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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by WORDWORLD: 9:44pm On Jul 26
Mcslize:


We understand this. But you know you won't continue to use and dump them forever . That's the point we are trying to make here. Won't you want to settle down one day?

Except we want to have kids out of wedlock, no player will continue to be a player forever. That is the point we are driving at here. Of course, guys between the age of 20 to 30 definitely do play around.

But as you age further, a time will come when you will say, you will want to settle down. That's the time you will have to compromise on some of your games just to be a responsible husband and father to your kids.

When that time comes, you can't possibly be jumping from one pussy to the other due to your kids and the determination to bring your kids up well.

That is the time every one time player will have to drop his boots and be a responsible husband and father.

PLAYERS DON'T COMPROMISE WHEN IT'S TIME TO SETTLE DOWN. PLAYERS DON'T COMPROMISE AT ALL. PLAYERS SETTLE DOWN WITH VIRGINS. PLAYERS KNOW THE IN AND OUT OF WOMEN AND WON'T GO FOR THE USED ONES WHEN IT IS TIME TO SETTLE. THE NICE, GOOD GUYS SETTLE DOWN WITH PLAYERS' LEFT OVERS. EVERY PLAYER'S WOMAN WHO HAVE BEEN USED AND DUMPED KNOW AT THE BACK OF HER MIND THAT HER FINAL BUS STOP IS THAT NICE GUY WHO IS CLUELESS. AM SORRY IF THIS REALITY OF LIFE HURTS. LIFE AFTER ALL IS AN IRONY.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by KevinDein: 9:21am On Jul 27
COOL10:
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AMS. Funny guy grin cheesy
Fvcking love that dude cheesy. Funny as hell and he's not even trying. grin

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by CaveAdullam: 9:38am On Jul 27
WORDWORLD:


PLAYERS DON'T COMPROMISE WHEN IT'S TIME TO SETTLE DOWN. PLAYERS DON'T COMPROMISE AT ALL. PLAYERS SETTLE DOWN WITH VIRGINS. PLAYERS KNOW THE IN AND OUT OF WOMEN AND WON'T GO FOR THE USED ONES WHEN IT IS TIME TO SETTLE. THE NICE, GOOD GUYS SETTLE DOWN WITH PLAYERS' LEFT OVERS. EVERY PLAYER'S WOMAN WHO HAVE BEEN USED AND DUMPED KNOW AT THE BACK OF HER MIND THAT HER FINAL BUS STOP IS THAT NICE GUY WHO IS CLUELESS. AM SORRY IF THIS REALITY OF LIFE HURTS. LIFE AFTER ALL IS AN IRONY.
You can neither give nor get a non-virgin woman her best sex in marriage! And simping men will do whatsoever, to circumvent various ways to give and get that sex but will never be able.

She will definitely use her past sexual escapades as a benchmark to weigh her husband in bed and in various ways. These are the alpha widows instintually playing good roles with their game of HYPERGAMY.

If you take tears and time to allow the redpill awareness web inside of you, you will always be happy with little or no tonnes of emotional sadness in any relationship, regardless of how it turns out, because with or without the relationship, you were operating according to your own frame.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by COOL10(m): 10:18am On Jul 27
KevinDein:

Fvcking love that dude cheesy. Funny as hell and he's not even trying. grin
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Once he rubs those palms and says 'here's the thing', you know something big is about to drop : cool.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Norman4real: 5:35pm On Jul 29
Lol, this was an interesting thread. Long live UBUNJA the legend. cool

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by DeRay98(m): 6:20pm On Jul 29
iTearHerToto:
OK before you spill trash this is coming from one of them. Now imagine the depth






Pukes angry

This is so deep and true...
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Karlifate: 7:16pm On Jul 29
bukatyne:
This thread further highlights why parents should train their kids to have high self esteem and place a premium on themselves.

How can a guy who has high self esteem, place a premium on time and emotions be friend zoned?

If I am not good enough to be your boyfriend /lover or if you have one, go meet him when you need an errand boy. How can a guy under the guise of 'nice guy' invest his emotions in someone not reciprocating?

How can a girl claim to be naive and stay with a guy that treats her like trash? Where is her instinct of self preservation to say 'I feel disrespected by X, Y and Z? And address the concerns she has?

It is lack of love at home or dysfunctionality that lets someone choose emotional pain instead of pleasure?

The problem is not the' niceness of the guy': the problem is his lack of assertion and not knowing his worth.

That's why I will always be a fan of relatively young relationships. Mr. Nice Guy and Ms. Nice girl meet young and stay with themselves.

Parents, train your kids well emotionally.

Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by NamelessOGBENI(m): 10:43am On Jul 31
EricSmallz:
She make sense sha o
And she's not a Nigerian....

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by temi4fash(m): 9:15am On Aug 03
Mcslize:


That was the same question I was asking those that are clamoruing for virgins as wives.

While it is not a bad idea to aim to marry a virgin, those guys that keep on deflowering girls up and down has no right to be seeking virgin for wives.

For instance, if I meet a girl and she is a virgin, I simply stop escalating stuffs with her cuz I don't want to disvirgin a girl down for others to marry.

If any guy is fond of popping young girls cherry and expect to marry a virgin later on, karma won't allow that.

Even if such a guy marry any virgin girl, he will still have other excesses to battle with her.

Those that supposed to clamour for this are those that have not for once disvirgin any girl.

Like me, once I notice a girl is a virgin, I usually encourage her to keep it cuz if I escalate things with her and end up deflowering her and leave her for another man to marry while aiming to settle down with a virgin in the future, karma won't allow that.

I have one on my WhatsApp list. We have discssued everything discussable. But immediately she told me she was a virgin, I encouraged her to stay off boys and keep it if she can. Since then I have never discussed anything related to sex with her cuz I don't want to implant anything like that in her mind.

Whatever anyone sow he or she shall reap.

That is why I urge guys to stop deflowering girls so that their prayer to marry a virgin will be answered.

You cannot disvirgin some for others to marry and then look forward to settle down with a virgin inthe future. Who will now marry the ones they have disvirgined ? Is it me?

So I ask and no one has been able to answer that.


Have you considered that a lady can lie about her virginity status?
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Kentursky(m): 10:18am On Aug 03
I am a nice guy n will remain so, can never stop being myself because of women.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by PaulH07: 9:49pm On Aug 05
Kentursky:
I am a nice guy n will remain so, can never stop being myself because of women.

I can see you love suffering.

Enjoy it, it's good...

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Skepticus: 3:14am On Aug 08
ibkonekt:


1.men did become weak...you cannot compare men of today to men that lived during times of peril,war and danger...if such men were alive almost all married women will divorce their weak husband....cant you see the excess number of potbellied, overweight, weak minded people society has bred.

2. i have never said women should chase men, but they should chase high value men (there's difference)....i dont know who you are quoting...my own stance is if she is not a virgin then as a high value man you have the right to choose who to give your commitment, resources and protection to. but the truth is that a woman will naturally chase what she deems as valuable. just look at how women respond to celebrities and top men in a group. this is not a social construct.

3. all ladies are not hoes...the redpill admits that...when redpill guys say all women are like that it is a generalization that is necessary in order to understand the way of the society that we live in...if 90% of women are whores, i can say women are whores and the statement is still correct....let me ask you a question syria is in a war state...if they say you have a 90% of getting shot to death by going to syria but 10% of finding 1billion dollars....wouldnt you think twice...or at least gear up properly to avoid a useless death....and wouldnt it be correct to say syria is a war torn city despite that 10% exclusivity existing??

4. yeah i was being harsh on purpose (because the guy was acting like an ass)....i can be reasonable if the person is civil as well.

5/6 .the women that dont care about men are most women that have hit the wall....they only became feminist when men didn't want them and didn't give them attention anymore. a younger girl is too busy enjoying life and sleeping with ma]multiple bad-boys and celebrities, they only get sense when they stop receiving that "HIGH" from male attention.

7.men and women have roles in a family unit....men are the leaders and women are the followers. a leader must be strong compassionate and not a bully, a leader is different from a bully boss...you are envisioning a bully boss not a leader...either way a man must be superior.

8. you dont get to decide what is trash or not.

U burst my brain hommie. Na man u be.

You know your stuff.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by ubunja(f): 12:07pm On Sep 06
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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Kalatium(m): 1:13pm On Sep 06
ibkonekt:


there is a couple of misconceptions here. let me address.
agree on the cult definition, however we redpills guys have no leader per say, it is not a movement it is a mindset...we all just happened to arrive at the same conclusion....besides if we take your definition all countries, all religions, all tribes, all scientistis, all doctors, football teams.... infact every thing in life is a cult as long as it has a group of people working together...you really left no room there. if everything is a cult then the point is baseless...or am i missing something.

1. there is no believer or unbeliever matter here....it is difference of opinion...we just tend to call things as there are rather than mask it....e.g wh0re or simp. it is not intimidation if it is true. if a bluepill guy just shouts down another persons opinion with just insults like all redpill guys are trash or incel etc without giving his cogent reason as to why he believes this, then respect goes out the window and he should be ready to face the music of his utterances.

2. nothing like that...this is just your opinion...i have never read any of ubunja work...i get info from sandman, rollo tomassi, life experiences like will smith and jada, donavan, coach greg adam...they are too many that teach from real life and not fantasies. everyman in the redpill is the leader, everyman is alpha. we worship no one. if someone is making sense we recognize that and acknowledge his insight...that is what you are confusing for something else.

3. not deception.... but waking people up to female nature...redpill never promises to get you laid continuously...it only reveals female nature and you can decide what to do with that info...e.g some go mgtow...some go monk mode...some enter redpill rage(hate all women)...some enter pump and dump phase....either way a man decides his own outcome as he see's fit.....also while conversing with others of like mind when needed.

4. the end result is becoming the best version of yourself and putting a value on yourself, not allowing society to dictate your own self worth for you...if a redpill man does not want to marry a wh0re society has no right to tell him what to do, he is aware and sees the lies and indoctrination of society. he cannot be manipulated.

5. yes alpha fvcks and beta bucks...this is reality...and it existed long long before our time...now we are just calling out on the bullshits and waking people up...all the disney fairy tales are lies.

6. it is not subtle violence, it is truth...if a woman is a wh0re she has no right to my resources if i dont want to give it to her....its a consequence of her decisions. vulgar attitude how, a woman that sleeps around is a wh0re even the bible says it, thats just the fact...just because society tries to sugarcoat it as exploring or learning or discovering herself doesnt make the actions of what was being done any different...she slept outside wedlock with many men...then she is a wh0re, its not vulgar it is the truth period.

7. redpill guys are always ready to engage in thought provoking conversations but butthurt people "usually" begin to throw insults first...lookup most thread and see who starts to insult first.

8. the message of the day is to be the best version of yourself and know your true self worth, regardless of what society says men are. that is the alpha.
Mehn
I am impressed with the way you handled this.
Respect!
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by wwwtortoise(m): 3:43pm On Sep 06
ibkonekt:


there is a couple of misconceptions here. let me address.
agree on the cult definition, however we redpills guys have no leader per say, it is not a movement it is a mindset...we all just happened to arrive at the same conclusion....besides if we take your definition all countries, all religions, all tribes, all scientistis, all doctors, football teams.... infact every thing in life is a cult as long as it has a group of people working together...you really left no room there. if everything is a cult then the point is baseless...or am i missing something.

1. there is no believer or unbeliever matter here....it is difference of opinion...we just tend to call things as there are rather than mask it....e.g wh0re or simp. it is not intimidation if it is true. if a bluepill guy just shouts down another persons opinion with just insults like all redpill guys are trash or incel etc without giving his cogent reason as to why he believes this, then respect goes out the window and he should be ready to face the music of his utterances.

2. nothing like that...this is just your opinion...i have never read any of ubunja work...i get info from sandman, rollo tomassi, life experiences like will smith and jada, donavan, coach greg adam...they are too many that teach from real life and not fantasies. everyman in the redpill is the leader, everyman is alpha. we worship no one. if someone is making sense we recognize that and acknowledge his insight...that is what you are confusing for something else.

3. not deception.... but waking people up to female nature...redpill never promises to get you laid continuously...it only reveals female nature and you can decide what to do with that info...e.g some go mgtow...some go monk mode...some enter redpill rage(hate all women)...some enter pump and dump phase....either way a man decides his own outcome as he see's fit.....also while conversing with others of like mind when needed.

4. the end result is becoming the best version of yourself and putting a value on yourself, not allowing society to dictate your own self worth for you...if a redpill man does not want to marry a wh0re society has no right to tell him what to do, he is aware and sees the lies and indoctrination of society. he cannot be manipulated.

5. yes alpha fvcks and beta bucks...this is reality...and it existed long long before our time...now we are just calling out on the bullshits and waking people up...all the disney fairy tales are lies.

6. it is not subtle violence, it is truth...if a woman is a wh0re she has no right to my resources if i dont want to give it to her....its a consequence of her decisions. vulgar attitude how, a woman that sleeps around is a wh0re even the bible says it, thats just the fact...just because society tries to sugarcoat it as exploring or learning or discovering herself doesnt make the actions of what was being done any different...she slept outside wedlock with many men...then she is a wh0re, its not vulgar it is the truth period.

7. redpill guys are always ready to engage in thought provoking conversations but butthurt people "usually" begin to throw insults first...lookup most thread and see who starts to insult first.

8. the message of the day is to be the best version of yourself and know your true self worth, regardless of what society says men are. that is the alpha.

Good day Sir,

Please would you like your Budweiser cold or super-chilled ? cool

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by oluwaleinad(m): 4:19pm On Sep 06
donbachi:
When dat place don loose alignment finish,body don dey wrinkle,lipstick no dey hold tight to the lips again,stretch marks wey be like marine ropes don come out finish for their waist.


You seems to know too much about them bro
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by efosky1246(m): 6:13pm On Sep 06
ubunja:
how can it be onetitis when it's the girl seeing me as her dream guy?
In average I get 1 or 2 girls give me green lights everyday. Even if I were to pursue that totals a lot of pussy each month. Most guys don't even know what a greenlight is.

Guys with a high SMV don't go after women. Women come to them.

I see many guys will never understand the concept to let women choose. That's why pim.ps stand alone at the top because only them (and Players) fully understand this concept to the core. A prostitute will die for her pim.p but a wife will never die for her husband. Because hubby didn't wait to be chosen. If a woman Chooses you, there's no limit to the things she will do for your welfare.

Give women the power to choose. You'll understand the game better.

You are the supposed leader in the relationship but you want your woman to die for you?

What kind of a man expects that from his woman.

I think you'll agree with me that redpill teaches that women in many ways should be treated like a child. And here you're saying that same child should love you so much to die for you? How does that work. Is that not contradictory?

The strong men of 1950's that you'll agree are alphas. They fought wars while their women sat back. They understood and took up the responsibility that comes with being the leader.

I understand you might be speaking figuratively. But the point is you want the benefits that comes with being the leader but not the responsibility. How noble is that?

The perfect balance is the man loves more, the woman gives deep respect. The only woman that would and should love a man enough to lay down her life for him literally or figuratively is the mother. 99% of relationships where the woman loves the man more results in nothing but heartbreak and misery for that woman. It pitiful to see. But I guess that doesn't matter as long as the man gets a free ride smiley

This is one of the many aspects of redpill I have issues with and it's very similar with the Nigerian version of feminism. It's all about what's in it for me. It's great when the goal is to just have sex and be a player but It's not a recipe for a long lasting, healthy relationship.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by ubunja(f): 6:30pm On Sep 06
efosky1246:


You are the supposed leader in the relationship but you want your woman to die for you?

What kind of a man expects that from his woman.

I think you'll agree with me that redpill teaches that women in many ways should be treated like a child. And here you're saying that same child should love you so much to die for you? How does that work. Is that not contradictory?

The strong men of 1950's that you'll agree are alphas. They fought wars while their women sat back. They understood and took up the responsibility that comes with being the leader.

I understand you might be speaking figuratively. But the point is you want the benefits that comes with being the leader but not the responsibility. How noble is that?

The perfect balance is the man loves more, the woman gives deep respect. The only woman that would and should love a man enough to lay down her life for him literally or figuratively is the mother. 99% of relationships where the woman loves the man more results in nothing but heartbreak and misery for that woman. It pitiful to see. But I guess that doesn't matter as long as the man gets a free ride smiley

This is one of the many aspects of redpill I have issues with and it's very similar with the Nigerian version of feminism. It's all about what's in it for me. It's great when the goal is to just have sex and be a player but It's not a recipe for a long lasting, healthy relationship.
go die for your GF if you want. No one is stopping you.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Maxxim: 8:21pm On Sep 06
ubunja:
go die for your GF if you want. No one is stopping you.
grin
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by AustineJohn908(m): 9:37pm On Sep 06
stanliwise:
Not true, a hoe is a hoe, it doesn't matter how she treats me. By hoe I mean someone who play mind games.
Try as a red-pill taker to know when a lady is not in for games and when she is for games.
Playing games on genuine people could be a regret of a lifetime. I have been there before and I regretted it so much.
tell me about it bro. what happened that made u regret it
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 9:57pm On Sep 06
AustineJohn908:
tell me about it bro. what happened that made u regret it
The ones that took me serious and believed in me and had genuine plans and feelings for me I played them and broke their heart. Looking back in time I was just naive.
People are very manipulative but the moment you can’t differentiate good from bad and judge everyone alike. You could do the most naive and childish things that would drive a lot of people who believed in you away.
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by AustineJohn908(m): 10:56pm On Sep 06
stanliwise:

The ones that took me serious and believed in me and had genuine plans and feelings for me I played them and broke their heart. Looking back in time I was just naive.
People are very manipulative but the moment you can’t differentiate good from bad and judge everyone alike. You could do the most naive and childish things that would drive a lot of people who believed in you away.
Yeah I agree with you.
When you continue playing, you won't know when you will play that genuine lady out of your life...you just regret at the end.
I pray that won't be me Sha though I know that right now I'm a player but I'm willing to change when I see that genuine love

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by mattfeuter(m): 11:10pm On Sep 06
AustineJohn908:
Yeah I agree with you.
When you continue playing, you won't know when you will play that genuine lady out of your life...you just regret at the end.
I pray that won't be me Sha though I know that right now I'm a player but I'm willing to change when I see that genuine love

This is an oxymoron. . .
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by stanliwise(m): 11:22pm On Sep 06
AustineJohn908:
Yeah I agree with you.
When you continue playing, you won't know when you will play that genuine lady out of your life...you just regret at the end.
I pray that won't be me Sha though I know that right now I'm a player but I'm willing to change when I see that genuine love
Also be careful in the immersion of a playboy life. Sometimes it get so good, you don’t know how to stop. Sometime just being platonic friends with people around you don’t trust and concentrating on self improvement is also a good thing. Having a lot of women you have marked their register is not so so fulfilling later on when responsibility comes. Being socially intelligent is a good skill to have to protect yourself. You don’t always have to make everything a game, because you think you will win.

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by AustineJohn908(m): 11:25pm On Sep 06
stanliwise:
Also be careful in the immersion of a playboy life. Sometimes it get so good, you don’t know how to stop. Sometime just being platonic friends with people around you don’t trust and concentrating on self improvement is also a good thing. Having a lot of women you have marked their register is not so so fulfilling later on when responsibility comes. Being socially intelligent is a good skill to have to protect yourself. You don’t always have to make everything a game, because you think you will win.
Thank you. I understand

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by AustineJohn908(m): 11:26pm On Sep 06
mattfeuter:

This is an oxymoron. . .
How pls?
Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by backbone503(m): 11:31pm On Sep 06
To a large extent, she is right. However, see, take and treat people exactly how they do you. If she is good to you; reciprocate it. If she takes you for a ride, brother, enjoy the ride!

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Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Ambbayo(m): 3:35pm On Oct 07
[Deep...quote author=etrange post=92032974]Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.

You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.

If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are. [/quote]

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