| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by omohlexy: 5:15pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
And you couldn't tell your friends to their faces you are crying here on nairaland. Do we look like cry court judges? 1 Like |
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| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Raikishi(m): 5:15pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
1) Select an amount you want to save every month without thinking of anybody but yourself
2) Take out expenses for the month (transport, feeding, bills etc., school fees for children if any)
3) Take out 10% of what is left for unforeseen requests from close family (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother no friends whatsoever in this category)
4) Do you have anything left?
Yes: Based on priorities (your priorities) distribute this to help someone that you know needs it and that GOD will bless you for
No: I for talk but... 6 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
You are their cash cow.
Daz all. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by bigtt76(f): 5:16pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Truth is, what bonded you guys together must be very strong such that it extended to your own sister. My advise is, stop flaunting on social media if you do, next use the current pandemic as an excuse anytime they come to you for money. If you can may be later try and settle them for a business and cut them off. There are several government sponsored unemployment schemes they can enroll to and be getting free monies, you are not their weekend ATM card  ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
4 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by ProtectMyMoney: 5:17pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
Just out of interest. Did you do video calls to actually confirm and verify your friends are the real people asking you for the money and not some fraudsters that hijacked their whatsapp numbers?
Fraudsters lack conscience and that is what i can glean from the whatsapp conversation you posted.
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| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Beverlyjean(f): 5:17pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Ur money is going down thru women drinks and gambling 6 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by toprealman: 5:18pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
God will bless you so you bless me..... can't you be bless so you bless others? 1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by oyewale0001(m): 5:18pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
It is well. |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by operAhdam: 5:18pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
This is super story..anyways bro if u still get the cheerfully giving spirit,make me too send aza? 1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by alpharoyalty: 5:21pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
This is very simple, I have passed through this, the early you develope a thick skin and take a final decision about them, the better for you o. You are not geowing younger and have a family to cater for, if you go to Nigeria, you will be surprised that they have achieved more than you.
Wake up now!! Block their lines and face your life. People are only concerned about themselves, call them that you have issues over there and you need money, they will not give you a dime. There is nothing to worry about in this kind of issue, you are just trying to earn the name "the good guy". Whenever yiu stop, they will still talk so wake up and make yourself and wife happy. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Thereishel: 5:21pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
I am here in USA too the same story here. The best thing you can do now is to block them at least for 4 months. Let them say what they want. Even as we are sending them money they would still be blackmailing us so man up and block them stop free money for 4 months and they would come to their senses and find something to do. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Juliearth(f): 5:21pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
And you call them friends? Friends do not leech off on each other. Cut them off! You have a family to cater for, for Pete's sake. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by ussv: 5:21pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ednut1:
Stop sending them money and change your lines. How hard is that. I hate weak people i wont lie Or block them on all platforms if you do not want to change your number chikena !!! |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Fragility6: 5:22pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Naijaforeigner:
Being too nice is a big weakness.
I will leave you with this quote below, once you read it, you should know what to do.
"Helping people is godly and good but making people dependants on you through the good you do is ungodly. It starts becoming counter productive when your help develops in people a beggarly attitude or inferiority complex. Whether it is through financial help or mentoring". Poju Oyemade.
p.s you see that popular saying "givers never lack" that is the biggest lie ever told.
It is givers with sense that never lack. E dey bible sef.Give wisely. Diz one no just know wetin e dey talk. E dey obvious say e no get plans 4 d future coz person wey get target to meet no go dey donate money like diz.Dem suppose change ur name to Donatus 5 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by madridsta007(m): 5:23pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
They must have carried your name to one Babalawo How hard is it for you to cut of these fellows from your links? You are quite silly, to be honest. Block them. Believe me, you wont die. You will have some peace. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by cedricksly: 5:25pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
The truth is they aren't dealing with you as friends anymore but a maga which you should make them know you are not... Don't give them 1 penny anymore, it is better you are called proud than called a fool, which they are indirectly calling u already... Block them all on social media and ur wife does same thing, but before you do that tell them you are blocking them so that they can start thinking and fending for themselves as men henceforth....... And when they are ready to do something reasonable with their life like learning a trade or business as that will be the money u will give them which is the last.... Give them an option to choose a trade they want to learn themselves and fund it, after that don't give them 1kobo anymore.... U have tried even their brother Don tire isn't that enough reason to show u they are Liability and don't want to work or change 2 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by OgogoroFreak(m): 5:26pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Friends?  This one na mumu o |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Oga cheerful giver small small because if money finish u no go see dem o
pls i nid job or any form of employment in OJO,APAPA,AGBARA,LAGOS pls if any is available pls call 09032984857 |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by sunbreaker: 5:27pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
pls put their phone number on voice mail or ignore their call. Anytime you come to Nigeria don't let them know |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by compton11(m): 5:27pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
change the motherfuckin line |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by ICHguy(m): 5:28pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Mehn see opportunity that they misused!
I have an uncle living in USA with his wife and kids. But to ask am for money dey fear me because the last time I did. He blocked me o. Since then I don dey fear to mention money with am. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Lexusgs430: 5:28pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
Did they put their hands into your bank account?...  They are enjoying your foolishness. ........ |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Jayrockk: 5:29pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Bro just use pandemic as excuse and tell them say ground no level. You have a family to take care of. Plus if it were the other way round will they do the same for u?. Ask yourself that |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by ScotMisile: 5:30pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Na you do dey show yaself |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Stop sending them money, if you have too much there is a family called nairaland family, alot of them needs this funds you are wasting on this people |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
I don't understand. I came here expecting to see women's names since they are the entitled people. Why am I seeing men everywhere? This is strange  1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Hedonisco: 5:32pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Oshey, agba friend.
You're the kind of friend 80% of these broke, leeching Nairalanders would pray to have. You're doing well.
Keep up the good work, until your eyes clear. |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:32pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
deluded ungrateful undercover scamming criminals using god/prayers bla bla bla to defraud people... while thinking that money grows on trees in the west. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by VicM6: 5:35pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,
I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.
Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?
I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.
Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.
See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.
I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".
You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.
I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.
I need your honest opinion.
Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.
I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.
A wise man once said you are the cause of your problem... continue giving them money until you bcom church rat and then we shall know what the future holds for you. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by Elsiedaniels(f): 5:35pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Wooow |
| Re: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by MajorOvakporaye(f): 5:35pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
FAKE STORY!!! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
