Please help advice a friend of mine who is a body massage therapist who's marriage is about to fail.

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Warrisdis

Where can I learn this massaging work

Goalnaldo:
Where can I learn this massaging work

Any place they do massage around your location.

illicit:
Warrisdis

Meaning?

she has no other option but to come back since she's already pregnant. don't leave d job because if you do she will still be the one to mock u

This is serious.
If am to advice you, it will be in 2 ways.
1) give your life to christ cos this is an extreme sinful lifestyle you are living.
You could be used, as in destiny used,it happens.
Calm your wife and tell her the whole truth even about your salary and everything and she should be ready to forgo her luxurious lifestyle too.

Don't even know what to say again self wo, give your life to christ and quit that God forsaken job.
Seek God's face and be ready for a miracle.
I have seen someone with Ond making it big and I have seen a certificateless person ruling a whole country.

It's called you only live once, just say time and chance happens to we all. Now I can't believe I am on a journey to be married to one of my patients, after having knacked several others. The wife should shut the fvck up and stay put, keep her head down like a submissive sheep she's created to be and stay below the radar with her useless 30k salary. This guy is a man and he has done what a man has to do.

If the man had not lied to the woman about the nature of his work, full disclosure, this would not have happened. He might had ended up with another woman who would tolerate this mess

Concocted story

Dont quit your job untill you are properly settled for your sake and that of your children please. Remember poverty is an unwanted bastard.
If your wife leaves you when you have money you will get her back but if she stays with you and you become broke she will leave you. You can take this to the bank.

Abfinest007:
she has no other option but to come back since she's already pregnant. don't leave d job because if you do she will still be the one to mock u

Not me, posted for a friend

southniyikaye:
This is serious.
If am to advice you, it will be in 2 ways.
1) give your life to christ cos this is an extreme sinful lifestyle you are living.
You could be used, as in destiny used,it happens.
Calm your wife and tell her the whole truth even about your salary and everything and she should be ready to forgo her luxurious lifestyle too.

Don't even know what to say again self wo, give your life to christ and quit that God forsaken job.
Seek God's face and be ready for a miracle.
I have seen someone with Ond making it big and I have seen a certificateless person ruling a whole country.

Thank you but not me, posted for a friend

Anijay1212:
Dont quit your job untill you are properly settled for your sake and that of your children please. Remember poverty is an unwanted bastard.
If your wife leaves you when you have money you will get her back but if she stays with you and you become broke she will leave you. You can take this to the bank.

Thank you

proclinician:
It's called you only live once, just say time and chance happens to we all. Now I can't believe I am on a journey to be married to one of my patients, after having knacked several others. The wife should shut the fvck up and stay put, keep her head down like a submissive sheep she's created to be and stay below the radar with her useless 30k salary. This guy is a man and he has done what a man has to do.

Thanks for the advice

This is a serious issue that requires serious solution. Most of the masseur I have seen or heard about are usually bachelors. Massaging especially in big hotels mostly ends in SEX.

Hardly do men settle for this lifestyle once they are in a devoted institution called MARRIAGE. Assuming na relationship now, I fit talk say may you throwway eye.

But then, your friend sef no try, despite seeing 800k on a monthly basis- he couldn't sacrifice a year to amass some savings to start another choice business that will align with the a committed marriage.

The solution is to sit yourself down and tell yourself the truth. You must be ready to stop and start another business and she must be ready to abandon here extravagant lifestyle for now. Thats the only solution there is if he wants to keep the marriage.

southniyikaye:
This is serious.
If am to advice you, it will be in 2 ways.
1) give your life to christ cos this is an extreme sinful lifestyle you are living.
You could be used, as in destiny used,it happens.
Calm your wife and tell her the whole truth even about your salary and everything and she should be ready to forgo her luxurious lifestyle too.

Don't even know what to say again self wo, give your life to christ and quit that God forsaken job.
Seek God's face and be ready for a miracle.
I have seen someone with Ond making it big and I have seen a certificateless person ruling a whole country.

Your last statement implies pmb, do you have any evidence to back that up??, and you are here telling someone to quit his job cause of some God-forsaken religion.
Hypocritical Christian

Goalnaldo:
Where can I learn this massaging work

see person wey sabi

valdetino:
Please help advice a friend of mine who is a body massage therapist who's marriage is about to fail.

Introduce your wife or your friend’s wife to the company and let her get a job there as well.

Case settled. You’ll love it and she’ll appreciate it and everybody is happy.

Maybe one day both of you would open a bigger massage parlour with lots of clients.

Abeg I wan suspend school first, I nor wan do Engineering again. We dey house since sef so nothing to lose.



Please where and how can I learn this skill? No jokes am serious. Link me up ASAP

One day you go get HAPPY HIV, then your life will no longer end happily. Kwantinu!

It’s simple let her give the guy end of the year to transition to a better job. If she can’t, let her provide a 400k job for the man . Or leave the marriage and allow the man take care of his kids in peace.
What does she even contribute to the house financially to be making unrealistic demands?

Let her be a feminist and a get her own job na.

And obviously the man should apologize for a deceitful marriage haba. Be straight and transparent to your partner moving forward.

Tell her to provide a better job for him na.. Abi na to shout quit quit as if her miserable 30k can care for the family. Mtcheeew. Give man an appointed time to quit so as to save up. Thought couples are supposed to be partners in crime, ride and die gengs

humblyphilip:


Your last statement implies pmb, do you have any evidence to back that up??, and you are here telling someone to quit his job cause of some God-forsaken religion.
Hypocritical Christian

you see when people post stories on nairaland,morevthan 500,000 people are entitled to bare their mind and move on. You could have done same and face your life rather than attacking what I said.
So pls advice him accordingly

legionISproteus:
If the man had not lied to the woman about the nature of his work, full disclosure, this would not have happened. He might had ended up with another woman who would tolerate this mess

True....

This is somehow tricky, the guy is just paying for starting the relationship on a false note, well sometimes when we think we have seen the right person, we usually mask our dark side just to make them stay, which on its own is deceit.

About the issue on ground, the guy should at least use 2 good years to save and start a new business, during the 2 years he and his extravagant wife should cut their expenses so they can come out with something reasonable after the 2 years. The biggest mistake he can do now is to stop the job abruptly and settle for 30k then he will know what naked poverty is, there is nothing as bad as a rich man turned pauper.

The same wife screaming now will drop him like hot coals when he starts earning 30k, the lady can not adjust to such lifestyle.

.......but the kind life wey that guy don chop, I doubt it if he can leave such venture permanently, rubbing naked female butt with oil and still earning 800k monthly without tax is a job many guys will die for.

telkevog:
One day you go get HAPPY HIV, then your life will no longer end happily. Kwantinu!

do you want to give him another job

The man for tell his wife from beginning say na ashawo job he dey do naa?
But seriously if he quits the job now, life go hard and if he no quit am, his marriage no go balance and madam has a justifiable reason for a divorce.

Biko this matter na for elders.

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