the girl u want to have as a partner.
That's why lots of guy still get married today. If you are between the age of 30 to 40 as a guy, a time will come when u will want to have your own family and when the time comes, you will not because that a lot of ladies hoed around at their primes won't let you want to settle down and fulfil nature mandate of procreation.
For those that will want to have a family of their own will still marry irrespective of the fact that so many girls hoed around in their youthful age. That doesn't mean, you will be a simp. You merely just have to fulfil nature call.
wisdomkid: To OP, you're way beyond USELESS.. What sort of name do you bear? What stupid signature is that? I pity people around you. walking foolish mortal.
I think if there's a useless one, then it is the person who engages in an argument with insults and abuses Don't bother quoting me...I don't reply people with inferiority complex who can't argue constructively
People should know their worth and NOT settle for less. If you are a nice guy that stayed focus while younger, look for a wholesome woman that can appreciate the niceness to the table. Not the one broken or gone through the 'hoe' phrase aka explorers.
If as a young girl you stayed focus and kept your self sexually or had has minimal partners as possible, watch out for a nice guy that appreciate and deserve the wholesomeness you bring to the table.
Let the hoes and other garden tools enjoy themselves.
Do u know hard it's to find ppl like that on daily basis? As for girls it is very easy buh they won't make there move.
stanliwise: Not true, a hoe is a hoe, it doesn't matter how she treats me. By hoe I mean someone who play mind games. Try as a red-pill taker to know when a lady is not in for games and when she is for games. Playing games on genuine people could be a regret of a lifetime. I have been there before and I regretted it so much.
Good to be at alert. Take people for who they are, we are not perfect, we also change.
Pray for the best, plan for the worst, prepare for surprises and disappointments.
Treat people the way they want to be treated based on their actions.
etrange: Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.
You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.
If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.
I like your status, "teaching people how to be more tolerant and loving towards others". I have a complex, if you'd like to take me in.
iTearHerToto: All these trash spilled abundantly shall be reversed someday. Save this post!
The HOE PHASE IS REAL. YOU AND YOUR LIKES ARE DOOMED
Pukes
Read what he said properly man... He is correct 100%... The lady above is correct likewise . The word nice depends on how you use it.. When you learn to do things within your capacity and not expecting anything from the other person... That's what he's talking about... Not being foolish....most guys are nice because they want something in return for every good thing offered... That's investment not being nice... And when you more invested in a relationship or whatever and you get less... You become damaged... That's why you see lot of them coming here to say women are bad.. Whereas they started it all by being foolish... Not saying some women ain't bad though but the result you need from a lady lies in your hand.. All depends on how you handle her
Good to be at alert. Take people for who they are, we are not perfect, we also change.
Pray for the best, plan for the worst, prepare for surprises and disappointments.
Treat people the way they want to be treated based on their actions.
Treat people the way you are.... When you're integrated and you have your do's and dont's...life becomes stress-free..same goes with women... Don't please them to displease yourself.. Please yourself first
Are you implying[b] it is easier for girls to find faithful guys than guys get a faithful lady?[/b]
My reason is simply una too dey do shakara.. u go do am so teeeh d guy go lose interest. But if una see beta guy to approach am go be wahala.. if ur intensions are clear make ur move and be cautious
I think if there's a useless one, then it is the person who engages in an argument with insults and abuses Don't bother quoting me...I don't reply people with inferiority complex who can't argue constructively
stanliwise: Strange as it sounds you made alot sense. I know many wouldn't try to understand what you mean especially the guys that has declare their pills red. or the ones who has been dealt with mercilessly by hoes and gold-diggers. Their line of thought has entered a defensive mode and they decide to hate women with all their might.
Red pills are for ladies who play games. There are ladies who don't play games and are genuine, but red-pill advise the boys to throw all of them into same basket thereby creating an occult of men who will regenerate the same event that led to the creation of our so called women protestant "The feminist". Red pills will not solve man-women problems, instead it will only lead to mutation of new kind of women resistant and strange feministic behaviors from women.
As for me I am out of this general opinion of people. "Style" From "The game" remains my mentor till date. I like his philosophy because he among all other PUA encourage people to treat hoes as hoes. and ladies as ladies. same with David Angelo. I don't think it is nice to place all gender into same basket and treat them in a particular manner all in the name of not been called a "SIMP". Doing this is nothing but turning the table around and becoming the male-versions of the hoes and gold diggers you complained about. You treat both the genuine and nicest people with bad omen and attitudes, play games with ordinary people, Bleep hoes and typical ladies.
At the end of the day you find it difficult to build trust and you later enter a mode of distrust for all women. Same women you will later pick a wife from, And until you are 50 you will keep changing women one after the other because they will all leave at a certain point due to your insecurities and constant unfaithfulness.
donbachi: When dat place don loose alignment finish,body don dey wrinkle,lipstick no dey hold tight to the lips again,stretch marks wey be like marine ropes don come out finish for their waist.
Ensure you take the above serious when you're looking for a woman for a long term relationship. Don't compromise on it, E GET WHY.
Cc: stanliwise Mcslize
I have taken time to watch the video and thanks for sharing.
Of course, no man will like to settle down with a damaged goods lady. That's why one needs to ask questions when choosing a life partner. Asking her about her past is very important. How many guys she has dated in the past and her sexual lifestyle. That will be able to help one make an informed decision.
But one thing is that every girl out there has her bad sides. Some may be homely but cannot run a home. Some know how to run a home but have anger issues. Others can run a home and support a man but are not good at managing resources. In essence, no man is perfect. One can never see a 100% perfect partner in this life unless the person will take clay and mould the partner he or she wants to settle down with.
That is why at one point or the other , we will make compromises on some stuffs just to accommodate a partner into our lives.
As far as a lady is not into runs in her past life, like those that do runs, I won't outrightly condemned those that have dated 3 to 5 persons in the past as damaged goods. I can't say same for those that are intentionally into runs.
I can term those as completely damaged goods. Most of those type of girls do those stuffs due to the bad influence of friends and broken homes. They start staying with friends that are into such stuffs and before they realize it, they are into the street doing runs online. There are so many of them. Of course, I won't go for such type of girls.
But for those that merely dated like 2 to 4 guys at some point in their lives, I can't actually term such as damaged goods as far as they never at some points took hoeing about as a full time job.
If one is lucky to see a virgin to settle down with which you and I know hardly exist, such a person will be a bit lucky than those who married non virgins if only her character is perfect.
But in all these, the so called women I can categorically termed damaged goods are those that are into runs. For marriage, such are a no go area.
But for others who merely dated one guy at a time in the past and still homely can be excluded from that list and are still perfect to be chosen as life partners. This is my lil input.
I have taken time to watch the video and thanks for sharing.
Of course, no man will like to settle down with a damaged goods lady. That's why one needs to ask questions when choosing a life partner. Asking her about her past is very important. How many guys she has dated in the past and her sexual lifestyle. That will be able to help one make an informed decision.
But one thing is that every girl out there has her bad sides. Some may be homely but cannot run a home. Some know how to run a home but have anger issues. Others can run a home and support a man but are not good at managing resources. In essence, no man is perfect. One can never see a 100% perfect partner in this life unless the person will take clay and mould the partner he or she wants to settle down with.
That is why at one point or the other , we will make compromises on some stuffs just to accommodate a partner into our lives.
As far as a lady is not into runs in her past life, like those that do runs, I won't outrightly condemned those that have dated 3 to 5 persons in the past as damaged goods. I can't say same for those that are intentionally into runs.
I can term those as completely damaged goods. Most of those type of girls do those stuffs due to the bad influence of friends and broken homes. They start staying with friends that are into such stuffs and before they realize it, they are into the street doing runs online. There are so many of them. Of course, I won't go for such type of girls.
But for those that merely dated like 2 to 4 guys at some point in their lives, I can't actually term such as damaged goods as far as they never at some points took hoeing about as a full time job.
If one is lucky to see a virgin to settle down with which you and I know hardly exist, such a person will be a bit lucky than those who married non virgins if only her character is perfect.
But in all these, the so called women I can categorically termed damaged goods are those that are into runs. For marriage, such are a no go area.
But for others who merely dated one guy at a time in the past and still homely can be excluded from that list and are still perfect to be chosen as life partners. This is my lil input.
Besides, thanks for sharing the video.
I didn't even bother to watch the silly video. Don't give them any long epistles. They are nothing but a group of cult youth who has wants to pry over women. The end of their journey if they ever get there is to become a love-vendor. A person who control women's and pry over them. There are genuine women in the world who are not hoes but redpiller fill in most mind youth that they are all same. They create an atmosphere of women as potential enemy when in reality it is nothing but a mirage. I advise all youth to learn social intelligence and avoid lady and guys who play relationship games. Entering the business of paying back women is the philosophy of the so called masculine occult society. Real men are not SIMPS, AFC nor are they redpillers. Real men are normal people who wants mutual respect.
etrange: Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.
You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.
If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.
Are you implying it is easier for girls to find faithful guys than guys get a faithful lady?
I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.
On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.
Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.
Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.
Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbs.
I have taken time to watch the video and thanks for sharing.
Of course, no man will like to settle down with a damaged goods lady. That's why one needs to ask questions when choosing a life partner. Asking her about her past is very important. How many guys she has dated in the past and her sexual lifestyle. That will be able to help one make an informed decision.
But one thing is that every girl out there has her bad sides. Some may be homely but cannot run a home. Some know how to run a home but have anger issues. Others can run a home and support a man but are not good at managing resources. In essence, no man is perfect. One can never see a 100% perfect partner in this life unless the person will take clay and mould the partner he or she wants to settle down with.
That is why at one point or the other , we will make compromises on some stuffs just to accommodate a partner into our lives.
As far as a lady is not into runs in her past life, like those that do runs, I won't outrightly condemned those that have dated 3 to 5 persons in the past as damaged goods. I can't say same for those that are intentionally into runs.
I can term those as completely damaged goods. Most of those type of girls do those stuffs due to the bad influence of friends and broken homes. They start staying with friends that are into such stuffs and before they realize it, they are into the street doing runs online. There are so many of them. Of course, I won't go for such type of girls.
But for those that merely dated like 2 to 4 guys at some point in their lives, I can't actually term such as damaged goods as far as they never at some points took hoeing about as a full time job.
If one is lucky to see a virgin to settle down with which you and I know hardly exist, such a person will be a bit lucky than those who married non virgins if only her character is perfect.
But in all these, the so called women I can categorically termed damaged goods are those that are into runs. For marriage, such are a no go area.
But for others who merely dated one guy at a time in the past and still homely can be excluded from that list and are still perfect to be chosen as life partners. This is my lil input.
stanliwise: I didn't even bother to watch the silly video. Don't give them any long epistles. They are nothing but a group of cult youth who has wants to pry over women. The end of their journey if they ever get there is to become a love-vendor. A person who control women's and pry over them. There are genuine women in the world who are not hoes but redpiller fill in most mind youth that they are all same. They create an atmosphere of women as potential enemy when in reality it is nothing but a mirage. I advise all youth to learn social intelligence and avoid lady and guys who play relationship games. Entering the business of paying back women is the philosophy of the so called masculine occult society. Real men are not SIMPS, AFC nor are they redpillers. Real men are normal people who wants mutual respect.
You are right. There are still some few good girls out there. That was why I said in one of my previous posts that we can't continue like this into marriage.
If we carry this mindset of maltreating a woman into marriage, we won't have a blissful marriage. There will always be quarrel and that will affect the kids one will have.
A situation where a man is being an ass hole and maltreating the wife will definitely affect the kids such men will have with their partners.
They will still end up being products of a broken home because the man chose to be an ass hole and not being able to control his home order than applying games and tactics on the wife.
People like that might end up divorcing in the end if the man is not able to be a responsible husband and father to his own family. That's why every man should apply wisdom when it comes to applying the redpill. If a man who truly wants to have a family of his own take the redpill too extreme, it can break his home and not enjoy a blissful marriage life.
As a guy, in as much as I don't take nonsense from the oppisite sex, I won't want to be an ass hole type of father or husband in the future to my partner. I should be able to earn the respect of my partner without applying tactics and games.
Having the knowledge of the redpill is good but aspiring husbands shouldn't take that into marriage as it has the possibility of shattering a marriage if not applied with wisdom to prevent one from having a broken marriage in the future.
You are right. There are still some few good girls out there. That was why I said in one of my previous posts that we can't continue like this into marriage.
If we carry this mindset of maltreating a woman into marriage, we won't have a blissful marriage. There will always be quarrel and that will affect the kids one will have.
A situation where a man is being an ass hole and maltreating the wife will definitely affect the kids such men will have with their partners.
They will still end up being products of a broken home because the man chose to be an ass hole and not being able to control his home order than applying games and tactics on the wife.
People like that might end up divorcing in the end if the man is not able to be a responsible husband and father to his own family. That's why every man should apply wisdom when it comes to following the redpill. If a man who truly wanta to have a family of his own take it to extreme, it can break his home and not enjoy a blissful marriage life.
As a guy in as much as I don't take nonsense from the oppisite, I won't want to be an ass hole type of father or husband in the future to mybpartner. I should be able to earn the respect of my partner without applying tactics and games.
Having the knowledge of the redpill is good but aspiring husbands shouldn't takebthat into marriage as it has the possibility of shattering a marriage if not applied with wisdom to prevent one from having a broken marriage in the future.
The problem here is most Nigerian girls always behave awkward whenever you are good to them whereas if you act the other way round, they intend to care more about you.
