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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:46am On Jul 24
angelfallz:


Download and read,The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity by Rollo Tomassi
You'd truly understand what ubanja said about a woman being 2 different things to 2 different men.
I also understand what you mean by genuine women.
shockingly I have read it. wink wink
I fully understand what women being a mirror means. But here is the thing, not all of them are actually like that. And not all remains like that. Some would never be like that (extreme feminist who vows on male eradication).
Redpillers put all in same basket

The Opposite of red-pill is feminism

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Austeeenxx: 11:58am On Jul 24
etrange:
Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.

You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.

If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.

Thank you for this.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:59am On Jul 24
CaveAdullam:
I can't believe my eyes......ubunja is back....lol

They don't understand women's dual mating strategy. So, let the simps keep on wailing.

Simps giving advices........o my goodness
why are you lots always quick to label and call names each time someone speak against your ideologies??
That is a cult-like character.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 12:08pm On Jul 24
Youngzedd:
80% of the young generation of women are damaged, while 20% aren't in Africa, Nigeria to be precise.

It takes the knowledge of red pill to spot the 20% and wife them.

If you can spot the majority (80%), you can spot the minority (20%). Take the below very serious if you're looking for a life partner.


Recognise and avoid damaged goods >>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lAdgC6OZRM

Ensure you take the above serious when you're looking for a woman for a long term relationship. Don't compromise on it, E GET WHY.


Cc: stanliwise Mcslize
Funny Redpill truth.

The pill is not for the weak. Loooool

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by liveyourlife007(m): 12:29pm On Jul 24
iTearHerToto:
OK before you spill trash this is coming from one of them. Now imagine the depth






Pukes angry
From my own understanding. one should be the big bad wolf. no wahala. DJ please play... Tease me(bad guys) - Wizkid
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 12:33pm On Jul 24
angelfallz:


You're very wrong virgins aren't hard to find. They're many. Too many in fact.

Virginity isn't a sure ticket to a successful marriage. But if you end up finding one with good character, then consider yourself lucky. That if if you are a guy.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 12:36pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
why are you lots always quick to label and call names each time someone speak against your ideologies??
That is a cult-like character.
The Red Pill is not the "perfect truth," only God is. But you know what, the redpill has never failed to deliver. When I was on the other side of the fence, i labelled ubunja and the redpill mad until the scales started falling.

Reading the Rational Male will not automatically change you except you choose to and you are ready for the die hard truth no matter what. Neil Strauss might be an outlier, but if he lacks redpill awareness, Katy or sarah might f*** him up any day or time just as charles's wife.

As a man ready for marriage, strictly consider virgins only, in the age bracket of 18-22, 23 at most. In that category, getting a virgin woman will be less a herculean task compared to higher ages. A man must enjoy the youth and ageing o his beloved wife because the burden of marriage is upon him.

Don't marry, don't marry, don't marry, repentant hoes, because you are already on the loosing side of marriage and kids are your only comforts and joy.

There are virgins. Find and you will see. Men don't settle for less. Go for the best.

Virginity might not guarantee a long lasting marriage but did you checked statistics before spilling such nonsense?

OK simps, start wailing.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Harry00(m): 12:43pm On Jul 24
donbachi:
When dat place don loose alignment finish,body don dey wrinkle,lipstick no dey hold tight to the lips again,stretch marks wey be like marine ropes don come out finish for their waist.
Until Bobi don touch her belle
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by IAmSkinny: 12:54pm On Jul 24
bukatyne:


A wholesome lady with healthy self-esteem would not fall for the red pill gimmicks in the first place.

You should be suspect of any lady you get practicing Ubunj.a's theories. There is a defect somewhere.
A lot of you ladies are missing the point. Take a deeper look, what Ubanja teaches isn't really anti-female, neither is it pro-male.

To me it's simple logic, common sense. A very example of one of his sermons that I've adopted is the fact that guys should only go for girls that like them (no be every Becky, Maggi and Tina guys suppose the follow) and the bitter truth that whoever invests more in a relationship suffers the most. These are universal truth that even you cannot deny.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by IAmSkinny: 1:00pm On Jul 24
DontBullshitMe:

I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbles.
The "struggling guy" part just summarizes my romance life.
.
Overall, your very very very correct.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by wwwtortoise(m): 1:00pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
Not true, a hoe is a hoe, it doesn't matter how she treats me. By hoe I mean someone who play mind games.
Try as a red-pill taker to know when a lady is not in for games and when she is for games.
Playing games on genuine people could be a regret of a lifetime. I have been there before and I regretted it so much.

This is where having social intelligence (as a guy/man) comes into play.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 1:04pm On Jul 24
CaveAdullam:
The Red Pill is not the "perfect truth," only God is. But you know what, the redpill has never failed to deliver. When I was on the other side of the fence, i labelled ubunja and the redpill mad until the scales started falling.

Reading the Rational Male will not automatically change you except you choose to and you are ready for the die hard truth no matter what. Neil Strauss might be an outlier, but if he lacks redpill awareness, Katy or sarah might f*** him up any day or time just as charles's wife.

As a man ready for marriage, strictly consider virgins only, in the age bracket of 18-22, 23 at most. In that category, getting a virgin woman will be less a herculean task compared to higher ages. A man must enjoy the youth and ageing o his beloved wife because the burden of marriage is upon him.

Don't marry, don't marry, don't marry, repentant hoes, because you are already on the loosing side of marriage and kids are your only comforts and joy.

There are virgins. Find and you will see. Men don't settle for less. Go for the best.

Virginity might not guarantee a long lasting marriage but did you checked statistics before spilling such nonsense?

OK simps, start wailing.
Everyone is theif, say the politicians

Every men are scum, says the feminist.

Every woman is a potential lesbian says a lesbian.

All men are rapist says a rape victim.

All women are hoes says the redpill.

Have a Good day

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 1:05pm On Jul 24
CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.

Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.

In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.

That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 1:05pm On Jul 24
wwwtortoise:


This is where having social intelligence (as a guy/man) comes into play.
social intelligence is ultimate.
All kind of stupid ideologies e.g feminism and Redpill rubbish are just some extreme form.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 1:08pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:
CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.

Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.

In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.

That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.
It is not hard to find virgins, many girls are wayward so also many girls are principled.... You also are falling for the ideologies this so called redpill are spreading.... We have more bad girls I think.
Many good and principled ones abound, there is no none method to locate them though. Learn the spirit of discernment(social intelligence) and the free from fear of been used(redpill) and aslo avoid been a dummy(SIMPS).
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by IWillSueYou(m): 1:09pm On Jul 24
ubunja:
guess you don't know a woman can be two different things to two different men. A woman is a mirror. She becomes what you expect women to be. Keep up please

The Red Pill is eternal.
Death to simps.

I agree with your first paragraph How how h how do you come to know this
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by ubunja(f): 1:17pm On Jul 24
IWillSueYou:


I am a woman but I agree with your first paragraph How how how how do you come to know this
these are the basics of Red Pill philosophy.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 1:18pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
Everyone is theif, say the politicians

Every men are scum, says the feminist.

Every woman is a potential lesbian says a lesbian.

All men are rapist says a rape victim.

All women are hoes says the redpill.

Have a Good day
Mtcheeeeeeew.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by RealEzee(m): 1:24pm On Jul 24
After all said and done, these are what I pick out:
-Treat a lady as lady, treat a hoe as a hoe, if she's playing you, play her back, but if she's genuine, play her at your own peril lasun,abi we go still dey here to hear story of "how I let a good girl slip off my hands".



I'm out.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 1:24pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
It is not hard to find virgins.... You also are falling for the ideologies this so called redpill are spreading.... We have more bad girls I think.
Many good and principled ones abound. Learn the spirit of discernment(social intelligence) and the free from fear of been used(redpill) and aslo avoid been a dummy(SIMPS).

There are virgins no doubt but they are not up to 20%.

In today's world, you will see small girls of 15 and 16 years who have boyfriends of the same age bracket and have sex with their boyfriends.

Except few who have disciplined parents. Even at that, they feel caged and when they get to school they have that feeling of wanting to try out things and explore.

This can be confirmed by those who are still in school if there is no atom of truth in this post. Just find time to go to any higher institution and see what's going on there. And who are deflowering these girls. It is still guys. That's why I said, looking for a virgin is not a sure ticket that such a person will be a good wife.

It is all about what you and the lady involved make out of it. Virginity doesn't guarantee fruitful marriage. And more girls are being deflowrwd every day. So who are they leaving those for?

Any guy that has ever deflowered a lady should not make it a do or die affair that he must marry a virgin.

Majority of men married their wives non virgins and they are still living well.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by ubunja(f): 1:26pm On Jul 24
CaveAdullam:
I can't believe my eyes......ubunja is back....lol

They don't understand women's dual mating strategy. So, let the simps keep on wailing.

Simps giving advices........o my goodness
For anyone wondering about the female dual mating strategy, here you go:

ubunja:
Nice one bro.
Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks.

Alpha is the original term for the alphabetical letter "A". Beta is the original term for the alphabetical letter "B".

Alphas get for free what Betas pay top dollar for. (and still not get)

Or to put it another way: Players, Bad Boys and Thugs fvck pussy they are not paying for. While Nice Guys, Simps and Husband Material men, pay for pussy they are not fvcking.

When younger, women date Players and Bad Boys (the As) for fun, then when they get older, sometimes as single mothers after maybe 30 when they wanna settle down cause they're tired they then give Nice Guys (the Bs) their chance. The Bs (betas) then marry and spend on these women.

But even before marriage, in day to day, when girls are younger, the thugs/players/bad boys always get the pussy free while the good guy/church guy/nice guy has to spend and even then not get the pussy because the girl will tell him "No sex before marriage," "I'm celibate" or some other shiit like that. Generally if you're a good guy who's Husband Material you'll not get the sex before marriage because the girl is "saving" you for marriage. When you'll have that honor of eating bad boys' left overs.

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Another term for "Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks" is "Female Dual Mating Strategy".

What Female Dual Mating Strategy means is that Women generally group all men under Two groups: The Fvckers and The Providers.

A Woman has two needs: Money and Sex.
In a perfect world she would be getting both these things from one man.

But the problem is the Man who has the money usually is not the best Fvcker, while Man who is the best Fvcker usually is not the man with the money. So a woman is forced to date 2 men at the same time: The man with money but who can't dick her nicely (dating him publicly) and at the same time date the man who can dick her proper but who is broke (dating him secretly).

These Two men each brings what the other can't
bring. One brings the dollars, another brings the dick.

Which leads to the man with the money ending up raising the broke man's child unawares. While the broke man himself has all manner of pussy knocking at his door (because he doesn't work so he has the energy and time for extended sex and becomes extremely skilled at sex) yet he will have no woman to call his own or to walk publicly with
because he is essentially a "secret" women are keeping amongst themselves. (Yes, women secretly rotate a jobless broke man who can fvck, amongst themselves like a sort of a sex slave. Sometimes women can pool money together and rent a place for the guy so as to access his dick at their
own convenience)


Its very rare for a man to be a total package to a woman.


If you're a jobless broke man who can only provide sex, the greatest threat to your relationship is a working guy who can provide money.
If you're a working guy who can provide money, the greatest threat to your relationship is a jobless broke man who can provide sex.


Which means a poor man's GF will cheat with a rich man. While a rich man's GF will cheat with a jobless bum.


Its the Female Dual Mating Strategy. The Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks.


And "Alpha" does not mean successful in terms of world and career but successful in dating and reproduction. The men who are a success in the world and careers are the Betas. Which makes them the Providers in the first place.

EDIT:
I will have to turn this contribution into a full Miseducation one of these days.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 1:31pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:


There are virgins no doubt but they are not up to 20%.

In today's world, you will see small girls of 15 and 16 years who have boyfriends of the same age bracket and have sex with their boyfriends.

Except few who have disciplined parents. Even at that, they feel caged and when they get to school they have that feeling of wanting to try out things and explore.

This can be confirmed by those who are still in school if there is no atom of truth in this post. Go higher institutions and see what's going on there. And who are deflowering these girls. It is still guys. That's why I said, looking for a virgin is not a sure ticket that such a person will be a good wife.

It is all about what you and the lady involved. Virginity doesn't guarantee fruitful marriage. And more girls are being deflowrwd every day. So who are they leaving those for?

Any guy that has ever deflowered a lady should not make it a do or die affair that he must marry a virgin.

Majority of men married their wives non virgins and they are still living well.

Feminist have this same ideology that good men are like 15-20℅ in the world.... I am sure neither your nor them have such formal evidence to back it up.
Many people have sex on daily basis but shockingly many don't. Even some of my close friends think I have sex with about 80% of my ladies Friends which is about 20% the truth. The most decent of my friends are many times mistaken for the bad ones and the ones with the highest sex drive. I just feel people enjoys the thought rather than reality.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 1:40pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
Feminist have this same ideology that good men are like 15-20℅ in the world.... I am sure neither your nor them have such formal evidence to back it up.
Many people have sex on daily basis but shockingly many don't. Even some of my close friends think I have sex with about 80% of my ladies Friends which is about 20% the truth. The most decent of my friends are many times mistaken for the bad ones and the ones with the highest sex drive. I just feel people enjoys the thought rather than reality.

The world is corrupt bro. Most girls lie about their virginity. That's why most guys who thought were dating a lady and waiting till the wedding night before making out discovered later on they have been played.

Don't easily jump into believing a girl when she tells you she is a virgin until you confirm it. Many guys had been made a fool of with the I am still a virgin. Virginity is not written on the face until you confirm it yourself on a girl before you can actually believe it.

Many girls use that to deceive gullible guys perhaps whom they chose to make a perfect husband while still have a standby bad boy shagging her on a constant basis.

We see these type of things every day.

In essence, merely telling a person I am a birhin is not enough to make one believe me. And not so many guys fall for that these days.

We have seen a situation where a man marry a lady he claimed was a virgin but on the wedding night discovered that place has turned to a well.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 1:41pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:
CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.

Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.

In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.

That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.
Have you seen game of thrones season 6? Did you see how Jon Snow entered into battle with Ramsay Bolton even though his armies were few compared to Bolton's? It is better to go into a fight(marriage) you know you will lose with the right men and tools(virgin) than with poor quality men and tools(non virgins). But atlas, thank God for Lord Baelish who came to the rescue of Jon Snow and the North. You can check the statistics I posted in my first quote.

Marriage law is not in the favour of men, as women know what they will gain from divorce. Only kids are what gives a man joy in marriage because he looses from all ends just to make sure his family is strong and better.

Marriage is blissful, there are good women and ladies crawling, walking, running and flying around, all you need is a knack, especially with redpill awareness to identify these women.

There are virgins bro. I have seen a virgin woman of more than 40 years of age who got married few years back.........don't ask me how I knew, but it's true. In these days, 18-22 years of age, 23 at most if well sampled contain a good amount of virgins compared to above 23 years of age.

Go for the best. Virgins are the best. Seek and you shall find. Don't settle for repentant hoes whether in Church, school, mosque, market place etc.

Good day.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 1:47pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:


The world is corrupt bro. Most girls lie about their virginity. That's why most guys who thought were dating a lady and waiting till the wedding night before making out discovered later on they have been played.

Don't easily jump into believing a girl when she tells you she is a virgin until you confirm it. Many guys had been made a fool of with the I am still a virgin. Virginity is not written on the face until you confirm it yourself on a girl before you can actually believe it.

Many girls use that to deceive gullible guys perhaps whom they chose to make a perfect husband while still have a standby bad boy shagging her on a constant basis.

We see these type of things every day.
I don't think you are trying to advice me how to spot game ladies.
All I am saying is this conspiracy theories is in everywhere. I have a friend who believes everyone is a criminal and everyone is a theif. They just need the righ conditions.
I have a girl who is a lesbian and she hold a strong sense of believe of how few good men are the world.
Till date I don't know how to convince any.
What I know is that none of them have a factual evidence of what the say. They only have some every day life story and theory to back up their belief.
Same here is playing out for the red pills. Since they believe the world is too lustful, they don't think any mature lady is worth it.
The feminist too have similar ideologies and loads of books to prove why men shouldn't worth it, I know of some who believes that men are made for only procreation and after that they remain worthless.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 1:52pm On Jul 24
CaveAdullam:
Have you seen game of thrones season 6? Did you see how Jon Snow entered into battle with Ramsay Bolton even though his armies were few compared to Bolton's? It is better to go into a fight(marriage) you know you will lose with the right men and tools(virgin) than with poor quality men and tools(non virgins). But atlas, thank God for Lord Baelish who came to the rescue of Jon Snow and the North. You can check the statistics I posted in my first quote.

Marriage law is not in the favour of men, as women know what they will gain from divorce. Only kids are what gives a man joy in marriage because he looses from all ends just to make sure his family is strong and better.

Marriage is blissful, there are good women and ladies crawling, walking, running and flying around, all you need is a knack, especially with redpill awareness to identify these women.

There are virgins bro. I have seen a virgin woman of more than 40 years of age who got married few years back.........don't ask me how I knew, but it's true. In these days, 18-22 years of age, 23 at most if well sampled contain a good amount of virgins compared to above 23 years of age.

Go for the best. Virgins are the best. Seek and you shall find. Don't settle for repentant hoes whether in Church, school, mosque, market place etc.

Good day.

If guys can stop deflowering virgins, we will have more virgins to go round all of us. But u know guys will continue to sample, use and dump.

My concern now is who are they dumping them for? If all of us say it's virgin we must marry, there will be less to go round because guys will continue to sample and move on and expect to marry a virgin in later life.

I am not implying one should settle for less but you and I know it is we guys that still deflowered some of these girls even though I have never done one before.

This is to say, those girls that have dated 1 to 2 guys in the past are not fit to be wives if we go by your insinuation.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 2:02pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
I don't think you are trying to advice me how to spot game ladies.
All I am saying is this conspiracy theories is in everywhere. I have a friend who believes everyone is a criminal and everyone is a theif. They just need the righ conditions.
I have a girl who is a lesbian and she hold a strong sense of believe of how few good men are the world.
Till date I don't know how to convince any.
What I know is that none of them have a factual evidence of what the say. They only have some every day life story and theory to back up their belief.
Same here is playing out for the red pills. Since they believe the world is too lustful, they don't think any mature lady is worth it.
The feminist too have similar ideologies and loads of books to prove why men shouldn't worth it, I know of some who believes that men are made for only procreation and after that they remain worthless.

We are on the same page. My disapproval on one of your previous post is the impression of I must marry a virgin type of ideology. Virgins are the best. That's myopic ideology.

For the fact that some girls get exposed to sex early in their lives do not mean that they are not fit to be wives.

You will agree with me that if we carry on with that mindset, many of us will remain single because the little virgins available won't go round all of us.

As far as a lady has moderate body count, if she has a good character , she will make a perfect wive just like the virgin counter part. Some virgins even end up cheating in marriage because they feel they didn't explore when they were young. Yes, we see things like that and stuffs like these do occur from time to time.

I will go for good character than having a virgin wife with no good attitude. And that is what should matter to every man.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 2:09pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:


We are on the same page. My disapproval on one of your previous post is the impression of I must marry a virgin type of ideology. Virgins are the best. That's myopic ideology.

For the fact that some girls get exposed to sex early in their lives do not mean that they are not fit to be wives.

You will agree with me that if we carry on with that mindset, many of us will remain single because the little virgins available won't go round all of us.

As far as a lady has moderate body count, if she has a good character , she will make a perfect wive just like the virgin counter part. Some virgins even end up cheating in marriage because they feel they didn't explore when they were young. Yes, we see things like that and stuffs like these do occur from time to time.

I will go for good character than having a virgin wife with no good attitude. And that is what should matter to every man.

I understand your own side of what you are saying.
What I am saying now is that the generally idea that there are few virgins is only based on conspiracy. Neither me, you nor redpiller actually have a reasonable figure.

It is just a generally held believe. Trust me.
We actually just made the conclusion, it is not like we know.

In worst case it is just a defensive opinion. Same opinion the feminists have about men too.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 2:11pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:


If guys can stop deflowering virgins, we will have more virgins to go round all of us. But u know guys will continue to sample, use and dump.

My concern now is who are they dumping them for? If all of us say it's virgin we must marry, there will be less to go round because guys will continue to sample and move on and expect to marry a virgin in later life.

I am not implying one should settle for less but you and I know it is we guys that still deflowered some of these girls even though I have never done one before.

This is to say, those girls that have dated 1 to 2 guys in the past are not fit to be wives if we go by your insinuation.
Gold never becomes scarce to the gold merchant! Kings/Obas marries virgin women till date. If you are a high value man, and seeks the best woman for marriage, you will surely get one.

Simps definitely will marry non virgins and hoes as house wives because it is ingrained in them by the fem-centric society we live and because the redpill is too bitter to behold and swallow. So don't bother about simps.

Think and act like a king. You are a man and men are the ultimate prize to be won. You are a trophy bro. Good things belongs to kings, virgins included.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 2:13pm On Jul 24
stanliwise:
I understand your own side of what you are saying.
What I am saying now is that the generally idea that there are few virgins is only based on conspiracy. Me, you nor redpiller actually have a reasonable figure.

It is just a generally held believe. Trust me.
We actually just made the conclusion, it is not like we know.

Nice having this discussion with you. I truly enjoyed it. I understand your point and I respect it.

We pray God should grant us our heart desire cuz after all said and done, we all hope for the best.

Best regards.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 2:19pm On Jul 24
Mcslize:


We are on the same page. My disapproval on one of your previous post is the impression of I must marry a virgin type of ideology. Virgins are the best. That's myopic ideology.

For the fact that some girls get exposed to sex early in their lives do not mean that they are not fit to be wives.

You will agree with me that if we carry on with that mindset, many of us will remain single because the little virgins available won't go round all of us.

As far as a lady has moderate body count, if she has a good character , she will make a perfect wive just like the virgin counter part. Some virgins even end up cheating in marriage because they feel they didn't explore when they were young. Yes, we see things like that and stuffs like these do occur from time to time.

I will go for good character than having a virgin wife with no good attitude. And that is what should matter to every man.


Take this balderdash outta your head.

Go for virgins with good character. A high value man will mould a woman into what he wants. Your wife is yours, command as a leader and see her follow submissively.

YOU WILL NEVER GIVE A NON VIRGIN HER BEST SEX IN MARRIAGE! Woe betide you if you weren't an ex player. It is finish for you bro.

Be wise!

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