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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 7:01am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Oladayo12:Woman rapper! That's what u think. U think everybody is ur kind. Until u get urself involved in such mass beating without thinking of the consequences. When they come, ur life will never be the same again. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by purpinkx(m): 7:02am On Jul 27, 2020 |
lenghtinny: Imagine the idiots attacking you for standing your ground, for standing up for yourself. So you should have been a ‘gentleman’ and made way for her to enter. Or maybe you should have gone on your knees to plead with her to allow you to go in. Well done for standing your ground, instead of caving in to the pressure. I can't believe how society has given women free reign to behave like touts and expect to be treated as ladies, but at the same time hold men accountable for defending themselves. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by 30naira: 7:07am On Jul 27, 2020 |
repogirl: Your first paragraph is simply saying that men should accommodate abuse from women? For how long should a man keep walking away? Again, it's like I said before, you want equality only when it benefits you, but play the gender card when the going gets tough. We are either totally equal or totally unequal. You cannot have it both ways. Nature did not make us equal! I see women as weaker humans who need to be given preference and protected. But the minute a woman insists on equality, I treat her like the next dude. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 7:11am On Jul 27, 2020 |
shalomp: Which respect do u deserve? U don't deserve any! |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 7:12am On Jul 27, 2020 |
shalomp: Which respect do u deserve? U arent "entitled" 2 any! |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by tammie24: 7:17am On Jul 27, 2020 |
NockMedia:100% Unfortunately men these days fight shamelessly with women to prove a point and end up in prison Personally I think any man who raises his hand to a woman wasn't raised well If she is pissing you off that much, turn around and walk away. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 7:19am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 7:20am On Jul 27, 2020 |
abbiboy:See this one whipping up emotions and sentiments |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 7:23am On Jul 27, 2020 |
tammie24: Oh really! But any woman who raises her hands on a man was raised well! I think is u that wasn't raised well, maybe u lacked a father figure in your life that's y u talking like this, or u bonded more with ur mom than ur dad! Cos anybody that reads this, even if u re biased, on this case u shouldn't ! This is a physical assault on the man with the intent to cause bodily harm! This is an affront on the rights of a man,! Men should be protected by law in Nigeria! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Tonytonex(m): 7:24am On Jul 27, 2020 |
the female wants gender equality. but will shy away from the responsibilities. when it comes to spending money, they will shift it to the man. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by agnes7(f): 7:29am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Also women must avoid fomenting trouble with any man so that she will not end up having issues with soldiers. I remember once when i saw some soldiers whipping women.They said one of the ladies slapped a man not knowing he is a soldier. When he challenged her on why she slapped him,other women came and started asking the man to shut up. Before you know it,the man called his fellow soldiers who started beating them. You know soldiers do not have sympathy for any gender.They do not recognize the weakness of a woman unlike civilian males who could have just let go. You know that males fear soldiers well well. The way men fear soldiers even women do not understand such fear. Even some boyfriends/husbands of the women that were beaten were too afraid to beg the soldiers. I mean it was a humiliating scene. The soldiers removed the women's clothes and beat their back to such an extent that their back was full of wounds. Even the person who removed their clothes was a female soldier. There were about 2 of the female soldiers among many male soldiers This thing happen when i was still in secondary school. It happened near the gate of a market repogirl: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 7:30am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Oladayo12:Oladayo12, a woman should raise a hand on a man any how she likes abi? Tell that to ur pussy friends. Again we are not talking about pregnant, elderly and disable women here but a about a lady who arrogated herself to the position of a man |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by tammie24: 7:53am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Heathrow44:anybody with sense should know who was well raised between you and me Here we are without provocation you attack me and my parents If I had issues with someone like you I will definitely walk away cos I won't roll in the gutter in public with you My comments has little to do with gender but a lot to do with self respect and wisdom How can you engage in a verbal or physical altercation with someone at a wedding you were invited to |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by jornwhite: 8:10am On Jul 27, 2020 |
LaReinaa: Don't just discredit some without a valid point yourself, we all are not fools, a story like that is something people can relate with cos we've had similar experiences. i have seen a woman slap an okada man, how much pouring drink on a guy. Speaking of proof, have you not seen where a lady slapped a man before or wrestle a man? try youtube. i don't av to doubt the story cos i know what women are capable of. except you want to tell us they don't have the capability |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MNDY(m): 8:22am On Jul 27, 2020 |
repogirl: Anyone can try to shame anyone. Women's own worse. A woman's character is a very big problem, especially the Feminist ones taking their challenge against men into everything. Only a very few women can know the boundaries and act accordingly. How did the guy worsen the situation? Women don't want to be beaten to a pulp by a man but women know how to provoke a man to do it and even initiate the fight first sef. If you raise your hand at anyone, it means you believe in your power (male or female) and should get ready to fight. If you don't know how to control your emotion, you must learn from 1 or 2 examples. You will find only a very few people who can take humiliation and not react. With options of various other ways to deal with a situation, a reasonable person would not even raise his/her hand at a person if he/she has seen that the person can beat him/her. But most women head nor dey think reach dat side. The same law that makes one go to jail for maiming or murder also makes provision for self-defense. Or you want women to be allowed to be attacking men without men doing anything because she is a woman and weak ni? Humiliation is a very serious matter for almost everybody that you will find out that the guy is even happy that people condemned him, sent him away and gave the chair to the lady in the end (no shame in that). His soul is at peace for not disappointing himself to allow another fellow human-being do him anyhow. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 8:24am On Jul 27, 2020 |
thotsofnaij:The lady could have just say........ The guy might have just say.......... Just listen to what someone who wrote from Yankee perspective ended up saying |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Walk(f): 8:25am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Sarang:You're a fool! |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by pocohantas(f): 8:34am On Jul 27, 2020 |
[s] GeoAfrikana:[/s] Once again “they are all mad“. Good morning and do have a nice day. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lecturer50(m): 8:38am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Tonytonex:You know every gender tries to exploit the opposite gender.As a man,there are somethings that you expect from a lady that you dont expect from a fellow man.You expect respect,submission,love from women.You expect a woman to give in to you and live only to satisfy you.They expect a woman to give up her identity and live for them.That is the mentality of men. Same with women.They expect men to act nicely towards women even when the woman is erring but they cannot accept equality when it comes to paying bills.They expect a man to exist only to satisfy and please women. THERE WAS A TIME I DID SO.I PRETENDED AS IF I ONLY EXIST TO SATISFY AND LOVE WOMEN.I PRETENDED AS IF I HAVE LOST ALL SENSE OF PERSONAL IDENTITY IN ORDER TO SERVE AND LOVE WOMEN.I WASHED WOMEN CLOTHES AND COOKED FOR THEM. I WASHED THEIR TOILET AND CLEAN THEIR HOUSE.A WOMAN WILL ASK ME TO MASSAGE HER BACK TO MAKE HER SLEEP FASTER AND I WILL DO SO. I WENT ON ERRANDS FOR HER. I GAVE UP MY PLACE FOR WOMEN WHO CAME AFTER ME. ETC,ETC,ETC I DID ALL THESE TO SEE HOW WOMEN WILL RESPOND. THE RESPOND WAS THAT FOR THE FIRST TIME IN THE HISTORY OF HUMANITY,A WOMAN I HAVE NOT KNOW BEFORE APPROACHED ME AND PROPOSE MARRIAGE TO ME .OF COURSE SHE DID SO WITH THE MIND THAT SHE HAS FINALLY FOUND THE TRUE/REAL MAN THAT WOMEN WANT. SO DON'T BE DECEIVED,WOMEN WANTS MEN TO LOVE AND SERVE THEM.THAT IS THE PURPOSE OF OUR EXISTENCE AS FAR AS WOMEN ARE CONCERNED. WOMEN EXPLOIT MEN JUST AS MEN EXPLOIT WOMEN.EVERY GENDER TRIES TO TAKE UNDUE ADVANTAGE OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER. A WOMAN WANTS MALES TO ONLY EXIST TO PLEASE WOMEN JUST AS A MAN WANTS WOMEN TO EXIST JUST TO PLEASE MEN. IT IS AN EXPLOITATIVE MENTALITY AGAINST THE OPPOSITE GENDER. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MNDY(m): 8:42am On Jul 27, 2020 |
LaReinaa: If I start sharing my own related experiences and the ones I have witnessed, will we leave here today? Why do I keep mentioning women and unreasonableness? Unreasonableness is the reason why women hate themselves and can't support themselves. You will agree with me that women are born with drama. There are only very few exceptions. The ratio of men to women on this is very very wide. You see it around you no matter how hard you try to deny it. Blame nature for it, it's just how it is. Why will NL guys not have issues with the female gender when they go through a lot from them on a daily and the unreasonableness is worsened by refusal of our females to work on these complaints but rather defend these complaints. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by butterfly55(f): 8:55am On Jul 27, 2020 |
All these people shouting 'beat them to death', 'beat them to pulp', 'equality this equality that', you haven't meet a woman who carries a silencer. Some people will just go about to start a fight or provoke you for your reaction, most of them women. And most people has died mysteriously or disappeared without a trace because of this. Men has died trying to protect their ego. The best thing to do to any confrontation be it from a man or a woman is to walk away. Walking away is not weak, it's wisdom. That is what most men hasn't understand yet. I have seen a lady shoot a guy dead with a silencer gun in Benue state in the midst of their fight and she got away because people around all run for their dear lives. Wisdom will tell you to walk away but emotions will always tell you to fight, beat her, show her who the man is. It's your choice. Just like living or dying is also your choice. The world is changing and women from this part of the world has begin to carry weapon just like women in the western world. They can go to greater length for self defence. It's just a matter of who died first. Woman also have ego like men, so to all men who think you can beat women at any little provocation to show how strong your manhood is, the day you will meet such women you won't know what hit you. After all grave yard doesn't care about your humiliation or your ego. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 8:56am On Jul 27, 2020 |
NockMedia:Guy u stupid 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by themaestro08(m): 8:59am On Jul 27, 2020 |
30naira: Oshey my brother, I shared your sentiment. A lot to say but feeling lazy to type. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by themaestro08(m): 9:01am On Jul 27, 2020 |
ademasta: Which men are you talking about? Speak for yourself man. If I was present there I would never condemn those boys. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by GeoAfrikana(m): 9:01am On Jul 27, 2020 |
pocohantas:Which kyn woman be this. Abeg don't greet me oo. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by themaestro08(m): 9:03am On Jul 27, 2020 |
NockMedia: Yeah, even when she violently assault me? You are too dumb man. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 9:12am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Sarang:Can the arrest bring back the dead? No! Do everything to protect urself. Don't be reckless cos u think ur killer will be arrested. Even if he/she is arrested, "justice" may never be served and u are dead. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by themaestro08(m): 9:16am On Jul 27, 2020 |
NockMedia: The more you try to prove your argument the more ridiculous and silly you sound. So a man should fold his arm and let a woman abuse/assault him just because of her gender? What is wrong with you? The shittiest argument I've ever heard. Get this, I am a peace-loving guy, but anyone regardless of gender or age that brazenly attempt to violently assault me will be met with utter ferocity and fury(none of your family member is exempt from this including you) |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by pocohantas(f): 9:19am On Jul 27, 2020 |
GeoAfrikana: You can choose not to acknowledge it. I won’t notice and won’t care. Have a nice day... |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 9:23am On Jul 27, 2020 |
Sarang:We know our mentality is bad but ur America is not what it is today cos they hate abuse men |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by themaestro08(m): 9:24am On Jul 27, 2020 |
NockMedia: I am convinced beyond doubt that you are an utter narcissist who think the world revolves around your stupid self. You are disgusting man and an embarrassment. What a shitty moderfucker! |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by asanwafo: 9:26am On Jul 27, 2020 |
LaReinaa:They have sisters but their sisters are cultured enough that they don't raise their hands on men first. |
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