eni4real:
The op

If you are a good guy with healthy self esteem, you should know that girls like those in the OP are damaged and not for you.

If with all your goodness, you now end with someone with her, you have yourself to blame.

bukatyne:


If you are a good guy with healthy self esteem, you should know that girls like those in the OP are damaged and not for you.

If with all your goodness, you now end with someone with her, you have yourself to blame.

Bukatyne, the life Coach
You are on point

micolaj:


May you live long.

God bless you.

eni4real:
Bukatyne, the life Coach
You are on point

Hahahahaha at Life Coach.

I am realizing I am extremely lucky my parents built my self esteem so I naturally sought a good/nice guy with equally healthy self-esteem who would treat me well and I would reciprocate.

When I read half of the dramas on NL and observe stuff around me, I honestly wonder.

bukatyne:


Hahahahaha at Life Coach.

I am realizing I am extremely lucky my parents built my self esteem so I naturally sought a good/nice guy with equally healthy self-esteem who would treat me well and I would reciprocate.

When I read half of the dramas on NL and observe stuff around me, I honestly wonder.

I hope we learn from that.
We tend to generalize too much nowadays!

Mcslize:


[s]That was the same question I was asking those that are clamoruing for virgins as wives.

While it is not a bad idea to aim to marry a virgin, those guys that keep on deflowering girls up and down has no right to be seeking virgin for wives.

For instance, if I meet a girl and she is a virgin, I simply stop escalating stuffs with her cuz I don't want to disvirgin a girl down for others to marry.

If any guy is fond of popping young girls cherry and expect to marry a virgin later on, karma won't allow that.

Even if such a guy marry any virgin girl, he will still have other excesses to battle with her.

Those that supposed to clamour for this are those that have not for once disvirgin any girl.

Like me, once I notice a girl is a virgin, I usually encourage her to keep it cuz if I escalate things with her and end up deflowering her and leave her for another man to marry while aiming to settle down with a virgin in the future, karma won't allow that.

I have one on my WhatsApp list. We have discssued everything discussable. But immediately she told me she was a virgin, I encouraged her to stay off boys and keep it if she can. Since then I have never discussed anything related to sex with her cuz I don't want to implant anything like that in her mind.

Whatever anyone sow he or she shall reap.

That is why I urge guys to stop deflowering girls so that their prayer to marry a virgin will be answered.

You cannot disvirgin some for others to marry and then look forward to settle down with a virgin inthe future. Who will now marry the ones they have disvirgined ? Is it me?

So I ask and no one has been able to answer that.[/s]

Cry me a river baby. Why do you so care about simps?

Have you seen kings crying over lack of virgin women to marry? How many wives do kings have? I said earlier that repentant whores are for simping men not for kings. Are you a simp or a king?

If virgin women do not guarantee a blissful marriage then no need for repentant whores. A woman will never marry a broke and faithful man! So therefore, a man should not marry a repentant LovePeddler. Virgins only!

This is nature and it is survival of the fittest. Let karma speak for itself, or are you karma's spoke person?

I can never subscribe to this utter gibberish.

ubunja:
dude so many masculine women out here in SA. Lol.

simping men made them so. In fact, simping men should be defund if possible.

Marriage is a good thing and a blissful act even though marriage laws are for women and against men-----stupid and simping male legislators made those law a reality.

For the sake of children, I still have marriage in mind, but it is never my goal because with or without marriage I will still be more than 100% fine and okay.

Thank you for my liberation king. Words cannot thank you enough. You are a king indeed!

ubunja:
of course.
Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks is the same as the Madonna/Hoe Syndrome that men go through.

While Dual Mating strategy concerning women is about sex and survival, for men the Madonna/Hoe Syndrome is about sex and love.

You're right, men want one type of sex from a woman they love and another type of sex from a woman they don't love but who turns them on. That's why we say Fvck Hoes, Marry Virgins.

@Bold:

You want your cake and have it.

The question is 'Who is the demented virgin that would marry a hoe's leftover?'

Don't answer, the average woman doesn't value chastity in a man.

The man who sleeps with a hoe and the hoe is one and same. When the man starts to think himself better, then we begin to have a problem which is compounded by the good girl who doesn't know her worth.

And it is a contradiction for a man to seek a type of sex from his lover and another from a woman who turns him on concurrently. He doesn't love his lover (who might be pinning for the other type of sex), he just wants the illusion of a pristine woman (Madonna/LovePeddler complex).

I however agree that a man who loves a woman would use her with TLC. I touched on that on my tread addressing young ladies who think their good guys are boring.

CaveAdullam:
Cry me a river baby. Why do you so care about simps?

Have you seen kings crying over lack of virgin women to marry? How many wives do kings have? I said earlier that repentant whores are for simping men not for kings. Are you a simp or a king?

If virgin women do not guarantee a blissful marriage then no need for repentant whores. A woman will never marry a broke and faithful man! So therefore, a man should not marry a repentant LovePeddler. Virgins only!

This is nature and it is survival of the fittest. Let karma speak for itself, or are you karma's spoke person?

I asked you one simple question but you avoided it. Who are the whores? Is it the ones you deflowered? I asked you if you have ever deflowered a lady. You meet an innocent lady who is a virgin and cajoled her and deflowered her and thereafter term her wwhore. Who made her wwhore?

You need to be realistic. All the girls you have deflowered were they whores when you met them? If you succeeded deflowering them and term them whores, you and I will agree that you made such girls whores because you took their virginities away instead of encouraging them to keep their virginities and later term them whores. You opened their eyes to sex. You are to be blamed not them. They knew nothing about sex when you deflowered them. So, you can't outrightly condemn them and begin to classify them as whores.

That was why I asked you, if you have ever deflowered a girl. In as much as you took away a girl virginity by convincing her to have sex with you, you have no right to term them whores and not fit for marriage because you yourself disvirgined some.

You are simply being hypocritical. I am not a simp. I know about the redpill and everything about being an alpha male. But you cannot term all the girls you deflowered as whores simply for giving in to you to have sex with them cuz in essence, if you imply all non virgins are whores, then I can tell you that you made them whores.

According to your logic, a guy that has not deflowered a girl deserves a virgin because he's not reducing their number.

Mcslize:


I asked you one simple question but you avoided it. Who are the whores? Is it the ones you deflowered? I asked you if you have ever deflowered a lady. You meet an innocent lady who is a virgin and cajole her and deflowered her and thereafter term her wwhore. Who made her a LovePeddler?

You need to be realistic. All the girls you have deflowered were the LovePeddler when you met them? If you succeeded deflowering them and term them wwhore, you and I will agree that you made such girls wwhore because you took their virginities away instead of encouraging them to keep their virginities and later term them wwhores.

That was why I asked you, if you have ever deflowered a girl. In as much as you took away a girl virginity by convincing her to have sex with you, you have no right to term them wwhores and not fit for marriage because you yourself disvirgined some.

You are simply being hypocritical. I am not a simp. I know about the redpill and everything about being an alpha male. But you cannot term all the girls you deflowered as wwhore cuz in essence, if you implied all non virgins are whores, then I can tell you that you made them whores.

O nature, why did you give women hymen and made men go away freely with debauchery?

O women, why did you keep coming back to the jerk who used you but don't want you and termed you a wh0®e?

O men, why did you seek virgin women for marriage and leave your youthful widows for the simps?

King Ahaxereus in the book of Esther comes to mind. Virgins were lined for him to choose from after using Queen Vashti.......looooooool. I love that tradition and if a man starts thinking and acting like a king, same fate will before him.

Karma where were you when king Ahaxereus dethroned Queen Vashti and opt for beautiful young and virgin Esther?

Hahahahahahaha

Let simps keep on wailing.

Cry me a river baby.........looooooool

Mcslize:


We are on the same page. My disapproval on one of your previous post is the impression of I must marry a virgin type of ideology. Virgins are the best. That's myopic ideology.

For the fact that some girls get exposed to sex early in their lives do not mean that they are not fit to be wives.

You will agree with me that if we carry on with that mindset, many of us will remain single because the little virgins available won't go round all of us.

As far as a lady has moderate body count, if she has a good character , she will make a perfect wive just like the virgin counter part. Some virgins even end up cheating in marriage because they feel they didn't explore when they were young. Yes, we see things like that and stuffs like these do occur from time to time.

I will go for good character than having a virgin wife with no good attitude. And that is what should matter to every man.

what is bad is bad. immorality is no good. What do you mean by good body count? What is your definition of good character? These are the kind of statements that make women to become loose, because they know that one nice guy will wife them. If women know that most men will not lower their standards when they want to pick a life partner. they will learn to be discipline and keep themselves no matter the pressure from random males that chase them.

Teachermallam:
what is bad is bad. immorality is no good. What do you mean by good body count? What is your definition of good character? These are the kind of statements that make women to become loose, because they know that one nice guy will wife them. If women know that most men will not lower their standards when they want to pick a life partner. they will learn to be discipline and keep themselves no matter the pressure from random males that chase them.

Immorality is bad no doubt. But the question I am asking is who made these ladies whores? Are they fuckkng themselves? Who first opened their eyes to sex? It is still guys right?

What I am trying to point out is that don't be judgmental by teeming all non virgins whores because those girls you guys teem whores didn't Bleep themselves. It is still guys that opened their eyes to sex and it is bad to term all non virgins whores that they are only good for Bleep.

In as much as a guy deflowered an innocent lady, such a guy is responsible for opening such a lady to sex life. And you can't simply term such ladies as whores simply because they fell for guy's lies of convincing them into having sex with them.

You can term girls that do runs whores but not the ones guys take advantage of by convincing them into having sex with them thereby opening their eyes to sex.

LagBae:


And who disvirgined these non virgin girls? And how many guys themselves marry as virgins?

Deflowered

Korllami007:
According to your logic, a guy that has not deflowered a girl deserves a virgin because he's not reducing their number.

When you meet a virgin girl, don't deflower her. Simply leave her alone and encourage her to keep it. By deflowering an innocent girl and taking her virginity away, you simply took advantage of her and opened her eyes to the sex world.

Guys should stop opening innocent girls eyes to sex. That's my point. They are innocent and if you go on to lie to them, manipulate them and deflower them, do not go on and start terming such as whores because you manipulated them into having sex with you thereby opening their eyes to sex.

CaveAdullam:
O nature, why did you give women hymen and made men go away freely with debauchery?

O women, why did you keep coming back to the jerk who used you but don't want you and termed you a wh0®e?

O men, why did you seek virgin women for marriage and leave your youthful widows for the simps?

King Ahaxereus in the book of Esther comes to mind. Virgins were lined for him to choose from after using Queen Vashti.......looooooool. I love that tradition and if a man starts thinking and acting like a king, same fate will before him.

Karma where were you when king Ahaxereus dethroned Queen Vashti and opt for beautiful young and virgin Esther?

Hahahahahahaha

Let simps keep on wailing.

Cry me a river baby.........looooooool

You are merely being in fantasy. You are relating a mere movie to reality. So after fucking around and taking the virginity of so many girls away don't be surpsied when someone start fucking your virgin wife later in life. Karma knows no one but it has the address of everyone.

Keep on deflowering girls and terming them whores. You will be surprised that your intended virgin wife is being lashed by an up coming play boy whose game is tighter than yours.

Don't be surprised when your so intended virgin wife start giving you attitude. When that happens, flash back to what we discussed today.

You cannot eat your cake and have it bro. Be ready for the unknown whether you marry a virgin or non virgin. Don't be surprised when you start experiencing those stuffs with your so called future virgin wife.

I am not a simp. My game is tighter than yours. I can meet a girl today and make her sleep with me but I don't do virgins. I don't deflower girls and term them whores.

That's the difference between us. I can meet your girlfriend and make her forget about you but I will never do such all in the name of wanting to Bleep around and terming all non virgins whores. I don't abuse my redpill knowledge and I don't use it against girls. I apply wisdom in everything I do.

iTearHerToto:
OK before you spill trash this is coming from one of them. Now imagine the depth






Pukes

She is right though.

Best thing for any guy is to take the Red pill

Mcslize:


Immorality is bad no doubt. But the question I am asking is who made these ladies whores? Are they fuckkng themselves? Who first opened their eyes to sex? It is still guys right?

What I am trying to point out is that don't be judgmental by teeming all non virgins whores because those girls you guys teem whores didn't Bleep themselves. It is still guys that opened their eyes to sex and it is bad to term all non virgins whores that they are only good for Bleep.

In as much as a guy deflowered an innocent lady, such a guy is responsible for opening such a lady to sex life. And you can't simply term such ladies as whores simply because they fell for guy's lies of convincing them into having sex with them.

You can term girls that do runs whores but not the ones guys take advantage of by convincing them into having sex with them thereby opening their eyes to sex.

Humans are free moral agents with the power to make their choice. This issue of sex is a thing of choice, apart from rape. Girls that have sex do so because they choose to have sex not because they were being deceived.
The man wants sex so he plays any game, either clean or dirty that will give him victory. let us not blame the man for his decision because one off the golden laws of life is that you must surely reap what you sow.
Satan in the garden of Eden deceived Eve and then Eve convinced Adam to eat the forbidden fruit which God ask them not to eat. God punished them for disobedience and not for being deceived, it was Satan that got the punishment for deception. Every decision we make have consequences and so we should be ready to take responsibility.

My advice to young women is to unlearned what they have been brainwashed with about dating over the years. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEY SHOULD WATCH OUT FOR IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER IS INTENTION AND MOTIVE. And this is serious work.
Many men will do any thing to bed a woman but do not want to have a future with them.

Junnior:

Deflowered

What are you correcting? Did you check your dictionary first at all?

Teachermallam:
Humans are free moral agents with the power to make their choice. This issue of sex is a thing of choice, apart from rape. Girls that have sex do so because they choose to have sex not because they were being deceived.
The man wants sex so he plays any game, either clean or dirty that will give him victory. let us not blame the man for his decision because one off the golden laws of life is that you must surely reap what you sow.
Satan in the garden of Eden deceived Eve and then Eve convinced Adam to eat the forbidden fruit which God ask them not to eat. God punished them for disobedience and not for being deceived, it was Satan that got the punishment for deception. Every decision we make have consequences and so we should be ready to take responsibility.

My advice to young women is to unlearned what they have been brainwashed with about dating over the years. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEY SHOULD WATCH OUT FOR IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER IS INTENTION AND MOTIVE. And this is serious work.
Many men will do any thing to bed a woman but do not want to have a future with them.

This is exactly what I implied. Ladies can easily be cajoled and most guys use that to their advantages. It takes the grace of God for ladies to resist all the attentions they get from male folks.

Just by having a female pic on your dp, you will see the inflow of males that will message you. Why? Just to get in between a girl's leg and term her wwhore.

If a judgement is to be served between a guy that convinced a girl to get her to bed and the said girl, I believe the judgement will be served to both of them. The one that lured the other to bed and the said lady that wasn't able to resist such deception.

That's why we can't term all non virgins as bad and condemned humans. They are still humans. The one that bleeped them and opened their eyes to sex is not to be praised.

If we should go by God standards, God didn't make the law of abstenance only for women. God didn't say men should Bleep around and deflower lots of virgins then term them whores. He set the standards for every one so it's quite judgemental to term and generalize all females that men opened their eyes to sex are whores.

I don't support that generalization. Some of those ladies get bleeped when they were at their vulnerable States not because they all want to explore sex with men.

Not all non virgins are whores. 80% of men in the world married their wives as non virgins and they are doing well. Their wives are faithful even.though they married them as non virgins. Married men here can testify to this.

And it is bad for guys to generalize and term all ladies who are non virgins whores.

Mcslize:


This exactly what I implied. Ladies can easily be cajoled and most guys use that to their advantages. It takes the grace of God for ladies to resist all the attentions they get from male folks.

Just by having a female pic on your dp, you will see the inflow of males that will message you. Why? Just to get in between a girl's leg and term her wwhore.

If a judgement is to be served between a guy that convinced a girl to get her to bed and the said girl, I believe the judgement will be served to both of them. The one that lure the other to bed and the said lady that wasn't able to resist such deception.

That's why we can't term all non virgins as bad and condemned humans. They are still humans. The one that bleeped them and opened their eyes to sex is not to be praised.

If we should go by God standards, God didn't make the law of abstenance only for women. God didn't say men should Bleep around and deflowered a lot of virgins then term them whores. He set the standards for every one so it's quite judgemental to term and generalize all females that men opened their eyes to sex whores.

I don't support that generalization. Some of those ladies get bleeped when they were at their vulnerable States not because they all want to explore sex with men.

Not all non virgins are whores. Married people here can testify. 80% of men in the world married their wives as non virgins. Married men here can testify to this.

And it is bad for guys to generalize and term all ladies who are non virgins whores.

I don't also subscribe to that generalization that all non virgin women are whores. I know that women are vulnerable in our society today but it takes discipline to stand out. Most ladies become victims because they go for irrelevant things in a partner. Guys also who do not know their Worth think that they are LEGENDS for bedding many women, unknown to them that when the right time comes, they will surely reap the fruits of their labour; Good or bad.
when we were younger, I had friends who where pros when it comes to women affairs and they see us as the j-men because we were not the happening guys, but today they are living in regrets. whatever you do, good or bad, when the right time comes you will surely get your reward. And we the good people of nairaland will be available to dish out some advice when everything becomes clear.

bukatyne:


@Bold:

You want your cake and have it.

The question is 'Who is the demented virgin that would marry a hoe's leftover?'

Don't answer, the average woman doesn't value chastity in a man.

The man who sleeps with a hoe and the hoe is one and same. When the man starts to think himself better, then we begin to have a problem which is compounded by the good girl who doesn't know her worth.

And it is a contradiction for a man to seek a type of sex from his lover and another from a woman who turns him on concurrently. He doesn't love his lover (who might be pinning for the other type of sex), he just wants the illusion of a pristine woman (Madonna/LovePeddler complex).

I however agree that a man who loves a woman would use her with TLC. I touched on that on my tread addressing young ladies who think their good guys are boring.

sex and reproduction is not about right vs wrong. But Strong VS Weak.

The day men and women get that through their head most headaches will disappear. Good Men will stop wasting time being good and start getting laid. In biology good = weak.

When we say Fvck Hoes, Marry Virgins we mean Hoes are sexy but Virgins are trustworthy to marry. Men love hoes but we won't marry them because you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. And yes, women don't give a Bleep about male virginity because it doesn't help women in any way. If anything, male virginity is a sign of a sexual loser. A male virgin is adorable but will never make any pussy wet.


Let me look for your thread sounds interesting.

Teachermallam:
I don't also subscribe to that generalization that all non virgin women are whores. I know that women are vulnerable in our society today but it takes discipline to stand out. Most ladies become victims because they go for irrelevant things in a partner. Guys also who do not know their Worth think that they are LEGENDS for bedding many women, unknown to them that when the right time comes, they will surely reap the fruits of their labour; Good or bad.
when we were younger, I had friends who where pros when it comes to women affairs and they see us as the j-men because we were not the happening guys, but today they are living in regrets. whatever you do, good or bad, when the right time comes you will surely get your reward. And we the good people of nairaland will be available to dish out some advice when everything becomes clear.

I don't know which world you come from. Look around you, Players and Bad Boys marry virgins. The average virgin herself wants to be deflowered by a Player. Sorry but good guys are never gonna win in this game.

I know it's comforting to wish upon karma and all that shit, but sorry life doesn't work that way bro. With all due respect.

etrange:


If you read my post (or any of my posts), you'd know I don't engage people like you in any form of conversation. Lack of civility irritates me.

Enjoy yourself.

Crownedrookie = bunnae = homo!!

CaveAdullam:
simping men made them so. In fact, simping men should be defund if possible.

Marriage is a good thing and a blissful act even though marriage laws are for women and against men-----stupid and simping male legislators made those law a reality.

For the sake of children, I still have marriage in mind, but it is never my goal because with or without marriage I will still be more than 100% fine and okay.

Thank you for my liberation king. Words cannot thank you enough. You are a king indeed!

it's true, weak men force women into their masculine. The weaker men are, the stronger women will be, to compensate for men's shortcomings or the stronger women are, the weaker men will be, to compensate.

Teachermallam:
I don't also subscribe to that generalization that all non virgin women are whores. I know that women are vulnerable in our society today but it takes discipline to stand out. Most ladies become victims because they go for irrelevant things in a partner. Guys also who do not know their Worth think that they are LEGENDS for bedding many women, unknown to them that when the right time comes, they will surely reap the fruits of their labour; Good or bad.
when we were younger, I had friends who where pros when it comes to women affairs and they see us as the j-men because we were not the happening guys, but today they are living in regrets. whatever you do, good or bad, when the right time comes you will surely get your reward. And we the good people of nairaland will be available to dish out some advice when everything becomes clear.

Exactly. This is everything I have been trying to point out but hell no, the guy nick caveman refused to see things from another man's perspective.

Who sow okro and reap Yam? Everything a man sow he shall reap doesn't apply to some persons, some overly gullible ones think.

They don't believe that fucking multiple girls and using that to condemn a whole group of the female gender is myopic.

Majority of men did not meet their wives virgins. That does not mean because they didn't meet their wives virgins so they are all condemned wives. Many are still enjoying their marriages.

Men should learn when to filter some stuffs that some men composed regarding the female folks.

Not everything I read regarding the opposite sex I will absolve into my mindset.

That's why I told that guy that, I know much about the redpill but I know when to draw the line. I don't use my knowledge to take advantage of ladies and there after start condemning all of them simply because I read in a book that all women are whores.

That's the most gullible thing any man will do. Such mindset can destroy a marriage because even those clamouring for virhins wives will end up not being able to make their marriage work all because they accept everything they read about the female folks.

Many marriages will crash if men take into practice everything about the redpill. We need to know what to accept and those not to accept if not many will be heading to a divorce in their future marriages.

Mcslize:


You are merely being in fantasy. You are relating a mere movie to reality. So after fucking around and taking the virginity of so many girls away don't be surpsied when someone start fucking your virgin wife later in life. Karma knows no one but it has the address of everyone.

Keep on deflowering girls and terming them whores. You will be surprised that your intended virgin wife is being lashed by an up coming play boy whose game is tighter than yours.

Don't be surprised when your so intended virgin wife start giving you attitude. When that happens, flash back to what we discussed today.

You cannot eat your cake and have it bro. Be ready for the unknown whether you marry a virgin or non virgin. Don't be surprised when you start experiencing those stuffs with your so called future virgin wife.

I am not a simp. My game is tighter than yours. I can meet a girl today and make her sleep with me but I don't do virgins. I don't deflower girls and term them whores.

That's the difference between us. I can meet your girlfriend and make her forget about you but I will never do such all in the name of wanting to Bleep around and terming all non virgins whores. I don't abuse my redpill knowledge and I don't use it against girls. I apply wisdom in everything I do.

as long as you don't do virgins you're trapped in the Madonna/Hoe syndrome. All women are hoes, virgin or not. It's up to you to bring that hoe out. If you dealt with virgins you'll know virgins are the biggest beasts when they start having sex. They go harder than veteran sluts.

You're trying to sound better which is hilarious because no man of value will deliberately avoid virgins in favour of hoes who eat dick for breakfast, lunch and supper.

donbachi:
When dat place don loose alignment finish,body don dey wrinkle,lipstick no dey hold tight to the lips again,stretch marks wey be like marine ropes don come out finish for their waist.

Marine ropes ..guy u no get chill oh

stanliwise:
Same for you too, I know you are the author of the so-called red-pills on nairaland. As much as your opinion seem effective against some set of women. It is very dangerous when used against genuine people in ones life. I rest my case.

Their red pill is an excuse for their not getting any. Those are the incels that shoot up the prom becuase they didnt get any date.

ubunja:
as long as you don't do virgins you're trapped in the Madonna/Hoe syndrome. All women are hoes, virgin or not. It's up to you to bring that hoe out. If you dealt with virgins you'll know virgins are the biggest beasts when they start having sex. They go harder than veteran sluts.

You're trying to sound better which is hilarious because no man of value will deliberately avoid virgins in favour of hoes who eat dick for breakfast, lunch and supper.

I can't see a virgin and purposely deflower her when I am not ready to settle down that's what I meant. If a girl you deflower and later dump, naked and swear for you, the swear will come to pass. That's how terrible it is . That's why I have never deflowered any girl. Let those that know how to pop cherries do the work.

Deflowering a girl is more spiritual than we imagined.

I prefer the non virgins so that if anything happens by the way, I will not be responsible for anything cuz I met her non virgin. She can't swear for me cuz I wasn't the one that deflowered her. That's why I stay away from virgins when I know I am not ready to settle down.

That doesn't mean if I am ready to settle down and I meet one, I won't wife her. I simply don't find it fun deflowering girls.

Let other guys do the deflowering for those they can deflower for others to marry.

I can only deflower a girl I will marry if she is a virgin. But as long as I am not yet ready to settle down, I can't go on and tear someone's child hymen when I know I won't marry her.

I can only do that if I marry one as a wife.

Mcslize:


I can't see a virgin and purposely deflower her when I am not ready to settle down that's what I meant. If a girl you deflowered and later dump her naked and swear for you, the swear will follow the person. That's why I have never deflowered any girl. Let those that know how to pop cherries do the work.

Deflowering a girl , there is more to it than we think.

I prefer the non virgins so that if anything happens by the way, I will not be responsible for anything cuz I met her non virgin. She can't swear for me cuz I wasn't the one that deflowered her. That's why I stay away from virgins when I know I am not ready to settle down.

That doesn't mean if I am ready to settle down and I meet one, I won't wife her. I simply don't find it fun deflowering girls.

Let other guys do the deflowering for those they can deflower for others to marry.

I can only deflower a girl I will marry if she is a virgin. But as long as I am not yet ready to settle down, I can't go on and tear someone's child hymen when I know I won't marry her.

I can only do that if I marry one as a wife.

I get you.Fvck Hoes, Marry Virgins. The foundations of Red Pill philosophy. We're together then.

Personally though, I don't wait till marriage to deflower. Seeing as most guys hate marrying virgins anyways.