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Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by ImaIma1(f): 5:19pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
You already agreed in the beginning to relocate with him. It is not like he is just bringing the issue from nowhere. And your business was doing well in Lagos, you moved to PH and it was still doing well, what makes you think it won't do better when you relocate? Also, for your children's future, your future, for a better outcome, life, etc, relocating is a good idea. You just have to make up your mind to push your business when you get there. The other option is to stay behind while your husband moves and stays over there while you have a distant marriage and you both will be visiting each other. 1 Like |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by cococandy(f): 6:50pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
OP it depends on the country you guys are planning to relocate to. Since you said he’s trying to work with you on finding which country is better to move to, look towards the western countries. I don’t know a thing about the UK but if you find a way to move to the USA or Canada, please do. Don’t worry about being a housewife. That won’t happen. Not while he’s still trying to find his footing as well. You’ll have to work. Your skill is in high demand. I order my native outfits from my secondary school mate who lives in Canada and this Yomi Casual guy who lives in Nigeria because I haven’t met any Nigerian dress makers here where I live( hardly any Nigerians in this area). You will have plenty of opportunity to sell your work. Even non-Africans are getting obsessed with african outfits. They’ll buy from you. The downside is that it might take you a while to be able to establish it on a large scale like you have in port harcourt considering that you’ll have to pay your workers fair wages by American standards which isn’t easy. Therefore you’ll have to run a one woman show for a while. But it’s doable. Believe in yourself. As an alternative, You can keep it as a hobby while you work a ‘regular’ job if that’s what your situation comes to. Not saying everything will be perfect especially in the beginning but with time you’ll develop your routine and I don’t think you’ll regret moving. As Gboyegad said, just make sure y’alls path to immigration is clear so your family won’t end up being stranded. Not being able to work or have the permission to run a business. Then it will be really difficult. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Make una Dey summarize post wey no bring money abeg! |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Romangalactic(m): 7:04pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
yettymuse:Lmao |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:30pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Nephilim: Husbands, love your wife completely as Christ loved the church 1 Like |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 9:34pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:if you love me you will submit to my will (you will obey my commandments) |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 9:57pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
cococandy: Abeg, mumsy has a long lay over at O'Hare next weekend so I'm driving down to come keep her company. Do you know places where one can drive to just to while away time since this is covid era and one needs be careful. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
GboyegaD: I wish I knew though I’d be happy to help. I don’t know anywhere in Chicago. Safe trip to her |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 10:06pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
cococandy: Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by veave(f): 10:08pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
If you really are a fashion designer who knows her onions, you will thrive abroad. Nothing to worry about after all everything is online these days. 1 Like |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 5:22pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: If you love me, you'll let me do as I want. Accept my no when I say it. If you love me, you'd let me go |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 6:49pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:the things I do and speak are not of me but of He who sent me, if I let you go (and do your wish) then you have no part with me |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:03pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: I decided to let you go when you quoted the first part of that verse without the second. I don't like people with selective behaviour like this |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 7:33pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha!! I thought you are good with the game Anyway I have lots of things to say to you, but you can't bear them now |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:35pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: Try me. It's been long I exercised my bible knowledge |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 7:39pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha! I'm trying you but you are taking offense! Blessed is he that takes no offense in me |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:43pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: Boyfriends, do not drive your girlfriends to anger lest they turn to other guys for love; but in love and money sharing, draw them closer to you. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 7:54pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha! can you imagine! I wonder the kind of bible you read!! Anyway, Who can find a virtuous girlfriend? for her price is far above rubies, the heart of her boyfriend doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not follow other boyfriends(evil) all the days of her life.. Lolz! |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:07pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: It's a twist to the parents don't drive your children to anger or something like that sha. Trust your girlfriend with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 8:16pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha! yes I know, that's why I said that earlier! It's to the father unto the children. Anyway! Some put their trust in their girlfriend and in what their girlfriend can do but I will put my trust in the LORD my God |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:21pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: Dey there. See your mouth like cho cho cho. Better goan marry God when you're done with these talking. Anyway Therefore shall a man shall leave his family and cleave to his girlfriend and the two shall become one flesh. And share his money in loving goodness. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 8:47pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Hahaha OMG! For thy(my) Maker is thine(my) husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy(my) Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called. And all mine are yours(girlfriend) and all yours(girlfriend) are mine (boyfriend) and I'm blessed in them |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:53pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: Humble yourself, therefore, under the mighty control of your girlfriend, so that in due time, she will agree to marry you and thus, exalt you. Don't say you weren't advised ooh |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 9:12pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha It's better to live in a corner of the housetop than share a bed with a contentious girlfriend (wife to be) lolz |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:19pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Nephilim: Na you know ooh. Sha. Remember now your girlfriend in the days of your financial success, before the oloshos draw near and the baby mamas deplete you of your cash, when you'll say you have no pleasure in them. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Nephilim: 5:59am On Jul 26, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:hahaha ok na! I had to sleep early! Early to bed early to rise, make a man healthy and wise Anyway, Olosho and baby mama's I have not but this advice I have I give to my girlfriend be contented with what I have. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by mcdokwe(m): 7:10am On Jul 26, 2020 |
If my opinion is anything to go by, I will advice what I call structured relocation. Structured in the sense that he goes first, finds his footing then you move with him at a later date. One good thing about your business is that you can still engage in it over there. Good luck with whichever choice you end up making. |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Unnerve: 9:55am On Jul 26, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Lol, all the Bible puns you've been sharing so far has to do with money. You're finished |
Re: He Asked Me To Choose Between Relocating And My Booming Career ? Kindly Advice. by Sixfeetbelle: 1:33pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Unnerve: I was only being realistic. Simple. Love is sweeter when money is involved. |
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