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Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 12:37pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her. Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she is not happy in the relationship despite being in love with him. She has been with him when he had nothing, now he owns his house, two cars and a business and job. He is also handsome so I guess that gets into his head. Ever since he became financially stable his attitude changed. Video calling girls in her presence, not respecting her, emotionally abusive and stingy (according to her). He still stocks up his house with food so she never lacks but whenever the topic of marriage comes up. She gets shouted down on and tells her she's in his plans. I guess love is really blind. But the fact that she isn't financially independent is more reason why she is still with him IMO. Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf. |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Pubichairs(m): 12:38pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Chelsea should kiss the champions league spot goodbye Wolves would demolish them today. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Kriss216: 12:43pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Manure will continue playing in Europa. Leicester fans, where art thou? 2 Likes |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Kobicove(m): 12:48pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
abdeiz: Adults do not change... move on with your life or stay and continue suffering! |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 12:50pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Pubichairs: What a waste of FTC |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:53pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
abdeiz:i think she should cut her losses and move on. Next she would know better than to build up a grown man. 1 Like |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
She should leave. People don't easily change. The chances of such a man to be committed are very slim. If she leaves him, she would avert a lot of sorrows. 1 Like |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Skmoda360(m): 1:14pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Manutd Vs Leicester 2 ----------- 1 FT..... |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Pubichairs(m): 1:16pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Saintmary(f): 1:24pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
abdeiz:While he was building his businesses, house and jobs, what was she doing with her life. Set awon useless girls. 9 Likes
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Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by pretydiva(f): 1:25pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Relationship is not a do or die affair. Let her Count her loss and move on. If they are made for each other, the guy will surely come for her 1 Like |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by dafeoroyo: 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Not your friend but you 1 Like |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by baralatie(m): 3:34pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Pubichairs: Leicester city will drown man utd by 5 goals |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by baralatie(m): 3:37pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
pretydiva:the only that will make the guy come back is either he gets broke again or any of his new gfs ditch him (meaning he is looking for rebound) 1 Like |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
What exactly was your friend doing to develop herself when the boyfriend was busy transitioning between being broke and being buoyant? Or, should we give a standing ovation for a partner that simply existed in your life as a testimony of your past poverty? If your friend is not happy in the relationship, she should leave. No man/woman owes you any damn thing in this life. And it is strange the way you guys tell your stories without mentioning what your person might have done wrong.... In essence you're saying a man that used to love your friend just woke up one day because he was now rich, and started ignoring your friend.... Here is a type of lady that would later claim the boyfriend had raped her. abdeiz: 3 Likes |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 7:14pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Kobicove: Same thing I've told her now. I hope she listens |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 7:14pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Saintmary: Apparently she also runs her own business too. |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 7:18pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
dafeoroyo: Lol |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 7:19pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
baralatie: He has money and flexing it well. She jus isn't relevant in his life any more |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by abdeiz(m): 7:20pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
bizme: Ah ahn.. You didn't have to drag rape inside this one na.. Yeah she has her failings but life isn't that rosy. Sometimes you try so hard and yet nothing works. |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Saintmary:this made me burst out in laughter. You are not nice o. |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Saintmary(f): 8:15pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
abdeiz: Tell her to chin up, and walk away. Plenty fish in the ocean. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by Saintmary(f): 8:18pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Nukubib:Never mind jare. A lot of these girls will stay with their boyfriends for years, even with the horrible treatment they are getting, waiting for their reward for a meritorious service, proposal. |
Re: Advice A Troubled Lady In Love by merieam16(f): 8:21pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
The guy is financially stable nd want to enjoy his life as a single man b4 he settles. If u can wait fine, if nt pls dont waste time move on asap |
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